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Discussion for marriage-minded members seeking foreign brides for marriage and serious long-term relationships.
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International dating services and their promises
From ancient times matchmaker performed a very important role in human society. He or she helped to create new families.
The work of the matchmaker consisted of several stages:
1. The creation of client’s database of potential brides and grooms.
1.Meeting with every client. Learning of every potential bride and groom, receiving information about his occupation, education, character, customs and expectations from the future partner.
2.Searching for suitable candidates for the client.
3.Organization of communication and dates between clients.
4.Collecting feedback from the clients, if there is a need – looking for more suitable candidates.
5.Discussing with the client his dating experience, joint discussion of unsuccessful dates, advising useful tips for future dates success.
The majority of dating agencies, helping to meet Russian brides, take on it only stage “The creation of client’s database of potential brides and grooms”. Agencies just simply sell you the contacts of the girls, that as if want to marry a foreigner. I used the phrase “as if” not by chance.
The simple selling of contacts without any responsibility for a “quality” of contacts brings the appearance of professional scammers.
You often may discover the same profile and the same photos of the girl you just communicated at the dozens other dating sites.
In fact these are scammers that just suck money and presents from you.
It is not the only danger. Nothing prevents from the dating agency to use phony brides that make you expend money about paid services (letters, calling and translations).
The necessity to sell contacts and paid services of translations bring to appearance in some agencies fake brides. Usually these are beautiful young ladies of model appearance that show the interest to you. They are needed in order to justify money you paid to the agency. After several dozens of letters and couple of talks they disappear. The agency performed its task – you had the opportunity to contact a beautiful woman and agency wasn’t responsible that you didn’t attract any further interest from a girl. And you continue to pay further because you smell the smell of victory – you were close to start a real connection with gorgeous lady you weren’t dare in your country.
Even if you use an agency’s database and communicate with ordinary woman without any fraudulent intentions - your chances to find your chosen one are low and these are the reasons:
1. Generally agency doesn’t check the validity of the information provided to you by the lady (it is not profitable for the agency to sort out potential contacts it can sell to you).
2. The agency doesn’t help you to choose the right lady for the start of communication. You spend a lot of time to sort out the candidates that are absolutely irrelevant to you.
3.The main thing – the agency is interested in process (to continue receiving money from you) and isn’t interested in the result (to marry you).
And now read again the list of the stages for matchmaker work and compare with work that internet dating agency does.
The source is here:
https://realrussianbride.com/ru/the-phe ... r-promises