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Re: Men in inter-racial marriages

Post by OutWest » March 9th, 2017, 6:56 pm

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MrMan wrote:Kradmelder,
I don't see why you would consider reproducing with a white woman to make white kids to be a part of your duty to God. When did God ever command that Gentiles do not intermix? As long as Christians marry Christians, what does it matter what the race is? Btw, Moses married an Ethiopian/Cushite woman. Not doing pump and dump is part of your duty to God.
All nations are of one blood. All races are intermixed.

Yes, in addition to Moses's wife being Ethiopian, his own sister criticized him and received a punishment for it.

In addition to that, we know from Proverbs that a person who mocks the poor is reproaching God. How much is a person who mocks an entire race made in His image?

But truly, I think if a person is overcome by hatred for one thing, they are simply consumed with hatred and have hatred for most things that they're unfamiliar with. They'll revile anything that they don't personally do themselves. And also anyone who isn't very similar to them.

There is no warm fuzzy solution to this. Western civilization is primarily a European related invention.
Platitudes will not change on the ground reality.
Most white men who intermarry are involved wuth Asians or Latinas. Very very few are with black women.
Its a small number overall. The biggest problem is that whites are not reproducing overall.

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Re: Men in inter-racial marriages

Post by Adama » March 9th, 2017, 7:43 pm

OutWest wrote:
Adama wrote:
MrMan wrote:Kradmelder,
I don't see why you would consider reproducing with a white woman to make white kids to be a part of your duty to God. When did God ever command that Gentiles do not intermix? As long as Christians marry Christians, what does it matter what the race is? Btw, Moses married an Ethiopian/Cushite woman. Not doing pump and dump is part of your duty to God.
All nations are of one blood. All races are intermixed.

Yes, in addition to Moses's wife being Ethiopian, his own sister criticized him and received a punishment for it.

In addition to that, we know from Proverbs that a person who mocks the poor is reproaching God. How much is a person who mocks an entire race made in His image?

But truly, I think if a person is overcome by hatred for one thing, they are simply consumed with hatred and have hatred for most things that they're unfamiliar with. They'll revile anything that they don't personally do themselves. And also anyone who isn't very similar to them.

There is no warm fuzzy solution to this. Western civilization is primarily a European related invention.
Platitudes will not change on the ground reality.
Most white men who intermarry are involved wuth Asians or Latinas. Very very few are with black women.
Its a small number overall. The biggest problem is that whites are not reproducing overall.
That's the difference. Why would it matter if the wife is Asian or Latina and not black? Only some go for black women? What's the relevance? It's still interracial. Unless you want to further divide interracial dating into acceptable forms and unacceptable forms.

The other thing is, everyone fears death but they do little to promote life. Where are their ten to twelve children? That would be breathing in life. Money cannot be the excuse when this is a matter of life and death. Life would find a way and would be promoted over wealth and money, if life were the true goal.

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Re: Men in inter-racial marriages

Post by Kradmelder » March 9th, 2017, 9:13 pm

OutWest wrote:
Adama wrote:
MrMan wrote:Kradmelder,
I don't see why you would consider reproducing with a white woman to make white kids to be a part of your duty to God. When did God ever command that Gentiles do not intermix? As long as Christians marry Christians, what does it matter what the race is? Btw, Moses married an Ethiopian/Cushite woman. Not doing pump and dump is part of your duty to God.
All nations are of one blood. All races are intermixed.

Yes, in addition to Moses's wife being Ethiopian, his own sister criticized him and received a punishment for it.

In addition to that, we know from Proverbs that a person who mocks the poor is reproaching God. How much is a person who mocks an entire race made in His image?

But truly, I think if a person is overcome by hatred for one thing, they are simply consumed with hatred and have hatred for most things that they're unfamiliar with. They'll revile anything that they don't personally do themselves. And also anyone who isn't very similar to them.

There is no warm fuzzy solution to this. Western civilization is primarily a European related invention.
Platitudes will not change on the ground reality.
Most white men who intermarry are involved wuth Asians or Latinas. Very very few are with black women.
Its a small number overall. The biggest problem is that whites are not reproducing overall.
That is a key question. The whites that are reproducing, subtract those that reproduce with other races, hence contribute to the decline and reversal of white proportions. No offence to those decent white men with Asian wives. then subtract the white faggots that wont breed and the loser whites that no woman of any race would want to breed with. They add no value to the race.

