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Post by xiongmao » April 20th, 2012, 8:42 pm

Chinese women have a lot to answer for! Because of them, I'm about to quit a very good job and go live in China for a while.

Ha ha ha, I bet there's a few guys here who want to do the same thing.
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Post by chanta76 » April 20th, 2012, 10:35 pm

Jason of Dystopia,

I seen that in South Korea too. I seen really fine looking Korean woman get on the subway and bunch of guys just not paying attention. It's so different in the states. Here in NYC if a just a so-so looking girl walks by guys turn around and look .

It's like here in the states we are starving ...it's like woman have all the power in picking and choosing and the guys all fall over each other. Only in the states.

That's why when I travel overseas I'm just speechless as how feminine and pretty the woman are but also surprise how the local guys take things for granted but it's only because they are used to woman acting like woman.

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Re: Chinese Women

Post by ph_visitor » April 20th, 2012, 11:09 pm

Jason of Dystopia wrote:So, just think about it. Treat them nice and notice them, and for
girls from China, it will be an incredible experience.


You guys don't understand.

If you do this and bring your pussy-deprived, Omega ways to the rest of the world, women will adjust and all that you will do is create Americanised women.

You know, part of the problem with AW is you all - American Men.

You have to stop treating women as you do and begin acting like those Chinese guys who ignore the hot Chinese women, because that's how they all get one, marry one, and then have her pouring his tea.

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Post by Falcon » April 21st, 2012, 12:06 am

Watch and do the complete opposite (which is not kneeling down and begging):

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nnyKkA05nYw[/youtube]

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3B-P8djYUI[/youtube]

Additionally, guys need to give the impression or say that they have other options as well. Stay away from being monopolized in dating. Simple economics: Avoid monopolies.

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Chinese Flowers

Post by Jason of Dystopia » April 21st, 2012, 5:23 pm

You have to stop treating women as you do and begin acting like those Chinese guys who ignore the hot Chinese women, because that's how they all get one, marry one, and then have her pouring his tea


I agree. All I am saying is that during the initial flush of inter-cultural interchange, Chinese women will appreciate very simple attentions, and may be easy to approach and talk to. I have spent years trying to figure out the "funny vibe" I get from AWs even if I am not interested in them and am merely trying to have a polite conversation.

When I start conversations with Chinese girls, they open up their entire lives to me, and they volunteer most of the information themselves. I have had great success with them by merely offering to take them shopping or to go for a drive on the weekend.

AWs see this as creepy most of the time and it is nothing of the sort.

When you get into a relationship, that's when the real work starts and you have to start putting the hammer down a little. That's another thing, you can trust Chinese girls more than AWs as well.

And as for those Chinese guys: One of my friends-straight from China-was telling me the other night how he was chasing a Chinese girl who "every guy likes" and she broke up with him. Another Chinese guy was basically telling me the same sob story.

So, it is obvious that Chinese guys have their hierarchy and maybe they weren't looking at that hot chick because they all want something else.

Their loss, my gain.
Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that all was vanity; but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dream with open eyes, and make it possible.
-T.E. Lawrence

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Post by leonardo1211 » May 16th, 2012, 8:51 pm

I am a single Chinese man in beijing,30+, my personal feeling is that beijing is still a paradise for men. I rarely see single men among my friends, but Lots of single grils around 30s. If you are just a normal man with a normal job, you do have a good chance to find a girlfriend within two weeks.

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Re: Chinese Flowers

Post by leonardo1211 » May 16th, 2012, 9:04 pm

And as for those Chinese guys: One of my friends-straight from China-was telling me the other night how he was chasing a Chinese girl who "every guy likes" and she broke up with him. Another Chinese guy was basically telling me the same sob story.

So, it is obvious that Chinese guys have their hierarchy and maybe they weren't looking at that hot chick because they all want something else.

Their loss, my gain.[/quote]

As a Chinese guy, I think the truth is we have a very different rule of game. Many Chinese guy do not spend much time or money on girls "who every guy likes", because this kind of relationship has no future. The family will not accept that kind of girls easily. Comparing with white men,Chinese guys are less romantic and more practical.

