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Do you feel an empty depressing meaningless vibe in America?

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Post by Paloaltoguy » July 10th, 2014, 10:21 pm

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loops77 wrote:
I've never had a ONS in America, unless it was with hoes. You say it's doable, but I've yet to experience it even once.

If I fail 10,000 times, you can't expect me to be enthusiastic about trying for the 10,001th time. Be realistic.

Like I said, in America, every girl claims to have a boyfriend or makes excuses. You can't get a date or sex just by asking for it. What's the solution? I've been asking this since 1992. No one has any real answers. It's a no-win situation.
I'm confused by the first sentence. Have you had a ONS or not? You can't expect a woman looking for a committed relationship to be willing to have a ONS with any guy that is interested in it.

Tip: Women say that they have a boyfriend because 1. They do actually have a boyfriend and value them or 2. They are not interested in you for whatever reason. (mostly they are not the ONS type or they are just not attracted to you). Would you rather she be a bitch about not wanting you?

Since you have been asking since 1992 and haven't run into any luck, I suggest you try to get in the pants of 10 women. If they all reject you, ask them for a brutally honest reason about why they are not interested in you. Take notes and you will have your answers.
What are you confused about? When I say ONS, I mean the stereotypical thing where you take a girl home from a bar or nightclub and have sex and wake up together in bed the next morning. It happens a lot on TV. But it's not easy to get in real life at all. What's funny is that people who have ONS from bars and clubs usually wake up in bed with the woman without being in any kind of cuddling position. lol

We all know why women say they have a bf. It's common knowledge around here. Not a tip.

Yes I've asked many women who rejected me as to why. They all said it was either because they had a boyfriend, or that I wasn't their type, or that they weren't looking for a relationship right now, or that "because I just like you as a friend". We've all heard those rejection lines before. They don't tell you much.
Maverick wrote: Dude, maybe there's just something about you that's off-putting to women here. I don't know because I don't know you. But I've noticed that any guy that can't get laid at all in the US either doesn't talk to women at all, has confidence issues, or has something seriously wrong with them internally (personality disorder, mental disorder, extremely negative attitude, etc).
Dude, what are you smoking? Just because a guy doesn't get any ONS doesn't mean he must have personality defects. That presupposes that any normal guy can get ONS in the US. We all know it isn't that easy. Only in the movies it is. Are you being honest or are you another BSer?

More than half the American guys I know BS.

I've had girlfriends in the US, yeah. I never said I didn't. I said I never had the experience where a girls from a bar or club goes home with me and sleeps with me and wakes up with me the next day. I don't do well in clubs. I can't dance and those type of girls don't like me. The type of girls that like me are the ones that are down to earth, have a good heart, and see good qualities in me. The shallow girls in clubs never go for me. Clubs is all about looks and dancing ability.

In your list of personality defects, you forget the MOST LIKELY and MOST COMMON reason why a guy can't get laid in the US:

He is not attractive to the women he likes. He is not "her type" in other words.

It's not due to personality defects. Why are you dishing out PUA talk?

Everyone has personality flaws sure. But I've always been a good talker and relate to women well, when they are somewhat down to earth and friendly that is. I relate to women better than most guys do.

Why do you think a number of women have told me, "Winston, I feel like I can talk to you about anything. It's like you're my best girlfriend." I wasn't sure how to take that though. But it seemed like they were saying that I seemed like a girl in a man's body. Girls have told me that I'm a good talker too. When I vibe with someone and am in conversation with them, I'm very good at talking to them. I know what girls want to hear and I know how to cheer girls up too.

I'm not the type of guy who is given a chance and then says something stupid and screws everything up. Come on now. That only happens in comedy movies and sitcoms. I'm not the type of guy who shoots myself in the foot.

