Shemp wrote: ↑December 24th, 2019, 12:59 pm
1) Women in developed countries who give out free sex are living in degenerate societies, and the free sex is a manifestation of that. That wasn't the ways things were in the past in those countries, except among the degenerate elite (aristocrats, artists, etc). Things cannot go on forever with intelligent men and women living a sterile "Sex and the City" homosexual lifestyle. Think through the ramifications, grasshopper.
I get your point, but I wouldn't be as dramatic as that. Free sex is the manifestation of the fact that women no longer need to give sex to a man in order to get his exclusive protection and support. Without existential, material and financial gains, the only thing left is the exchange of physical pleasure. Which is very natural and biological and I find nothing wrong with it. A girl is horny, she finds a man she fancies and who is (obviously) happy to oblige, and they do the deed.
Now, I did say that, in a sane society, this cannot be a means to an end. I agree with you, it must be temporary. No intelligent woman and no self-respecting man will "go on forever". Yet, I think it's wrong to stigmatize sex as a means to get purely sexual gains as degenerate. It's a good way to explore one's own sexuality, learn about the opposite sex and what one wants, get some pleasure in the process.
Shemp wrote: ↑December 24th, 2019, 12:59 pm
2) Women in developed counties who do the same work as men and thus get paid fairly are only able to do that because they are not having children, as I pointed out and you didn't read. This widespread lack of desire by women for children is another manifestation of a degenerate society. (My own lack of desire for children is also very peculiar. My father literally dragged himself back from the dead, namely begging for help from the hopeless pile of triaged bodies after a battle in Korea until the doctors finally relented and moved him to the "might survive" pile and then further struggles after that, so as to produce children. Meanwhile, with every advantage in the world including perfect health, good looks and rich by the time I was 35, I have no desire for children. Nor am I alone, since lots on men like me nowadays. Something is clearly deeply wrong with our society that we can't even muster up the desire to reproduce.)
That's not entirely true. Sure, a woman who wants to be a fighter jet pilot is obliged to give up her femininity (stop her menstruations, cut her hair short, etc.) but those are fringe professions. Most women I know in Italy, UK, even Malta, have kids and are not housewives. My mom is a retired primary school teacher, she used to teach in the morning while I was at school and take care of us in the afternoon when we were all back home.
As you yourself point out, the lack of desire for children is maybe something that involves both men and women. I want to have fun with Filipinas for now but I am not writing off the idea of settling with a woman, even marrying her if she is worth it, and having a kid or two. Or maybe not, I just don't know yet. I think yes, there is a social trend towards individualism and materialism, that is instilled by the consumerism machine driven by social media, one-click e-commerce and the likes. A person who is an individualist, be them a boy or a girl, will obviously be less happy to give up much of their comforts to raise a couple of kids.
Kudos to your strong-willed Dad and good for you if you're financially stable, but it is a fact that raising a child is more and more expensive and the latest generations have at least a sub-conscious feeling that their life won't be nearly as stable as that of ther Boomer parents, or even the Gen-X-ers.
Shemp wrote: ↑December 24th, 2019, 12:59 pm
3) Filipinas are the stupidest women on earth and that is why they continue to give out free sex to foreigners and to support deadbeat boyfriends. At some point, the Philippines will be so overpopulated that a true starvation event will occur and there will be a great culling of the herd. Idiot Filipinas who don't have a male provider will die, along with their children. Subsequent generations will not be so stupid. In general, tropical countries are stupider than those at higher latitudes, because winter was historically an annual culling event of the stupid. (Though of course that no longer happens, which is why IQ levels are dropping in developed counties now.)
Sadly true. Filipinas are some of the most uneducated women on earth. And by that I mean not just schooling and academic education but also sex-ed, emotional education, and even cause-effect common-sense kind of education. Most Filipinas grow poor and grow with the dream of living their desperate, hard and uneventful lives. Most of them don't have the brains and the resolve to pull themselves out of those kinds of lives, e.g. studying hard, going to public university on a scholarship and becoming successful against all odds.
So all they can think of, as a Plan B, is to latch on anyone who is perceived to be better off than them. They naively think that every white man who booked a 3-star hotel and wears a flowery shirt is rich enough to support them for life and, most important of all, is willing to do so with them. Giving away sex "for free" to them a few times, until they inevitably realise he's a no go, is a price worth paying. It's like buying a lottery ticket. Winning is not guaranteed but the ticket itself isn't free, it costs a few sessions of "free sex"
Apart from that, and I can say it by personal experience, Filipino society is nowhere near as conservative as it used to be. Single girls have sex with hot men because they like it, no strings attached. Married women do that, discreetly. I just discovered a website full of Filipino swinging couples, couples in open relationships, single girls willing to be promiscous. I might check it out soon
I am not sure about the apocalyptic scenario you make. The Philippines are a very bountiful country. There will always be enough mangoes and bananas hanging from trees for the population to be fed. It's much more likely for people to die because of one of the many typhoons, earthquakes and other climate events that hit the islands.
Shemp wrote: ↑December 24th, 2019, 12:59 pm
4) Paying for sex is a privilege for the man, because it implies society has arranged did that men can easily have more wealth than women. Free sex implies equality of incomes and wealth among men and women. All you can think is "great, I don't have to pay!" More perceptive observers, like me, note that you don't have much money and that's why you are so happy about not paying. Not having much money, and especially not having enough to impress the women he is dating, has traditionally been a degrading position for a man, unless he is very young and has good prospects, so his poverty is only temporary.
Yes, I agree. Free sex is a product of a mature society where primary needs are largely catered for, if not via abundant jobs, via welfare and social services. I don't quite understand your "perception", though. Of course free sex means you don't have to pay for it, so your hard-earned money. But the two things are not related. You can be a wealthy man who is also handsome, fit and good with the ladies...unless you're specifically targeting gold diggers and high-maintenance women, you might find a lot of the girls who want to have sex with you have no reason to ask you anything material in exchange.
Also consider the typical age where the most free sex happens: teenage years, college years, the years where both the boy and the girl are at their financially weakest, most unstable. That should tell you that money is not an issue, to enjoy some sex.