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Re: Why people get offended when you describe the type of wo

Post by Adama » October 8th, 2017, 2:45 pm

Any woman who pulls that is demonstrating that she is likely to be a corrupt person. An extremely toxic, arrogant person. Any woman who would tell a man what to do PERIOD has gone far out of her place. Anyone giving unsolicited advice, many times, are giving deceit or foolishness for advice, and that advice usually only serves them and their egos.

At the same job I listed earlier, I had another woman who told me not to go after the younger women in junior positions. She even waved her hand at me like she was a witch, but she didn't have a wand. She was trying to cast a spell over me. For what purpose? Not because she wanted me, but because she is in competition with those other women. Only so she can go back and brag about how I hit on her and how she soundly rejected me. Then she could go on glorying in herself and how much better she is than me. This is the arrogance that many evil women live for. They run greedily for this glory for their egos, in worshiping themselves because they feel they are gods.

But these people will be destroyed forever. Anyone trying to cut you off from life, trying to send you down a road of darkness, trying to take away your glory, because they are greedy for glory themselves, these are thieves and murderers. It is theft of the soul, trying to cut men off from information their soul needs to feed itself, trying to cut people out of your life through lies and misdirection.

This is spiritual wickedness. And this will be repaid, with eternal hellfire, because it is corruption.

See, these evil women can't simply do their best (as in the proper good way) because they've chosen corruption. They can't even approach or talk to a man properly. Everything is underhanded and crooked, while they are pretending to be upright and just, righteous people.

And they will all gather together, once you get an inkling of what they are, and you start to ponder aloud and look for confirmation from others. That's when the other people will run swiftly to also condemn you and your soul, for thinking blasphemy against the female gods. They will tear your soul in pieces just for mentioning this, with their shaming, and further try to assault your reputation with the new label of misogynist.

These people are going to suffer darkness and torture for eternity, just as they should. Because they couldn't leave people alone. Instead they meddle with other people's lives for their entertainment, like it is a sport. And because these things can't be observed with the eyes, because the very nature of this abuse is spiritual, they figure they can get away with this. But God does see them.

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Re: Why people get offended when you describe the type of wo

Post by Adama » October 8th, 2017, 3:08 pm

I was going to write some more stories about these reprobates. You see, we believe this behavior is normal because the vast majority or an overwhelming percentage of women seem to be pulling these tricks. So we think commonplace means normal.

What you should consider is simply that many people have chosen the path of evil, and therefore it seems normal, because of that. Just because it is commonplace it doesn't make it right or good.

I'm telling you that this is reprobate activity and this is the foolish pleasure that will take many women straight to hell. This is spiritual wickedness, working corruption, unknowingly serving Satan and death (murder), working iniquity, boasting themselves in mischief, the study of the ways of death, self glorification and self-worship which people should all stay far from.

This is why God hates pride. Because these people who worship their own egos have exalted themselves to heaven, giving themselves the rights to destroy your soul, by using their tongues as weapons of war.

This is the unseen violence and bloodthirst that destroys souls. These people are the ravening wolves, waiting for a prey. They are the natural brute beasts. These are the ones who have risen out of their place, to assume the throne of God to take away life and condemn. Only God Himself can condemn your soul. Yet these people freely play with the weapons of death daily, and they've run greedily after violence and oppression and persecution.

It never occurs to them to just seek peace, mind their business, speak the truth, act uprightly, consider the other person may not want to be manipulated or have their reputation destroyed.

They've lifted up their souls (in pride) to vanity of destruction; to worthless garbage. So they will be promoted and graduate to the garbage bin when they take that last breath.

Always remember that God destroyed the earth with water because the imaginations of the thoughts of man was only evil continually. Remember even the many of the slaves who were led by Moses unbelievers because they lusted after evil things.

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Re: Why people get offended when you describe the type of wo

Post by Adama » October 8th, 2017, 3:32 pm

Contrarian Expatriate wrote: In my experience, many women WANT to know and outright ask why they are not a particular man's type. When that happens, it is quite fine to tell the woman what you like and what you don't. I personally just repeat "You're just not my type."

