America= Saudi Arabia in Terms of Dating
Posted: June 11th, 2023, 3:21 am
Before the war, if you arrive in the US after Ukraine ( or the Philippines), you immediately see that the place not a dating paradise for men. After you look around, you see these constants that the local men do not see because they are not travelers.
There seems to be more young men than young women everywhere in America.
There are way more good looking young men than good looking young women.
There are lots of overweight women. Younger and older.
The women don't dress well in the US. Plus, they dress like men. Also, very little to no make up. Lots of plane janes. And they act kind of masculine. Their voices are assertive and commanding.
The guys on the other hand look kind of feminine now. Their voices are "sweet" and kind of ingratiating - especially when they talk to women.
Lots and lots of guys do not have GF's. They are the leftover men. But they look stoic-like and look like they are persisting in their effort to one day have someone or something. They are taught that if they do not have a GF, it is their fault and they need to polish their social skills.
Pretty much every female in the US can get a BF just like that. No matter her shape. All the requirements in dating concern men, not women. You see women who would be number 2-3 in Ukraine with great looking BF's. WTF! And these women often have kids. And the guys who are with them look so happy. In Ukraine no woman like that would have a BF. Ever!
Meeting women is a sophisticated, complicated process because you cannot court them- they will report you for harassment. It is like Saudi Arabia or Iran basically ( no matter how ridiculous it sounds). Yes, you can be arrested for trying to pick up a woman in the USA.
In spite of all the rhetoric of the melting pot, American women prefer to date and marry American men ( as in born and raised). Or at least other Anglo men such as Brits, Canadians, Aussies, etc. Other immigrant men, foreign student men, etc do not as a rule have/can find American GF's. It happens but it is an exception. Again, reminds me of Saudi Arabia. In contrast, in Ukraine almost all foreign men, rich or poor get local GFs or wives.
There is a stranger danger in the US culture and general mistrust of a person one does not know and a taboo against talking with strangers. In Ukraine, and even in France, no such taboos.
Any kind of " study" like this gets shared, and I get labeled '' Anti-American" . Not an intention. Many things are great in the US, but it is not a man's paradise. The market conditions make it heavily skewed in favor or women ( and gays). But it can be a barren desert for men. Saudi Arabia 2.0, basically.
There seems to be more young men than young women everywhere in America.
There are way more good looking young men than good looking young women.
There are lots of overweight women. Younger and older.
The women don't dress well in the US. Plus, they dress like men. Also, very little to no make up. Lots of plane janes. And they act kind of masculine. Their voices are assertive and commanding.
The guys on the other hand look kind of feminine now. Their voices are "sweet" and kind of ingratiating - especially when they talk to women.
Lots and lots of guys do not have GF's. They are the leftover men. But they look stoic-like and look like they are persisting in their effort to one day have someone or something. They are taught that if they do not have a GF, it is their fault and they need to polish their social skills.
Pretty much every female in the US can get a BF just like that. No matter her shape. All the requirements in dating concern men, not women. You see women who would be number 2-3 in Ukraine with great looking BF's. WTF! And these women often have kids. And the guys who are with them look so happy. In Ukraine no woman like that would have a BF. Ever!
Meeting women is a sophisticated, complicated process because you cannot court them- they will report you for harassment. It is like Saudi Arabia or Iran basically ( no matter how ridiculous it sounds). Yes, you can be arrested for trying to pick up a woman in the USA.
In spite of all the rhetoric of the melting pot, American women prefer to date and marry American men ( as in born and raised). Or at least other Anglo men such as Brits, Canadians, Aussies, etc. Other immigrant men, foreign student men, etc do not as a rule have/can find American GF's. It happens but it is an exception. Again, reminds me of Saudi Arabia. In contrast, in Ukraine almost all foreign men, rich or poor get local GFs or wives.
There is a stranger danger in the US culture and general mistrust of a person one does not know and a taboo against talking with strangers. In Ukraine, and even in France, no such taboos.
Any kind of " study" like this gets shared, and I get labeled '' Anti-American" . Not an intention. Many things are great in the US, but it is not a man's paradise. The market conditions make it heavily skewed in favor or women ( and gays). But it can be a barren desert for men. Saudi Arabia 2.0, basically.