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jamesbond
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Post by jamesbond » November 11th, 2012, 3:24 pm

leavingusa wrote:some of us are over 25-30 and at that point, things go downhill fast. There's just no single girls.

If you are talking to a girl and you say something that's a little boring she will just walk away from you or say she has to go. Women are usually attracted to me initially so I see this a lot, when I say I'm in IT they instantly lose interest.

If you are not running with a large crowd then you will have a hard time meeting girls and if you do not like football, drinking, and shit like that you are a freak and and outcast. Sure there are emos and other groups but you have to fit in somewhere or you are done. A lot of it boils down to having any individuality at all, get rid of it.

Like others have said, it's hard to get friends unless you've got something special going for you or can carry some kind of an image or brand. No friends, no girls. There you are. If you are over 30 you are either online dating or hitting bars by yourself. If you are smart you'll switch to hookers or jerk off to p**n and be done with it.

And I speak as someone who's been on both sides of that fence several times in my life. Feast or famine depending on circumstance.

When I was feasting I didn't have to do anything, when I was starving nothing I did would help.
Every guy I know who has ever had a girlfriend met her through his friends. So when you say "no friends, no girls" you are right on! Even if you can meet some girls through your friends, you may not like the girls, or the girls may not like you.

Your right about their being no single girls after age 30. Most are married by age 30, some are divorced with kids. The only single girls I met who are over 30 are either single mothers, fat or hidious looking (or a combination of all of those things).
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Post by lone_yakuza » November 11th, 2012, 3:38 pm

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Post by NorthAmericanguy » November 11th, 2012, 7:32 pm

jamesbond wrote:
leavingusa wrote:some of us are over 25-30 and at that point, things go downhill fast. There's just no single girls.

If you are talking to a girl and you say something that's a little boring she will just walk away from you or say she has to go. Women are usually attracted to me initially so I see this a lot, when I say I'm in IT they instantly lose interest.

If you are not running with a large crowd then you will have a hard time meeting girls and if you do not like football, drinking, and shit like that you are a freak and and outcast. Sure there are emos and other groups but you have to fit in somewhere or you are done. A lot of it boils down to having any individuality at all, get rid of it.

Like others have said, it's hard to get friends unless you've got something special going for you or can carry some kind of an image or brand. No friends, no girls. There you are. If you are over 30 you are either online dating or hitting bars by yourself. If you are smart you'll switch to hookers or jerk off to p**n and be done with it.

And I speak as someone who's been on both sides of that fence several times in my life. Feast or famine depending on circumstance.

When I was feasting I didn't have to do anything, when I was starving nothing I did would help.
Every guy I know who has ever had a girlfriend met her through his friends. So when you say "no friends, no girls" you are right on! Even if you can meet some girls through your friends, you may not like the girls, or the girls may not like you.

Your right about their being no single girls after age 30. Most are married by age 30, some are divorced with kids. The only single girls I met who are over 30 are either single mothers, fat or hidious looking (or a combination of all of those things).
:shock:
To be clear as possible, there are single young girls available in America at all times, the problem is that are cultural restraints that prevent men over 40 having access to these younger women.

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Post by Tsar » November 12th, 2012, 1:34 am

Would I be correct to assume there wouldn't be much competition in E. Europe compared to America. Would they date a guy who can provide for them, treat them with respect, actually desire a "nice guy"? Wouldn't a 7 or 8 in attractiveness, 22-30 age range, and a good job almost be a perfect recipe for success?

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Post by leavingusa » November 12th, 2012, 3:33 am

NorthAmericanguy wrote:
jamesbond wrote:
leavingusa wrote:some of us are over 25-30 and at that point, things go downhill fast. There's just no single girls.

If you are talking to a girl and you say something that's a little boring she will just walk away from you or say she has to go. Women are usually attracted to me initially so I see this a lot, when I say I'm in IT they instantly lose interest.

If you are not running with a large crowd then you will have a hard time meeting girls and if you do not like football, drinking, and shit like that you are a freak and and outcast. Sure there are emos and other groups but you have to fit in somewhere or you are done. A lot of it boils down to having any individuality at all, get rid of it.

Like others have said, it's hard to get friends unless you've got something special going for you or can carry some kind of an image or brand. No friends, no girls. There you are. If you are over 30 you are either online dating or hitting bars by yourself. If you are smart you'll switch to hookers or jerk off to p**n and be done with it.