If they cannot take that some men don't find them attractive, they need to grow the heck up.

There was this rather obese woman at one job. She had a boyfriend, but unfortunately I had to talk to her, and she kept offering herself to me. I lied and said that I had a girlfriend. She wouldn't take that as a negative and kept coming at me anyway. Whenever she would arrive, she would come search for me, and it was so bad that I hid from her. And one time she came alongside me and grabbed me by the arm, and entangled her arm in mine so that we were elbow to elbow, but I disentangled myself from her.

Looking back I never thought of filing harassment against her. I did have witnesses, although I don't know if they would have wanted to get involved. But luckily after that I found a new job and I haven't seen this woman ever again.

Anyone who knows what the message you're trying to send is (NO! because I am not attracted to you) and yet proceeds anyway, has got to have a serious spiritual problem. No does mean no. If I were interested, wouldn't I be taking steps in your direction instead of moving away? And she just kept coming, but she received the message. She just didn't care about whether I found her attractive or not.

These women somehow do not figure that a man must find the woman attractive. And if they haven't got that figured out, then there is some major malfunction going on within her mind. Actually it seems these women are more or less rapists. That's what it is when you're trying to force the unwilling.

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Re: Why people get offended when you describe the type of wo

Post by MrMan » October 8th, 2017, 5:13 pm

I think I had two conversations in high school along the lines of girls trying to either talk me into liking them or wanting to know why I wasn't attracted to one of them. The fat girl did it through her friend as an intermediary. There was also this other girl that tried to talk me into being her boyfriend with offers of a sexual favor. I was a Chrsitain and didn't go for it. I also don't go for 14-year-old girls, and did not even at 17.

As an adult, I encountered some aggressive girls. There was one girl at a store I shopped at in Indonesia, fat, short hair, not attractive to me at all. She'd come by and flirt heavily with me whenever I went to that store, which actually had shoes that would fit me and lots of good clothes. She didn't harrass me or anything. I would just extract myself from the conversation and not show interest. I said I needed to go home once, and she said, "Can I go with you?" That didn't happen.

There was the mentally ill stalker, though, who found out where I lived and was outside my window in the subdivision I lived with saying my name and saying out loud in the street, "I love you." She wore a slip in public at least on one occasion. I think she was manic at the time. I intentionally gave out wedding invitations when she wasn't around. She showed up at mine and my wife's wedding, uninvited, but behaved herself and congratulated us. I saw her years later at a bus stop. She said she'd married a Dutch guy, moved to the Netherlands, got divorced, and came back. She bumbed some money off me for a taxi home.

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Re: Why people get offended when you describe the type of wo

Post by MrMan » October 8th, 2017, 5:13 pm

I think I had two conversations in high school along the lines of girls trying to either talk me into liking them or wanting to know why I wasn't attracted to one of them. The fat girl did it through her friend as an intermediary. There was also this other girl that tried to talk me into being her boyfriend with offers of a sexual favor. I was a Chrsitain and didn't go for it. I also don't go for 14-year-old girls, and did not even at 17.

As an adult, I encountered some aggressive girls. There was one girl at a store I shopped at in Indonesia, fat, short hair, not attractive to me at all. She'd come by and flirt heavily with me whenever I went to that store, which actually had shoes that would fit me and lots of good clothes. She didn't harrass me or anything. I would just extract myself from the conversation and not show interest. I said I needed to go home once, and she said, "Can I go with you?" That didn't happen.

There was the mentally ill stalker, though, who found out where I lived and was outside my window in the subdivision I lived with saying my name and saying out loud in the street, "I love you." She wore a slip in public at least on one occasion. I think she was manic at the time. I intentionally gave out wedding invitations when she wasn't around. She showed up at mine and my wife's wedding, uninvited, but behaved herself and congratulated us. I saw her years later at a bus stop. She said she'd married a Dutch guy, moved to the Netherlands, got divorced, and came back. She bumbed some money off me for a taxi home.