The problem is that I'm not sexually attractive to AW, and white women in general. That's been established here long ago. And that's the obvious problem here. How can you miss that dude? Are you full of PUA shit or something? lol (no offense)

A chick may connect with you very well. She may even have a lot in common with you. But if she's not physically attracted to you, and does not feel "the energy" with you, then you aren't her type and she will friend zone you and your sexual desires will not be validated or fulfilled.

At that point, the only way you can get laid is to pay an escort at $200 an hour, and take some risk, or get out of America.

Anyway, it doesn't matter how skillful you are in communication or how articulate you are. If an AW doesn't click with you, she will put out negative vibes or rejection. You will see a look of disgust on her face. To them, it's all or nothing. AW do not enjoy connecting with men just for the sake of connecting with others. If they don't dig you, nothing you say or do matters. You can do all the right things and say all the right things, but if it's the wrong person, then it's all futile. Women are not like machines that you can use formulas or techniques to make them like you. Any guy who thinks they are has no real life experience with women. Either that, or he's trying to sell you something, like PUA garbageing.
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Post by jamesbond » September 29th, 2014, 10:35 am

Winston wrote:Isn't it crazy how, even though America has a depressing, soulless, empty vibe, yet you are still required to pretend to be positive about everything? If that isn't a "forced facade" then I don't know what is.

So sad isn't it? It's like a Twilight Zone too. No wonder why Americans have a split psychosis between reality and the fake facade they project.
In America, you are always supposed to have a "positive attitude" no matter what is going on in your life. People ask you "how are you today?" and you are always supposed to say "just fine, thank you." :roll:
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Post by Winston » October 13th, 2014, 7:12 pm

Do any of you experience the following in America too?

Whenever you go out and do anything, whether it's going to work, going shopping or doing an errand, there is this feeling that everything is POINTLESS and MEANINGLESS. Even driving into a parking lot at Walmart or Walgreen and dragging your feet to the entrance, feels empty and meaningless too. It's like there's no point to anything you do there. It feels like you're just going through the motions with no point or purpose. Everything feels so meaningless, including the smallest errand.

Do any of you feel that way too? It's so sad isn't it?

If so, I would surmise it's because America offers nothing except consumerism. You are supposed to live for consumerism in America. It's supposed to be your main joy and purpose in life. If it's not, then you don't fit in and you have no business being in America. You are totally out of place.

With most of us, our passion is picking up girls and dating them. But America doesn't provide that. It's the worst place for that because girls are stuck up, unapproachable, and unfriendly. Wanting to pick them up is considered taboo and creepy.

Thus our needs and desires are INVALIDATED in America. We are NOT ALLOWED to pursue what we want. That's why we feel like there's no point to anything in America. We don't live for consumerism, as America expects us to. So we have no place there. We can't be ourselves or pursue what we want either, so we are totally invalidated as well.

Thus everything in America feels empty, pointless and meaningless to us. We drag our feet around in America even though our heart is not in it.

It's like you're not truly living and not even alive. Pretty sad huh?
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Post by Franco » October 13th, 2014, 7:22 pm

Winston wrote:Do any of you experience the following in America too?

Whenever you go out and do anything, whether it's going to work, going shopping or doing an errand, there is this feeling that everything is POINTLESS and MEANINGLESS. Even driving into a parking lot at Walmart or Walgreen and dragging your feet to the entrance, feels empty and meaningless too. It's like there's no point to anything you do there. It feels like you're just going through the motions with no point or purpose. Everything feels so meaningless, including the smallest errand.

Do any of you feel that way too? It's so sad isn't it?

If so, I would surmise it's because America offers nothing except consumerism. You are supposed to live for consumerism in America. It's supposed to be your main joy and purpose in life. If it's not, then you don't fit in and you have no business being in America. You are totally out of place.

With most of us, our passion is picking up girls and dating them. But America doesn't provide that. It's the worst place for that because girls are stuck up, unapproachable, and unfriendly. Wanting to pick them up is considered taboo and creepy.

