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Thailand - my impressions

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Postby Twobrains » Sat Sep 10, 2011 10:29 am

Repatriate wrote:Just a heads up, but i've been in Thailand a rather long time now (going on 5 years) so I feel qualified to make a few comments. I do think Thai women as a whole make a poor choice as long term partners. This is a generalization and there are exceptions about it but in general the culture is exceedingly superficial with few redeeming qualities on the interior. Everyone pretends to be pleasant on the exterior but there are a lot of disturbing undercurrents to that feigned placidity.

Everyone here on the forum is mostly fed up with the U.S. but believe me Thailand can be much worse in some respects. I'm not quite as negative about Thailand as Ladislav and don't agree with many of his points but there is definitely a harsh reality about the country that many people ignore.


Thanks for confirming what I suspected. When you have plenty of money and things are going well, Thailand could be a great playground. But if you get in trouble, you're going to experience that harsh reality, in my view.
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Postby Banano » Sat Sep 10, 2011 11:55 am

I was there 3-4 times and from my experience they are the friendliest people you can meet(land of smile), as in no ice barrier, no bitch shield n its really easy to score for average joe. They live in the moment, no future nor past...I dont know if they are ok for long term but its hard to imagine that they can be worse then western women..nobody is perfect but sayin thailand is bad place to find women is the same as sayin everywhere sucks!!I like thai women better then philipino or viet coz they have bigger bodies n 100 times friendlier and easier going then viet chiks...Thailand is the most popular destination for sex seekers and thats for a reason
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Postby rome86 » Sun Sep 11, 2011 6:08 pm

Repatriate wrote:Just a heads up, but i've been in Thailand a rather long time now (going on 5 years) so I feel qualified to make a few comments. I do think Thai women as a whole make a poor choice as long term partners. This is a generalization and there are exceptions about it but in general the culture is exceedingly superficial with few redeeming qualities on the interior. Everyone pretends to be pleasant on the exterior but there are a lot of disturbing undercurrents to that feigned placidity.

Everyone here on the forum is mostly fed up with the U.S. but believe me Thailand can be much worse in some respects. I'm not quite as negative about Thailand as Ladislav and don't agree with many of his points but there is definitely a harsh reality about the country that many people ignore.

well that does not surprise me, the love of money is the root of all evil .. there is no way that a society where people love money like a God could have good minded people NO WAY .. if i go to thailand it will be for business. i won't touch any woman even if she approaches me..
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Postby E_Irizarry » Sun Sep 11, 2011 6:20 pm

Whilst most of you guys on this thread have valid, good points, I feel that due to it's cheapness for most things, even for food and getting ass (i.e. whoremongering), it's worth putting up with T/hailand.

However, if Thailand were to become expensive like the Anglosphere, then Thailand will not be revisted - ever....although it's one of my favorite countries for food ever!
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Postby swincor » Sun Sep 11, 2011 11:56 pm

Repatriate wrote:Just a heads up, but i've been in Thailand a rather long time now (going on 5 years) so I feel qualified to make a few comments. I do think Thai women as a whole make a poor choice as long term partners. This is a generalization and there are exceptions about it but in general the culture is exceedingly superficial with few redeeming qualities on the interior. Everyone pretends to be pleasant on the exterior but there are a lot of disturbing undercurrents to that feigned placidity.

Everyone here on the forum is mostly fed up with the U.S. but believe me Thailand can be much worse in some respects. I'm not quite as negative about Thailand as Ladislav and don't agree with many of his points but there is definitely a harsh reality about the country that many people ignore.



How about some real-life examples to illustrate this "harsh reality"?
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Postby green1976 » Sat Sep 17, 2011 7:27 pm

Banano wrote:I was there 3-4 times and from my experience they are the friendliest people you can meet(land of smile), as in no ice barrier, no bitch shield n its really easy to score for average joe. They live in the moment, no future nor past...I dont know if they are ok for long term but its hard to imagine that they can be worse then western women..nobody is perfect but sayin thailand is bad place to find women is the same as sayin everywhere sucks!!I like thai women better then philipino or viet coz they have bigger bodies n 100 times friendlier and easier going then viet chiks...Thailand is the most popular destination for sex seekers and thats for a reason


I go there many times since 4 years and i had done the essential stuff:p4p,girlfriend,old lady,young lady,countryside,high society in Bangkok,hookers from Nana and so on.

