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Okay and I am really done with this sort of thing, so this will be the last time.
1) 39% of White women are involved with a Black man in the UK. 22% are married to Black men, that's triple the United States.
That is scientific data....
So before you try to clown me, I meant unscientific because I didn't use an algorithm to gather up all the profiles on different websites or use a crawler to find different stories and studies on the internet. If I decide to do something like this, then I would not be releasing such information for free, I am not here to do PSA's.
Where did I say being Black only will cut is? Pontificating at its best...
Second time you mention Denzel, you must be well over 40. He is only relevant to women over 35 if that. The vast majority of men here are well under that. I am trying to address all age groups.
I have pretty much said the same thing if you bothered to go back over my post; you can't be some broke, Shabba Ranks looking brother and hope to hit pay dirt.
That said, exceptions are made every single day of the week, so making blanket statements are basically useless. If one tried hard enough and didn't become discouraged, he could hit pay dirt.
But I also speak from personal experience that it doesn't matter to most women in Europe, including the UK. If you are working or have a source of income that isn't illegal most women don't care as long as you can pay the bills, especially your own.
The problem with Anglo countries is that obesity has become a real problem; meaning you have to earn better than average incomes and be above average in looks to get top notch women. I put that threshold at $50,000 US ($29,773.47 Pounds).
If you have that sort of income Western Europe is viable option, I know men who earn at those levels have no problem getting White women in Europe. But I also know a brother teaching English in Poland and heard of another brother who owns a hamburger stand in Germany. Hardly glamorous jobs to brag to your friends and relatives with.
Overall I am done with these sorts of forum post they aren't helpful, they become argumentative and ultimately there's no call to action so nothing gets done.
I do realize that new forum members do find these threads, so I try to do my best and provide useful information which is more than I can say more people around here.
Your scientific data is wrong
It is 40% of black men that are dating/married to white women.
However, there is a smaller population of black men in the UK (under a million people or thereabouts) so the number of women married or attracted to black men is in fact quite small, secondly, if we say 61% of black men are married to non white women in the UK, that isn't a good figure, being British, I know that your claim of a lot of women actively seeking black men and american men is false. I am sure a lot of British women would date a black American if a decent one came along but are they actively seeking them? No.
You are using absolutes in your claims and there is nothing scientific about that.
You are the one doing the pontificating pal, saying that a lot of women are actively seeing black and american males, you don't even live here and the amount of British women you do know, you can count with one hand I bet.
I mention Denzel because that is the fella most British women would be attracted to, he seems to win a lot of polls over here and is the chap a lot of white girls over here like, you wouldn't know that not being here and getting all your information about my country over the internet.
Nope, not in the UK you won't, you black and poor? You won't be getting any quality, that is a fact - you might get laid with some fat munter but so what?
You have no idea what you are talking about, a decent British woman would care a lot if you are a criminal which jeopardizes her freedom via your illegal activities, The simple facts are, the cultures between the UK and the states are very different, proclaiming yourself to be an expert via the internet.
Thats not the only thing - come Mr Expert on all things British, what are the other factors that surround obesity and British females?
See, you hear a lot. Any of your own experiences? The thing is - a black man with his shit sorted could get a nice woman I am sure however, not anyone can just come here and get laid. I mean, I could go to West Africa and get laid by any woman of my own choosing just for being white but life aint fair.
You proclaim yourself an expert when you aren't one. That is the problem, you have never hit arrivals at Heathrow even the once, you hear too much via other peoples experiences.
I'll tell you a secret, my brother is black and British (and handsome and has a good career) and how many times he has been told by attractive women that they would love to date him but 'my dad would kill me if I brought you home' So there you have it, he did date a former Miss Norway though so try there.
It would be better to provide information about your own experiences? Instead of making shit off via the fantasies and bombast of other people you know online.