For whites, breeding has always been quality over quantity as white success has always been leadership based. So subtract the welfare breeders as adding no value to the race. They just end up as welfare class whiners good only as cannon fodder. That means white breeding stock is in serious peril. Find a good white man with successful dna, and a good white woman. Not so easy. Whites are a sub species that invest in offspring and breed for dominance. So are jews. But jews don't promote breeding trash. So jews breed successful jews.

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Re: Men in inter-racial marriages

Post by Adama » March 10th, 2017, 12:52 am

This is unfortunate.

Subtract: 1. Non breeding whites. 2. Low income whites. 3. Interracial whites.

Then further subtract: 1. Divorce. 2. Successful whites only have two children maximum.

This does not look good.

I know a couple of large families from school, who are upper middle class. One guy I know from one of these large families started his own investment group. Just like there are few excuses for lower middle class whites who haven't ascended to the upper class according to some, likewise, there are excuses for upper class whites, who outright recommend marrying only white to produce white children, but only have a couple of children themselves, despite recommending that everyone else make white children.

And while they complain of dwindling numbers of the white race, they disregard other members of the same race as unacceptable, because of their income levels and lack of earthly accomplishments. These accomplishments and income levels being more important than the blood and the multi-generational struggles they claim to value so highly.

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Re: Men in inter-racial marriages

Post by MrMan » March 10th, 2017, 2:41 am

Adama wrote: In addition to that, we know from Proverbs that a person who mocks the poor is reproaching God. How much is a person who mocks an entire race made in His image?
That would include the Jews wouldn't it?

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Re: Men in inter-racial marriages

Post by Adama » March 10th, 2017, 3:25 am

MrMan wrote:
Adama wrote: In addition to that, we know from Proverbs that a person who mocks the poor is reproaching God. How much is a person who mocks an entire race made in His image?
That would include the Jews wouldn't it?
Thanks for mentioning that. I don't mock the Jews. If that is your opinion, you should be sure before you make that assertion. Otherwise that itself is a false accusation.

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Re: Men in inter-racial marriages

Post by yick » March 10th, 2017, 5:13 am

Kradmelder wrote: Yick sees the issues and sees limitations as to where you can raise kids. So obviously factors them in.
There are factors, the two most important ones are

1) The husbands views on race and being white - if he is 'proud' to be white and has negative views on other races then it is a bad thing. if he then has kids and those kids grow up in a multi racial society (if not necessarily a multi-racial community) then those mixed race kids are going to have empathy for other non-white people, especially black people and will see their struggles as their own.

Some white men marry non-white women because they cannot attract a white woman or they haven't got the capabilities to 'control' a white woman and want their own way all the time - this is a fact, and it is also a fact that if they could get a white woman of a similar attractiveness as the non-white woman they ended up marrying then that is the road they would have gone down.

However, the majority of white men who marry non-white women AREN'T RACIST, are happy to compromise on cultural beliefs and norms, happy to learn their spouses language, happy for their kids to learn their mothers language and are also happy to live in their wife's country - I truly believe this is the case for most mixed marriages.

2) Of course, where they are raised, in the United States, there seems to be more variety in where you can bring multi-racial kids up. If they are part Latino then there are a glut of places and if they are part Asian or black, then again, there are places where there are many of their kind where they can mix with, of course, if you want to raise them in Idaho or Montana, I can see that being a problem but then, why would you?

In the UK, Germany, Spain or I don't know - Norway, mixed race families don't have such privileges. As I am not American - if I had half Chinese kids - which is a likelihood - I would raise them somewhere in Asia or live in Canada. I certainly wouldn't take them back to the UK.

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Re: Men in inter-racial marriages

Post by Kradmelder » March 10th, 2017, 5:29 am

yick wrote:
Kradmelder wrote: Yick sees the issues and sees limitations as to where you can raise kids. So obviously factors them in.
There are factors, the two most important ones are

1) The husbands views on race and being white - if he is 'proud' to be white and has negative views on other races then it is a bad thing. if he then has kids and those kids grow up in a multi racial society (if not necessarily a multi-racial community) then those mixed race kids are going to have empathy for other non-white people, especially black people and will see their struggles as their own.

Some white men marry non-white women because they cannot attract a white woman or they haven't got the capabilities to 'control' a white woman and want their own way all the time - this is a fact, and it is also a fact that if they could get a white woman of a similar attractiveness as the non-white woman they ended up marrying then that is the road they would have gone down.