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Re: Chinese Flowers

Post by zboy1 » May 16th, 2012, 9:26 pm

Leonardo, use the quote button located on the top right of the person your quoting or use the quote block [quote] parenthesis at the beginning of every sentence to use quotation marks, otherwise your sentences are confusing to read!

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Post by Repatriate » May 17th, 2012, 3:56 am

The difference i've seen in dating patterns is that Chinese men and other NE Asian men don't tend to shotgun approach as many girls or serial date as much. A lot of NE Asian men focus on one girl who they usually know socially and then barrage her with gifts, attention, etc.. and really press on making it serious. You have your players and such as well but usually when guys just want to have sex a lot they go to providers at KTV or massage parlors. Sometimes it's a marriage of convenience where families introduce each other and because they have good matching careers and are unmarried in their 30's they get hooked up. The hardcore players in NE Asian society are usually the wealthy men and even then they are more about mistresses and such.

This is quite different where in western society "good" and "bad" women alike all sleep around quite often with a multitude of men. White western men are more adept at serial dating/shotgun approach because it's just so much more difficult to find a suitable partner. So guys usually learn at an early age not to form too intense of an emotional attachment after getting burned and that one night stands are normal. That's how you end up in the sort of society where men and women distrust each other too. Everything is essentially a temporary relationship.

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Post by FREEDOM1 » May 17th, 2012, 6:16 am

chanta76 wrote:Jason of Dystopia,

I seen that in South Korea too. I seen really fine looking Korean woman get on the subway and bunch of guys just not paying attention. It's so different in the states. Here in NYC if a just a so-so looking girl walks by guys turn around and look .

It's like here in the states we are starving ...it's like woman have all the power in picking and choosing and the guys all fall over each other. Only in the states.

That's why when I travel overseas I'm just speechless as how feminine and pretty the woman are but also surprise how the local guys take things for granted but it's only because they are used to woman acting like woman.


This because ther so few good looking women in western countries
women who westerners considers 9/10 would only be 6 in Asia, sth america
p***y ass anglo men, who bow down to these skanks and put them on pedastals is part of the problem in giving these subpar women a large ego, stop paying attentio nto these skanks, do your own thing, focus on your goals, women should be a second or third of priorities or even lower, too many men make them their main priority and sacrifice who they reall yare act like little neutrerd puppy dogs, needing to ask thier mrs for permission to hang out with his mates/buddies, makes me wanna throw up and beat the crap out of these mangina eunichs

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Post by xiongmao » May 17th, 2012, 8:08 am

Ha ha ha! One of my fb friends has married a Western woman who looks old enough to be his mom!!!
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Post by Repatriate » May 17th, 2012, 10:04 am

xiongmao wrote:Ha ha ha! One of my fb friends has married a Western woman who looks old enough to be his mom!!!

I can't imagine how depressing life must be married to some creature like that. It's like the attractiveness scale has been flipped upside down. Western men are guilted into marrying whatever they are fooled into a relationship with because of lack of decent prospects. It has to be a doubly depressing if these guys go abroad and see what sort of women they could be having relationships with.

Imagine having sex with some obese piece of shit white land whale with a bad attitude. The smell, the stink, the same nasty pasty pimply face hidden under layers of expensive facial foundation and mascara. The cottage cheese thighs as she triples in size after the wedding day and birth of your kids. The feeling of being hopelessly trapped into something that you can't get out of without significant financial setbacks.

I'm not surprised some guys just snap.

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Post by xiongmao » May 18th, 2012, 7:18 pm

I tell you that when I posted photos of my first Chinese gf on facebook a lot of eyebrows were raised! She had an hourglass figure, and was wearing a little pair of shorts and those thigh high socks that Japanese women like so much.

The funny thing was, in her city she was merely a 6 or a 7 :eek:.

My god, I need to get back onto ChineseLoveLinks.
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Post by green1976 » May 20th, 2012, 8:51 pm

He has some valid point about Chinese society,chinese women,especially in HK.

Take a look it's quit interesting.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gqkNtZN9CFQ&feature=related[/youtube]

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Post by Twobrains » May 21st, 2012, 12:06 pm

Wow, that guy is really pissed off with the Chinese in HK!! I've never been there but I was considering it as a stopover on my way to the Phils if I can get away next winter. Is it really as bad as he says? I would hate to be in the kind of atmosphere he describes.

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