Thus our needs and desires are INVALIDATED in America. We are NOT ALLOWED to pursue what we want. That's why we feel like there's no point to anything in America. We don't live for consumerism, as America expects us to. So we have no place there. We can't be ourselves or pursue what we want either, so we are totally invalidated as well.

Thus everything in America feels empty, pointless and meaningless to us. We drag our feet around in America even though our heart is not in it.

It's like you're not truly living and not even alive. Pretty sad huh?
Then just use USA as a money-making machine and then live in PI or Europe or whatever country you like as social paradise. Work, save money, and then retire in the Phils like a king. Use American money as a bankroll to finance trips and living arrangements in other countries. It's simple formula. If USA is so depressing and lonely as you say, then just use the pros of what America is good for and then make an exit plan to live abroad.

In the Philippines, we may not have much, but we got friends that are like family. We have each other. Everyone is smiling and good spirits because money is paper but life is beautiful.
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Post by E Irizarry R&B Singer » October 13th, 2014, 7:27 pm

Winston wrote:Do any of you experience the following in America too?

Whenever you go out and do anything, whether it's going to work, going shopping or doing an errand, there is this feeling that everything is POINTLESS and MEANINGLESS. Even driving into a parking lot at Walmart or Walgreen and dragging your feet to the entrance, feels empty and meaningless too. It's like there's no point to anything you do there. It feels like you're just going through the motions with no point or purpose. Everything feels so meaningless, including the smallest errand.

Do any of you feel that way too? It's so sad isn't it?

If so, I would surmise it's because America offers nothing except consumerism. You are supposed to live for consumerism in America. It's supposed to be your main joy and purpose in life. If it's not, then you don't fit in and you have no business being in America. You are totally out of place.

With most of us, our passion is picking up girls and dating them. But America doesn't provide that. It's the worst place for that because girls are stuck up, unapproachable, and unfriendly. Wanting to pick them up is considered taboo and creepy.

Thus our needs and desires are INVALIDATED in America. We are NOT ALLOWED to pursue what we want. That's why we feel like there's no point to anything in America. We don't live for consumerism, as America expects us to. So we have no place there. We can't be ourselves or pursue what we want either, so we are totally invalidated as well.

Thus everything in America feels empty, pointless and meaningless to us. We drag our feet around in America even though our heart is not in it.

It's like you're not truly living and not even alive. Pretty sad huh?
I can relate. That's why I don't bathe everyday when I work from home weeks at a time. I hardly shave; I hardly do laundry if I'm in a "p.ussy drought" i.e. haven't had women come over in weeks due to what's mentioned in the thread's first post. Ironically, I have been having a lot of that lately here in Okla. I'm fu.cking disgusting when in the U.S. of Gay. Abroad....Nooooooooooo way. It's a 180 to the core! Flossing throughout the day, brushing two to three times a day, showering at least twice a day (and that's excluding after having sex that day - which - taking a shower is compulsory!!! :shock:), ironing my clothes, washing them every other day no matter how tired I am. I don't play that bad hygiene game abroad; it doesn't fly well with most FW unless they are nasty themselves which is a way-smaller percentage than how bad body hygiene is on most American women.

Guys, I will never forget this quote by an Arabic man. I was in his halal bodega (grocery corner store in NYC), and he told me, "How do you mess around with American women? They don't even have a showerhead nozzle so they can shoot pressurized water into their p.ussy and a.ss to clean it!! That's why when I first moved here to NY, I made sure the owner had installed a showerhead nozzle for me and my family because we don't do without one when we lived in United Arab Emirates!"
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Post by E Irizarry R&B Singer » October 13th, 2014, 7:38 pm

Franco wrote:
Winston wrote:Do any of you experience the following in America too?

Whenever you go out and do anything, whether it's going to work, going shopping or doing an errand, there is this feeling that everything is POINTLESS and MEANINGLESS. Even driving into a parking lot at Walmart or Walgreen and dragging your feet to the entrance, feels empty and meaningless too. It's like there's no point to anything you do there. It feels like you're just going through the motions with no point or purpose. Everything feels so meaningless, including the smallest errand.