However, the majority of white men who marry non-white women AREN'T RACIST, are happy to compromise on cultural beliefs and norms, happy to learn their spouses language, happy for their kids to learn their mothers language and are also happy to live in their wife's country - I truly believe this is the case for most mixed marriages.

2) Of course, where they are raised, in the United States, there seems to be more variety in where you can bring multi-racial kids up. If they are part Latino then there are a glut of places and if they are part Asian or black, then again, there are places where there are many of their kind where they can mix with, of course, if you want to raise them in Idaho or Montana, I can see that being a problem but then, why would you?

In the UK, Germany, Spain or I don't know - Norway, mixed race families don't have such privileges. As I am not American - if I had half Chinese kids - which is a likelihood - I would raise them somewhere in Asia or live in Canada. I certainly wouldn't take them back to the UK.
What is interesting is that the men with Asian wives on here fall into your group of being non racist and are very pleasant decent people. They chose yellow but had and can get white. They prefer yellow. The ones who can't get white women and are looking elsewhere can't seem to get yellow women either :lol: . Yet they don't acknowledge they themselves are the problem so blame feminism, jews, illuminati, Satan you name it. Those forces exist but have not stopped the majority of white men from finding partners, just a whining Incel minority. I think it will take more than clothes and a wash and some exercise to solve their problem. Vile personality is vile personality. And a woman need not be feminist or racist or a gold digger or jewed to flee from such loser men. Any decent woman of any race would say no thanks.

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Re: Men in inter-racial marriages

Post by MrMan » March 10th, 2017, 7:45 am

Kradmelder

I'd like to hear your opinion as a white racist on the theme we read on this forum that white, anglo, etc. women are no good anymore and that men should go elsewhere for wives. That sort of thinking could cause the 'white race' to decrease in size. White men may go marry Asians or Latinos mixed with Indians or some other race if they think that way.

I might be about a fifth American Indian. Does my choosing to marry an Asian contribute in the least to the fact that the white race is not reproducing at a high rate of speed?

Since South African men tend to be conservative, do you think South African women would make good spouses for white men from the US or UK? Are they fit, kind, conservative, submissive, virgins at marriage, willing to please their husbands and take care of their physical needs, diligent in the kitchen and at cleaning the house? Where can white guys get white wives who meet up to reasonable standards for a wife?
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Re: Men in inter-racial marriages

Post by Kradmelder » March 10th, 2017, 11:23 am

MrMan wrote:Kradmelder

As a white racist, I'd like to hear your opinion on the theme we read on this forum that white, anglo, etc. women are no good anymore and that men should go elsewhere for wives. That sort of thinking could cause the 'white race' to decrease in size. White men may go marry Asians or Latinos mixed with Indians or some other race if they think that way.

I might be about a fifth American Indian. Does my choosing to marry an Asian contribute in the least to the fact that the white race is not reproducing at a high rate of speed?

Since South African men tend to be conservative, do you think South African women would make good spouses for white men from the US or UK? Are they fit, kind, conservative, submissive, virgins at marriage, willing to please their husbands and take care of their physical needs, diligent in the kitchen and at cleaning the house? Where can white guys get white wives who meet up to reasonable standards for a wife?
Ja many white women are no good. But it has always been that way from the time of Jezebel. Sluts, whores, the entitled and lazy have always existed, yet perhaps there are more now. It doesnt imply no good ones exist. Ive always met decent ones. Yet it was my choice to go for sluts and hot bodies, women that sleep with me first time and at most third, with predictable results. So should I blame myself for my choices or the women for being what they are? I also didn't want relationships, so of course stayed away from decent women. Again my choice. Now I have a decent one. Very decent. They do exist. You just have fly in their radar and have to be a man they would want.

Many men can't get women but never look at themselves. Why would any decent women want them?. They are below the radar. No decent woman will go for a vile personality and a lazy bugger who just sits around and blames the world for his predicament.

The men who race mix and have asian wives on here are largely very decent men. You don't see them behaving in a vile manner. They can get white women and have had but choose yellow. The ones that can't get white can't get yellow either. No surprise. Look at how they carry on. Why would any woman of any race go for that? They probably cant even get male mates to hang out with.

There is a big blame on feminists. But the hard core feminists are lesbian or ugly or jewish. Who wants them any way? They hate men because no man wants them. Many women pay lip service to it because they are frustrated with weak men. Why blame these women for not wanting weak men? No one forced these men to become weak sisters. They made life choices.

