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Discuss what's wrong with American women. Share problems, experiences and stories about them and why they suck so bad that you've had to resort to dating abroad and foreign women.
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If you're especially a born-again Christian guy, let me tell you something! If you really want a girl, you're seriously going to have to flee like crazy from America as if fleeing from exploding gasoline to find her!
If you are attracted to overweight/obese women, then you might be able to get by in America. Otherwise, America is absolutely no place for you at all!
Even though there may be skinny, physically attractive women in church, they are all double minded. Basically what the Bible calls "lukewarm Christians." Many are even worse than lukewarm. Most have one limb in God's kingdom, but the other 3 in the Devil's part of the world! The Bible says that any person who divorces a spouse causes the victim of the divorce to become an adulterer/adulteress! In America, 9 out of 10 divorces are initiated by the woman, and therefore 9 times out of 10, it's the woman who causes her husband to become an adulterer, and then, in America especially, he has two options; either remain single and go to Heaven, or marry someone else and go to the Lake of Fire. Especially as, once she divorces him, there is literally no hope and no chance at all whatsoever that she will even try to reconcile with him. Even if he becomes a Born-again Christian and even if he becomes, as they might say, "on fire for God." Any attempt of him trying to reconcile with her just about always results in her calling the police on him, getting him arrested and thrown in prison sometimes with the entire incident broadcast on the news, and often even a restraining order placed on him by her. At the same time of course, the woman who divorces her husband also makes herself an adulteress. The only exception is if one or both were previously married to someone who was never married and got divorced from that person.
And don't even think of dating that Asian woman you saw in Chinatown either. America has a very intense dark side aura that will crush a foreign woman's good heart and turn it to stone, just like the Touch of Amortus! In fact, what is a foreign woman's loving heart versus America's dark side aura, even if she is a born-again Christian? It is even a child's sandcastle on the beach versus a mile-tall mega tsunami! Add to that even American police, who will make it look to her like it is even illegal in America for men and women to have any type of social connections with each other.
Any person who has a relationship with Jesus Christ ought to really seriously know a lot better than to even approach, let alone date/marry, an American woman! American women at church may outwardly show a devotion to Jesus, but inside they still have Satan in their hearts! Outwardly they serve God, but in their hearts, they serve mammon! American women serve God only with their lips. But their hearts are far from God. No wonder American women, even in church, are a divorce waiting to happen! And in fact, divorce rates are just as high if not worse among Christian families as they are among other faiths. Even Atheist groups in America appear to have much lower divorce rates than American Christian groups! Woe onto America, for you are deliberately mocking God! You, America are mocking God with deliberately astronomical rates of divorce and subsequent adultery!
You are wrong in about three areas I can think of off the top of my head.
There are carnal, fleshy saved Christians that do not live according to the Spirit. That is true. However, to me it sounds like you do not know any truly born again (saved) Christian women. I happen to know a few, and if they were attractive, younger and single, I might say they would be women I would marry.
The Christians you are thinking of are the ones who give lip service to Jesus, but it isnt that they do not live godly, it is that they do not truly believe in Jesus. They are not saved. In fact, most Christians are probably not saved. That's why the Christian divorce rate is as high as the secular one. The Christians themselves do not truly believe. They are just going through the motions without believing, or they simply believe in their own works.
As for adultery, you've got the concept all wrong. Adultery for a man is when he goes with another man's wife. Re-read Leviticus for clarity. A man who is married and goes with an unmarried woman isnt committing adultery, because adultery is a crime against men. It is not a crime against the wife. That is why it explicitly states ANOTHER MAN'S WIFE, or a neighbor's wife. Unfortunately for women, a woman can only give herself to her husband. That is why when a man divorces his wife he causes her to commit adultery. However, if she were to leave him, she is not causing him to commit adultery. He is not committing adultery unless he marries a divorced woman (another man's wife) or he has relations with another man's wife.
This is how men were allowed multiple wives. Otherwise they would have been committing adultery with each wife, and I doubt it would have allowed for the prophets to commit adultery in that way because it would set a bad example for us.
I wouldnt bother mentioning that to most Christians though, because they are so set on equality of the sexes that they can not see it. Nor do they wish to, and that is fine, because it isnt important doctrine for anyone other than ourselves individually.
And last, those are terrible accusations to make against other Christians, if they are true believers. Do you think it is okay to use those accusations against our brothers and sisters? They are fellow members of the body of Christ. I'd be careful there.
A good man is above pettiness. He is better than that.
From the point of view of God influencing or guiding mens' lives, perhaps letting them find sites such as Happier Abroad is God's way of nudging them in that direction of finding foreign wives.
Wow, don't know about it, because I never date Asian-American women.
But Francis Chan's wife is White women