In all of the countries i have done,Latin America included,i had the easiest time to get laid,to have girlfriends or having fun in Thailand.

The girls there are totally anti ice barrier(the only ones who can be more cold are the hi society from Bangkok).

I'm just a regular Joe has we say,nothing extraordinary about my look(I'm 6'2,175 lbs and quit athletic)but only my appearance(western Mediterranean and tall in Thailand)get me plenty of girl very easily.

As an example,i went alone without any contact, in the North East of Thailand,and in 2 weeks i had 2 girlfriends and some others 4 were interested in me.
Not kidding..it was not hookers.

I was planning before my trip,to go to find some bargirls but no need to do that.

I just walked around,and i had some girls who spontaneously talked to me,wanting to know where i was from,what i was doing in Thailand.

They just asked me the famous question if i had a girlfriend in Thailand and were surprised that no..that i was alone.

Well talking about long term relationship,i would not give a try without living in Thailand atleast half of the year.
Learning the language,having a better comprehension of the culture is a big advantage too.

It's true that some western males get screwed or lose all their money but comon..if they find their wife in a p4p place,they chances are far worst than for example from a girl in Bangkok who is independent financially.

Some men also delude themselves and forget that to be twice the age of their sweetheart is not a good start to build a long term relationship who is not only about money.

Anyway,i think it's always better for a pensioner to have a nice looking young Thai girl who is there for the money and can take care good of him,than to die in loneliness in western lands.

I just would say that Thailand is a great place to go having sex around,go to p4p places but to build a long term relationship,one should be more cautious.

Thai lady are very practical..they can give you the best in sex and affection,but things can disappear as soon as it has come.
Relation are very casual and free.

Their mind are totaly different in what we know here in our countries.

Yes the ice barrier is almost not there,but things can end up very quickly.
I can say also,that in general,Thai ladies are very sexual in their way of being,they act feminine,like to be looked and desired by men,and a regular western guy,better young,would have no problem to enjoy his days there.

There is no comparison possible between how western women are educated regarding men,and how Thai ladies are.
Even,i knew some Thai couples and far away,Thai women are hard working and know how to take care of a men.
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Postby Rock » Sat Sep 17, 2011 8:49 pm

green1976 wrote:
Banano wrote:I was there 3-4 times and from my experience they are the friendliest people you can meet(land of smile), as in no ice barrier, no bitch shield n its really easy to score for average joe. They live in the moment, no future nor past...I dont know if they are ok for long term but its hard to imagine that they can be worse then western women..nobody is perfect but sayin thailand is bad place to find women is the same as sayin everywhere sucks!!I like thai women better then philipino or viet coz they have bigger bodies n 100 times friendlier and easier going then viet chiks...Thailand is the most popular destination for sex seekers and thats for a reason


I go there many times since 4 years and i had done the essential stuff:p4p,girlfriend,old lady,young lady,countryside,high society in Bangkok,hookers from Nana and so on.

In all of the countries i have done,Latin America included,i had the easiest time to get laid,to have girlfriends or having fun in Thailand.

The girls there are totally anti ice barrier(the only ones who can be more cold are the hi society from Bangkok).

I'm just a regular Joe has we say,nothing extraordinary about my look(I'm 6'2,175 lbs and quit athletic)but only my appearance(western Mediterranean and tall in Thailand)get me plenty of girl very easily.

As an example,i went alone without any contact, in the North East of Thailand,and in 2 weeks i had 2 girlfriends and some others 4 were interested in me.
Not kidding..it was not hookers.

I was planning before my trip,to go to find some bargirls but no need to do that.

I just walked around,and i had some girls who spontaneously talked to me,wanting to know where i was from,what i was doing in Thailand.

They just asked me the famous question if i had a girlfriend in Thailand and were surprised that no..that i was alone.

Well talking about long term relationship,i would not give a try without living in Thailand atleast half of the year.
Learning the language,having a better comprehension of the culture is a big advantage too.

