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Here is something interesting, a map that has a slide rule on the top (for the age group of singles you are interested in checking out) of the single population in the US. You can clearly see, there are a LOT more single men in the US than single women especially in the age group of 18-39. When you first look at the map, it shows single people ages 18 to 64. You need to go up to the upper right and slide the two age sliders for the age group your interested in.



http://www.xoxosoma.com/singles/

According to that graph, the best place to find single women is in the Southeast part of America.

But of course, if they're not attracted to you, then they will all tell you that they are not single or not looking.

Is the South really filled with cherry blossoms streets (like pictures of Georgia show) and big rivers (like the story Huckleberry Finn showed) and nice rural families like "The Waltons"? lol

If you slide the top slide rule to check out the 25 to 34 single age group, the only cities that have more single women than men are, Montogomery, Alambama, Fayetteville, North Carolina and Durham, NC. And these cities just have a little more single women than single men per 1,000 people. I mean the ENTIRE MAP practically shows more single men than women! It's ridiculous! No wonder why women have it so much easier than men in the dating field in the US, the numbers are in their favor BIG TIME!

There are 2 million more single men than single women in the 25 to 34 age group in the USA! Starting at age 40, single women start to outnumber single men. But most young single guys have no interest in middle aged women.

It seems like the age of 40 is the turning point when a dramatic number of divorces take place and women re-enter the dating market. Of course now, your dating pool consists of divorced secondhand vaginas in their 40s with kids and a history of at least one failed marriage. Awesome.

I remember saying more than once because that I was at the age now where I was going to have to wait until women started getting divorces before my options start opening up again. Who knew how true that really was.

So basically, since I didn't get married at 18 with a sweetheart before she got snatched up by a thug or a mangina, I just f***ed myself six ways from Sunday.

This is why I when I see fucktwinkles like "skeptic" on this forum I just want to punch him in the f***ing face.

jamesbond wrote:If you slide the top slide rule to check out the 25 to 34 single age group, the only cities that have more single women than men are, Montogomery, Alambama, Fayetteville, North Carolina and Durham, NC. And these cities just have a little more single women than single men per 1,000 people. I mean the ENTIRE MAP practically shows more single men than women! It's ridiculous! No wonder why women have it so much easier than men in the dating field in the US, the numbers are in their favor BIG TIME!

There are 2 million more single men than single women in the 25 to 34 age group in the USA! Starting at age 40, single women start to outnumber single men. But most young single guys have no interest in middle aged women.

Great link. I wonder what this map looked like in 1976 when I started dating. Is there any way to see that? Thinks were so much easier back then. Mabe because I was so much younger and better looking.. :0)

In2dadark wrote:Great link. I wonder what this map looked like in 1976 when I started dating. Is there any way to see that? Thinks were so much easier back then. Mabe because I was so much younger and better looking.. :0)

I haven't seen any maps or statistics regarding the number of male and female singles in the US for years past. It would be interesting to see if single men outnumbered single women in years past (like in the 50's, 60's, 70's and 80's).

This guy recently made a video explaining the singles map and why men in America are screwed when it comes to meeting women!

I like this follow-up comment, many follow-up comments after his post agree with him. It's true what he says and not only in USA, but also in wide parts of Europe.

Honk Honk
4 days ago (edited)
Almost every male aged 18-35 is single in my family, every female in my family aged 18-35 has a new boyfriend every month or so, and the men they're with are generally 5-10 years older than them. Family gatherings are so sad its funny, just a bunch of us single guys hanging together, then you have the females, with their boyfriends. Its like the elephant in the room nobody wants to talk about. I just can't help but laugh about the situation as this point. This doesn't make any sense, considering the females in my family aren't anything special, the women in the extended family are all looks-matched to the males, its not like all the women in my family are super models, they come from the same average parents we do. It is clear as day to me that women have it 1 million times easier than men when it comes to finding a partner. I believe the only reason women think men don't have it hard (or have it the same as women) is because when women talk about "men" they're talking about the top 20%, the bottom 80% don't actually exist in their mind when discussing dating, relationships and sex.

It probably has always been that way, due firstly to the fact that men of all ages compete for the young women while ignoring the old ones. Which itself is due to menopause in the human species. A man who prefers old infertile women is less likely to pass on his genes, thus the preference for youth and fertility has been reinforced over countless generations. (There is some preference for male youth and fertility in women, but to a lesser extent)
Interestingly, in chimpanzees the females are still capable of reproducing into old age, and are consequently more sought after by males than younger females. Not in humans, where at a certain point a woman's fertility falls off a cliff.

Other things compound the problem. The traditional culture of men pursuing women means that a woman doesn't have to take any action on her own beyond basic hygiene and grooming (which they love to do anyway) and men will simply come. The already stiff competition for young females explodes.

Were we to lose the culture of man-pursues-woman I think it would be a good thing. A society in which men and women are equal should be one in which woman pursue men as much as men pursue women. If one good thing could come from #metoo it could be a drop in men doing the pursuing, out of the necessity of protecting themselves. This is the chance for women to step up! Each single man now should be waiting for a woman to approach him, to ask him out, to pick him up in her car, to treat him to dinner. At least to go even with a man on all of these points.

Men, don't deny women their big chance to prove they can be like us.
This classic video shows how it's done: