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Can any white guy get casual sex easily in Asia?

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Postby pete98146 » Sat Oct 27, 2012 9:12 pm

Jester wrote:
Repatriate wrote:
It's pretty obvious what Winston's problem is. He's had a pretty bad time in Taiwan (for reasons we've already gone over) so with his innate insecurity over this he's turned it into frustration and anger lashing out with hurtful words spreading around bad karma. :lol: We can make a logical supposition based on his behavior that in his mind it's basically "If i'm not having fun then other people must be not be having fun either or lying to me!" so thus it goes in an endless cycle as he tries to create complex scenarios and justifications where this is true instead of acknowledging the most transparent individual reasons for his lack of success in Taiwan.


+1

It's like Winston trolls his own website.


Winston is a smart kid. But of all the genius level guys that I know few of them excel at interacting with others. It's like they are a prisoner in their own minds. I don't think Winston is any different. The meaning of life for Winston Wu is and always will be (drumroll please....) Winston Wu. Don't think he means to be selfish but that's the way he's wired.

I do think Winston can turn on the charm for the short term. He can flirt with a girl and maybe even get her into bed. But after the initial round of sex then what? Can Winston pry his cental area of concentration away from the "Wonderful World of Winston Wu" long enough to keep her around for an extended period of time? Relationships (be it a girlfriend or a wife) take work!!! Women need attention and this is where it gets tough for guys like Winston. If you don't give them attention, they'll find somebody who will.

Regardless of what country you talk about, I can guarantee you the #1 turnoff for any girl is a guy who doesn't pay her enough attention.
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Postby Dragon » Sat Oct 27, 2012 9:15 pm

pete98146 wrote:
Jester wrote:
Repatriate wrote:
It's pretty obvious what Winston's problem is. He's had a pretty bad time in Taiwan (for reasons we've already gone over) so with his innate insecurity over this he's turned it into frustration and anger lashing out with hurtful words spreading around bad karma. :lol: We can make a logical supposition based on his behavior that in his mind it's basically "If i'm not having fun then other people must be not be having fun either or lying to me!" so thus it goes in an endless cycle as he tries to create complex scenarios and justifications where this is true instead of acknowledging the most transparent individual reasons for his lack of success in Taiwan.


+1

It's like Winston trolls his own website.


Winston is a smart kid. But of all the genius level guys that I know few of them excel at interacting with others. It's like they are a prisoner in their own minds. I don't think Winston is any different. The meaning of life for Winston Wu is and always will be (drumroll please....) Winston Wu. Don't think he means to be selfish but that's the way he's wired.

I do think Winston can turn on the charm for the short term. He can flirt with a girl and maybe even get her into bed. But after the initial round of sex then what? Can Winston pry his cental area of concentration away from the "Wonderful World of Winston Wu" long enough to keep her around for an extended period of time? Relationships (be it a girlfriend or a wife) take work!!! Women need attention and this is where it gets tough for guys like Winston. If you don't give them attention, they'll find somebody who will.

Regardless of what country you talk about, I can guarantee you the #1 turnoff for any girl is a guy who doesn't pay her enough attention.


Except for American women is seems. The more you ignore them, the more they want you.
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Postby pete98146 » Sat Oct 27, 2012 9:22 pm

Dragon wrote:
pete98146 wrote:
Jester wrote:
Repatriate wrote:
It's pretty obvious what Winston's problem is. He's had a pretty bad time in Taiwan (for reasons we've already gone over) so with his innate insecurity over this he's turned it into frustration and anger lashing out with hurtful words spreading around bad karma. :lol: We can make a logical supposition based on his behavior that in his mind it's basically "If i'm not having fun then other people must be not be having fun either or lying to me!" so thus it goes in an endless cycle as he tries to create complex scenarios and justifications where this is true instead of acknowledging the most transparent individual reasons for his lack of success in Taiwan.


+1

It's like Winston trolls his own website.


Winston is a smart kid. But of all the genius level guys that I know few of them excel at interacting with others. It's like they are a prisoner in their own minds. I don't think Winston is any different. The meaning of life for Winston Wu is and always will be (drumroll please....) Winston Wu. Don't think he means to be selfish but that's the way he's wired.

I do think Winston can turn on the charm for the short term. He can flirt with a girl and maybe even get her into bed. But after the initial round of sex then what? Can Winston pry his cental area of concentration away from the "Wonderful World of Winston Wu" long enough to keep her around for an extended period of time? Relationships (be it a girlfriend or a wife) take work!!! Women need attention and this is where it gets tough for guys like Winston. If you don't give them attention, they'll find somebody who will.

Regardless of what country you talk about, I can guarantee you the #1 turnoff for any girl is a guy who doesn't pay her enough attention.


Except for American women is seems. The more you ignore them, the more they want you.


You are probably right but I barely classify American females as women anymore.
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Re: Can any white guy get casual sex easily in Asia?

Postby terminator » Sun Oct 28, 2012 3:32 am

Winston wrote:Is it true that any white guy, regardless of looks, can get casual sex anytime he wants in Asia? Or is that a myth?

Half of white guys seem to imply this, while the other half does not. Both halves consist of attractive and unattractive white guys, so looks doesn't seem to correlate with these claims.

But if this claim is true though, then why aren't 100 percent of white guys in Asia claiming that they can get casual sex easily anytime they want in Asia?

What do you all think?


No, this is a myth - looks always count in Asia, so if you have a hunchback, don't expect to get far.
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