It's true that some western males get screwed or lose all their money but comon..if they find their wife in a p4p place,they chances are far worst than for example from a girl in Bangkok who is independent financially.

Some men also delude themselves and forget that to be twice the age of their sweetheart is not a good start to build a long term relationship who is not only about money.

Anyway,i think it's always better for a pensioner to have a nice looking young Thai girl who is there for the money and can take care good of him,than to die in loneliness in western lands.

I just would say that Thailand is a great place to go having sex around,go to p4p places but to build a long term relationship,one should be more cautious.

Thai lady are very practical..they can give you the best in sex and affection,but things can disappear as soon as it has come.
Relation are very casual and free.

Their mind are totaly different in what we know here in our countries.

Yes the ice barrier is almost not there,but things can end up very quickly.
I can say also,that in general,Thai ladies are very sexual in their way of being,they act feminine,like to be looked and desired by men,and a regular western guy,better young,would have no problem to enjoy his days there.
There is no comparison possible between how western women are educated regarding men,and how Thai ladies are.
Even,i knew some Thai couples and far away,Thai women are hard working and know how to take care of a men.


I guess you don't speak Thai. Cus according to Lad, most of the people there actually hate you since you are not Asian. If you understood Thai and could read the people, your would realize that you are constantly being insulted and slurred wherever you go there. As for lots of local girls being interested in you romantically, Lad has never explained that implicit contradiction (being attracted to you even though they bitterly can't stand you). Cus that tends to be the experience of many decent looking westerners in Thailand these days I think. If you're curious enough, you can ask him about that.
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Postby green1976 » Sat Sep 17, 2011 10:51 pm

Rock wrote:
green1976 wrote:
Banano wrote:I was there 3-4 times and from my experience they are the friendliest people you can meet(land of smile), as in no ice barrier, no bitch shield n its really easy to score for average joe. They live in the moment, no future nor past...I dont know if they are ok for long term but its hard to imagine that they can be worse then western women..nobody is perfect but sayin thailand is bad place to find women is the same as sayin everywhere sucks!!I like thai women better then philipino or viet coz they have bigger bodies n 100 times friendlier and easier going then viet chiks...Thailand is the most popular destination for sex seekers and thats for a reason


I go there many times since 4 years and i had done the essential stuff:p4p,girlfriend,old lady,young lady,countryside,high society in Bangkok,hookers from Nana and so on.

In all of the countries i have done,Latin America included,i had the easiest time to get laid,to have girlfriends or having fun in Thailand.

The girls there are totally anti ice barrier(the only ones who can be more cold are the hi society from Bangkok).

I'm just a regular Joe has we say,nothing extraordinary about my look(I'm 6'2,175 lbs and quit athletic)but only my appearance(western Mediterranean and tall in Thailand)get me plenty of girl very easily.

As an example,i went alone without any contact, in the North East of Thailand,and in 2 weeks i had 2 girlfriends and some others 4 were interested in me.
Not kidding..it was not hookers.

I was planning before my trip,to go to find some bargirls but no need to do that.

I just walked around,and i had some girls who spontaneously talked to me,wanting to know where i was from,what i was doing in Thailand.

They just asked me the famous question if i had a girlfriend in Thailand and were surprised that no..that i was alone.

Well talking about long term relationship,i would not give a try without living in Thailand atleast half of the year.
Learning the language,having a better comprehension of the culture is a big advantage too.

It's true that some western males get screwed or lose all their money but comon..if they find their wife in a p4p place,they chances are far worst than for example from a girl in Bangkok who is independent financially.

Some men also delude themselves and forget that to be twice the age of their sweetheart is not a good start to build a long term relationship who is not only about money.

Anyway,i think it's always better for a pensioner to have a nice looking young Thai girl who is there for the money and can take care good of him,than to die in loneliness in western lands.

I just would say that Thailand is a great place to go having sex around,go to p4p places but to build a long term relationship,one should be more cautious.

Thai lady are very practical..they can give you the best in sex and affection,but things can disappear as soon as it has come.
Relation are very casual and free.

Their mind are totaly different in what we know here in our countries.

