Winston wrote:Why do women always tell me I'm not their type? Even if they like me at first or dig me in the beginning, they always change their mind and eventually say that. Is there something about my vibe that causes this? Is it cause I lack testosterone or masculinity? Something about me must be subliminally causing women to reject me. What is it?
Perhaps because I'm non-materialistic and live in the realm of imagination and out of touch with the materialistic practical world and don't fit into it, I give off a vibe that subliminally tells women that I am not a good provider?
They can never explain it. Yet they always give me that line that looks don't matter to them and that it's not me but them that's the problem, blah blah.
Why do women always lie and say that looks don't matter when we all know they do? Is there some mass collusion among women to always speak that lie? Most women I know, even in Asia, say that looks don't matter to them. But men are more honest and will admit that looks do matter in attraction. Yet the western media makes it appear that men lie more than women do. Go figure.
Also why does every guy, including my friends, claim that they never get dumped and that they do all the dumping or that their breakup was mutual? Why do all guys say that? If that's true then that means I'm the only one that gets dumped? Yeah right.
To be honest, I wouldn't take anything out of anyone's mouth seriously, most especially not a woman who's dumping you. They can lie like anyone else to hide the truth. Remember also for some people it is fun to lie, like it's their own personal inside joke.
I think it is very unlikely that you are getting the truly good women. It is very likely that you are getting the women who are similar to someone who is a female monger type. That is, certain woman pretend they want a relationship just to get what they want. And just like men, they have the urge to move on, to get a new one.
Then maybe they'll give you a one-liner or a platitude or common saying. That doesn't mean it's the real reason, even if it is true.
And sometimes people are just looking for a convenient excuse to dump you. They have the intention to dump you all along, but then they find a semi-tangible reason, no matter how flimsy, and then, wham. They claim that is the reason they're dumping you when really it truly is whatever they already planned to do.