You often pay, also in USA... especially after divorce.Adama wrote: That was your problem. You paid. You were seriously thinking you have to buy women's time.
However there is also something like a dowry in Thailand and Vietnam, providing house in China etc..
We pay always for something, as we are men...
There is for sure something true what you are writing here, but at that time I did not know it better, I never expected to end up in Far East Asia.Bad boys aren't sitting there worried about paying for women. Bad boys are paid for. I am not a bad boy. However, I have spent time in Europe longer than a normal two week vacation, and I can say, that I never had to pay for any date while I was in Europe, and I had dates with several women. I had girlfriends who paid for my dinners, I had a gf who offered to let me stay at her place, I had a GF who was helping me pay rent to my studio apartment (hard to get for foreigners but I got one), and I lived with two sisters for two weeks without paying them a dime, and they cooked for me, and I had service. I am not trying to brag. Just saying, you don't have to pay for anything if you're a man.
It all just depends on who you are and whether you know what you're doing. Apparently, Yohan, you had no clue what you were doing, which is why you were paying for women and getting nowhere. Women don't respect men who attempt to buy them. That is a sign of weakness and a lack of confidence, when you attempt to buy them.
A woman either likes you or she doesn't. I think you just suffered from the DrRonnie syndrome until you got lucky in Asia.
I just tried to do what other young men did... and yes, some men did not pay anything, even mistreated the girls and they always found some women running after them... I can only say, Western women have to choose their male friends more carefully, they just run after any male who can present himself with a big mouth (true or lie does not matter), with big cars (owner or stolen does not matter) with a lot of money (working for it or asking rich parents to help out does not matter), some illegal activity is also appreciated (even waiting for such a guy to be released from jail) etc.
Anyway ALL marriages I know from that time are broken down, but not only from bad boys, also from other men who really had good intention - my opinion and advice: not even willing to try, forget about Western women. It also has to be mentioned that the legal situation is also bad for men, making any break-up lucrative for the woman.
About your stay in Europe, nice to hear you met so many good women, but what was the final result? You are now alone and in USA praying to the Lord. You did not settle down in Europe, and obviously you did not find a good job to continue your stay anywhere outside of the States.