If you go to a club, you can simply wait for them to get intoxicated. If you have game, you CAN hook up...I've seen guys that are not at all attractive hook up regularly in Vegas. I couldn't believe it myself as the girls were hot and these guys were just...not. They obviously had some game though as they pulled chicks regularly.Winston wrote:I agree with the first part but not the second. There are tons of tourists here, but they do not seem interested in hooking up. Where can you meet them? They are with their friends and in their cliques and tune out everyone else. My friends have tried to hook up with them everyday without success. Even the foreign women here don't seem to want to hook up.tre wrote:Man....alot of heat in this one. I have enjoyed reading everyone's contributions and I'd hate to see anyone leave over a simple misunderstanding.
I have lived in Vegas for years and I will tell you that the LOCAL girls in Las Vegas are easily the WORST in the world to try to approach. It's not that they are all bad, but all the hot ones work in the Nightlife Industry and deal with annoying men every night of their life. They moved to Vegas for the sole reason of making $$. The only way you get one of them to date you is 1) You work in the nightlife AND are attractive or 2) You are incredibly wealthy and reasonably attractive.
The good news is that Vegas has THOUSANDS of tourists going through the city all the time. They are from all over the world. If you have a good game plan, you could pull them on a regular basis. You won't, however, find a long-term GF as tourists go to Vegas for an exciting time to leave behind in Vegas.
I think the reasons are:
1. The foreign women that can afford to come to the US and stay in Vegas hotels are well off and don't need men.
2. Vegas attracts materialistic types, who are not friendly to strangers in general.
3. The Vegas vibe is not friendly outside of commercial purposes, and not conducive for picking up girls. It simply doesn't fit the vibe and flow to try to pick up girls.
Everyone else I asked said the same thing.
When I was there and connected, I relied mostly on my looks. I walked around a club and hung out with those (guys and girls) I knew in the club (many in those days). As girls drink, they get more bold....they get very bold. My goal was to get numbers (wasn't looking for a one-night stand) so I met many girls, got numbers and then went on to the next. This works for American women as they will approach you after a bit of liquid courage (Alcohol) if they find you attractive. I always broke away from them and never let them break away from me....like I was important and had things to do. They could get no sense of desperation from my action or look and that gave them a challenge...which American women like. You can manipulate attraction with your actions...or you can kill attraction with other actions. People, in general, want what they can't have. If you make yourself too available, you are shooting yourself in the foot with them. I am getting older now so probably can't do this anymore...at least not with the young women I used to get. This does not work with foreign Asian women though and now I know why (after researching). In their cultures men are supposed to approach to women, not the other way around (unless they are hookers). If you don't approach them, they will simply think you are not interested. The game is completely different when going abroad for sure. I have a friend that hooks up with girls EASILY no matter where he is in Asia. He's not attractive...he's a short, chubby Asian. He had ZERO luck in the USA and couldn't get a hot chick here to save his life. However, he found his groove easily in Asia. When he sees a women he finds attractive, he will approach her with the smile. He'll "BS" with her for a bit and get her #....easy as that. He's a smart, convincing guy and his "spoken" game works in Asia. If he tried that approach in the USA, he'd get shot down every time...especially if the woman is sober.
I was also a bartender at some of the hottest clubs as well as casinos in Las Vegas. I also worked as a fitness model. I got propositioned regularly as a bartender in Vegas. I had women sit there for hours waiting for me to get off work. This was married women, single women...women of all ages. When I was 31, I had a hot 21 year old (there for her 21st birthday) flat out asked me to go to her room after I got off work. I couldn't turn that one down...lol. I usually DID turn down women as I could afford to be very picky while living the life in Vegas. You also have to be careful going into hotel rooms as an industry worker in Las Vegas for many reasons.
Before I go any further, hooking up with women is MUCH easier in the USA than having a relationship with one. I had to weed through MANY before I found any worthy of a relationship. I went through some heart-breaking times, disappointment after disappointment. I am a caring, giving person who naturally tends to want to be available to women. This backfires when dealing with many women in the US...no matter who you are. For instance, when a women you like calls you....don't pick up. Wait an hour or so and then call her back. Again...you can't appear too available for her. I actually found my current GF in a nightclub in Las Vegas. I was doing my usual rounds and she called me over to introduce herself and ask for my number. She was from the Philippines. After a few dates, I could tell this girl was a keeper as she was interested in a committed relationship with me. I dropped the other girls I was seeing to commit myself as well. That was about 4 years ago.
Since you live in Vegas, I would suggest that you make yourself seem more like a local and less like a tourist. Tourists and Locals alike seem to be more interested in Las Vegas locals. Male tourists can be annoying to both locals as well as other tourists. Locals, especially Industry Locals, are used to Vegas and know how everything works. The absolute best way to get all the girls you can handle is to work for the biggest nightclubs in the city as a VIP Host. Hit the gym to get in shape, buy some fitted suits, do something with your hair, maybe grow some facial hair, etc.. The idea is to look trendy and get into a position that gives you access to women. There are many guys that get into being a VIP Host at a major club for the women...nothing else. If you are good at what you do, you could have the numbers of THOUSANDS of women from all over the world. Hooking up with women would be a non-issue.
My point is, there are many angles one can take to get women in Vegas (or other cities in the USA). If something isn't working, try something else. There are many articles online about how to understand the female mind (at least the Western female mind). Bad dudes have no problem getting women...that's a fact. They can be ugly and stupid too and STILL have no problems. Why is that? I asked myself that question for MANY years as I am a good guy by nature and background. The fact is....looks actually take a back seat to GAME. You don't have to be a dick to women to get women, but find those things that work. The quote "nice guys finish last" is very true unless you can manipulate the fact...at least in the USA and likely most other Western influenced countries. I suppose that is why many are looking elsewhere....no "games" needed:).