My current one was a lip service feminist who said she would never cook for a man, make his coffee etc. Now i get coffee in bed, breakfast and lunches made, my laundry done etc. Other women have done this for me also claiming to be feminist at first. It was a BS screen for not wanting to be involved with loser men or weak men. Once they meet a man they respect who can pull them into line they become traditional and drop the feminist BS. I would say >80% of feminists are like this. Just missing a man they can look up to.

The white thing, as a white minority you must breed only your own. Our ancestors fought to survive to keep us this way, white. Why should I end it because I want to fornicate with other races and please only myself? What happened with babel trying to build a multiculti paradise? God dispersed them each to their own. The mixing is a cesspool, hence multiculti cesspools exist today. Take a wife only from amongst your own. To go else where would be only a south american white or a european. America and australia have a very different culture. Too loud and in your face and ill mannered (in an old world way) to really blend in. Now that I have had my kids it would not matter if I go nonwhite, but it would still fill me with revulsion. I am one of those yick says should not intermix. Yet the white men on here with asian wives are all good decent men. They are Yick's second category.

The white race reproducing at a high rate of speed, well blacks do and look what it does for them. Nothing. The most successful race are the jews. They dont breed quantity but focus on quality. You don't see a jew welfare class reproducing. Whites are not going to outbreed darkies, so if we follow the example of jews and breed only with the best white dna we can get and focus on raising strong healthy successful kids, the breeding stock is kept alive to take leadership again. Any white that is a faggot, breeds nonwhite or doesnt have kids removes himself from the white gene pool. To some whites that is OK, which was the original topic of the thread. Why should the burden of keeping the race alive be only on good white men and women to have more to make up for the faggots, the loser white men no woman wants to breed with, and the race mixers? That is why we need 2.1 rather than 2.

The 1/5 indian. I dont know what you look like. In SA if you look white and act white you are white, then again, the vast majority are fair haired. Ask Yick. he says my son looks like the stormtroopers singing Panzerlied in that WW2 movie :lol: he could easily have served in Friederich Der Grosse's Prussian Grenadier Guards, well over 6 ft, tall, blonde etc. :lol: Yet there are Portuguese and Greeks that are much smaller and obviously look like Med people. If you dont look white or are mixed, you are Coloured. .Coloured includes Malay, bushmen, indian-black mix etc. Not just black/white. In fact many cape coloured have no white at all; a mix of former malay slaves and hottentots. Jews and chinese were considered honorary white. Indians were 'asian'.

South African wives, well they may be more traditional but may not fit in with american life. They need strong old school men. Saffers I met in the USA pretty much kept to themselves and saw US culture as alien. They adapt better to the UK. I know one swede and one yank that took SA women. Both complained they are lazy, don't and cant cook, cant clean and they do nothing. They are very entitled and grew up with maids and comfort. Marry one of those and you have a burden. A doll only concerned about her clothes and hair and nails and what car you buy her. Many are like that. Certainly they are not feminist. There is no real white feminist movement here. There are good ones as well but they are strong women. they will only submit a stronger man they respect.

The women need men. A woman cant survive alone. It is too dangerous to walk alone, live alone or to drive alone at night. They complain saffer men are chauvinists but in reality that is what they need and want. They want a strong man that will protect them and support them. There is also very much a mindset that for a woman to be alone there is something wrong with you. Women needle each other about not having a man. Like when my current one met me I could see the comments she got even from her mother.

Your criteria, well i have had many women (well over 50) out of which 4 I would call decent, and two marriage material (of which my ex was 1). the other 2 are yes, but not for me. I will reply based on the 4, not the others. I am lucky to have had some really decent women love me. I have never even slept with a non-white or had any kind of involvement so i can draw no comparison to what you men experience with asians. If they are as woman enough as some white women I've known (minority), then you are smiling.