Do any of you feel that way too? It's so sad isn't it?

If so, I would surmise it's because America offers nothing except consumerism. You are supposed to live for consumerism in America. It's supposed to be your main joy and purpose in life. If it's not, then you don't fit in and you have no business being in America. You are totally out of place.

With most of us, our passion is picking up girls and dating them. But America doesn't provide that. It's the worst place for that because girls are stuck up, unapproachable, and unfriendly. Wanting to pick them up is considered taboo and creepy.

Thus our needs and desires are INVALIDATED in America. We are NOT ALLOWED to pursue what we want. That's why we feel like there's no point to anything in America. We don't live for consumerism, as America expects us to. So we have no place there. We can't be ourselves or pursue what we want either, so we are totally invalidated as well.

Thus everything in America feels empty, pointless and meaningless to us. We drag our feet around in America even though our heart is not in it.

It's like you're not truly living and not even alive. Pretty sad huh?
Then just use USA as a money-making machine and then live in PI or Europe or whatever country you like as social paradise. Work, save money, and then retire in the Phils like a king. Use American money as a bankroll to finance trips and living arrangements in other countries. It's simple formula. If USA is so depressing and lonely as you say, then just use the pros of what America is good for and then make an exit plan to live abroad.

In the Philippines, we may not have much, but we got friends that are like family. We have each other. Everyone is smiling and good spirits because money is paper but life is beautiful.
Then there are Pinoys whom go to Canada or the US of Gay and end up with sick, "socio-pathetic" attitudes in N. America. I have met one Canadianized Filipina in Toronto, and although we met in person three times over several years, she'd never want to spend time with me in private..it was always a public place. She just pulled me on a string for what??? In the Phiilippines, she and I would have had a relationship and/or some sex by now.

Can you explain why sweet Fiiipinas become Americanized or Canadianized piece's of s.hit when they hit N. America?? I know the answer, but I want your answer, too.
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Post by Ghost » October 14th, 2014, 6:59 am

Winston wrote:Do any of you experience the following in America too?

Whenever you go out and do anything, whether it's going to work, going shopping or doing an errand, there is this feeling that everything is POINTLESS and MEANINGLESS. Even driving into a parking lot at Walmart or Walgreen and dragging your feet to the entrance, feels empty and meaningless too. It's like there's no point to anything you do there. It feels like you're just going through the motions with no point or purpose. Everything feels so meaningless, including the smallest errand.

Do any of you feel that way too? It's so sad isn't it?

If so, I would surmise it's because America offers nothing except consumerism. You are supposed to live for consumerism in America. It's supposed to be your main joy and purpose in life. If it's not, then you don't fit in and you have no business being in America. You are totally out of place.

With most of us, our passion is picking up girls and dating them. But America doesn't provide that. It's the worst place for that because girls are stuck up, unapproachable, and unfriendly. Wanting to pick them up is considered taboo and creepy.

Thus our needs and desires are INVALIDATED in America. We are NOT ALLOWED to pursue what we want. That's why we feel like there's no point to anything in America. We don't live for consumerism, as America expects us to. So we have no place there. We can't be ourselves or pursue what we want either, so we are totally invalidated as well.

Thus everything in America feels empty, pointless and meaningless to us. We drag our feet around in America even though our heart is not in it.

It's like you're not truly living and not even alive. Pretty sad huh?
You've hit on something big here, Winston. The physical infrastructure in America is just as spirit-killing as the "spiritual infrastructure," so to speak. The way houses, stores, work places, and others are constructed numb the soul, dim the spirit, and make everything feel disconnected and...I don't know how to describe it. That is how powerful the effect is. When I would go into a shop in China or the Philippines, it felt like it was more integrated into life. Sure, you walk in, you walk out, but it felt more normal. The physical structure of it felt like it belonged with the rest of the infrastructure - streets, buildings, etc.

