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America provides NO OUTLET for sexually starving men

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Re: America provides NO OUTLET for sexually starving men

Post by IraqVet2003 » February 12th, 2015, 10:02 pm

This is a very good post and topic. Because America does not provide for healthy outlet for sex ( and increasingly dating/marriage) many men are becoming "sex tourist" and are going to places such as Thailand, The Philippines, Brazil, Mexico, Costa Rica, Columbia, The Netherlands, etc.
While other men are going to these very same spots to find girlfriends and wives in order not to be lonely. Other than pornography (and the Bunny Ranch in Nevada) there is no legal outlet for men in America for unmet sexual needs or desires without them feeling like perverts and creeps. Not to mention the false rape or sexual harassment made by some women against men they don't find attractive when they try to pursue them.

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Re: America provides NO OUTLET for sexually starving men

Post by Kublai Khan » February 18th, 2015, 9:05 am

jamesbond wrote:
Winston wrote:America provides NO OUTLET for sexually starving men. Men have urges, and sex is one of them. But not all men have lovers to satisfy their sexual urges. A normal man cannot just point to any pretty woman he fancies and ask her to have sex with him.

Therefore, some amount of prostitution is necessary in society. Otherwise, sexless men will become frustrated, angry, dissatisfied and invalidated. As a result, they will start doing stupid things such as developing unhealthy addictions (drugs, alcohol, food, video games, etc.). Or they may lose it and going on mass shooting sprees (e.g. as Elliott Rodgers and George Soudini did).

In other countries, societies understand this. That's why in nearly all countries except for America, prostitution is either legal or tolerated. That's because other countries are saner and wiser and understand that prostitution is a "necessary evil". Even Canada and England have legalized prostitution. Canadian cities, for example, have legal brothels (aka "massage parlors") where men can choose from a lineup of girls to have sex with.
Winston, one of the best essays your wrote was called, "The Myth of Sexual Freedom in America."

You hit the nail on the head with this subject. Research has shown that America is the most puritanical country in the world! Almost EVERY country in the WORLD has legalized p4p but in the US, it's still illegal.
That's one of the biggest BS myths they are selling in western countries, that we are 'sexualy liberated' and every person can easlily get laid. Soory but that's a crock of bull !!! And even if you get laid there's all kind of pittfalls along with it (unwanted pregnancy, blackmailing etc).

As for p4p: it's legal where I live and a good temporary solution, but don't make it any better than it is. It's costly and sometimes leaves you very empty and dissatisfied.

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Re: America provides NO OUTLET for sexually starving men

Post by Stag » May 8th, 2015, 10:04 pm

The price of p***y in the west is way overpriced, compared to the wage your average Joe earns.

In the UK, it's usually £70 for 1/2 hour, and £130 for 1 hour! And these are the lower end prices. So again, guys looking for a sexual outlet are being royally screwed by women.

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Re: America provides NO OUTLET for sexually starving men

Post by Jester » May 9th, 2015, 1:34 am

I'm not a big fan of p4p, okay, so I am not "unbiased" here.

But it seems to me that the prices of p4p are HIDEOUSLY inflated in all decent countries/cities, from Tijuana to Yerevan to Berlin. The prices to be with a skank for a half hour are like the cost of being with a wife for 24 hours.

I wonder if legalization and toleration of p4p is not working AGAINST men.

If p4p was illegal, REALLY illegal, you know death penalty and all that -- wouldnt these skanks have to make themselves available to be some guy's regular mistress or gf -- for 1/20 o the price?
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Re: America provides NO OUTLET for sexually starving men

Post by Ghost » May 9th, 2015, 7:58 pm

Jester wrote:I'm not a big fan of p4p, okay, so I am not "unbiased" here.

But it seems to me that the prices of p4p are HIDEOUSLY inflated in all decent countries/cities, from Tijuana to Yerevan to Berlin. The prices to be with a skank for a half hour are like the cost of being with a wife for 24 hours.

I wonder if legalization and toleration of p4p is not working AGAINST men.

If p4p was illegal, REALLY illegal, you know death penalty and all that -- wouldnt these skanks have to make themselves available to be some guy's regular mistress or gf -- for 1/20 o the price?
Why not just legalize it fully and subsidize it, thereby having societies for men, by men, of men, and just put an end to sexual frustration around the globe?

There's really no reason to be against legal p4p.