fit: many women gym here. There are many 50 kg hot ones in their 30s. But generally women here are not phsyically fit.
kind: half. My ex could be very nasty, the others are very kind and my happiness is very important to them
conservative: Very. None of the decent ones cheat, all are racist and wont race mix, 3 of 4 were church going with good morals
submissive: No. they will give you their opinion, demand certain things (fairly) but will not ridicule their man in public. My ex the least so and would do nothing for me and had no problem trying to break a man down. If you want Ja baas, get a maid not a saffer woman. If you look at history, after the darkies slaughtered 500 white women and children at Weneen, and kaffir tribes were threatening, it was the women that told the men they are not leaving. the men must go wipe out those kaffirs. The good ones are strong women. The tarshy ones morally weak and submissive.
virgins at marriage: none were virgin. But the youngest, my ex was 20 when i met her. In those days men went to the army and the border, so had no access to women after school. So obviously the chance of a virgin are slim. Sex during high school was rare then. Almost all boys and girls were virgins. When the boys came back from the army as men, the women had already had sex.
willing to please their husbands and take care of their physical needs: Except for my ex yes, all tried to please and all were enthusiastic in bed and willing to take charge. The worst have been some really hot 50 kg dolls actually. Self absorbed in person and in bed. The decent ones I never could complain and got more sex than i could want.
diligent in the kitchen and at cleaning the house: Few women can cook anymore and most of my mates do the cooking, not their wives. The current one is the only one that can really cook well. None clean the house. All are used to maids. I have a white maid, so no need for my partner to clean house. I doubt any saffer woman will clean for you. Few can cook

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Re: Men in inter-racial marriages

Post by fschmidt » March 11th, 2017, 5:27 am

Kradmelder wrote:What is interesting is that the men with Asian wives on here fall into your group of being non racist and are very pleasant decent people. They chose yellow but had and can get white. They prefer yellow. The ones who can't get white women and are looking elsewhere can't seem to get yellow women either :lol: . Yet they don't acknowledge they themselves are the problem so blame feminism, jews, illuminati, Satan you name it. Those forces exist but have not stopped the majority of white men from finding partners, just a whining Incel minority. I think it will take more than clothes and a wash and some exercise to solve their problem. Vile personality is vile personality. And a woman need not be feminist or racist or a gold digger or jewed to flee from such loser men. Any decent woman of any race would say no thanks.
This is nonsense. I was completely incel in America. I couldn't attract women of any race including my own (jewish). And I was not a loser. American women simply hate decent men. Race is irrelevant.
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Post by Adama » March 11th, 2017, 3:04 pm

fschmidt wrote: This is nonsense. I was completely incel in America. I couldn't attract women of any race including my own (jewish). And I was not a loser. American women simply hate decent men. Race is irrelevant.
I just think the egos of many women have been pumped up into narcissism by a culture that is constantly kissing up to them and brainwashing people that women are better than men. People absorb this mentality, truly believing that women are superior to men. When women fall for it, they become difficult to deal with (they're gods after all). When men fall for it, they reduce themselves to beggars.

Other cultures don't exalt women so highly, and there are social expectations imposed upon women's behavior. Foreign women have fewer examples of female rebellion to influence them, except for American TV. Whereas American women are saturated with a culture of rebellious women everywhere, so that it seems normal to be a rebellious woman.

So when an AW is growing up, she's more likely to become a rebel, because by now the culture is full of most rebellious women. They are the examples and the new normal. Whereas other cultures still have traditional women as the example and as the normal, and they have fewer loud mouth rebels to lead women astray by bad example.

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Post by jamesbond » March 12th, 2017, 2:36 am

fschmidt wrote:American women simply hate decent men.
That's very true, American women are actually repelled by good men. They get turned on by the "bad boy" and gravitate towards them.

Hell, even men who are in prison for murder get love letters and women proposing marriage to them! WTF? :shock:
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Re: Men in inter-racial marriages

Post by chanta76 » March 19th, 2017, 2:00 am

Kradmelder,

So from your observation. Asian women make better wives than white women?

I notice a trend. Black men complain that black women are horrible and go for white women. White men complain that white women are horrible and go for asian women. So typical you tend to see these type of inter-racial pairings.

The main stream media never really talk about why there is inter-racial disparity because it's consider political incorrect .

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Re: Men in inter-racial marriages

Post by yick » March 19th, 2017, 3:24 am

White men complain that white women are horrible and go for asian women.

That's not true, I know loads of white men, most of them are married or dating white women.

Would some date an Asian woman? I am sure some might if the right one came along, but they wouldn't actively seek an Asian woman and most
would definitely prefer to date a white woman over any other race (Which is why you see a lot of anger on here about white women).

In the UK, white guys would definitely make a play for Latinas but there aren't too many of that demographic.

The main stream media never really talk about why there is inter-racial disparity because it's consider political incorrect .

It's because the trend isn't that big compared to dating inside their own race (white people).

In white, western countries, most white men aren't interested in Asian women.

However - when a white man expats to Asia and Asian women are the vast majority, they become interested in Asian women and their taste in women changes - usually for good.

When white women expats to Asia, they usually remain faithful to dating white men - not fair, not right etc - but that's how it is.

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