And I speak as someone who's been on both sides of that fence several times in my life. Feast or famine depending on circumstance.

When I was feasting I didn't have to do anything, when I was starving nothing I did would help.
Every guy I know who has ever had a girlfriend met her through his friends. So when you say "no friends, no girls" you are right on! Even if you can meet some girls through your friends, you may not like the girls, or the girls may not like you.

Your right about their being no single girls after age 30. Most are married by age 30, some are divorced with kids. The only single girls I met who are over 30 are either single mothers, fat or hidious looking (or a combination of all of those things).
:shock:
To be clear as possible, there are single young girls available in America at all times, the problem is that are cultural restraints that prevent men over 40 having access to these younger women.
You have to have big money or status and decent looks (rare at this age) then it's ok. These things will solve any problem until at least 50 or so.

Lots of older guys banging twenty somethings but there are no good wives at any age or price. You couldn't take the chance even if there were.
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Post by Dragon » November 12th, 2012, 3:34 am

lone_yakuza wrote:Well I've made peace with the possibility of dying a virgin and only having jacked off to p**n. Cause the girls that want to date me are generally way below my league, talentless, not good looking, ignorant, and shallow. And there weren't/aren't many of these to begin with (like 3 total or something). And the girls that are in my league are doing the hypergamy and going for only the top 5-10% guys and only if those guys are very popular.

It's either a girl that is a 6.5/10 or above... or none at all. Because I rate myself a 6.5 and I think most people would too... maybe a 7.5 if you count that I attended a top 10 US university, have multiple talents ranging from martial arts to music to art to weightlifting, am bilingual, etc. etc.

But of course all of these positives are instantly negated because

#1 I am an Asian dude and they generally don't like Asian dudes, and yes Asian girls actually hate Asian guys more than white girls do, and I confess that I HATE Asian girls with a passion because they are some of the most shallow and materialistic bitches to ever exist, backstabbing traitors who like to badmouth Asian guys and smear our names and are in cahoots with Jewish Hollywood portraying Asian males as weak, the villain, asexual martial artist or other generally terrible portrayals.. and the Asian American gender gap is irreconcilable.....oh, I forgot to mention I like white girls and white girls are way more beautiful than even the prettiest Asian girl

#2 I am 5'6" which is supposedly not tall enough for them to consider me to be manly even if these chicks are 3 inches shorter than me or about the same height.

Anyways I would rather jack off to very hot girls in p**n than have to settle for some fugly a** 3/10 or a whale who does not know how to take care of herself and has god knows how many diseases aside from thyroid problems or the mental disease of not having self discipline to not eat the damned junk food.

I'm 21 so there is still some time and I need to get myself established, get a good job, etc. Then maybe I'll try to find a girl from Russia through matchmaking/dating services.

Anyways f**k American women.
Dude, you don't need to resign yourself to anything. Don't be encumbered by any fatalistic outlook. There's plenty of opportunities everywhere. I know from experience that most women will be turned off by your attitude. Time to take the George Carlin "I don't give a f**k about this toxic country and culture" attitude. It's hilarious how mentally/morally/socially broken this country is in all aspects of life, not just the dating scene. Stampede deaths during Black Friday? Hilarious. Our national infrastructure is in dire need of repair? Comedy gold. Another school shooting on the news? Lol I hope there's an American brave enough to beat Brevik's score.

This country is so out of whack and toxic in so many ways, I no longer have a personal stake in the well-being of this country. It's not going to get any better bro, it's only going to get worst. It is time to free yourself from all of it. It's time to be reborn. It's not where you go (path), it's how you get there (goal).

Seriously, I'm counting down the days until I graduate and GTFO of this country. Like you, I'm studying Engineering right now, but it doesn't matter to me if I never get an engineering job and even take a hit in standard of living overseas, as long as I'm doing okay. Since you're attracted to white women, why not do what AmericanInMexico does a carve yourself a niche by being the only Asian guy in Mexico dating white mexican ladies lol. Get out there as soon as you can. Make mistakes. Have fun. Never again brood in hatred.

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Post by lone_yakuza » November 12th, 2012, 3:45 am

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Post by zboy1 » November 12th, 2012, 4:45 am

lone_yakuza wrote:
Dragon wrote:
lone_yakuza wrote:Well I've made peace with the possibility of dying a virgin and only having jacked off to p**n. Cause the girls that want to date me are generally way below my league, talentless, not good looking, ignorant, and shallow. And there weren't/aren't many of these to begin with (like 3 total or something). And the girls that are in my league are doing the hypergamy and going for only the top 5-10% guys and only if those guys are very popular.

