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Discuss what's wrong with American women. Share problems, experiences and stories about them and why they suck so bad that you've had to resort to dating abroad and foreign women.
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One of the paradoxes of American life is that although sex is "everywhere" (e.g. movies, TV advertising, etc.), authentic sexual release with a woman remains out of reach for most American men.
This paradox exists because American women and culture weaponize sex and use it as a whip to control men as beasts of burden. Most American women absolutely detest men, but they want male-produced resources without giving anything back in return. Using the illusion of sexual release as a lure allows American women to get male-produced resources with minimal effort.
I like where you are going with this. I, however, tend to view sex in America as a trap that women use to trap men into giving up resources either willingly or with government help.
I came to this realization by viewing strip club culture. The hottest women exploit men into giving over dollars by tantalizing men with the simple illusion of sex. Of course the men never get the sex, but they collectively willingly fork over BILLIONS of dollars to women each year. The strip club is a microcosm of the extractive role American women play vis a vis men.
Too bad most men will NEVER be able to see this......
The whole goal of American and Anglo society is to exalt women above men and confuse the gender roles. They want to disempower men and empower women.
The farther you get away from Anglophone cultures in general, the more masculine and the more feminine the people are. Masculinity in the USA must be concealed and true femininity is seen as oppressive. So a bunch of constrained people walking around not even knowing they're being starved in the spirit of their true humanity.
Some are even so brainwashed to think that all other cultures are oppressive and therefore inferior, when the propaganda and political advertising which has brainwashed Americans has got them thinking that bitterness is sweet and that sweetness is bitter. You can't even reason with many people because of pride in the nation.
Yep, I suspect this has always been a feature of the Puritan culture. How many men in America are regularly ejaculating inside a vagina? Men are put on a treadmill and made to work harder so they can obtain their biological needs. I've had a lot of lousy sex since then with a few different semi-anonymous partners, but it's been about three years since I last came in a girl.
It's like putting a plastic bag over a worker's head and only piping in oxygen when they complete another task. Except for our generation they forgot to give us any air.
I've also noticed a trend where girls aren't using birth control anymore, making it even harder/riskier to get what we need. I believe child support for 18 years comes out to be about $200,000.
The only outlet for all of this at this time is the availability of free porn 24/7, which is a relatively new development. Look for this to be curbed in the future somehow. Feminists hate porn because it devalues their c**ts, which they are attempting to monetize:
https://splinternews.com/that-time-femi ... 1793850316
I am genuinely perplexed why women seem so supportive of gay rights, as this is another sexual outlet that devalues their vaginas.
The problem is they have finally reached the point where men are saying "enough" and giving up. Male college enrollment and labor participation are at all-time lows. MGTOW is men leaving the negotiation table, which is a good thing. However, I don't expect this situation to be righted in my lifetime.
I myself am contributing to the economy, but the impossibility of creating a stable home life with an attractive woman is putting a massive dent in my productivity. If I could just work 60 hours a week and come home and f**k my wife, that would be a lot more efficient than running around chasing girls, getting depressed, traveling around looking for a better deal, etc. There's no way in hell I would consider a mortgage or marriage in the U.S. given the extreme volatility of life here.
The only guys I know in the U.S. who aren't divorced married unattractive women I wouldn't even have casual sex with. It is common wisdom here that a man should marry an ugly girl if he wants a faithful wife, and if you get burned by an attractive girl, it's your own fault for being picky. There's even a song about this. Men's preferences are utterly ignored, and denying your nature is supposed to be a sign of "maturity" and wisdom:
It is completely accepted that a man who works hard and makes effort to live his life should "date down" with an unattractive woman. The PUA clowns even believe this! When they talk about "hypergamy" they are saying you aren't good enough for her. Think about that! This is supposed to be the "Red Pill"?
I think the next step is going to be monetizing male desperation in a more formal and efficient way. The ultimate goal is for any attractive women to be paid a living wage for doing nothing. Instagram whores, Venmo begging, and make-work corporate jobs are the beginning of that. We already see that any somewhat attractive girl only has to be mildly talented to build a huge following on YouTube that pays better than a regular job.
I predict a new social network will arise where pathetic men can pay women they have never met to "fix the wage gap". Any girl above a 6 will simply live off the contributions of pathetic tech workers who pay them to dress as comic book characters and take pictures. Pathetic Silicon Valley betas are delusional and desperate enough they will happily pay a monthly subscription to "sponsor" a girl they will never meet.
It's because the elitists who run society are homosexual, and to them, being "half woman" (as in gay) is the epitome of perfection, because it combines both male and female in one vessel. In other words, perverts who hate their own masculinity are the ones running our society. So naturally they promote the things they like: homosexuality and women over men.