Yes the ice barrier is almost not there,but things can end up very quickly.
I can say also,that in general,Thai ladies are very sexual in their way of being,they act feminine,like to be looked and desired by men,and a regular western guy,better young,would have no problem to enjoy his days there.
There is no comparison possible between how western women are educated regarding men,and how Thai ladies are.
Even,i knew some Thai couples and far away,Thai women are hard working and know how to take care of a men.


I guess you don't speak Thai. Cus according to Lad, most of the people there actually hate you since you are not Asian. If you understood Thai and could read the people, your would realize that you are constantly being insulted and slurred wherever you go there. As for lots of local girls being interested in you romantically, Lad has never explained that implicit contradiction (being attracted to you even though they bitterly can't stand you). Cus that tends to be the experience of many decent looking westerners in Thailand these days I think. If you're curious enough, you can ask him about that.


Well i don't speak fully Thai,but i can understand some few things and especially the bad mouthed type.
I totally disagree that they are insulting me or slurred me wherever i go there haha.

We could talk about the fakes smiles why not,or the atm machine they see in us for some?
But to imply that i'm a target or they hate me just because i'm not Asian..it's not true and surely not true for most westerners.

For example,Pattaya is in Thailand but just a part of Thailand.
If those guys make their assumptions just by being in Pattaya and considering this is all Thailand and Thai ladies are like that..they are wrong and could become very bitter and jaded.

http://www.bangkokdiaries.com/2007/08/2 ... ai-person/

Pattaya is f**k and forget.
You fall in love there with a bargirl..you are almost finished and your wallet too.. :D

I would recognize that from some others westerners maybe things are different why not?.
Not everybody is on the same boat..some people attract...other repulse.
Some have charisma...others not.

I'm not standing especially above the hill,but i'm younger that the average expat or western man engaged with a Thai women.

My experience or the things i'm telling, have been already told by others of my friends who have my age ,some of them speak Thai and live in Thailand.
They have no problem to f**k around or get girlfriends.
This is why i went to Thailand at the first place.

Now, not only i go to have fun but i go to make a new life,learning the language and planning another beginning.

There have being recently an article in the Bangkok Post if i remember where they where telling that more and more Thai woman,not the poor one,but the educated one having good job are looking more and more for western or East Asian partner(Japan particularly).

From Bangkok Diaries.
http://www.bangkokdiaries.com/2010/01/2 ... r-farangs/

http://www.bangkokdiaries.com/2009/08/1 ... reign-guy/

http://www.bangkokdiaries.com/2008/07/0 ... arangland/


Some people here should just take a look on other website and forum regarding Thailand,Thai ladies and Thai society.

If you put everything on perspective..i don't say that all is pink and all ladies love me in a blink of the eye of course.
This would be illogical.

It's just common sense..not because some men and that's my case,don't get the amount of sex or more in the West,that we have to loose our brain.

So at the end..i totally disagree that they hate me lol.

I've had numerous girlfriends who were ready to stay more time with me and why not,have something more serious.
I couldn't went further because i'm not living in Thailand at the moment.

I reckon, i agree that we disagree with Lad and others who are defending this point of view that Thai hate those who are not Asian(for example Japanese)

I have nothing to envy from the regular Joe from Tokyo who come to Thailand.

The ones who are not so much liked in Thailand and by the women, are the Indian or Arab type and to some extent,they are not too interested in men who have dark skin.

But this is a common places in all Thailand...where everybody want to be white and not dark skinned type.

I can assure here,to our readers,that if somebody,especially young even average Joe,don't go to Thailand because they think they hate westerners..they are doing a big mistake.

Thailand is really the place to be for having delicious time with sexy girls.

I would never go back to the time when i had to date western women and eat the shit i had too.
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Postby Rock » Sun Sep 18, 2011 12:56 am

green1976 wrote:
Rock wrote:
green1976 wrote:
Banano wrote:I was there 3-4 times and from my experience they are the friendliest people you can meet(land of smile), as in no ice barrier, no bitch shield n its really easy to score for average joe. They live in the moment, no future nor past...I dont know if they are ok for long term but its hard to imagine that they can be worse then western women..nobody is perfect but sayin thailand is bad place to find women is the same as sayin everywhere sucks!!I like thai women better then philipino or viet coz they have bigger bodies n 100 times friendlier and easier going then viet chiks...Thailand is the most popular destination for sex seekers and thats for a reason


I go there many times since 4 years and i had done the essential stuff:p4p,girlfriend,old lady,young lady,countryside,high society in Bangkok,hookers from Nana and so on.

