odbo wrote:Immigration Act of 1965, obesity of post-1980s western people, White guilt taught in public schools, outsourcing high-tech to the Asian "Tiger" economies, popularization of Japanese culture, plastic surgery hitting critical-mass in Korea, "ghettofication" of Caucasoid and Negroid women. Without any of these top-down social engineering programs, you would not be "destined" for any dysgenic thinking patterns.
Thinking patterns? Not necessarily. Many of these guys simply didn't have a choice.
I've been asked "Why didn't you ever have an Asian girlfriend?" many times. Heck, even Winston asked me "Why aren't you interested in Asian girls" when I told him about my dating Mexican women.
Prior to this year, I had never been intimate (such as a girlfriend, romantic date) with any female of Asian descent not because I didn't want to. It's because Asian-American women were completely out of my reach. I simply couldn't because they would refuse to move anywhere beyond the "friend zone."
Depending on the type of Asian-American female, the Asian males they would only date would be either sassy clubgoers, fundamentalist Christian "momma's boys" (Jesus freaks), high-salaried engineers, skater boys, and so on. As an Asian-American male, if you don't fit into one of those categories, then these women won't even consider you as a potential date. It's that simple; game over. It didn't matter how much I'd be attracted to them or how much pressure from others I'd have to date them. This translates to an entire youth of never being able to date them, forcing you to look somewhere else (or not at all).
4(+) years of high school, 4(+) years of college, nearly 10 years total of being in your prime -- and never being able to date a female of your "own kind." Good looks, good social skills, and good personality that are enough to have them never actually see me as a "creep" and are quite happy to be my platonic friend, but would never consider me as dating material. It's only natural to feel very, very angry at being deprived of Asian-American females for years and years, especially when it's because you really didn't have a choice.
Even American white, black, and Latina women in high school and college were more open with considering me as dating material, on average. Latin American women? Far more. Mexico is located right next to California whereas Asia is not, so it was the convenience factor that still kept me from dating Asian women.
How about this: Ask our black American forum members why they don't, or haven't, or couldn't date black American women, and you'll be sure to get some pretty outraged responses, from the ridiculous unattainability to their messed-up minds. I'll write up a separate post about this later.
I'm currently abroad now, and will write up some trip reports soon when I have more time.