First off, I don't think it is mature that you make false claims and lies about me if you don't even really know me. You only met me 2 times for like maybe 2-3 hours total and you assume I'm quiet and less outgoing than you? Maybe your personality and my personality don't mesh as well so it appears a different way to you. You are throwing everything way out of proportion. So what if I don't have any major problems in my life...a man can't be happy overall with his life? Just because he's happy, he's in denial? That's ridiculous. Every man must live a life of sadness and misery? Not everyone is unhappy and miserable Winston. I never once said that I don't have vulnerabilities, everything you say here is all made up in your mind. Perhaps some envy? I don't know. It's obvious people all have at least some "problems" in their lives, but small problems come and go. I'm in good health, I have a great girlfriend overseas and we plan on getting married in the near future, I don't have financial problems, I have plenty of friends in Las Vegas, California, and New Jersey from where I was from, I have a great family that I speak to on a daily basis that care a lot about me. Is it a crime to be a happy person overall? My goodness Winston, not everyone lives a life of misery you know.Winston wrote:I just talked to a guy here in Vegas and he told me that he has zero problems in his life in America and zero suffering. He acts like he has no vulnerabilities too. Is that possible? Why do some guys claim this?
Do they have some secret that leads to the cessation of suffering? Something that Buddha missed? lol.
If so, why don't they capitalize on it and sell their secret and make a fortune? lol
Or are they just BSing and in denial? I find it hard to believe that a guy has no problems, and does not suffer. He also says that he experiences no social disconnection in America either. How can that be, since he is quiet and reserved and less outgoing than me? I'm more outgoing and talkative than average yet I can't find any social connection in America. What's wrong with me?
Plus he is afraid to cold approach any girls here, even if you offer him money. In fact, every guy in Vegas bails if you ask him to cold approach girls. The attitude of the girls here is the worst in the US, so it's no surprise. Any guy can claim to make friends easily and get dates easily. But they can't prove it or demonstrate it for some reason. If you ask them to, they always give you an excuse.
I don't understand. Why do some guys make the unrealistic and implausible claim that they have zero problems in life, zero suffering, and zero weaknesses? That's hard to believe. I thought he was genuine and down to earth too. So why make this claim which sounds INHUMAN?
Guys who make such claims do not seem authentic or human. So why do they do it? Why can't they just be honest and real?
And how come I suffer endlessly in comparison? Do some guys just have a thicker skin and are incapable of suffering? Why is he better than me? I don't get it. Is he inhuman or is he in denial?
Or does he live in a totally different universe where his own feelings are in a different dimension than mine?
Buddha said that life is suffering. So how can some guys be exempt? Doesn't everyone suffer? Or are some guys too cool to suffer?
I guess some guys just don't like to open up too much about their inner vulnerabilities, while others, like me, are too open about them and rant endlessly.
Either way, some guys sure do ACT like they don't suffer or have problems. Or they just don't talk about them. Even some guys here on the forum are like that. They never admit to having any problems or experiencing suffering or having any vulnerabilities.
Have you also noticed that most western guys, no matter how honest, will NEVER admit when they have money problems or dating problems?
What do you think? When you meet guys who claim to have zero vulnerabilities, doesn't it make you wonder what's wrong with you?
As for me being scared to cold approach girls? LMAO, you have to be kidding me. If you really knew me and hung out with me on a daily basis, especially when I go to clubs, you would not be saying what you're saying. You send me messages on my phone willing to bet me money that I won't cold approach girls and I simply told you that I have no interest in doing it anymore. I've stopped approaching American women because they are a waste of time. I'm also in a committed relationship and I wouldn't want to do that to her anyway. Why are you so obsessed about me trying to prove silly things to you? I don't like American women and I simply have no desire to speak to them anymore. The moment I started interacting with foreign women, I never once turned back. These are such stupid and ridiculous claims about me.
I NEVER said that I can get dates anytime I want easily. I simply said that I don't have problems getting dates...overall. I never once claimed that I don't get shut down if I try, every guy does. But it's a numbers game and everyone knows it. As for making new friends...well I will tell you that I really don't have problems with that either. Making friends in Las Vegas is very easy, especially if you hang out at night. Maybe it's easier for me than you because we have completely different personalities. As for finding "quality" friends here....ok, well that's obviously harder...and that goes for any state. But to just meet people and become friends is very easy here, at least for me it is.
It's really hilarious how you claim that I assume I'm not human and I'm totally invincible lol. I never said I have no weaknesses. Everybody does. These are all thoughts you create in your mind. You take what I say and completely throw it out of proportion and then you make a thread about me? That's really immature. I don't go around making threads about you based on many of the private messages you send me. What you say to me is private and as a decent man, I respect it and I don't make a public deal about it. On top of that...I don't twist things around like what you're doing.
True happiness in life starts from within the individual. I'm sorry that I'm not the "miserable" person you want me to be. If you asked me 10 years ago, I would tell you otherwise because I was miserable 10 years ago and went through some major problems in life. But as of "today", my life is overall good. Is it without any random small problems? of course not...everyone deals with random small issues, that's life. But "overall" I'm happy with no problems "overall". The fact that you have to create a full blown thread about me really shows how miserable you are. I even have tried to talk to you with some advice many times to help you but this is what I get in return? I suppose it's a sin to be a happy person as a whole.