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Western Europe is not easy, even PUA roosh dont go there
I dont think OP knows what is he up against, do you know how many skilfull goodlooking spanish guys are competing for girls you want?
Your only edge is if you demonstrate you are rich since look will work against you but even then youd attract garbage...get you ass out of there, try Siberia/Mongolia
ive been to spain 5 times.
the majority of spanish women speak very little english from my experience. but they are definitely a class above women from the english speaking countries. i dont know how you could come to any other conclusion. they are 1000x times more approachable and less defensive and their personalities in general are just far better.
Outrun some bulls and learn to talk really really fast.
Try to approach with more confidence, be natural, be cocky and funny,you have height and muscles, use it to your advantage
The problem is that you are an aisan and europena women dont like asian men, odds are against you unfortunately. If you were black man you d prbbly be banging by now..
i understand your attracted to spanish women but you know it takes two to tango
'Are you saying theres no competition in other parts of the world, theres no good looking skillful russian guys competing for the girls you want?'
russian men are joke compared to spaniards french and italians, small fry...russian women would be easier for you but dont go to moscow or snkt petersburg..try 2nd tier cities
How many women have you approached so far and what was you opening like?
No, I meant you need to talk fast in Spanish or at least keep up. I honestly don't even know how Spaniards communicate with each other.
try rooshv forum and perhaps get his 'Bang' book
im guessing you dont get any signals from women(smiles), you just aproach and hope it works...try to get some eye contact before attack, dont come from behind, try to look casual and relaxed,
try to have some small talk for a couple of minutes or so before you ask for number...you cant just ask too soon, thats creepy to them..
thats all you can do, theres no magic formula to force attraction, they have to find you attractive so some degree , in my experience number means nothing, many will give you number just to get rid of you in a nice way...
you in madrid or?
Did you even read? OP is Asian-American who is not getting love in Spain and suspect it is because he of Asian descent.
I know it's frustrating seeing white men and asian girls ALL THE FRICKIN time but no Asian guy and white girl, I know bro, but at least you did something about it. I would imagine it would be more extreme in Spain.
However, keep approaching. If you pop this wide open it'll give more reason for Asian guys to go and try their luck -- and soon an entire race of well-off Asian men will go on full global dating assault. haha!
Also OP, what is it with Spanish girls that you like? They don't particularly strike me differently from normal white girl in USA. Is it the accent? The penelope cruz type?
Your routine.. seems off. Have you done any street game here states-side? Usually it becomes a good indicator of how well you do abroad.
Yeah. Pay him -- nothing wrong with that. I believe we can out game the Spaniards. These guys are not special case bro, they suck like everyone else and good like everyone else.
Also social circle is king in Spain. Here states-side they usually keep to themselves. Yes, they hangout with Latinos, but they keep it Spanish. Talk to the guys (call them "tio") and see what they think, and bring up the fact that you think it's because you're Asian and post.