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Re: Why people get offended when you describe the type of wo

Post by MrMan » October 8th, 2017, 5:14 pm

I think I had two conversations in high school along the lines of girls trying to either talk me into liking them or wanting to know why I wasn't attracted to one of them. The fat girl did it through her friend as an intermediary. There was also this other girl that tried to talk me into being her boyfriend with offers of a sexual favor. I was a Chrsitain and didn't go for it. I also don't go for 14-year-old girls, and did not even at 17.

As an adult, I encountered some aggressive girls. There was one girl at a store I shopped at in Indonesia, fat, short hair, not attractive to me at all. She'd come by and flirt heavily with me whenever I went to that store, which actually had shoes that would fit me and lots of good clothes. She didn't harrass me or anything. I would just extract myself from the conversation and not show interest. I said I needed to go home once, and she said, "Can I go with you?" That didn't happen.

There was the mentally ill stalker, though, who found out where I lived and was outside my window in the subdivision I lived with saying my name and saying out loud in the street, "I love you." She wore a slip in public at least on one occasion. I think she was manic at the time. I intentionally gave out wedding invitations when she wasn't around. She showed up at mine and my wife's wedding, uninvited, but behaved herself and congratulated us. I saw her years later at a bus stop. She said she'd married a Dutch guy, moved to the Netherlands, got divorced, and came back. She bumbed some money off me for a taxi home.

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Re: Why people get offended when you describe the type of wo

Post by MrMan » October 8th, 2017, 5:14 pm

I think I had two conversations in high school along the lines of girls trying to either talk me into liking them or wanting to know why I wasn't attracted to one of them. The fat girl did it through her friend as an intermediary. There was also this other girl that tried to talk me into being her boyfriend with offers of a sexual favor. I was a Chrsitain and didn't go for it. I also don't go for 14-year-old girls, and did not even at 17.

As an adult, I encountered some aggressive girls. There was one girl at a store I shopped at in Indonesia, fat, short hair, not attractive to me at all. She'd come by and flirt heavily with me whenever I went to that store, which actually had shoes that would fit me and lots of good clothes. She didn't harrass me or anything. I would just extract myself from the conversation and not show interest. I said I needed to go home once, and she said, "Can I go with you?" That didn't happen.

There was the mentally ill stalker, though, who found out where I lived and was outside my window in the subdivision I lived with saying my name and saying out loud in the street, "I love you." She wore a slip in public at least on one occasion. I think she was manic at the time. I intentionally gave out wedding invitations when she wasn't around. She showed up at mine and my wife's wedding, uninvited, but behaved herself and congratulated us. I saw her years later at a bus stop. She said she'd married a Dutch guy, moved to the Netherlands, got divorced, and came back. She bumbed some money off me for a taxi home.

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Re: Why people get offended when you describe the type of wo

Post by MrMan » October 8th, 2017, 5:14 pm

I think I had two conversations in high school along the lines of girls trying to either talk me into liking them or wanting to know why I wasn't attracted to one of them. The fat girl did it through her friend as an intermediary. There was also this other girl that tried to talk me into being her boyfriend with offers of a sexual favor. I was a Chrsitain and didn't go for it. I also don't go for 14-year-old girls, and did not even at 17.

As an adult, I encountered some aggressive girls. There was one girl at a store I shopped at in Indonesia, fat, short hair, not attractive to me at all. She'd come by and flirt heavily with me whenever I went to that store, which actually had shoes that would fit me and lots of good clothes. She didn't harrass me or anything. I would just extract myself from the conversation and not show interest. I said I needed to go home once, and she said, "Can I go with you?" That didn't happen.

There was the mentally ill stalker, though, who found out where I lived and was outside my window in the subdivision I lived with saying my name and saying out loud in the street, "I love you." She wore a slip in public at least on one occasion. I think she was manic at the time. I intentionally gave out wedding invitations when she wasn't around. She showed up at mine and my wife's wedding, uninvited, but behaved herself and congratulated us. I saw her years later at a bus stop. She said she'd married a Dutch guy, moved to the Netherlands, got divorced, and came back. She bumbed some money off me for a taxi home.