In America, life is a series of boxes. (No, I'm not plugging the novel in my signature...) You go from one box to the next. Schools are boxes. Houses are boxes. Churches are boxes. Grocery Stores are boxes. Cars are boxes. Everything is clunky, disjointed, and so everything feels disconnected from everything else instead of fluid as it should be. It's so hard to describe that I don't think words are adequate. It needs to be seen and perceived personally. I've tried to explain to others how life abroad can change you, make you see life more as it is meant to be lived. But words are not enough for this task.
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Post by Franco » October 14th, 2014, 12:51 pm

E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:
Franco wrote:
Winston wrote:Do any of you experience the following in America too?

Whenever you go out and do anything, whether it's going to work, going shopping or doing an errand, there is this feeling that everything is POINTLESS and MEANINGLESS. Even driving into a parking lot at Walmart or Walgreen and dragging your feet to the entrance, feels empty and meaningless too. It's like there's no point to anything you do there. It feels like you're just going through the motions with no point or purpose. Everything feels so meaningless, including the smallest errand.

Do any of you feel that way too? It's so sad isn't it?

If so, I would surmise it's because America offers nothing except consumerism. You are supposed to live for consumerism in America. It's supposed to be your main joy and purpose in life. If it's not, then you don't fit in and you have no business being in America. You are totally out of place.

With most of us, our passion is picking up girls and dating them. But America doesn't provide that. It's the worst place for that because girls are stuck up, unapproachable, and unfriendly. Wanting to pick them up is considered taboo and creepy.

Thus our needs and desires are INVALIDATED in America. We are NOT ALLOWED to pursue what we want. That's why we feel like there's no point to anything in America. We don't live for consumerism, as America expects us to. So we have no place there. We can't be ourselves or pursue what we want either, so we are totally invalidated as well.

Thus everything in America feels empty, pointless and meaningless to us. We drag our feet around in America even though our heart is not in it.

It's like you're not truly living and not even alive. Pretty sad huh?
Then just use USA as a money-making machine and then live in PI or Europe or whatever country you like as social paradise. Work, save money, and then retire in the Phils like a king. Use American money as a bankroll to finance trips and living arrangements in other countries. It's simple formula. If USA is so depressing and lonely as you say, then just use the pros of what America is good for and then make an exit plan to live abroad.

In the Philippines, we may not have much, but we got friends that are like family. We have each other. Everyone is smiling and good spirits because money is paper but life is beautiful.
Then there are Pinoys whom go to Canada or the US of Gay and end up with sick, "socio-pathetic" attitudes in N. America. I have met one Canadianized Filipina in Toronto, and although we met in person three times over several years, she'd never want to spend time with me in private..it was always a public place. She just pulled me on a string for what??? In the Phiilippines, she and I would have had a relationship and/or some sex by now.

Can you explain why sweet Fiiipinas become Americanized or Canadianized piece's of s.hit when they hit N. America?? I know the answer, but I want your answer, too.
Filipinas become corrupted by money and materialism once they get too comfortable in the States. They get a taste of the "good" life and start making their own money - they start obsessing over FICO scores. LOL. Western media starts brainwashing them immediately - Filipinos are very passive people and usually accept whatevers given to them whether it be capitalism, Christianity, or white cockss. But they start filling the emptiness in their souls with shopping and buying useless garbage while forever obsessing over their credit score. The Almighty FICO Score! Don't miss a payment! Ahhhh!!!!

Come to the islands where they still have their innocence and not stripped away by greed and American consumerism. Cebu! Cebu! Cebu!

To address Ghost's point: I never felt lonely in the PI - random people would come up to me and we'd be instant friends. I can walk up to any girl I was attracted to and get a date and fuckk her so fast it was all natural. PI is truly Bizarro world to those who have never experienced such free-flowing conditions. The Box in America is the soulless demise of Western civilization imploding on itself for having no real culture.
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Post by E Irizarry R&B Singer » October 14th, 2014, 1:00 pm

Franco wrote:
E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:
Franco wrote:
Winston wrote:Do any of you experience the following in America too?