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Re: America provides NO OUTLET for sexually starving men

Post by momopi » May 11th, 2015, 4:48 am

You only need to look at Cityvibe's main page to realize P4P is avail in almost all major cities in US/Canada. Backpage is also full of escort and massage parlor postings. They're tolerated to a point, the cops know exactly what's going on in there (all the stupid customers posting on the internet). But if local residents/business call to complain then they have to go give a "warning" or a bust.

The quality and service you receive is highly dependent on the relationship you build with the provider or mama-san over time. If you're the impatient pump and dump type, don't expect calls from the mama-san about new pretty girls arriving.

In terms of cost, it's all over the map. It's possible to get FBSM+happy ending from a good provider for under $100, or get ripped off with crappy service for $1,000. That's just the nature of the business. But I'd point to the title of this web site -- instead of spending that much money here, you could use it on a plane ticket and go abroad.

To cite examples, the amount of money that people blow in Japanese hostess bars or Korean booking clubs in LA is often sufficient to buy a plane ticket to Japan or S Korea.

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Re: America provides NO OUTLET for sexually starving men

Post by eurobrat » May 11th, 2015, 11:29 pm

momopi wrote:FBSM+happy ending from a good provider for under $100, or get ripped off with crappy service for $1,000.
Winston :)

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Re: America provides NO OUTLET for sexually starving men

Post by ezinho » May 13th, 2015, 4:37 pm

momopi wrote: It's possible to get FBSM+happy ending from a good provider for under $100.
I'm not sure where everyone lives here, but you can get a good massage plus happy ending here in California for usually $80 bucks total ($40+$40). At a few places the massage fee is even cheaper at $30 or $35. They are Chinese shops, and they usually have pretty nice looking women. I make it a habit to go to one once a week.

Don't get me wrong, America sucks for sex, but if you make even average money you should be able to have a Chinese woman jerk you off at least a couple times a month, lol.

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Re: America provides NO OUTLET for sexually starving men

Post by E Irizarry R&B Singer » May 15th, 2015, 12:31 am

ezinho wrote:
momopi wrote: It's possible to get FBSM+happy ending from a good provider for under $100.
I'm not sure where everyone lives here, but you can get a good massage plus happy ending here in California for usually $80 bucks total ($40+$40). At a few places the massage fee is even cheaper at $30 or $35. They are Chinese shops, and they usually have pretty nice looking women. I make it a habit to go to one once a week.

Don't get me wrong, America sucks for sex, but if you make even average money you should be able to have a Chinese woman jerk you off at least a couple times a month, lol.
In the SF Bay Area, it's more laid-back to get away with that. I don't think Chinese massage parlors are like that in LA metro area and Daygo right?
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Re: America provides NO OUTLET for sexually starving men

Post by ezinho » May 15th, 2015, 5:54 am

E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote: In the SF Bay Area, it's more laid-back to get away with that. I don't think Chinese massage parlors are like that in LA metro area and Daygo right?
Yeah, in the Bay Area and also Sac, some places don't even mention a tip, they just go right to it.

Not sure about LA and SD. SD seems pretty conservative so maybe not, but TJ is so close by, who cares.

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Re: America provides NO OUTLET for sexually starving men

Post by jamesbond » May 31st, 2015, 6:01 am

Here is a good video explaining the benefits of legalizing prostitution.

"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"

"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."

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Re: America provides NO OUTLET for sexually starving men

Post by jamesbond » January 24th, 2016, 5:16 pm

Here is Michael Smerconish giving his explanation as to why prostitution should be legal in America.

"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"

"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."

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Re: America provides NO OUTLET for sexually starving men

Post by fschmidt » January 24th, 2016, 5:23 pm

Dream on. America is currently the most purely evil society on earth. Any change in America will only be for the worse.

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Re: America provides NO OUTLET for sexually starving men

Post by Yohan » January 24th, 2016, 6:05 pm

It will not always continue like that, after getting worse, there will be a point where it is getting better again.

I am rather optimistic, so far USA was always able to solve its problems, but it takes a while - such a large country like USA with so many opinions from so many different people is very difficult to manage. We see a similar situation in other large countries too, for example in China, Russia and India.

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Re: America provides NO OUTLET for sexually starving men

Post by GoingAwol » January 26th, 2016, 4:28 am

You make some good points Winston, but it's important to realize that prostitution does not work for all men. Elliot Rodger's father offered to buy him a prostitute and he declined the offer because he wanted a woman to willingly sleep with him. Prostitution may be good for fun, but it doesn't address man's need to have loving connections with women.

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