In all of the countries i have done,Latin America included,i had the easiest time to get laid,to have girlfriends or having fun in Thailand.

The girls there are totally anti ice barrier(the only ones who can be more cold are the hi society from Bangkok).

I'm just a regular Joe has we say,nothing extraordinary about my look(I'm 6'2,175 lbs and quit athletic)but only my appearance(western Mediterranean and tall in Thailand)get me plenty of girl very easily.

As an example,i went alone without any contact, in the North East of Thailand,and in 2 weeks i had 2 girlfriends and some others 4 were interested in me.
Not kidding..it was not hookers.

I was planning before my trip,to go to find some bargirls but no need to do that.

I just walked around,and i had some girls who spontaneously talked to me,wanting to know where i was from,what i was doing in Thailand.

They just asked me the famous question if i had a girlfriend in Thailand and were surprised that no..that i was alone.

Well talking about long term relationship,i would not give a try without living in Thailand atleast half of the year.
Learning the language,having a better comprehension of the culture is a big advantage too.

It's true that some western males get screwed or lose all their money but comon..if they find their wife in a p4p place,they chances are far worst than for example from a girl in Bangkok who is independent financially.

Some men also delude themselves and forget that to be twice the age of their sweetheart is not a good start to build a long term relationship who is not only about money.

Anyway,i think it's always better for a pensioner to have a nice looking young Thai girl who is there for the money and can take care good of him,than to die in loneliness in western lands.

I just would say that Thailand is a great place to go having sex around,go to p4p places but to build a long term relationship,one should be more cautious.

Thai lady are very practical..they can give you the best in sex and affection,but things can disappear as soon as it has come.
Relation are very casual and free.

Their mind are totaly different in what we know here in our countries.

Yes the ice barrier is almost not there,but things can end up very quickly.
I can say also,that in general,Thai ladies are very sexual in their way of being,they act feminine,like to be looked and desired by men,and a regular western guy,better young,would have no problem to enjoy his days there.
There is no comparison possible between how western women are educated regarding men,and how Thai ladies are.
Even,i knew some Thai couples and far away,Thai women are hard working and know how to take care of a men.


I guess you don't speak Thai. Cus according to Lad, most of the people there actually hate you since you are not Asian. If you understood Thai and could read the people, your would realize that you are constantly being insulted and slurred wherever you go there. As for lots of local girls being interested in you romantically, Lad has never explained that implicit contradiction (being attracted to you even though they bitterly can't stand you). Cus that tends to be the experience of many decent looking westerners in Thailand these days I think. If you're curious enough, you can ask him about that.


Well i don't speak fully Thai,but i can understand some few things and especially the bad mouthed type.
I totally disagree that they are insulting me or slurred me wherever i go there haha.

We could talk about the fakes smiles why not,or the atm machine they see in us for some?
But to imply that i'm a target or they hate me just because i'm not Asian..it's not true and surely not true for most westerners.

For example,Pattaya is in Thailand but just a part of Thailand.
If those guys make their assumptions just by being in Pattaya and considering this is all Thailand and Thai ladies are like that..they are wrong and could become very bitter and jaded.

http://www.bangkokdiaries.com/2007/08/2 ... ai-person/

Pattaya is f**k and forget.
You fall in love there with a bargirl..you are almost finished and your wallet too.. :D

I would recognize that from some others westerners maybe things are different why not?.
Not everybody is on the same boat..some people attract...other repulse.
Some have charisma...others not.

I'm not standing especially above the hill,but i'm younger that the average expat or western man engaged with a Thai women.

My experience or the things i'm telling, have been already told by others of my friends who have my age ,some of them speak Thai and live in Thailand.
They have no problem to f**k around or get girlfriends.
This is why i went to Thailand at the first place.

Now, not only i go to have fun but i go to make a new life,learning the language and planning another beginning.

