mattyman wrote:I think it's fair to say that on the whole, foreign women are generally easier to talk to than British and American women. From what I've seen, no-one seems to go into much detail as to why.
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I'm not saying that there aren't any difficult-to-talk to foreign women or easy to talk to Engish-speaking women, but on the whole you've got to admit that the above traits tend to be much more common among local women.
I agree, I had similar experiences in the past.
My observation is that it's maybe in the Western countries with local women bad:good= 80:20 and with foreign women 20:80. Just the other way round.
For me it was always much easier to talk with foreign women than with local women while still living in Europe.
Why? Because Western women will find my way of life boring - we have nothing we can talk about.
I like travel, foreign languages, play chess, walking around, swimming, have an amateur radio station, like to create something with tools of any kind...
She like designer clothes, jewelry, alcohol, expensive cars, exclusive dinner-shows... to talk about what?
I can speak only about Europe, not USA/Canada/Australia etc. but it might be the same in all Western countries I guess.
I consider many Western women plainly as unfriendly and ignorant out of their educational background, out of their family life. It was always like that - feminism in Europe is everywhere present since decades.
While still living alone in Europe 40 years ago, I never met any girl -
not even one - who was older than 13 and had not a sexual relationship with several boyfriends.
Many Western women nowadays when passing 25 had often sexual contact already with around 100 men - their moral level is remarkably low - men are considered as something like disposable goods, nothing worth to be respected, and only men who show up with something 'unusual' are willingly accepted. 'Unusual' means 'different from the huge crowd of ordinary men', who are looking for a nice girl, men who are willing to work and to save up slowly...men who do not drink alcohol or smoke are weak, men who are not into nightlife with drugs are cowards... I can continue the list of men who are rejected... for example if your family name does not sound so nice or a little bit funny, or such trivial reason.
Men have to be rich, or men should offer an exciting life-style as a criminal, or whatever, regardless if legal or illegal - as a woman nothing will happen to you anyway if something goes wrong...just moving on to the next boy.
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This is somewhat different with foreign women, at least with young women I had contact in Asia.
Of course there are also garbage foreign women, more than you might expect...
However their criteria are different how to choose men, they often also do not want to be approached directly, but prefer to be introduced,
also a single mother will never be considered as a 'hero-mum'...
Life-style is different, there are in general not so many boyfriends around, the legal system is also different and divorce is not a business for the woman and for lawyers...
The best is anyway, if you move out of the Western world - settle down somewhere else and look out for a local girl in the foreign country.
Western women will only run after you when they are outsourced and find no one-night-stand anymore, around 35 to 40 years old or if they are dumped with several children from several fathers, many of them show a face of a former party life, a past of alcohol and drugs... Thank you...
The only good thing I noticed in my life with Western women is the fact that time is moving on, slowly, but it is moving on - for the advantage of men, for the disadvantage of women... You did not need me in the past, and now I do not need you anymore... Not even willing to talk to you...Not even willing to acknowledge your existence... Bye...LOL