A lot of women do "grab the sperm" so to speak so that they can trap men into marriage. This is terribly frequent female behavior. Truth is, you took up with a guy who was a bad boy. You got knocked up, probably intentionally, and then he dropped you, presumably to go knock up some other girls somewhere. You knew he wasn't a good guy, but that's always the draw of these scum, isn't it...later on, women try to justify that it was only the bad man's fault. She had no responsibility. You just couldn't keep it in your pants for a bad boy and got knocked up. You are the primary one at fault. You could have kept it in your pants and not get knocked up.DanielleNguyen wrote:You missed my point entirely ghost. I'm trying to say pretty much crap happens in life. It's not like women tell the bodies hey grab that sperm so we can ensnare that guy. When I got pregnant I was honestly scared and cried and cried. The guy got to walk away. And my husband was not a idiot for deciding to be a dad to my son. He is a strong man one with more guts then most. And worst option, there are far worse options out there then a single mom. I've seen men marry women who have herpes. I'm just saying accidents happen.
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Even single mothers have just as many options as single and married women nowadays basically without doing anything, decent-looking single mothers can just dress provocatively or not, smile and touch her hair and that's it, then men of all social backgrounds, financial status, ages, personalities, religions & races will line up to court her.
A decent man to even get the attention of a woman, he must have a prestigious job, an expensive car, have good interpersonal and conversation skills, learn what she likes, be good-looking, make her laugh, exercise often at the gym, be an alpha, have interesting hobbies, dress in expensive clothes, have a large social circle, be tall, have "game", have high status and other ridiculous requirements in the woman's list.
Of course women will not admit it since they continue to play the victim card to reap even more benefits
Ghost did you miss the part of me having birth control in my arm. -_- my son wasn't intentional. And cornfed no I didn't find my husband online. We were friends before I was pregnant then he deployed. I wrote him letters but I took care of my damn self. I sold things I made with my hands, handmade soaps, lotions, dresses, well you get the idea. Some single mom's out there bust their asses to take care of the child. I mean what, I didn't plan to have my first one til at least 27 after getting a degree in criminal justice. But did my implanon work. No it didnt. To any women on here avoid implanon and nexplanon. IUD, ladies.
I understand you are just a stupid narcissistic feminist from hell.
But Single moms in general should be avoided.
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Four children by two different fathers? This girl is nothing more than a pump and dump or she can go online and look for a foreigner to have sympathy for her . A Filipino man would not dare date or marry a girl like this. He wouldn't even want to be seen with her.
The Filipinos have a name for this type of female but it escpaes me now.
Men chase, women choose
As long as you have gold in your hand, you will ALWAYS have bread on your table.
You should have just kept your p***y in your pants and waited for marriage. That's what women were required to do in saner ages past, unless they wanted to take the other path and become a slut/whore/prostitute. (With the associated consequences.) Now the sluts and whores get the benefits of both worlds and don't have to contribute anything. You chased a bad boy, got impregnated, and then you hooked up with a beta wallet-provider. You did things so directly out of the feminist script that it isn't even funny.
You know what ever. Point is we are both happy. I'm happily married with a child on the way. And unlike most I don't believe in divorce or remarriage. I will be buried next to my husband. Label me all you want. I'm done defending myself. My job is to make my husband and children happy, not to change your views on hb.
You are right, important is that you both are happy - and I am very supportive to Asian men, who are willing to look for marriage outside their own race, outside of their own native country.
During the last years, at least in Continental Europe and Japan, there is some - still small, but growing - new movement on the way between German women and Japanese men. Such couples, still the minority of course, are surprisingly many here in Tokyo.
This helps men like myself, who are white and from Europe and married with an Asian woman, a lot. The existence of Western women with Asian men is clearly reducing abusive remarks from feminists against Western men with Asian women.
Not long time ago I was considered an all-time-loser (cannot get a girl next door of the same cultural background), paedophile pervert (despite my wife and me are of them age, but my wife is 5 inch shorter than me), my Japanese wife was seen as a mail-order-bride, despite she never had financial problems etc.
I wish you good luck.
There are countries where you can accept a single mother, it depends on the legal situation.
In USA the legal situation for a man is generally bad, but it is getting even worse for a man dating a single mother.
In case the relationship breaks up the man is kept financially responsible for both, the mother and HER children over decades.
This does not make any sense, and therefore say NO to such a relationship from the very beginning on - let the financial job be done by social services with food-coupons, feminist organizations filing lawsuits against employers or whatever.
To date a single mother in Western countries? No way!
It seems you are legally badly informed about your rights as a mother, especially after divorce. I think it would be good for you to take a look into legal affairs and how they are executed in courts against ex-husbands and fathers in Western countries.
Of course, you can say that not all Western women are bad, but - just my opinion - it is not worth the risk even to try. Sorry to tell you, I would never date a Western woman in a Western country, single mom or not.
The other question is about if a man like I myself is even able to find a Western woman - I found nobody, and not even a girlfriend for 30 minutes.
I gave up after trying for a few years, it also should be mentioned that dating is expensive in Continental Europe, how can I at that time as a young man have so much money to pay for gifts, dinners, travels? How can I own an expensive car or a big house?
Western women are very choosy, often highly materialistic and are complaining about men when their relationship is going wrong - but I think women should start to learn to blame themselves and keep themselves responsible for their own bad choices.
My choice in Europe was only either single or foreign wife, and I decided for foreign wife and relocate to Asia. I do not have any family-related problem now.
Sigh. This is why we can't take you seriously. You come here claiming to be different, and even now you still don't know much about how bad American men have it. Why don't you go petition to have misandrist laws changed? That will show you aren't the typical American female.