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Mexican man tells me dating scene in Mexico is like the U.S.

Post by MattHanson1990 » August 23rd, 2015, 10:12 pm

Last night I was talking with one of my male friends in Ciudad Juarez about the dating scene in Mexico and the U.S. and he told me that in Mexico, the dating scene is exactly like it is in America :( . He told me that in Mexico the dating scene favors women because the hot women get hit on all the time. He mentioned that he himself was on a dry spell that lasted more than a year before he started dating his current girlfriend. Other things he told me was that Nicia (the woman who owns the hostel in CJ) has exactly the same high standards that American women have - only going for really hot guys with a lot of money and a LONG list of demands. Her sister I heard had one boyfriend after the other and was never single - typical pattern of American women. And I was told that feminism was stronger in Monterrey, Guadalajara, Puebla, and Mexico City than it is in Juarez. How can central Mexico be more Americanized than the border towns? From what people here in HA have said, the deeper one goes into Mexico, the even less American influence there is. I can see why it's harder to date in border towns than when you go further south. And I even read on the Roosh V forum that Ciudad Juarez has the sluttiest girls in Mexico.

For those of you who are immigrants from Mexico, have any of you been totally shut out of the dating scene and going on multi-year dry spells both in Mexico AND the U.S.?

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Re: Mexican man tells me dating scene in Mexico is like the

Post by BlackKnight » August 24th, 2015, 2:28 am

God you're soo stupid. It isn't culture you fool, it's evolutionary psychology.

Educate yourself you clown



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Re: Mexican man tells me dating scene in Mexico is like the

Post by AW Warning » August 24th, 2015, 4:45 am

MattHanson1990 wrote:Last night I was talking with one of my male friends in Ciudad Juarez about the dating scene in Mexico and the U.S. and he told me that in Mexico, the dating scene is exactly like it is in America :( . He told me that in Mexico the dating scene favors women because the hot women get hit on all the time. He mentioned that he himself was on a dry spell that lasted more than a year before he started dating his current girlfriend. Other things he told me was that Nicia (the woman who owns the hostel in CJ) has exactly the same high standards that American women have - only going for really hot guys with a lot of money and a LONG list of demands. Her sister I heard had one boyfriend after the other and was never single - typical pattern of American women. And I was told that feminism was stronger in Monterrey, Guadalajara, Puebla, and Mexico City than it is in Juarez. How can central Mexico be more Americanized than the border towns? From what people here in HA have said, the deeper one goes into Mexico, the even less American influence there is. I can see why it's harder to date in border towns than when you go further south. And I even read on the Roosh V forum that Ciudad Juarez has the sluttiest girls in Mexico.

For those of you who are immigrants from Mexico, have any of you been totally shut out of the dating scene and going on multi-year dry spells both in Mexico AND the U.S.?
The dating scene is very likely like that everywhere between 30 degrees West Longitude and the International Date Line.

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Post by Johnny1975 » August 24th, 2015, 8:11 am

BlackKnight wrote:God you're soo stupid. It isn't culture you fool, it's evolutionary psychology.

Educate yourself you clown



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Post by Ghost » August 26th, 2015, 8:37 am

The hottest women get hit on the most everywhere. That's just how it is. That doesn't mean feminism. That means men prefer hotter women.

I doubt the dating scene is really worse than the U.S. That would be quite impressive. What else did he say about why he thinks it's the same as the U.S.?
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Post by traveller » August 26th, 2015, 4:56 pm

Ghost wrote:The hottest women get hit on the most everywhere. That's just how it is. That doesn't mean feminism. That means men prefer hotter women.

I doubt the dating scene is really worse than the U.S. That would be quite impressive. What else did he say about why he thinks it's the same as the U.S.?
Another way obesity really hurts the world! Like, when are women going to get it? When a woman becomes overweight/obese, she will naturally forfeit the company of guys that are attracted to her, as well as the possibility of getting a man.

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Post by MattHanson1990 » August 26th, 2015, 11:54 pm

Ghost wrote:The hottest women get hit on the most everywhere. That's just how it is. That doesn't mean feminism. That means men prefer hotter women.

I doubt the dating scene is really worse than the U.S. That would be quite impressive. What else did he say about why he thinks it's the same as the U.S.?
He did mention about meeting people on the streets being a taboo and that it should come "naturally" (e.g. through mutual friends). He also said it was creepy to tell a girl she's beautiful/pretty unless you know her already. Is there really a shortage of hot girls in every country in the world? Is there also a shortage of the hottest guys all over the world? As far as obesity in Mexico, there are more overweight/obese people in the border towns than when you go deep into the country. I was told that Guadalajara has plenty of 6s and 7s who are worth dating material.

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Post by Gadfly » August 27th, 2015, 12:24 am

traveller wrote: Another way obesity really hurts the world! Like, when are women going to get it? When a woman becomes overweight/obese, she will naturally forfeit the company of guys that are attracted to her, as well as the possibility of getting a man.
That type of thinking is too rational for women.

Women get fat because -- absent strong, righteous men telling them to shape up or else -- they're stupid and have poor self-control.

You're expecting far more from women than they're capable of. Women are going to "get it" when the males in America start acting like men, and give women a choice to either slim down, or get kicked to the curb.

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Post by MattHanson1990 » August 27th, 2015, 12:28 am

AW Warning wrote:The dating scene is very likely like that everywhere between 30 degrees West Longitude and the International Date Line.
Which countries in Latin America have you gone to? I'm hearing from other HAers that in Latin America (including Mexico), the dating scene is NOWHERE near like it is in the US. Even though Mexico is next door, its dating scene is still a man's market, especially if you avoid the resort areas and the border towns. Those places get a lot of foreigners, and the locals don't take foreigners very seriously. Cancun I was told was no different than any American city. So the dating scene in Mexico should be like night and day from the U.S. if you go further south in places like Durango, Guadalajara, Culiacan, Veracruz, Michoacán. I'm also considering going to Colombia and the Dominican Republic.

Countries where the dating scene is MOST like that of the U.S. would be Western Europe (especially the UK), Australia, and Northeast Asia (Taiwan in particular).

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Post by traveller » August 27th, 2015, 9:01 pm

Gadfly wrote:
traveller wrote: Another way obesity really hurts the world! Like, when are women going to get it? When a woman becomes overweight/obese, she will naturally forfeit the company of guys that are attracted to her, as well as the possibility of getting a man.
That type of thinking is too rational for women.

Women get fat because -- absent strong, righteous men telling them to shape up or else -- they're stupid and have poor self-control.

You're expecting far more from women than they're capable of. Women are going to "get it" when the males in America start acting like men, and give women a choice to either slim down, or get kicked to the curb.
Sloth + Gluttony = Obesity.

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Post by Gadfly » August 27th, 2015, 9:19 pm

traveller wrote:
Gadfly wrote:
traveller wrote: Another way obesity really hurts the world! Like, when are women going to get it? When a woman becomes overweight/obese, she will naturally forfeit the company of guys that are attracted to her, as well as the possibility of getting a man.
That type of thinking is too rational for women.

Women get fat because -- absent strong, righteous men telling them to shape up or else -- they're stupid and have poor self-control.

You're expecting far more from women than they're capable of. Women are going to "get it" when the males in America start acting like men, and give women a choice to either slim down, or get kicked to the curb.
Sloth + Gluttony = Obesity.
Which doesn't excuse the men from shirking their duties as men, and demanding that their women clean up their act, and start getting pretty for their men.

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