Join John Adams, world renowned Intl Matchmaker, Monday nights 8:30 EST for Live Webcasts!
And check out Five Reasons why you should attend a FREE AFA Seminar! See locations and dates here.





View Active Topics       View Your Posts       Latest 100 Topics       FAQ Topics       Mobile Friendly Theme


Big Beautiful Women in the USA

Discuss what's wrong with American women. Share problems, experiences and stories about them and why they suck so bad that you've had to resort to dating abroad and foreign women.

Moderators: jamesbond, fschmidt

provocateur
Freshman Poster
Posts: 20
Joined: April 6th, 2012, 6:56 am

Post by provocateur » April 23rd, 2012, 2:05 pm

BBWs. Haha, another buzzword/acronym that is purely American in origin. The real reason that term is around, IMHO, is to make people in that category feel comfortable...and that there is no need to improve. Shoot, one of the dating websites (POF, I think) has "big and beautiful" in a drop-down box for body type.

When looking to date American woman, I lower my expectations significantly. I don't want to lower them, but I have to, or I have nothing (unless I look outside the US or find a rare gem---either way, probably not worth my time).

Finding a decent American woman today is like shopping in a lot of cars that are >20 years old. You hope to avoid---but expect to find and are not surpirsed by---rattles, rust, squeaks, stalling, and leaks. These cars all think they are like brand new, and deserve fetching a top dollar price. No thanks! I am looking elsewhere.




Check out our Dating Sites and International Romance Tours!



matthewcoury
Freshman Poster
Posts: 149
Joined: September 25th, 2014, 5:31 am

Re: lapband

Post by matthewcoury » September 30th, 2014, 4:27 pm

jamesbond wrote:
starkeep wrote:8) how some of these women are grossly obese is beyond me. The laws should be changed for free lapband surgery.
The funny thing is, I see fat women dating guys who are in shape! :shock: Why would a guy who is physically fit date a morbidly obese woman?

I also know some guys who are in shape who are MARRIED to obese women! WTF? Maybe it's because under age 40, single men outnumber single women in the US, so some guys have to settle and take whatever woman they can find (even if she is an obese whale). :lol:
this whole thing is sooo bad....with terms like BBW now women are going to think they can get fat as hell and its not only socially acceptable but attractive...i must admit iam even guilty of trying to date some of these whales.....abandon ship

User avatar
droid
Elite Upper Class Poster
Posts: 3143
Joined: September 20th, 2013, 7:38 am

Post by droid » October 1st, 2014, 2:26 am

aozora13 wrote:Yeah, I was thinking the reason that single guys who are skinny or average weight basically marry overweight and/or close to obese women is because they do not have many options. You have females from 18-30 who basically date anyone who they believe is interesting and is dangerous such as the jocks, fraternity guys, thugs, and biker-related people and then then through aging many have children out of wedlock and become big. The vast majority of BBW (really overweight women) in their younger days could have basically just did simple exercise and/or an activity to keep normal weight. However, indoctrination is strong and although I hear women say they should work out they work out rarely if at all. Also, it disgusts me to see women (who are obviously overweight) with children and you wonder who is the person who was dumb to get this bitch pregnant? I am see this at work too. I also see men who are at 30+ single mothers and used women (look older than actual age from partying and drinking too much) see that the guy who had no attention is looking to be a good 'provider' for their children (single mothers) and children outside of wedlock and/or after marriage.

I guess really most American (Western) men are desperate. This is the only reason and the idea of you being alone if you do not have a girlfriend and/or wife brings men to lower their standards. Now, if men were just tired of big women then possibly it would actually be a positive with overweight (Fat) women having an entitlement complex. However, with the shunning of Fat women wouldn't you have more thin/skinny average women have more of a narcissism complex?

Real Example of what Jamesbond is talking about in his last post: A friend of mine actually went to see a girl who is definitely plump but not obese who he meant on Facebook. I just do not understand it but then I feel that he probably has not had close interaction with a girl in a while since he did not have a steady relationship for about 7-8 months. However, I think that most men do not have strict standards when looking for an American women.
Can't put it any better
Enishi wrote:Not only do many men settle, they're also shamed into trying to convince themselves that they like BBWs by women, manginas, and their own self-inflicted guilt trips.
Absolutely right, especially annoying coming from manginas that tell you not to "demand too much".

matthewcoury wrote:abandon ship
hahaha that's your defacto slogan man, put it in your signature

Image
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?

matthewcoury
Freshman Poster
Posts: 149
Joined: September 25th, 2014, 5:31 am

Post by matthewcoury » October 1st, 2014, 4:27 am

i was just watching the local news...the anchor said "the number one snack in america....potato chips...followed by that are chocolate and cheese.....in Europe, it's cheese, fruit, and....vegetables." Time to abandon ship

User avatar
jamesbond
Elite Upper Class Poster
Posts: 8401
Joined: August 25th, 2007, 6:45 pm
Location: USA

Post by jamesbond » October 1st, 2014, 4:51 pm

Just say "no" to fat chicks! :P

Image
"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"

"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."

sea_dragon
Freshman Poster
Posts: 201
Joined: May 9th, 2014, 6:17 am

Post by sea_dragon » October 1st, 2014, 9:33 pm

They are not beautiful. They are fat pigs, they should be called landwhales. Do not give them any attention, just pretend they are men and move on. And worst of all, they think this is 'normal'!

