Unless that's what he wants her to do with it.Taco wrote:If you ask any American guy how his marriage is he'll always tell you its doing well. He doesn't want anyone to know his wife sucks at everything because its embarrassing and because he has a huge ego.
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Discuss what's wrong with American women. Share problems, experiences and stories about them and why they suck so bad that you've had to resort to dating abroad and foreign women.
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"Even an American judge is unlikely to award child support for imputed children." - FredOnEverything
I've had plenty of men who told me their wives suck, but they are idiots. On the one hand you'll hear them praise their wives. On the other hand, they will tell you how their wives are disobedient (they call it lack of cooperation though, and doing whatever she wants), sometimes directly opposing them. There are other men who have complained to me how their wives don't like to pay bills.
That's because they are playing women's game. That's why this country is good for women. These men never stopped to think that in the beginning of the relationship they should have insisted their wives do everything they want, or otherwise they would not go any further with them or even terminate the relationship. Your wife can't cook? Well when you were dating, you should have insisted that she cook for you at least once or twice a week, and that you would never even consider a woman who can't cook. Do those men say that? No, they don't. That's because they put women on a pedestal. They think all the requirements fall upon the man. Therefore all the requirements do fall upon them because they went along with it. It's silly to complain about your wife being disobedient and being unable to cook, when you married her knowing both those things beforehand.
And if you want a woman who will obey, that is simple too. Just dump her if she won't obey you.
This is why foreign women are better. They are more likely to be cooperative. But since most American men are idiots who do believe in the equality aspect of feminism, most will end up choosing a complete b*tch even overseas. They'll manage to pick the one terrible woman, because they are in American man mode, instead of being the man they were meant to be. They'll still put women on pedestals, defer to the woman, and they will be washing the dishes when the men from her own country know that's women's work. They'll also complain that Russian men should be paying child support.
A good man is above pettiness. He is better than that.
I would ask him if he has ever lectured a woman on having respect for men. There are lots of people willing to lecture men on having respect for women. There are a lot of people telling women that their husbands better respect them. There are very few people telling women they need to respect their husbands.
It is not the husband's job to respect the wife. It is his job to love her. It is the woman's job to respect the husband. As in reverence, not simple respect. As in the man is the leader.
What these people want is for the man to let the women lead. That's what they mean by respect. They mean they do not want you to lead your household. They think you ought to take a democractic vote, as if that were possible.
That's when I know the person is a feminist. I laugh to myself when I hear it. I had this elderly woman tell me that I need to do that the other day. I just smiled and I was able to stop myself from laughing. They seriously want to elevate women above their station.
Well not with me.
A good man is above pettiness. He is better than that.
Men in America are so desperate for sex and female companionship that they will marry just about any woman that comes along. That includes women who are obese, ugly and women who have kids.
Most men in the US have NO standards when it comes to dating and marriage. Believe me, I see it all the time, men lowering their standards just to have a girlfriend or wife. More men need to be aware of the idea of finding good women to marry outside of the western world.
Thank God for websites like happier abroad and the TV show, "90 Day Fiance" which is currently airing season 3 on TLC Sunday nights, at 9 pm central time. That program shows men finding women from foreign countries who are much better marriage material than they would ever find in America.
"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"
"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."
"One of the saddest lessons of history is this: we're no longer interested in finding out the truth." - Carl Sagan
Sadly it seems, some guys don't have a choice. Moving to another country is tremendously expensive; often costing easily 5-figure prices, and many middle and lower class guys simply can not afford it. To them, America is like an underground dungeon prison without windows, only a single entrance/exit in the form of a heavy iron-steel door guarded by over a hundred armed (M-16s, hand grenades, and all) military personnell with orders of "Shoot to kill" anyone who tries to escape. So sadly they have no choice but to try their luck with an American woman and pray hard that it works out.
Both Hell and Heaven are totally real places, by the way.