Anyone else also into single moms?

[Splicelo]

She is not middle age, she is 38 that's not

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I'm actually fit, i go to the gym and work out. I'm 6'2, not balding and a lot of girls say i have the bad boy type look and a lot of girls are attracted to me but i guess i have a certain type. One of my female friend who use to like me (we never dated) tells me i always pick the worst women to date, she say i like chaos. She claims this relationship will fail like all my other relationships because i have poor taste in women.

[Zambales]

I understand what you saying but my girlfriend really love me and i'm so in love with her, i'm going to marry her. I'm just scared i lose her, but she says no other man wanted to date her a single mom, she says most men want younger childless women.

If you're happy to be with her f**k what anyone else thinks, although you shouldn't get married based on your fear of losing her.

[Splicelo]

Thinking you "love" some whore is a ridiculous reason to throw your life away. The OP should just pull himself together, stop being a retard and find a young unattached faithful female to make healthy babies with instead of trying to make downie babies with withered used and damaged goods.

When i first got with her, i was not at all interested in ever having children. She is the one who got me interested in marrying her and having a family. I wanted to marry her yes but not have any children, now i decide i want ONLY 1 child. I don't want to have a whole bunch of children. The whole point is to be with her, children or no children i'm going to marry her. So even if she can't have children that won't let me lose my interest one bit. You seem to be surrounding a woman being a good mate soley based on being able to have children.

[Neo]

When I was in my early 30s, I had an online friend, and I told him I was looking for a younger woman. Younger as in very close to 18. He said to me that because I am in my thirties, that I should be looking for a woman in my thirties. I never changed my mind on that issue though, and it was hard to even believe that some men think that way. I'd even prefer a virgin, a woman untouched by man. That would be the best for me.

(And I seriously don't understand why dating is restricted to age groups. If I were to participate in some dating groups, I would be limited to older women, when younger women are what I prefer.)

I'd also say that now, being a little older, I'd do my best to avoid single mothers, married women, separated women, divorced women, women over a certain age, and women that have had a long string of "boyfriends." (There are lots of women who've had twenty or more boyfriends by the time they are 20 years old, for example.) This is also another reason why younger is better. Theoretically at least, fewer men have touched her.

I want a woman who is as innocent and as pure as they come. For some reason though, many people are against men who desire purity in women.

[Splicelo]

When I was in my early 30s, I had an online friend, and I told him I was looking for a younger woman. Younger as in very close to 18. He said to me that because I am in my thirties, that I should be looking for a woman in my thirties. I never changed my mind on that issue though, and it was hard to even believe that some men think that way. I'd even prefer a virgin, a woman untouched by man. That would be the best for me.

(And I seriously don't understand why dating is restricted to age groups. If I were to participate in some dating groups, I would be limited to older women, when younger women are what I prefer.)

I'd also say that now, being a little older, I'd do my best to avoid single mothers, married women, separated women, divorced women, women over a certain age, and women that have had a long string of "boyfriends." (There are lots of women who've had twenty or more boyfriends by the time they are 20 years old, for example.) This is also another reason why younger is better. Theoretically at least, fewer men have touched her.

I want a woman who is as innocent and as pure as they come. For some reason though, many people are against men who desire purity in women.

Most 18 year old women don't want to date a man his 30's, they prefer men their own age. How do you think that will go down with her parents especially her father? Just because you prefer something don't mean you are entitled to it. If that was the case all men would just date women under 25. There is nothing wrong with wanting purity. But most women who are about purity are most likely religious and most likely want a man who have the same standards as them and so is gonna find a man who is equally pure which you are not. A lot of men on here brag about banging prostitutes, hell even i banged prostitutes but women who kept themself pure will be turned off by men like us.


The only time older men can really get women 18-25 year old is if he is really good looking and has money even so she will probably take your money and spend on her young stallion who she secretly see on the side and whom she really loves. The other time when older man can get younger woman is if she is living in absolute poverty and is desperate, she really could care less about his looks, as long as she feels security and is provided for then she is good.

If you date and marry typical none religious 18 year old woman, most likely that relationship won't last and she will eventually cheat on you with a younger guy. Times have changed and it's a different culture now. Doesn't matter whether in philippines or the west. An 18 year old woman is too immature for marriage. And a 30 year old man and an 18 year old women don't have much in common. There are women who are even 26-28 year age group who haven't slept around & maybe been with the most 1 or two guys who might be perfect for the man in his early 30's but instead he wants a trophy wife so he misses out. And there can be slutty 18 year olds who started having wex since they were 14. And women do lie about virginity and how many guys they been with so they won't come across as a slut. I


I feel most younger women say in their early 20's find men in their 40's to be really creepy.

