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Are you ever in the friend zone on purpose?

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Are you ever in the friend zone on purpose?

Post by Temprano26 » April 9th, 2018, 7:23 pm

I have known this girl since German class of high school, one of few people I have kept in touch with since but she has come through for me in my adult years and I regard her as a sister. Aside from the fact she has three kids with this other guy, I don't have to deal with her every night when she goes out to drink too much, punch her boyfriend and then fall flat on the pavement. We have been out before and strangers think we are dating, which we aren't because I am the one man in her life not trying to screw her. She also introduced me to someone else that I also regard as a sister, whom I connect with intellectually but not sexually therefore making her a terrific drinking buddy.

So I know being "friend-zoned" usually sucks but do you just want to have sex with a woman or do you want to commit long-term?

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Re: Are you ever in the friend zone on purpose?

Post by Master » April 10th, 2018, 9:18 am

More information would be helpful. Such as where you from? Why have you had this relation so long? and what is your relationship like with this woman?

You know her before she had three kids? and though she is obviously attractive. Shes not your type or you dont want to get involved with her. It appears though it could just be a friendship there is enough tnt in there to create frizzles.

I of course friendzone women all the time. Its what successful men with taste do. Though not generally. When i notice a woman im not interested is interested in me i usually antagonize her. Make her see awful things about me that way she wont like me. I tend to get under their skin and make them think of me as unlikable. Act unromantic and crude. Other times I pretend im interested in other women, or act like womanizer. Say gross things and act like I screw things without any regard.

It is possible to be friends with a woman but if you are thinking about other things then its not good for you and probably acceptable as a friendship.
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Re: Are you ever in the friend zone on purpose?

Post by Temprano26 » April 15th, 2018, 2:37 pm

I am from Texas and at the time I met this girl I wasn't dating anybody due to my depressed loner phase. We reconnected at some point and one birthday everybody had forgotten about me except for her, which has cemented her as one of my good friends among fake friends. And she vouches for me when we go out and other women are looking for fun.

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Re: Are you ever in the friend zone on purpose?

Post by Master » April 18th, 2018, 8:03 am

Unanswered questions
Why have you had this relation so long?

You know her before she had three kids?


Being friendzone sucks only when it is you who is being friendzoned and your the one that wants it. I'd save you the trouble and not commit to this woman in any sort of intimate way because you will only tangle yourself in a outcome that you will not like. Its okay to sleep around. Its best to commit long-term. Its great to have women friends. Its beautiful to have women friends that care about you. You dont want to mix great friends with sex( they always end bad). You can have wonderful girlfriends that you dont sleep with. Its okay. Its okay if your attracted to your friends but you dont have to sleep with them. The fact that she is with a guy and has 3 kids with him is a enough red-light for you not to get involved. Your not going to take care of her three children and make her get rid of the guy for a laid are you? are you going to risk a good friendship because of sex? Just find someone else.
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