How Much Does A Man's Sexual Market Value Increase In The Philippines
Posted: November 18th, 2023, 7:38 am
This is a good video by The Filipina Pea explaining to men how much their sexual market value goes up in the Philippines.
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Most Western women have their bar set much, much higher than a well-groomed man who wear nice clothes and has learned to feign self-confidence. The problem is the latter: it's hard to be self-confident about having a woman fall in love with you, if it never happened before. You have no data points to base your judgment on.yick wrote: ↑November 18th, 2023, 5:40 pmI know this is an unpopular take but a man can determine a lot of his own sexual market value by washing, wearing nice clean clothes, washing and combing hair, getting in shape, learning how to be charming and interesting etc - a lot of this is actually in your own hands - even if you don't think so.
Yeah but some men, maybe a lot of men don't even attempt basic grooming - some men, like your buddy @Ghost were like 'well, why should I?' Well, quite, why should you as you watch the girls go by with other men who have made the effort - the problem is with western society is the young men as well as the young women are entitled and shallow and they expect things their efforts are not entitled to - in life all over the world - women pick men so the self obsessed, entitled women have more of a say who they go with than the self obsessed, entitled men.publicduende wrote: ↑November 18th, 2023, 8:08 pmMost Western women have their bar set much, much higher than a well-groomed man who wear nice clothes and has learned to feign self-confidence. The problem is the latter: it's hard to be self-confident about having a woman fall in love with you, if it never happened before. You have no data points to base your judgment on.yick wrote: ↑November 18th, 2023, 5:40 pmI know this is an unpopular take but a man can determine a lot of his own sexual market value by washing, wearing nice clean clothes, washing and combing hair, getting in shape, learning how to be charming and interesting etc - a lot of this is actually in your own hands - even if you don't think so.
In the Philippines, at least, you can get a few girls, some even young and decent looking, show genuine interest in you, Mr. Average. Perhaps she won't be the 19-yo fair-skinned, model-looking type, but she is one, two, four, eight data points and enough to get you going. Surely enough to get you to stop wondering "what's wrong with you".
I'm not 100% about the Philippines, but my impression from time in South Korea, a bit of China, a bit of Singapore, Malaysia, and a lot of time in Indonesia is that middle to upper class Asians expect a man to dress neatly and professionally, depending on his job. If he works in an office, he should dress neatly. That may mean a button-down shirt. A sportscoat and slacks or a suit could help.yick wrote: ↑November 18th, 2023, 8:31 pmYeah but some men, maybe a lot of men don't even attempt basic grooming - some men, like your buddy @Ghost were like 'well, why should I?' Well, quite, why should you as you watch the girls go by with other men who have made the effort - the problem is with western society is the young men as well as the young women are entitled and shallow and they expect things their efforts are not entitled to - in life all over the world - women pick men so the self obsessed, entitled women have more of a say who they go with than the self obsessed, entitled men.publicduende wrote: ↑November 18th, 2023, 8:08 pmMost Western women have their bar set much, much higher than a well-groomed man who wear nice clothes and has learned to feign self-confidence. The problem is the latter: it's hard to be self-confident about having a woman fall in love with you, if it never happened before. You have no data points to base your judgment on.yick wrote: ↑November 18th, 2023, 5:40 pmI know this is an unpopular take but a man can determine a lot of his own sexual market value by washing, wearing nice clean clothes, washing and combing hair, getting in shape, learning how to be charming and interesting etc - a lot of this is actually in your own hands - even if you don't think so.
In the Philippines, at least, you can get a few girls, some even young and decent looking, show genuine interest in you, Mr. Average. Perhaps she won't be the 19-yo fair-skinned, model-looking type, but she is one, two, four, eight data points and enough to get you going. Surely enough to get you to stop wondering "what's wrong with you".
What's the solution in the Philippines, if you're a fat, balding slob with crap dress sense and you smell, you won't be able to get a better woman than if you get yourself into shape, dress well and smell nice? I suppose in the Philippines money is the main factor for westerners but it must go someway even over there.