[Neo]

Those are just some suggestions r/t this topic.

[Cornfed]

Most 18 year old women don't want to date a man his 30's, they prefer men their own age. How do you think that will go down with her parents especially her father? Just because you prefer something don't mean you are entitled to it. If that was the case all men would just date women under 25. There is nothing wrong with wanting purity. But most women who are about purity are most likely religious and most likely want a man who have the same standards as them and so is gonna find a man who is equally pure

Here again you are expressing the feminist idea that men and females want the same thing. This is not so. Parties in a marriage are supposed to be complementary, not identical. As to the rest of what you say, avoiding that stuff is why you marry outside the West. You should research traditional marriage.

[Splicelo]

Most 18 year old women don't want to date a man his 30's, they prefer men their own age. How do you think that will go down with her parents especially her father? Just because you prefer something don't mean you are entitled to it. If that was the case all men would just date women under 25. There is nothing wrong with wanting purity. But most women who are about purity are most likely religious and most likely want a man who have the same standards as them and so is gonna find a man who is equally pure

Here again you are expressing the feminist idea that men and females want the same thing. This is not so. Parties in a marriage are supposed to be complementary, not identical. As to the rest of what you say, avoiding that stuff is why you marry outside the West. You should research traditional marriage.

You keep going on about feminism but you are the male equavilent of feminist. You are quite entitled. As i said before most women who are all about purity are usually religious, and usually seek out a religious man with the same standards. Think about it for a second. People usually seek out people who are more like themself.

The average man is not gonna wait till marriage to have sex with a girl who believes in purity. So why would she risk things with him when she can seek out a man who have the same beliefs as her and play it safe. For example mormon girls( don't mix them up with amish people) are some of the, if not the most othrodox girls in america, they are very feminine(and thought how to be a wife and please their husband as well as being a good mother). And most are virgins untill they marry, they marry young (and have big families) and many are housewife and stay home and take care of the kids while husband works. And they have more morals than a typical south east asian woman, mormon girls are all about family. Majority of them would not date you or me, they'd a mormon guy who would also be a virgin. And trust me a mormon girl is as traditional as they come and i think she'd be disgusted by you and how casual you see sex.

Complementary? There is nothing complementary about a 30 something year old man dating an 18 year old woman. They have nothing in common. Dating a woman 5 years younger is fine but when you start talking dating a girl about 15 years younger than you, you are really asking for trouble, that aint going to work. 18 year old women are not interested in 30 year old dude. This is nothing to do with feminism.. But reality


Lets face it plenty middle age men on this forum cannot find a young woman in the west to marry so they go to asia or something other third world country to find some poverty stricken desperate poor girl who will handle the wrinkles and viagra needy man if it means she will get out of poverty. And that's not really love, she is on survival mode.

Marrying outside the west is not the answer necessarily. There are good women in the west, you just need to choose the right one. Not all women in the west are about feminism. Guys like you just think dating outside west is the answer when you just had poor taste in the type of women you choose to date in the west. You can find girls in south east asia or out in other third world countries that will double cross you just the same.

I went to the phillipines not to look for love but to work, love found me. You don't see many young men going to asia looking for love, it's usually older entitled bitter men who was a loser back home. And because a poor thai girl will take him on out of desperation all of a sudden he feels the need to bash all women back in his homeland thinking he got something special.

Yes i'm dating single mom, perhaps a bad move but i do love her, she is a middle class woman. Maybe i get hurt in the long run but it's a risk i'm willing to take. Just like how you took the risk to leave the country you know to go to a in a strange land(third world country) to find love not really knowing if the girl has the right intentions.

[Cornfed]

People usually seek out people who are more like themself.

No, normal people seek out spouses who complement themselves. I generally have facial and chest hair, but I don’t find those attributes particularly attractive in females.

Complementary? There is nothing complementary about a 30 something year old man dating an 18 year old woman.

Sure there is. The female brings youth, vitality, beauty and the ability to pair bond. The man brings resources, status and worldly wisdom.

[Splicelo]

People usually seek out people who are more like themself.

No, normal people seek out spouses who complement themselves. I generally have facial and chest hair, but I don’t find those attributes particularly attractive in females.

Complementary? There is nothing complementary about a 30 something year old man dating an 18 year old woman.

Sure there is. The female brings youth, vitality, beauty and the ability to pair bond. The man brings resources, status and worldly wisdom.

Normal people? Lol most couples don't have 10-15 years age gap either. Most people seek a spouse closer to their age group. Say the lady might be the most 3-5 years younger than the man. That's most normal couples.