User avatar
Ghost
Elite Upper Class Poster
Posts: 5945
Joined: April 17th, 2011, 2:23 am
Contact:

Post by Ghost » October 1st, 2014, 10:36 pm

After returning to the U.S. from being abroad for over a year, I've found that I am incapable of being attracted to fat women anymore. So it's even better now since those landwhales are not even the tiniest of distractions. And that includes "plump" women too.
Expatriation Ragnarok
Make the most of going abroad while you still can.
Expatriation Ragnarok - Paperback
PM me to become a member of the Happier Abroad Support Network.

matthewcoury
Freshman Poster
Posts: 149
Joined: September 25th, 2014, 5:31 am

Post by matthewcoury » October 1st, 2014, 10:53 pm

jamesbond wrote:Just say "no" to fat chicks! :P

Image
just look at this womans attitude...she shouldve got buzzed the second she walked on stage haha https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZSFVl-w6n7U

User avatar
E Irizarry R&B Singer
Veteran Poster
Posts: 2315
Joined: April 19th, 2013, 1:26 am
Location: The fuckin' U.S. of Gay *ugh*

Post by E Irizarry R&B Singer » October 2nd, 2014, 2:52 am

matthewcoury wrote:
jamesbond wrote:Just say "no" to fat chicks! :P

Image
just look at this womans attitude...she shouldve got buzzed the second she walked on stage haha https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZSFVl-w6n7U

She needs her own Boeing 777X jet!!! :shock:
Nick Cannon would have lost his job if he had said "Big Pun intended" when the woman said she had the guts to do the stripper pole act! lmao
It's time to expatriate to evade your fate; it's time to expatriate before the barn door permanently closes on "US" sheep.
- Follow me on Twitter @eirizarryRNB

DanielleNguyen
Freshman Poster
Posts: 320
Joined: October 9th, 2013, 6:19 pm
Location: North dakota

Post by DanielleNguyen » October 2nd, 2014, 1:08 pm

I think it's the porn industry. Seriously, the use of heavy set women in porn in America has really increased. I have a friend who collects tons of it. Very few American women are petite and with more of heavy set women popping up in porn and what not of course heavy set girls are going to believe they are beautiful....like porn stars.

User avatar
E Irizarry R&B Singer
Veteran Poster
Posts: 2315
Joined: April 19th, 2013, 1:26 am
Location: The fuckin' U.S. of Gay *ugh*

Post by E Irizarry R&B Singer » October 2nd, 2014, 4:17 pm

DanielleNguyen wrote:I think it's the p**n industry. Seriously, the use of heavy set women in p**n in America has really increased. I have a friend who collects tons of it. Very few American women are petite and with more of heavy set women popping up in p**n and what not of course heavy set girls are going to believe they are beautiful....like p**n stars.
Alas the shaving p.ussy bald by most American women of all generations nowadays. An HA member told me that is the reason why Ameican women shave it bald now: they watch p.orn that started having their actors and actresses shaving it bald.
It's time to expatriate to evade your fate; it's time to expatriate before the barn door permanently closes on "US" sheep.
- Follow me on Twitter @eirizarryRNB

DanielleNguyen
Freshman Poster
Posts: 320
Joined: October 9th, 2013, 6:19 pm
Location: North dakota

Post by DanielleNguyen » October 2nd, 2014, 7:06 pm

If you go completely bald wouldn't you kinda look like a child?

hammanta
Junior Poster
Posts: 652
Joined: July 14th, 2013, 5:36 pm
Location: East Coast of USA

Post by hammanta » October 2nd, 2014, 7:41 pm

The sad part is I know plenty of guys who love those types of women. I worked with a guy who loved to have farting contests in bed with his girl. Others I know love the fat cellulite butts and the like. Another guy prides himself on the fact that he sleeps with "big" girls.

Its a plea to make themselves feel better. It has become the new normal. The "why should we change, you should change your opinion" thought. If I had a dollar for every "inspirational" talk put on by the media about how big is beautiful, I'd be able to retire at 24. I'm all for feeling good about yourself and gaining confidence but not if it come's with pure ignorance. What they haven't fully realized is that it is legitimately killing people and straining our financial system. High Carb and sugar intake has been directly linked to Alzheimer's, among many other diseases. Heart disease is not caused by high cholesterol but by refined, processed foods that destroy the inner lining of our arteries. Its a total sham and it sucks seeing friends and family members fall victim.

Post Reply
  • Similar Topics
    Replies
    Views
    Last post

Return to “Anti-American Women Rants”