Anyone supporting homosexuality is supporting the worst evil imaginable, up there with mass murder. So you know, if you hear someone praising homosexuality, especially if they also condemn heterosexuals for any reason, that that is a person who is deeply confused and best avoided. I wouldn't mess with any woman who approved of homosexuality. And I am not talking about the sex act. I am saying those who participate in homosexuality also participate in everything that is crooked and evil. Homosexuality is just one of evil's manifestations, but they are filled with all evil of every type.
These rulers of our societies are homosexuals, but secretly. That's why they exalt women above men, and that's why so many people are brainwashed into thinking homosexuality is cool. It is just a symptom of a corrupt mind and an evil heart. And most people who fall into the "homosexual lifestyle" will face fire and sulfur.
So people think that Vegas has the hottest women in the U.S. strip club industry; they only have SOME of the hottest. Charlotte Black female strippers, to me, are hot, but they are riddled with STD/STis, They are hot because they are mixed with White Virginian, White Appalachian, and some Native American tribes from that area from decades to a century or so back, so a lot of the Black women are like 70-90 percent Black in Charlotte (brown to dark skin).
I brought up Charlotte because that's the last strip club I've been to when I got stuck trying to fly back from DC to San Antonio during an icestorm so the plane made a stop-over in Charlotte and I stayed at a hotel for the night. Company/client paid 100% of the expenses (and I didn't spend shit at the strip club - free admission that was down the street from the hotel). I told a stripper in there that I already been to over 20 foreign countries so why would I pay you just to give me the illusion that you'll fck me.
"Well sir either you pay me or get the hell on"
"Get f***ed off then. Scallie wag you"
No bouncers accosted me so I was good nor have I given a f.cuk.
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You know, Happier Abroad is actually the biggest threat to female domination in the west.
PUAs say you should continue to supplicate female whims, just stop being so unattractive while doing so.
MGTOWs say you should give up because you are undateable. Or something like that. They like to twist their words around depending on the situation.
If all these "boring betas" (which at this point has expanded to include any guy with a full-time job and no criminal record) started going overseas twice a year and just focused on money while in the U.S., the social situation here would change dramatically. When normal men start bringing back foreign girls en masse that are much hotter than the girl they got dumped by, then we will see real change.
However, there's not a lot of jobs out there that allow that much freedom to travel, and for the time being American men seem perfectly content to be a celibate cog in a machine. However, if they start seeing their friends with ridiculously hot women, they might start to increase their expectations. I know two guys who would be very receptive to this message. I can probably do my part to take about ten men off the American dating market.
No, nothing like that. You have a gross misunderstanding of MGTOW unfortunately. What you describe is TFL.
Like I said, they twist their words a lot:
Wow, I guess I am MGTOW since this is all stuff I have done since I was 12, lol!
If you really want to fix things you do this:
1. Outlaw alimony
2. Outlaw child support
3. Ban circumcision
4. Fix the nation-wide sausagefest problem.
No special attitude or self-esteem will fix these issues.
Until these things happen, life in America will always be hell for men.
Last edited by Nailer on July 28th, 2017, 5:54 pm, edited 1 time in total.
No, nothing like that. You have a gross misunderstanding of MGTOW unfortunately. What you describe is TFL.
Before MGTOW, many men were hopping on airplanes and finding wives abroad. Before MGTOW, men were going overseas and expating. Before MGTOW, men knew that divorce was bad in the USA.
There's slogans, and then there is what they are really about: separating the genders, decreasing the birth rate, just like feminism. It's a psychological trap.
No..... MGTOW don't care about fixing these things. Men's Rights Activists care about that Quixotic fight. MGTOW are doing what is in their self-interest to include moving abroad as I have.
Let the West decline and implode for all we care; we'll be watching from a beach with a martini in hand.
MGTOW is a good option for individual Anglo-American men who are unable or unwilling to leave the Anglosphere. Of course, going abroad would technically make you a MGTOW, although most MGTOWs never put that out as a solution.
The problem with MGTOW philosophy is that, like the other manosphere groups, MGTOWs generally do not realize that Anglo-American women and cultures have an inherent hatred for men. Some MGTOWs place the blame on biological gynocentrism, which does not apply to humans because males are superior to females in almost every way. A good example of a species which is actually gynocentric in a biological sense is the Anglerfish (i.e. males exist only as sperm donors and eventually get absorbed by the females). Other MGTOWs blame the legal system without realizing that the system is underpinned by female and cultural hatred for men.
As I said before though, MGTOW is still a good option on a purely individual level for many Anglo-American men.
In American movies and TV show, it tries to make it look like men are getting laid left and right. It will even show women approaching men and asking men out on dates.
Of course, nothing could be further from the truth. Like Winston has stated, in real life, meeting women in America is very difficult, in movies and TV shows it appears to be very easy to meet women and to get laid.
"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"
"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."
I used to correspond with a woman in England who thought American women actually were strong and approaching men. I told her that is not the case. She was surprised.
But don't envy those TV characters, they are just there to teach people the improper way to live and to indoctrinate them with deeply sinful desires. It's meant to show you the wrong way to live, and to value the wrong things, the bad things, instead of the good things.