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Re: Why people get offended when you describe the type of wo

Post by Zambales » October 8th, 2017, 8:03 pm

Adama wrote:I was going to write some more stories about these reprobates.
LOL. I liked the one about the woman you dated who said men shouldn't have to pay for everything. You agreed and she changed her mind.

What happened afterwards? You never said.
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Re: Why people get offended when you describe the type of wo

Post by Adama » October 8th, 2017, 8:29 pm

Zambales wrote:
Adama wrote:I was going to write some more stories about these reprobates.
LOL. I liked the one about the woman you dated who said men shouldn't have to pay for everything. You agreed and she changed her mind.

What happened afterwards? You never said.
Oh yeah, well she had told everyone in the workplace how attracted she was to me. People were reporting this to me. So finally I struck up a conversation with her and got her number. We talked on the phone that night and then the signal dropped. I left a message on her phone. When I saw her at work again, she pretended like she had much better things to do than to hook up with me. I was naive then, and this is when I should have cut her loose. But I kept pursuing her because I didn't have respect for myself, and I was desperate, and I had no clue what was going on.

One game for these adulteress reprobates is to attract you just to see if they can get you, then to pull away to see if you'll chase them, giving them all the power. And then of course, as soon as you give chase after they've pulled back, they assume the higher ground. You're now chasing, and they feel superior enough that they're going to murder you from their perch.

Anyways, at some point she gave me that line where she was saying that she always volunteers to pay half (subterfuge), and in which I responded with, "Yes, I think it's great and expect women to pay half too." Of course it was just a game, because immediately she came back with, "No, no no, you never let a woman pay half." These people are sick. Why say something if you are just playing a game? Say what you mean. Just a power play.

This is deceit and debate. Anyhow that's how dishonest many of them are.

As for what happened to her, one day we were working together, and because she had to get up and do something herself, when she came back, immediately she yelled at me saying, "You're so stupid. You're so stupid. You're so stupid." And it wasn't like we were just talking, this was fierce coming out of this woman's mouth, like fire.

Being naive and not in control of my emotions, but still being merciful, I responded with, "Stop acting LIKE a b*tch." I didn't call her a b*tch. I said she was acting like one, not an insult, because that's what her behavior was: that of a female reprobate dog. If a similar incident were to happen today I'd probably just act as if I hadn't even heard her, and then conveniently excuse myself without saying a word. Not worth my time to engage with murderers, the bloodthirsty, and the reprobate natural brute beasts.

The next day, her frenemy came to me and told me that she's more attracted to me. But I dismissed her completely out of my life, and that incident scorned me with women for at least two years. I seriously started to feel suspect about ALL women. But now I realize, maybe a small percentage of them might be worth bothering with.

This woman was also American born- South Asian (Indian).

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Re: Why people get offended when you describe the type of wo

Post by Adama » October 8th, 2017, 8:46 pm

I also think that, if the average woman had to deal with the amount of cruelty from the opposite sex that men routinely put up with, that humanity would be very few in numbers, because I think most women would simply off themselves rather than endure such psychological trauma. If men were as cruel to women as women are often to men, then society could not exist, because men would have destroyed women from off the face of the earth. But you see how men die early and commit suicide because of women.

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Post by Contrarian Expatriate » October 8th, 2017, 9:25 pm

Adama wrote:I also think that, if the average woman had to deal with the amount of cruelty from the opposite sex that men routinely put up with, that humanity would be very few in numbers, because I think most women would simply off themselves rather than endure such psychological trauma. If men were as cruel to women as women are often to men, then society could not exist, because men would have destroyed women from off the face of the earth. But you see how men die early and commit suicide because of women.
Indeed. Women generally have no empathy for men and they therefore inflict abuse, pressure, coercion, and suffering to achieve their ends with men.

I sometimes think that women view men as natural robots or lower form animals who don't really feel pain or torment.

All the more reason I like to keep them at an arms length generally. I will be no woman's automaton, slave, or whipping boy.

