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Postby Taco » March 19th, 2012, 2:52 pm

In China, like all of Asia, the pressure to get married is always on the women not the men. No matter how successful a Chinese woman is, she'll always be viewed as "damaged goods" without a husband. If you want a Chinese bride, theres one waiting for you!

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Postby chanta76 » March 20th, 2012, 6:43 am

Not sure how much the article is bias. There is more men in China than women but probably the reason why these Chinese women are still single is not because guys don't want to go out with them but more likely the CHinese women have such high standards.
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Postby xiongmao » March 30th, 2012, 7:53 pm

There's no shortage of men in China, but there's serious shortage of alpha males.

I know a self made Chinese woman who has a million dollars in the bank, but she can't find a man for love nor money. She is great, but my goodness she is formidable.
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Postby ph_visitor » March 31st, 2012, 12:27 am

It's true. 26 is an old maid in China. All marry or give up by 30.
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Postby The_Hero_of_Men » March 31st, 2012, 1:41 am

ph_visitor wrote:It's true. 26 is an old maid in China. All marry or give up by 30.



Assuming that this question has not been asked before, I will ask it: Are Chinese women generally attracted to black men, or do they have negative views on brothers? I'm asking that because China does seem like a hotspot to find a wife.
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Postby keius » March 31st, 2012, 4:43 am

Generally, it's negative. There are always exceptions to the rule but it'd be another barrier to finding that ideal lady. Hate to say it but racism, even the kind of subdued racism you will find in China, is still racism.

Now, if you consider the fact that most won't consider you BF/marriage material, there is still a huge pool of perspective mates, and your odds aren't really that bad, especially if you learn to speak some of the native tongue.

The problem lies in the fact that most Chinese girls are very very practical nowadays. Don't speak Chinese? Not loaded? Crappy earning power? And Black on top of that? If all you've got going for you is the potential for a Green Card, well, China may not be the place for you. Unless you just want to mess around, have some fun, and get a good feel for the place.

My personal opinion is that you never know if it's right for you until you try.
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Postby ph_visitor » March 31st, 2012, 10:32 am

Go to a club, pick up a drunk Chinese girl, she rolls on the wild side that night...and forget about ever seeing her again. It's that taboo, forbidden, big dick, black skin, the helpless yellow flower being split open by the savage black spear, thing. Seen it myself. Some Chinese women want to be bad, but you won't ever be able to even text her after she wakes up and sobers up the next day.
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Postby Fenix » March 31st, 2012, 11:34 pm

I am black and from my experience, Chinese women are attracted to me. I used to think Asian women didn't dig me because of the color of my skin, but I know it's bullshit. Korean, Chinese and Japanese, in my experience, like black guys. I talked to many of them that do.
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Postby xiongmao » April 4th, 2012, 10:23 pm

There are loads of black men in China, especially Guangzhou. I don't know the full story but I gather they work in the import/export business and do plenty of hustling.

There are also a lot of black women there, although the black men do often find Chinese wives.

I don't know if there's much racism, but the size of some of the black women raises eyebrows.

I've seen black men with Japanese wives and girlfriends. Again it seems a good coupling.
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