Whenever you go out and do anything, whether it's going to work, going shopping or doing an errand, there is this feeling that everything is POINTLESS and MEANINGLESS. Even driving into a parking lot at Walmart or Walgreen and dragging your feet to the entrance, feels empty and meaningless too. It's like there's no point to anything you do there. It feels like you're just going through the motions with no point or purpose. Everything feels so meaningless, including the smallest errand.

Do any of you feel that way too? It's so sad isn't it?

If so, I would surmise it's because America offers nothing except consumerism. You are supposed to live for consumerism in America. It's supposed to be your main joy and purpose in life. If it's not, then you don't fit in and you have no business being in America. You are totally out of place.

With most of us, our passion is picking up girls and dating them. But America doesn't provide that. It's the worst place for that because girls are stuck up, unapproachable, and unfriendly. Wanting to pick them up is considered taboo and creepy.

Thus our needs and desires are INVALIDATED in America. We are NOT ALLOWED to pursue what we want. That's why we feel like there's no point to anything in America. We don't live for consumerism, as America expects us to. So we have no place there. We can't be ourselves or pursue what we want either, so we are totally invalidated as well.

Thus everything in America feels empty, pointless and meaningless to us. We drag our feet around in America even though our heart is not in it.

It's like you're not truly living and not even alive. Pretty sad huh?
Then just use USA as a money-making machine and then live in PI or Europe or whatever country you like as social paradise. Work, save money, and then retire in the Phils like a king. Use American money as a bankroll to finance trips and living arrangements in other countries. It's simple formula. If USA is so depressing and lonely as you say, then just use the pros of what America is good for and then make an exit plan to live abroad.

In the Philippines, we may not have much, but we got friends that are like family. We have each other. Everyone is smiling and good spirits because money is paper but life is beautiful.
Then there are Pinoys whom go to Canada or the US of Gay and end up with sick, "socio-pathetic" attitudes in N. America. I have met one Canadianized Filipina in Toronto, and although we met in person three times over several years, she'd never want to spend time with me in private..it was always a public place. She just pulled me on a string for what??? In the Phiilippines, she and I would have had a relationship and/or some sex by now.

Can you explain why sweet Fiiipinas become Americanized or Canadianized piece's of s.hit when they hit N. America?? I know the answer, but I want your answer, too.
Filipinas become corrupted by money and materialism once they get too comfortable in the States. They get a taste of the "good" life and start making their own money - they start obsessing over FICO scores. LOL. Western media starts brainwashing them immediately - Filipinos are very passive people and usually accept whatevers given to them whether it be capitalism, Christianity, or white cockss. But they start filling the emptiness in their souls with shopping and buying useless garbage while forever obsessing over their credit score. The Almighty FICO Score! Don't miss a payment! Ahhhh!!!!

Come to the islands where they still have their innocence and not stripped away by greed and American consumerism. Cebu! Cebu! Cebu!

To address Ghost's point: I never felt lonely in the PI - random people would come up to me and we'd be instant friends. I can walk up to any girl I was attracted to and get a date and fuckk her so fast it was all natural. PI is truly Bizarro world to those who have never experienced such free-flowing conditions. The Box in America is the soulless demise of Western civilization imploding on itself for having no real culture.
Thanks. I like this post. :-) It's pretty ironic that every Filipina I've met in the U.S. of Gay or Canada always touts that they are from Luzon or more specfic part of Luzon: Metro-Manila or more specific than that: Makati! or Cevite! LOL I never liked Metro-Manila. I'm not really fond of Luzon except for Angeles City, and I heard it changed alot there, but maybe it's coming back into full w.horedom swing like it's mid-2000s days. Who knows, cuya??
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Post by TheTeacherWhoHatesLies » October 14th, 2014, 3:22 pm

Winston wrote: With most of us, our passion is picking up girls and dating them. But America doesn't provide that.
Winston, are you serious? You just went through this whole big-concept criticism of American culture, and your big gripe is that you can't date their women?