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Post by Adama » October 8th, 2017, 10:38 pm

Contrarian Expatriate wrote:
Adama wrote:I also think that, if the average woman had to deal with the amount of cruelty from the opposite sex that men routinely put up with, that humanity would be very few in numbers, because I think most women would simply off themselves rather than endure such psychological trauma. If men were as cruel to women as women are often to men, then society could not exist, because men would have destroyed women from off the face of the earth. But you see how men die early and commit suicide because of women.
Indeed. Women generally have no empathy for men and they therefore inflict abuse, pressure, coercion, and suffering to achieve their ends with men.

I sometimes think that women view men as natural robots or lower form animals who don't really feel pain or torment.

All the more reason I like to keep them at an arms length generally. I will be no woman's automaton, slave, or whipping boy.
This is what women's liberation and feminism have brought us.

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Re: Why people get offended when you describe the type of wo

Post by Zambales » October 9th, 2017, 8:12 am

Adama wrote:
Zambales wrote:
Adama wrote:I was going to write some more stories about these reprobates.
LOL. I liked the one about the woman you dated who said men shouldn't have to pay for everything. You agreed and she changed her mind.

What happened afterwards? You never said.
Oh yeah, well she had told everyone in the workplace how attracted she was to me. People were reporting this to me. So finally I struck up a conversation with her and got her number. We talked on the phone that night and then the signal dropped. I left a message on her phone. When I saw her at work again, she pretended like she had much better things to do than to hook up with me. I was naive then, and this is when I should have cut her loose. But I kept pursuing her because I didn't have respect for myself, and I was desperate, and I had no clue what was going on.

One game for these adulteress reprobates is to attract you just to see if they can get you, then to pull away to see if you'll chase them, giving them all the power. And then of course, as soon as you give chase after they've pulled back, they assume the higher ground. You're now chasing, and they feel superior enough that they're going to murder you from their perch.

Anyways, at some point she gave me that line where she was saying that she always volunteers to pay half (subterfuge), and in which I responded with, "Yes, I think it's great and expect women to pay half too." Of course it was just a game, because immediately she came back with, "No, no no, you never let a woman pay half." These people are sick. Why say something if you are just playing a game? Say what you mean. Just a power play.

This is deceit and debate. Anyhow that's how dishonest many of them are.

As for what happened to her, one day we were working together, and because she had to get up and do something herself, when she came back, immediately she yelled at me saying, "You're so stupid. You're so stupid. You're so stupid." And it wasn't like we were just talking, this was fierce coming out of this woman's mouth, like fire.

Being naive and not in control of my emotions, but still being merciful, I responded with, "Stop acting LIKE a b*tch." I didn't call her a b*tch. I said she was acting like one, not an insult, because that's what her behavior was: that of a female reprobate dog. If a similar incident were to happen today I'd probably just act as if I hadn't even heard her, and then conveniently excuse myself without saying a word. Not worth my time to engage with murderers, the bloodthirsty, and the reprobate natural brute beasts.

The next day, her frenemy came to me and told me that she's more attracted to me. But I dismissed her completely out of my life, and that incident scorned me with women for at least two years. I seriously started to feel suspect about ALL women. But now I realize, maybe a small percentage of them might be worth bothering with.

This woman was also American born- South Asian (Indian).
Very true.

That woman sounds unhinged. A bullet dodged right there.
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Re: Why people get offended when you describe the type of wo

Post by Zambales » October 9th, 2017, 8:51 am

Contrarian Expatriate wrote: Women generally have no empathy for men and they therefore inflict abuse, pressure, coercion, and suffering to achieve their ends with men.
Yes. Nutshell.

Alarmingly, even the "nice" women can possess this nasty trait. It's like they get a perverse satisfaction at seeing an innocent man suffer. The word "bitch" wasn't invented for nothing I guess. The worst offenders I find are the ones with hang-ups from past relationships with men and those who were deserted by daddy.

When I was young I never really understood the saying "Treat them mean to keep them keen" but as my experience with women grew, I began to realize this was not far off the mark with the majority, although I never fully adopted this stance myself due to my nature. Instead, I became less charitable and more aloof.
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