There have being recently an article in the Bangkok Post if i remember where they where telling that more and more Thai woman,not the poor one,but the educated one having good job are looking more and more for western or East Asian partner(Japan particularly).

From Bangkok Diaries.
http://www.bangkokdiaries.com/2010/01/2 ... r-farangs/

http://www.bangkokdiaries.com/2009/08/1 ... reign-guy/

http://www.bangkokdiaries.com/2008/07/0 ... arangland/


Some people here should just take a look on other website and forum regarding Thailand,Thai ladies and Thai society.

If you put everything on perspective..i don't say that all is pink and all ladies love me in a blink of the eye of course.
This would be illogical.

It's just common sense..not because some men and that's my case,don't get the amount of sex or more in the West,that we have to loose our brain.

So at the end..i totally disagree that they hate me lol.

I've had numerous girlfriends who were ready to stay more time with me and why not,have something more serious.
I couldn't went further because i'm not living in Thailand at the moment.

I reckon, i agree that we disagree with Lad and others who are defending this point of view that Thai hate those who are not Asian(for example Japanese)

I have nothing to envy from the regular Joe from Tokyo who come to Thailand.

The ones who are not so much liked in Thailand and by the women, are the Indian or Arab type and to some extent,they are not too interested in men who have dark skin.

But this is a common places in all Thailand...where everybody want to be white and not dark skinned type.

I can assure here,to our readers,that if somebody,especially young even average Joe,don't go to Thailand because they think they hate westerners..they are doing a big mistake.

Thailand is really the place to be for having delicious time with sexy girls.

I would never go back to the time when i had to date western women and eat the shit i had too.


Well green, Lad has a very hard head when it comes to his belief system about Thailand - great for Asians but a living hell for westerners. He spent a few years there about 20 years ago and picked-up fluent Thai according to his own account. Back then, he was late 20s/early 30s so not that old but also not young. These days, Thailand is full of late teens/early 20s westerners, especially in certain party spots. So perhaps its better for them? Anyway, he will deny that it can be good for about any westerner who decides to stay long term and who does not have a lot of money and/or the ability to be insulated in an expat bubble from local society.

Personally, I tend to agree more with your version and do know a several westerners who are happy there including some Thai speakers. I also know western guys who have a lot of experience both there and PI and who strongly prefer Thailand. So experiences do vary tremendously from person to person.
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Postby green1976 » Sun Sep 18, 2011 3:17 am

Well Rock, i understand that things probably were different 20 years ago..surely they weren't so many westerners and also i know that to live there for a long time, has many differences than to go there just for a short time.

Some aspects of Thai life aren't positive for me but the overall girlfriends possibility,the food,the party mentality of Thailand,make me inclined to take the good side of Thailand and out weight the bad.

I wouldn't talk about all my nice encounters of the opposite sex,either p4p or not..but i can just say that they were very pleasant most of the time.

There is also this part of Thailand, stronger in the poor countryside,were they expect that the foreigner have the wallet full and open.

That's a reality..better to know but this doesn't stopped me to meet nice ladies who weren't about the money because we have connected well.

I'm not a teen or a 20 years old..i'm 35 but some years ago i went to a Thai high school after having chatted with a Thai girl.
At the beginning, i didn't know she was so young and i told her i was in my 30's, but she was ok to meet me..so we became good friend.

Well, i spent some time in her city visiting her school.
Damn..it was crazy...i was like a little rock celebrity or something like that.
I could not even believe my mind.
Some girls came spontaneously to ask my name,wanting to know more and so on.

She told me they had before an exchange student from Sweden and he was very popular with girls and gays.
I can imagine that.

I think that is true that Thailand has changed a lot in 20 years.
They get more open..more and more young westerners are coming.

What is quit crazy about this country is the party mentality they have.
When they have time for dancing,drinking,enjoying life..they go there.
Prostitution is very common.

Everyday when i was in some cities of the Northeast Thailand, discos were packed.
I reckoned when this people work?

I've never been during the Thai new year but it's a crazy party all over the country.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V8MU45ejw9k&feature=related[/youtube]

I checked during these days dozens and dozens of video on Youtube and you can see how Thailand is quit apart and an open society regarding sex,sexual orientation(ladyboys,gays,lesbian..)

