Falcon wrote:Xiongmao, Everdred, and I are all nice guys. We have absolutely no trouble getting dates in Asia. Xiongmao and I were definitely dateless back home; not sure about Everdred, but he's certainly in a happy long-term relatonship with a Chinese lady now.
If thing aren't working out back home, then you might want to take a look at http://www.kayak.com/flights/
I just had a buddy come back from a trip in Asia, and not only did he have the time of his life, but he was juggling around 2-3 different women, and he had so much sex he needed to take breaks! Over here in the States, he goes months without being with women.
As far as Kayak and going overseas. I hear you, but truth be told, it's really only for the privileged few who can not only afford it, but can also take the time off just to be able to go. I'm only in my 30's, but most of the men I know and meet are in their 40's, and either they can't afford it, or they just can't take the time off from work to be able to go.
I have one buddy who lost everything from his cheating x wife. He's living in an apartment now all by himself and he works like a dog just to be able to stay current on his child support payments to keep him out of jail. His x wife is a total B***, and every time he turns around she's asking for more money or taking him back to court.
I really feel for this guy, so next year I'm going to pay for his flight either to Bangkok or Costa Rica. The guy is a good guy and he shouldn't even be going through what he's going through, but unfortunately, he's in the system for the next 10-15 years with no escape unless his x-wife has an "accident".
My point is, it's not realistic for a large percentage of American guys to travel/move overseas. Many people don't even like to fly. Reminds me of the late Patrice Oneal and how he started The Black Phillip Show just before he died to help not only himself, but American men with relationships because he was so moved by the foreign women/p4p he met during his travels in Brazil.
The Black Phillip Show is now the Beige Phillip show: http://beigephillip.com/
Edit: At the end of the day, what I see is that Western men are going to split off into two camps. The first and smaller camp of men who have the extra money, time, and willingness to travel abroad will do so. The second and larger group of guys who stay behind are going to have to get tough, restructure, and learn how to handle a ball busting Western woman. That was the basis to the Black Phillip Show, it was about getting your balls back and learning how to deal with American women.