Since your whole experience overseas seems to be restricted to bar girls and pr0stitutes, I'll clue in you on something: pick up and date enough girls, and pretty soon, it'll be exactly like those errands where you're just going through the motions with no point or purpose. Say you're in Asia or Latin America, and you've got money to burn. Imagine yourself having to drag your feet to dress up and go to the mall to pick up yet more pretty girls (it's a numbers game, after all), and run some bullshit line to try to get a date with them. You've now collected a whole bunch of phone numbers you don't know what to do with, and you even don't bother calling most of them because it's tiresome and boring. Pretty soon, you'll find yourself waking up every morning in your hotel room or apartment, feeling listless and not feeling like getting out of bed. Yeah, vacations can get boring real fast.

Sure, American women suck, and they're a good reason for any decent man to flee the country. But scoring a date with them as some kind of antidote to depressing, meaningless consumerism? Please.

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Post by Winston » October 14th, 2014, 8:02 pm

TheTeacherWhoHatesLies wrote:
Winston wrote: With most of us, our passion is picking up girls and dating them. But America doesn't provide that.
Winston, are you serious? You just went through this whole big-concept criticism of American culture, and your big gripe is that you can't date their women?

Since your whole experience overseas seems to be restricted to bar girls and pr0stitutes, I'll clue in you on something: pick up and date enough girls, and pretty soon, it'll be exactly like those errands where you're just going through the motions with no point or purpose. Say you're in Asia or Latin America, and you've got money to burn. Imagine yourself having to drag your feet to dress up and go to the mall to pick up yet more pretty girls (it's a numbers game, after all), and run some bullshit line to try to get a date with them. You've now collected a whole bunch of phone numbers you don't know what to do with, and you even don't bother calling most of them because it's tiresome and boring. Pretty soon, you'll find yourself waking up every morning in your hotel room or apartment, feeling listless and not feeling like getting out of bed. Yeah, vacations can get boring real fast.

Sure, American women suck, and they're a good reason for any decent man to flee the country. But scoring a date with them as some kind of antidote to depressing, meaningless consumerism? Please.
You are giving away that you're a woman again. Only a woman would say "please" in such a condescending manner and tone. Look I know that you're trying to pretend to be a man because you are afraid you will be banned if you admit that you are a woman. But FYI, we do not ban members here just for being women.

It is not true that all my overseas experience has been with bar girls and prostitutes. I dated many regular girls too. You can see my photo collage, photojournals and journals.

http://www.happierabroad.com/Photojournals.htm

Yes everything in life can get old. What do you expect? But it's better to be free, happy, wanted and be around nice sweet feminine women than around mean spirited bitches. No one can argue with that. I've experienced having too many dates before when I was in Russia. I don't think it gets old as long as you're meeting people, having fun, new experiences, and growing as a person. At least you're getting out and doing stuff, which makes you more active and live. Not just sitting at home isolated with nothing to do like in America. If you look at my photos abroad, I definitely look happier than in America.
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Post by Winston » October 14th, 2014, 8:10 pm

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E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote: Then there are Pinoys whom go to Canada or the US of Gay and end up with sick, "socio-pathetic" attitudes in N. America. I have met one Canadianized Filipina in Toronto, and although we met in person three times over several years, she'd never want to spend time with me in private..it was always a public place. She just pulled me on a string for what??? In the Phiilippines, she and I would have had a relationship and/or some sex by now.

Can you explain why sweet Fiiipinas become Americanized or Canadianized piece's of s.hit when they hit N. America?? I know the answer, but I want your answer, too.
Filipinas become corrupted by money and materialism once they get too comfortable in the States. They get a taste of the "good" life and start making their own money - they start obsessing over FICO scores. LOL. Western media starts brainwashing them immediately - Filipinos are very passive people and usually accept whatevers given to them whether it be capitalism, Christianity, or white cockss. But they start filling the emptiness in their souls with shopping and buying useless garbage while forever obsessing over their credit score. The Almighty FICO Score! Don't miss a payment! Ahhhh!!!!

