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Most of the hot women in the US have boyfriends, the ones that don't are getting swamped with guys asking them out. I read an article about internet dating that said on average, a good looking woman in the US who is using internet dating gets 100 guys a day responding to her! The pickup artist "Mystery" has said, hot women who live in big cities in the US get asked out by guys an average of 300 times a year!
No wonder women are so picky about who they go out! They have a boat load of choices and never need to "settle" and take whatever guy comes along. The more choices a person has, the more picky they are going to be.
It must be nice to be a hot looking woman in the US, you have all kinds of guys that want to be with you and you can pick and choose as much as you want. Just wait until these women start losing their looks. Then they won't have a lot of guys chasing them and guess what? They will have to settle and take whatever guy shows interest in them.
The reason why so many guys in the US settle and take whatever girl they can find is because most of the good looking women in the US have boyfriends. That's why you will see a good looking guy dating an ugly girl and sometimes you will see a guy who is physically fit dating a fat girl.
When a guy in the US does get a girlfriend, he usually holds onto to her for dear life (because he knows it may be years before he is able to meet another girl). That's why sometimes you meet people who have been dating for years. It used to be that people actually "dated" different people before they got married. Now, in todays world, you are either in a long term boyfriend, girlfriend relationship, or you are in NO relationship with anyone!
Whatever happened to casual dating?
I'm considered attractive and I know the only girl I've ever had in the USA weighed 300lb..... I couldn't help it, either that or stay alone.
So I looked to Russia and Ukraine and it's the opposite deal it seems. In fact, I've had a number of women in Russia stop writing me because they think I must easily be able to date who ever I want to in the USA and that the reason I've never been married is because I must be some kind of commitment-phoebe.
It's incredible how even good looking guys in the US are having a hard time meeting women, meanwhile FAT women and UGLY women are easily able to meet men! WTF?
Last edited by jamesbond on November 25th, 2012, 6:49 pm, edited 1 time in total.
It is very frustrating. I do not yet have enough money to expat myself or to "buy" a foreign woman (which might not be a good idea seeing that she could always turn on me here).
Hookers here are way too expensive for pretty much the same reason listed in the OP.
Best solution might just be to move as far south as possible to make for cheaper and shorter flights to Colombia, Peru, Brazil. That is what is advised for the Bachelor vacation books, like the Hedonist Guide.
The reason all of this is so true is because American women, on average, are not attractive. Sure there is a single digit percentage of American women who are knockouts, but that is few and far in between.
Sure, it is better in some places (think university campus, or a fitness center) than in others, but most American women are not highly attractive.
The body type of American women is the biggest in the world. We have Oprah reassuring women that their fat is indicative of "real life women." Poppycock! Not in the world that I know, just in the USA.
Feminism told women to play down their looks so they would not be "sex objects." The result is a generation or two unattractive women.
The few smart women who know the power of feminine attractiveness score all of the male interest as has been written above.
I theorize that the explosion of pedophilia(not a justification), pornography, and sex tourism is a result of American men not finding our fat-assed women all that attractive.
Your right, there are a lot of BBW's in America. This is supposed to stand for Big, Beautiful, Woman. However, I like to make BBW stand for, "big, beached whale." lol
I thought that standed for Big Blob Whale, or Big Bloated Whore or something.
BBW can also stand for "bring burgers with." LOL
America has the highest percentage of overweight women in the world! The small percentage of women who are in shape and good looking are getting bombarded with guys asking them out.
No wonder why good looking women in the US are so stuck up, they feel as if they are queens, because they are getting so much male attention.
"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"
"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."
'America has the highest percentage of overweight women in the world! '
Keep in mind that US also has the highest % of overweight men, they cancel ea out.
Brazil is bad too, many obese people
US needs to import 10 mil women from abroad and send 20 mil guys to war with China,
Thats how you solve the problem