Here's a list of European countries where Black men are mostly loved by the women:
1.) United Kingdom
7.) The Netherlands
12.) Czech Republic
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1.) United Kingdom (By some women of course, it's accepted BUT most white British women will only date white British men, they wouldn't even date white Polish men, it isn't an easy dating scene in any way whatsoever for anyone coming in from abroad, you really do need flawless English, cultural alignment, looks, fitness, body, things going on for you)
3.) Spain (No way, well, if you are an Afro-Cuban then maybe but Spanish women won't date black men, wherever you have got this from - you're dreaming)
4.) Italy (Same, this is nonsensical)
7.) The Netherlands
12.) Czech Republic
The thing is, none of those countries are countries where the women mostly love black men - funny Ireland is not there because that is probably the NO.1 PLACE where the women like black guys, always have.
Most women like their own men, sure, you can be black and go to the UK and date, but you won't be getting your pick, and to say that would be the case would be wrong and untrue.
As for Spain being no.3? Where that come from I don't know except you had better be Afro-Cuban, native Spanish speaker and know how to dance.
Very interesting my friend. From one thread saying no one cares about race but me and it doesn't matter to full awareness that it does. You may say race doesn't matter but you know it does. Most women consider it.
My racial views may limit my options, but your 'race' limits yours. I know that is not fair to you but life is never fair. (K)affirmative action is also not fair to me. So we all play with handicaps which it some way levels the playing field. I would never consider a woman that race mixes, but you can only look at these. Wow talk about non competition the 2 of us would be no competition at all!
Actually, what I said was that men (except for you and your mates ) don't care about race as much as women, women care very much and I have learned this the hard way, the most left wing, liberal, socialist women will only date white British men (or Australian, American etc at a push) but would never admit this - you would have to water torture them for them to admit it - because it flies in the face of their public beliefs.
A friend of mine once said of British girls dating black men 'decent girls don't' and I remember being annoyed about it but then I got to thinking and he was absolutely right. Decent girls don't - but they don't date white Poles either - of course, white Polish girls have no problem at all, a white Polish man who goes to the UK to live will always more or less find a Polish woman he has met there. There is actually more to it than skin colour but skin colour is a factor but very few women would admit this. Especially the ones you may think wouldn't see it are the worst ones in upholding it. But I think it is a universal truth that women are the gatekeepers of if certain races survive or not.
Absolutely spot on. For me in the UK for sure (though I am not interested in white 'Anglo' women - they're not interested in me either) and for Winston in the United States - which is why Happier Abroad exists. For an Asian man to get a white woman of his physical equal - you have to be in the top 5% - you can't be average and Asian and get an average white woman - there is more chance of landing on the moon than that happening.
I am a Med looking guy, I don't do well in the UK, in fact, I had a miserable dating life (the white women I liked were really nice, I found most white women unattractive) I am above average in looks, height etc - so I wasn't the problem, where I was living was the problem, I am in China and I do far better than I do back home (with women I actually like) - this is down to the fact I have black hair and brown eyes like they do - I don't weird them out as much as someone with red hair, I do far far better in Spain than I do back in my home country where the kind of white guy from the UK goes to Spain - he bombs badly - so it is a universal for everyone - there are places where you'll do well and you have to find them - on the same token, there are places where you will completely bomb - being white and Germanic/Anglo looking is a dead end in a lot of places also.
Oh yeah - handicaps are everywhere - which is why we all get someone we like in the end. Prejudice exists in the dating world - which is good because most people would never ever date - it would only be the same 5% getting ALL the women.
The thing is - I am white (mum is South American mestizo, dad is white) in a lot of places, in China - they see me as a white person, in Spain, Portugal and places like these - they see me as white - in the UK - it all depends on the individual - but when it comes to dating, I am definitely non-white. I think where it's unfair is that women are not upfront about this so men can stop wasting their time.
I knew an African-American guy who went to Madrid to teach English in a public school - I knew he was wasting his time because he thought he was going to 'kill it' with the women there and he didn't - at all. He did better when he went to the UK but he said the quality isn't there (which is true) so, it's nice if you are black and think there are options in Europe but there are realities - not for just them, but for everyone who doesn't look like a local guy in the place they are going.