http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/in ... 821AA3klR7
This was the answer that irked me:
Is it just me, or was that answer quite hypocitical? Yes, maybe you could validly accuse the guy of generalizing, but wow... She's being unnecessarily rude. What do you guys think? And she says a true nice guy wouldn't care about a woman's looks, but then criticized "regular" nice men for being unattractive, calling them chubby and saying they didn't take care of their looks enough and needed to workout, and then said about how attractive men dated unattractive women because looks aren't important to them. So men have to make the effort to look good and women don't?You're generalizing and you're biased. I really can't answer with anything different on this section, although I wish I could say different stuff. But a lot of the questions coming from lads on this section seem to be some sort of bitter rant against women....Like they're trying to stir people up to start bashing on females. It's as if it's some sort of personal, diabolique pleasure you guys got. It's prolly because you can't rant like that in real life, so, you come here to discharge that bitterness on here.
Please explain what does the "nice guy" mean to you? And what does a Bad boy mean to you? And how do you know that every British woman only likes bad boy types of men? And why did you ask this question, since you seem like you only wanted to rant about British women and brag about yourself being liked by ladies from other parts of the world?
You need to get over yourself. I can tell you're thrilled about that and you're flattered. That prolly increased your fragile male ego....but please, could you not make it a little less obvious? It's pathetic.
And the regular "nice guy" I've ever met in my life were guys that didn't really know how to act with a woman and what to do in various situations. Were a bit chubby and obviously didn't really take care of their looks, aside taking showers...but that's sometimes not enough. You need to actually work out. Were deep down conceited and cocky, although, they wanted to show that they're victims of destiny and how under-appreciated they were. They expected to have hot women pay attention to them, and when they'd realize they don't get that attention, they'd go all like "Oh, why women only go for bad boys, and not nice guys like me??". Well, if you want hot women, then, go to the gym, eat right. As with your personality, well, that's something that takes a lot longer to fix, so, we won't go there.
A lot of the true Nice guys I met were actually very attractive men, who got discarded for being attractive, because many people assumed they're automatically full of themselves and conceited because of this. Yet, I always see very attractive guys with plain, or even ugly women. Go figure.
A Nice guy is a guy who's genuine, and looks to him are on the second place. They are honest in their intentions and don't care all that much about the girl's appearance (attractivity wise, not hygiene). A truly nice guy won't go about complaining how attractive women don't pay him attention and how shallow they are. And they definitely don't resume themselves to victims because of this. And you know what? Women see that in them, and they actually rush to them. So, whoever says that Nice guys aren't popular among women, YES they ARE.
I apologize if I offended you with anything.