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IyBN_868t-E&feature=related[/youtube]

I wouldn't be surprised that the man is the father of this girl :D
These people are insane man!!haha
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Postby Rock » Sun Sep 18, 2011 4:08 am

Thailand creates amazing illusions to western men, its surreal. If you take it in short bursts, its amazing. But it can be like a venus fly trap to so many guys, so easy to get sucked-in. If you're a working stiff in the west, its so tempting to leave everything for permanent paradise there - teach English, open a bar, do some online trading, go into business, etc. But...this planet is earth, not heaven. The longer you stay and the deeper you get involved, the more you realize the ugly underbelly of it all. In my mind, Thailand is very sweet and very sour. It is anything but boring. It will give you an emotional roller coaster. You can be a rock star one day an d a pariah the next. Don't even try to apply logic to the experiences it gives you because its just not a left brained kind of place. Just go with the flow but when you sense a tsunami coming, get out of dodge before its too late.
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Postby Corker » Sun Sep 18, 2011 11:30 am

As a regular visitor to Thailand for the past 10 years I guess I can speak with some authority on the subject as I well may do in future posts but on this occasion let me assure readers that the books found on the http://moneynumberone.net web site are not written by a whore monger at all and have become almost a must read for male visitors to this beautiful country with it's equally beautiful people.

The author is an Australian expat who found happiness for the fist time in his 40 odd years of existence while visiting the Thai resort city of Pattaya and put the first book of the series (Money Number One) together after hearing so many often tragic and often hilarious accounts of the inter-reactions between the Thai people and their foreign visitors.

The book was originally put together as a very humorous and tongue in cheek guide for the first time visitors to Thailand and met with such success and popularity, that the author continued the series with several others which also became extremely popular.

I too tried to find the books on Amazon but found that they are now only available from the money number one web site as PDF's or from book shops in Thailand itself as they were constantly being sold out.

I've read them all at least twice and still find myself in fits of laughter each time and would highly recommend them to anyone (male, female, single or attached) contemplating a visit to Thailand. There's some interesting reading on the site itself as well.

http://moneynumberone.net/pattaya-girls-what-you-need-to-know/

http://thebestgps.org
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Postby green1976 » Sun Sep 18, 2011 2:54 pm

To apply totally our logic to Thailand and how to deal with everyday life or relationship,the guy could get really lost fast.
It's like a roller coaster it's true.

I can't count how some reactions from my numerous girlfriends where totally weird for me but i understand quit fast to have the mai pen rai(take easy) attitude and move to another girl if something was too negative.
Everything can go so fast.

I will never open any business in Thailand.
I even think it's crazy to do that, many westerners loose everything and the paradise become the hell.

Not everybody is suited for Thailand and Thai ladies.

The man who is looking for some kind of "love forever"maybe he will find a better direction looking at the Philippines, having a Catholic background.

I've learned a lot in my various trip..i've have still a lot to learn.

This country fit me well because i'm not the type of guy who looked to have a "one wife"life..so to f**k around is right for me in Thailand.

Anyway,i will never invest any sort of money in Thailand.
To easy to end up with nothing.

I just work in France..hopefully soon i will have the income to go to Thailand at least 5 months per year and improving my knowledge.

Also,i'm open to discover Laos or Cambodia too.

Take a look at Private Dancer book.

http://www.amazon.com/Private-Dancer-St ... 9810539169
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Postby newlife » Wed Sep 21, 2011 9:57 pm

Thai women are wonderful. My Thai wife has beautiful brown skin. She is from Isaan. Oooohh she is so sexy and feminine!

SE Asian women are hot stuff!
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Postby jcris7 » Wed Sep 21, 2011 11:21 pm

I haven't given much thought about Thailand, but after reading through some of these posts, it definitely seems like a take it or leave it proposition. I do not see myself living there, for sure. Don't feel any kind of resonance, connection or interest in residing there.

Right now in my life, at 26, being a sterile male (not by choice either), I am still 50/50 between girlfriend->wife or lifetime playboy. Both of them have their appeals to me. Thailand may be a good fit if I decide the latter.
"Women age like milk; Men age like wine." - Tom Leykis
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