Dating a woman 15 years your junior is not complementary. Just robbing the cradle. You are saying women bring youth, beauty to the pair bond. Men bring resources and status. Yes women want to bring youth BUT to a young man who is the most 5 maybe 8 years older. Not 15 years older. Look around you most 18 year old women is just not interested in 30 something year old men. She looks for a man closer to her age whom she is attracted to, and who she can build a life with. Young women typically go and do what other girls her age is doing and hang out where other young girls and young guys hang, they are not gonna want to tag along some old geezer. Most 18 year old women are not ready to marry muchless marry some guy in his 30's. As i told you before just because you like young women doesn't mean you entitled to have one. Women in their early 20's usually see men in their 40's who is trying to date them as perverts unless this guy is exceptional in money and looks which most men are not. You are kidding yourself if you believe women are not at all interested in looks.

[Cornfed]

Normal people? Lol most couples don't have 10-15 years age gap either.

Pretty common historically. There is value in young non-slut wives. There is value in established husbands with proven professional competence and genetics. The husband essentially takes over from the girl’s father with sexual fringe benefits, hence the tradition of the father giving the bride away at the wedding. He is formally placing his child into the care of another mature, responsible man. Sometimes this arrangement requires an age gap. BTW, recent data would tend to suggest that young Western skanks are indeed f***ing older men.

As to your proposed marriage, it is like this analogy. Imagine a carton of milk on the supermarket shelf. It sits there for several days. Periodically shoppers passing by take a swig from it. When there is about an inch of spit-infused putrid milk left at the bottom, you take it up to the counter and pay full price.

[pitbull]

Lol, age gaps of 10-15 years were never common... unless you were some king or Viking rapist.

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Unfortunately, white people don't age very well. Some 38 year old white guy looks every bit his age. On the other hand, the skin of black people (and some Asians) does not wrinkle and show age as much as individuals from other ethnic backgrounds. Damage to the skin caused by the harmful rays of the sun is the main reason why signs of aging occur. The kind of melanin found in Black folks is called eumelanin; the more we have of it, the more UV protection we get.

Because of melanin, our bodies naturally get UV protection that is approximately equivalent to 13% SPF. This kind of protection from sun damage also extends to the eyes, since melanin is also responsible for eye color. If you have black or brown eyes, you get better eye protection from the sun’s rays than those with blue, green or hazel eyes.

Another scientific reason black people have amazing and flawless skin is collagen. You must have heard of collagen as that thing that rich women get injected into their face to get rid of wrinkles. Well, we have plenty of it in our skins already. It is the most abundant protein in the human body and gives the skin its strength and elasticity. So a black guy in his late 30s should be able to easily pull some 20 somethings female no problem.. that is if he stays in shape and isn't mental ill.

This black guy is 47 year old and does 500 sit ups a day, 5 times a week.





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[MarcosZeitola]

Yes i'm dating single mom, perhaps a bad move but i do love her, she is a middle class woman. Maybe i get hurt in the long run but it's a risk i'm willing to take. Just like how you took the risk to leave the country you know to go to a in a strange land(third world country) to find love not really knowing if the girl has the right intentions.

Look if you really love the girl, go for it. Just don't waste your time waiting for an annulment to be finalized because there is zero guarantee your lawyer or anyone else could give you that it will be finalized soon. It can be done with a year, or two, or five or even ten you just don't know. So really there is no need or purpose for you to wait. You want to be with the woman? Be with her. You and her want a baby? Have it. Don't wait on the lawyer or for things to be finalized because unless you have a friend who's a judge, expect the worst scenario (long term legal process).

As far as marrying a girl who is young goes... I married a girl who was young, she was 18 when we met. But I was young, too, so that helped. I would have still wanted a young girl had I been significantly older. I do not think this is an unnatural thing at all, nor do I think age gaps are a bad thing, even very large ones. I think they can be mutually beneficial and very enjoyable to both parties.

Most men prefer women who are younger than them. This is ingrained in our soul by DNA, willed by Mother Nature herself. We cannot help it. Most of us end up with women closer to our age, and a lot of it just boils down to pragmatism, and likelihood, and a lot of other factors. You have your wife who is one year older than you, late thirties, she does 'it' for you, you have that special spark... so go ahead and knock her up, put a ring on her finger even if its just a symbolical one and never mind the haters.

I in no way wanted to discourage you if it makes you happy. I was just... shocked at your choice of woman, given your circumstances and infinitely better available options. So it took me some time to wrap my mind around it, so to speak.

[Zambales]

This black guy is 47 year old and does 500 sit ups a day, 5 times a week.





This white guy is 44 and does the same.



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[redfeather]

Splicelo,
Please read the thread I just posted on how much prior sex your gf has had determines the probability on whether she will divorce rape you.
Thanks.