It's either a girl that is a 6.5/10 or above... or none at all. Because I rate myself a 6.5 and I think most people would too... maybe a 7.5 if you count that I attended a top 10 US university, have multiple talents ranging from martial arts to music to art to weightlifting, am bilingual, etc. etc.

But of course all of these positives are instantly negated because

#1 I am an Asian dude and they generally don't like Asian dudes, and yes Asian girls actually hate Asian guys more than white girls do, and I confess that I HATE Asian girls with a passion because they are some of the most shallow and materialistic bitches to ever exist, backstabbing traitors who like to badmouth Asian guys and smear our names and are in cahoots with Jewish Hollywood portraying Asian males as weak, the villain, asexual martial artist or other generally terrible portrayals.. and the Asian American gender gap is irreconcilable.....oh, I forgot to mention I like white girls and white girls are way more beautiful than even the prettiest Asian girl

#2 I am 5'6" which is supposedly not tall enough for them to consider me to be manly even if these chicks are 3 inches shorter than me or about the same height.

Anyways I would rather jack off to very hot girls in p**n than have to settle for some fugly a** 3/10 or a whale who does not know how to take care of herself and has god knows how many diseases aside from thyroid problems or the mental disease of not having self discipline to not eat the damned junk food.

I'm 21 so there is still some time and I need to get myself established, get a good job, etc. Then maybe I'll try to find a girl from Russia through matchmaking/dating services.

Anyways f**k American women.
Dude, you don't need to resign yourself to anything. Don't be encumbered by any fatalistic outlook. There's plenty of opportunities everywhere. I know from experience that most women will be turned off by your attitude. Time to take the George Carlin "I don't give a f**k about this toxic country and culture" attitude. It's hilarious how mentally/morally/socially broken this country is in all aspects of life, not just the dating scene. Stampede deaths during Black Friday? Hilarious. Our national infrastructure is in dire need of repair? Comedy gold. Another school shooting on the news? Lol I hope there's an American brave enough to beat Brevik's score.

This country is so out of whack and toxic in so many ways, I no longer have a personal stake in the well-being of this country. It's not going to get any better bro, it's only going to get worst. It is time to free yourself from all of it. It's time to be reborn. It's not where you go (path), it's how you get there (goal).

Seriously, I'm counting down the days until I graduate and GTFO of this country. Like you, I'm studying Engineering right now, but it doesn't matter to me if I never get an engineering job and even take a hit in standard of living overseas, as long as I'm doing okay. Since you're attracted to white women, why not do what AmericanInMexico does a carve yourself a niche by being the only Asian guy in Mexico dating white mexican ladies lol. Get out there as soon as you can. Make mistakes. Have fun. Never again brood in hatred.
Lol. I already have a don't give a f**k attitude. Because if I can get a good girl, GREAT! If I cannot get a good girl, well that saves time, money, and effort in wooing her and will allow me to plan out my own financial future more meticulously.

That's cool with me too. In fact I wouldn't give a shit about most of this if I were rich and were able to afford a maid to help with some of the housework and if they had STD free hoes/escorts.

See the problem is that most people on here are telling me to go to tropical climates. I cannot physically be in tropical climates. I am genetically suited for very cold weather, wet or snowy. I am very resistant to the cold, much more than the average person, such as being able to wear only one layer top to bottom with just a light jacket and be fine when it is 30 degrees F outside.

On the otherhand, I have breathing issues when the temperature gets above 75 degrees F. That's something I'm trying to fix with a surgery but even then I despise hot weather.. especially hot and humid weather. Not to mention that tropical/hot/hot+humid places are breeding grounds for diseases and filth.

If I am leaving this country, it is to go to Siberia or north to Canada or maybe Northern Manchuria. But only Canada is not polluted out of those options... and being in Washington state, British Columbia isn't that different.

Also, it's really a breath of fresh air being back in western washington. People are so much nicer, friendlier, smile more, etc. etc. So glad I got the f**k out of that Idaho hick town.

I'm just hoping that if shit really hits the fan, then Washington decides to do what many people have wanted since its founding, and that is to join British Columbia to form Cascadia or maybe simply secede and join Canada. Canada is way better than the US from what I have heard, for Asian guys at least.
Dude, you need to see a psychiatrist because you got a lot of issues. With all that pent-up anger and frustration--you going to turn into Cho Seung Hui (VT shooter).

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Post by lone_yakuza » November 12th, 2012, 4:51 am

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Post by Disillusioned_American » November 12th, 2012, 5:47 am

lone_yakuza wrote:I'm 21 so there is still some time and I need to get myself established, get a good job, etc. Then maybe I'll try to find a girl from Russia through matchmaking/dating services.

Anyways f**k American women.
Consider yourself lucky. I'm nearly a decade older than you, and when I was at your age there was no such thing as Happierabroad.com, since the internet was less developed at that time. At 21, I was a lost cause with women, and there was absolutely NOBODY to clue me in, and offer any tangible sort of help. Nothing but alpha cock-blockers and PUA bullish*t; I had nobody to relate with.
Dragon wrote:It's hilarious how mentally/morally/socially broken this country is in all aspects of life, not just the dating scene. Stampede deaths during Black Friday? Hilarious. Our national infrastructure is in dire need of repair? Comedy gold. Another school shooting on the news? Lol I hope there's an American brave enough to beat Brevik's score.

This country is so out of whack and toxic in so many ways, I no longer have a personal stake in the well-being of this country.
:lol: LMFAO! I'm with you on that, btw.
lone_yakuza wrote:See the problem is that most people on here are telling me to go to tropical climates. I cannot physically be in tropical climates. I am genetically suited for very cold weather, wet or snowy. I am very resistant to the cold, much more than the average person, such as being able to wear only one layer top to bottom with just a light jacket and be fine when it is 30 degrees F outside.

On the otherhand, I have breathing issues when the temperature gets above 75 degrees F. That's something I'm trying to fix with a surgery but even then I despise hot weather.. especially hot and humid weather. Not to mention that tropical/hot/hot+humid places are breeding grounds for diseases and filth.

If I am leaving this country, it is to go to Siberia or north to Canada or maybe Northern Manchuria. But only Canada is not polluted out of those options... and being in Washington state, British Columbia isn't that different.

Also, it's really a breath of fresh air being back in western washington. People are so much nicer, friendlier, smile more, etc. etc.
Dude, I was just thinking to suggest the Pacific Northwest Region to you. Sounds like it has your name written all over it. From my observations, it seems that AM/WF couples are definitely more common/accepted out that way. Good luck to you, whatever you decide.

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Post by Dragon » November 12th, 2012, 7:14 am

lone_yakuza wrote:
Dragon wrote:
lone_yakuza wrote:Well I've made peace with the possibility of dying a virgin and only having jacked off to p**n. Cause the girls that want to date me are generally way below my league, talentless, not good looking, ignorant, and shallow. And there weren't/aren't many of these to begin with (like 3 total or something). And the girls that are in my league are doing the hypergamy and going for only the top 5-10% guys and only if those guys are very popular.

It's either a girl that is a 6.5/10 or above... or none at all. Because I rate myself a 6.5 and I think most people would too... maybe a 7.5 if you count that I attended a top 10 US university, have multiple talents ranging from martial arts to music to art to weightlifting, am bilingual, etc. etc.

But of course all of these positives are instantly negated because

#1 I am an Asian dude and they generally don't like Asian dudes, and yes Asian girls actually hate Asian guys more than white girls do, and I confess that I HATE Asian girls with a passion because they are some of the most shallow and materialistic bitches to ever exist, backstabbing traitors who like to badmouth Asian guys and smear our names and are in cahoots with Jewish Hollywood portraying Asian males as weak, the villain, asexual martial artist or other generally terrible portrayals.. and the Asian American gender gap is irreconcilable.....oh, I forgot to mention I like white girls and white girls are way more beautiful than even the prettiest Asian girl

#2 I am 5'6" which is supposedly not tall enough for them to consider me to be manly even if these chicks are 3 inches shorter than me or about the same height.

Anyways I would rather jack off to very hot girls in p**n than have to settle for some fugly a** 3/10 or a whale who does not know how to take care of herself and has god knows how many diseases aside from thyroid problems or the mental disease of not having self discipline to not eat the damned junk food.

I'm 21 so there is still some time and I need to get myself established, get a good job, etc. Then maybe I'll try to find a girl from Russia through matchmaking/dating services.

Anyways f**k American women.
Dude, you don't need to resign yourself to anything. Don't be encumbered by any fatalistic outlook. There's plenty of opportunities everywhere. I know from experience that most women will be turned off by your attitude. Time to take the George Carlin "I don't give a f**k about this toxic country and culture" attitude. It's hilarious how mentally/morally/socially broken this country is in all aspects of life, not just the dating scene. Stampede deaths during Black Friday? Hilarious. Our national infrastructure is in dire need of repair? Comedy gold. Another school shooting on the news? Lol I hope there's an American brave enough to beat Brevik's score.

This country is so out of whack and toxic in so many ways, I no longer have a personal stake in the well-being of this country. It's not going to get any better bro, it's only going to get worst. It is time to free yourself from all of it. It's time to be reborn. It's not where you go (path), it's how you get there (goal).

Seriously, I'm counting down the days until I graduate and GTFO of this country. Like you, I'm studying Engineering right now, but it doesn't matter to me if I never get an engineering job and even take a hit in standard of living overseas, as long as I'm doing okay. Since you're attracted to white women, why not do what AmericanInMexico does a carve yourself a niche by being the only Asian guy in Mexico dating white mexican ladies lol. Get out there as soon as you can. Make mistakes. Have fun. Never again brood in hatred.
Lol. I already have a don't give a f**k attitude. Because if I can get a good girl, GREAT! If I cannot get a good girl, well that saves time, money, and effort in wooing her and will allow me to plan out my own financial future more meticulously.

That's cool with me too. In fact I wouldn't give a shit about most of this if I were rich and were able to afford a maid to help with some of the housework and if they had STD free hoes/escorts.

See the problem is that most people on here are telling me to go to tropical climates. I cannot physically be in tropical climates. I am genetically suited for very cold weather, wet or snowy. I am very resistant to the cold, much more than the average person, such as being able to wear only one layer top to bottom with just a light jacket and be fine when it is 30 degrees F outside.

On the otherhand, I have breathing issues when the temperature gets above 75 degrees F. That's something I'm trying to fix with a surgery but even then I despise hot weather.. especially hot and humid weather. Not to mention that tropical/hot/hot+humid places are breeding grounds for diseases and filth.

If I am leaving this country, it is to go to Siberia or north to Canada or maybe Northern Manchuria. But only Canada is not polluted out of those options... and being in Washington state, British Columbia isn't that different.

Also, it's really a breath of fresh air being back in western washington. People are so much nicer, friendlier, smile more, etc. etc. So glad I got the f**k out of that Idaho hick town.

I'm just hoping that if shit really hits the fan, then Washington decides to do what many people have wanted since its founding, and that is to join British Columbia to form Cascadia or maybe simply secede and join Canada. Canada is way better than the US from what I have heard, for Asian guys at least.
Yeah, Canada is generally better for Asian guys. Perhaps not by that much, but still something. Try Siberia like I suggested before, especially next to the Chinese border. It's unexplored territory for Asian-American guys. There are a considerable amount of Asian men in Siberia already, but they usually keep to themselves and don't mingle with the White Siberian women. Go for it bro.

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Post by Dragon » November 12th, 2012, 7:30 am

zboy1 wrote:Dude, you need to see a psychiatrist because you got a lot of issues. With all that pent-up anger and frustration--you going to turn into Cho Seung Hui (VT shooter).
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_TqGFC4VJk

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Post by Jackal » November 12th, 2012, 7:33 am

Tsar wrote:Would I be correct to assume there wouldn't be much competition in E. Europe compared to America. Would they date a guy who can provide for them, treat them with respect, actually desire a "nice guy"? Wouldn't a 7 or 8 in attractiveness, 22-30 age range, and a good job almost be a perfect recipe for success?
Oh, there is competition because girls in these countries often also like poor, but cool guys from the towns where they grew up, and the genetics are often so good in these countries that the men are as handsome as the women are beautiful. It's not like the women are all goddesses and the men are all toothless, vodka-drinking hobos! lol Stereotypes aren't reality. At least this is my impression of the Czech Republic, Slovakia, Romania, and Hungary. I don't know much about the other ones.

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Post by odbo » November 12th, 2012, 7:43 am

Tsar wrote:It is impossible to gain friends at American colleges. They are clicky and unapproachable.

The girls are uninterested, clicky, bitchy, taken, slutty, or unattractive.

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Post by Dragon » November 12th, 2012, 8:03 am

odbo wrote:
Tsar wrote:It is impossible to gain friends at American colleges. They are clicky and unapproachable.

The girls are uninterested, clicky, bitchy, taken, slutty, or unattractive.
Lol @ 3:28

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