Well, quite. I think Americans have a very unique sense of style even compared to Brits - I know a lot of Americans - family and friends and they all have that kind of very casual sense of style, even the really beautiful girls at university who came from the University of Iowa wore those baggy hoodies and big shorts - if they dressed liked Russian girls do they would have knocked everyones socks off.MrMan wrote: ↑November 18th, 2023, 8:36 pmI'm not 100% about the Philippines, but my impression from time in South Korea, a bit of China, a bit of Singapore, Malaysia, and a lot of time in Indonesia is that middle to upper class Asians expect a man to dress neatly and professionally, depending on his job. If he works in an office, he should dress neatly. That may mean a button-down shirt. A sportscoat and slacks or a suit could help.yick wrote: ↑November 18th, 2023, 8:31 pmYeah but some men, maybe a lot of men don't even attempt basic grooming - some men, like your buddy @Ghost were like 'well, why should I?' Well, quite, why should you as you watch the girls go by with other men who have made the effort - the problem is with western society is the young men as well as the young women are entitled and shallow and they expect things their efforts are not entitled to - in life all over the world - women pick men so the self obsessed, entitled women have more of a say who they go with than the self obsessed, entitled men.publicduende wrote: ↑November 18th, 2023, 8:08 pmMost Western women have their bar set much, much higher than a well-groomed man who wear nice clothes and has learned to feign self-confidence. The problem is the latter: it's hard to be self-confident about having a woman fall in love with you, if it never happened before. You have no data points to base your judgment on.yick wrote: ↑November 18th, 2023, 5:40 pmI know this is an unpopular take but a man can determine a lot of his own sexual market value by washing, wearing nice clean clothes, washing and combing hair, getting in shape, learning how to be charming and interesting etc - a lot of this is actually in your own hands - even if you don't think so.
In the Philippines, at least, you can get a few girls, some even young and decent looking, show genuine interest in you, Mr. Average. Perhaps she won't be the 19-yo fair-skinned, model-looking type, but she is one, two, four, eight data points and enough to get you going. Surely enough to get you to stop wondering "what's wrong with you".
What's the solution in the Philippines, if you're a fat, balding slob with crap dress sense and you smell, you won't be able to get a better woman than if you get yourself into shape, dress well and smell nice? I suppose in the Philippines money is the main factor for westerners but it must go someway even over there.
Americans tend to dress sloppier. Some people can work in an office in a t-shirt and cargo shorts and sandals, and program a computer or something like that.
I wonder if this girl started reading manosphere stuff, listening to MGTOW blogs, and came up with her one Pinay version of 'happier abroad' philosophy to get hits. Also, I wonder if a white western male writes were scripts and they do it together. She is just kind of cute enough to get male interest in watching her speak, but the topic probably resonates well.
Some men look macho if they are scruffy and enhances that macho look for some women.yick wrote: ↑November 18th, 2023, 9:03 pmWell, quite. I think Americans have a very unique sense of style even compared to Brits - I know a lot of Americans - family and friends and they all have that kind of very casual sense of style, even the really beautiful girls at university who came from the University of Iowa wore those baggy hoodies and big shorts - if they dressed liked Russian girls do they would have knocked everyones socks off.MrMan wrote: ↑November 18th, 2023, 8:36 pmI'm not 100% about the Philippines, but my impression from time in South Korea, a bit of China, a bit of Singapore, Malaysia, and a lot of time in Indonesia is that middle to upper class Asians expect a man to dress neatly and professionally, depending on his job. If he works in an office, he should dress neatly. That may mean a button-down shirt. A sportscoat and slacks or a suit could help.yick wrote: ↑November 18th, 2023, 8:31 pmYeah but some men, maybe a lot of men don't even attempt basic grooming - some men, like your buddy @Ghost were like 'well, why should I?' Well, quite, why should you as you watch the girls go by with other men who have made the effort - the problem is with western society is the young men as well as the young women are entitled and shallow and they expect things their efforts are not entitled to - in life all over the world - women pick men so the self obsessed, entitled women have more of a say who they go with than the self obsessed, entitled men.publicduende wrote: ↑November 18th, 2023, 8:08 pmMost Western women have their bar set much, much higher than a well-groomed man who wear nice clothes and has learned to feign self-confidence. The problem is the latter: it's hard to be self-confident about having a woman fall in love with you, if it never happened before. You have no data points to base your judgment on.yick wrote: ↑November 18th, 2023, 5:40 pmI know this is an unpopular take but a man can determine a lot of his own sexual market value by washing, wearing nice clean clothes, washing and combing hair, getting in shape, learning how to be charming and interesting etc - a lot of this is actually in your own hands - even if you don't think so.
In the Philippines, at least, you can get a few girls, some even young and decent looking, show genuine interest in you, Mr. Average. Perhaps she won't be the 19-yo fair-skinned, model-looking type, but she is one, two, four, eight data points and enough to get you going. Surely enough to get you to stop wondering "what's wrong with you".
What's the solution in the Philippines, if you're a fat, balding slob with crap dress sense and you smell, you won't be able to get a better woman than if you get yourself into shape, dress well and smell nice? I suppose in the Philippines money is the main factor for westerners but it must go someway even over there.
Americans tend to dress sloppier. Some people can work in an office in a t-shirt and cargo shorts and sandals, and program a computer or something like that.
In China, the men who dress up and make an effort get women and the men who don't don't - but even then, there are some scruffy, don't trys here who get women but if you can make yourself up to the best of your abilities here in China as a Chinese man then you'll get yourself a girlfriend here - they're called 'Sunshine Boys', in South Korea as you know - dressing up and being smart is a must - I never saw anyone who could be termed 'scruffy' even the old guys who were retired looked smart, clean, shaved faces and hair in place.