Come to the islands where they still have their innocence and not stripped away by greed and American consumerism. Cebu! Cebu! Cebu!

To address Ghost's point: I never felt lonely in the PI - random people would come up to me and we'd be instant friends. I can walk up to any girl I was attracted to and get a date and fuckk her so fast it was all natural. PI is truly Bizarro world to those who have never experienced such free-flowing conditions. The Box in America is the soulless demise of Western civilization imploding on itself for having no real culture.
Yeah I've noticed that too. Filipinos corrupt easily when given money and power. It's weird and sad how that is. They are followers and empty inside.

I think one deep reason is because Filipinos tend to have "infant souls", meaning that their soul is on the "infancy level". This documentary series called "Soul Ages" explains it well. In this part, it goes over the characteristics of the "infant soul" and what parts of the world are on that level. It's chilling accurate and matches Filipinos exactly.

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Post by TheTeacherWhoHatesLies » October 15th, 2014, 9:08 am

Look Winston, I couldn't care less who or what you think I am. If that's your idea of shutting down the opposition, it's pretty lame. Just like your whole idea of "dating" (judging from those AC photos).

And BTW those photos of you with regular girls were taken many years ago in Russia. AFAIK, you have not posted any reports or photos where you pursued NON-pros in the Philippines. Like for example, a report where you dressed up and acted like a classy gentleman, and took a nice, pretty, young filipina virgin on a respectable outing? And afterwards, she liked you and actually viewed you as husband material and wanted to see you again?

Hitting up whores in either AC or Vegas will not make the shitty reality of modern existence go away. Keep searching for the truth Winston -- it's not to be found in "dating" (in your rude sense of the word).

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Post by Franco » October 15th, 2014, 10:58 pm

TheTeacherWhoHatesLies wrote:Look Winston, I couldn't care less who or what you think I am. If that's your idea of shutting down the opposition, it's pretty lame. Just like your whole idea of "dating" (judging from those AC photos).

And BTW those photos of you with regular girls were taken many years ago in Russia. AFAIK, you have not posted any reports or photos where you pursued NON-pros in the Philippines. Like for example, a report where you dressed up and acted like a classy gentleman, and took a nice, pretty, young filipina virgin on a respectable outing? And afterwards, she liked you and actually viewed you as husband material and wanted to see you again?

Hitting up whores in either AC or Vegas will not make the shitty reality of modern existence go away. Keep searching for the truth Winston -- it's not to be found in "dating" (in your rude sense of the word).
Hey man, whores need love too. After you pump n' dump. LOL!!!!!!!
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Post by TheTeacherWhoHatesLies » October 18th, 2014, 12:46 am

Franco wrote:
TheTeacherWhoHatesLies wrote:Look Winston, I couldn't care less who or what you think I am. If that's your idea of shutting down the opposition, it's pretty lame. Just like your whole idea of "dating" (judging from those AC photos).

And BTW those photos of you with regular girls were taken many years ago in Russia. AFAIK, you have not posted any reports or photos where you pursued NON-pros in the Philippines. Like for example, a report where you dressed up and acted like a classy gentleman, and took a nice, pretty, young filipina virgin on a respectable outing? And afterwards, she liked you and actually viewed you as husband material and wanted to see you again?

Hitting up whores in either AC or Vegas will not make the shitty reality of modern existence go away. Keep searching for the truth Winston -- it's not to be found in "dating" (in your rude sense of the word).
Hey man, whores need love too. After you pump n' dump. LOL!!!!!!!
Hey Winston, when you get back to the Philippines, maybe you can hook up with this clown and hit up those whore towns. You did say you're on the same wavelength with him, right?

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