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I'm a 25 year old black man. If I went to the Philippines, what's the chances of older Filipinas (35+) trying to hit on me? I'm only asking because I'm curious, and I have talked to a few older Filipinas and it seemed they're highly interested in me. Besides, older Filipinas seen less needy and not as high-maintenance.
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35+ then she's married, a single mother or gay. There is little chance of any Filipina hitting on you as that is the man's job. They are probably higher in maintenance having reached the point of life where pre school kids get all of the attention, so now its their turn.
I never got hit on either, until I went to Mexico. That was a bit of a shock for me at first. At first, some of the ladies would ask me why I'm so tÃmido ("shy"), because their unbelievable approachability and all their flirting just seemed too good to be true, and I just didn't know what to make of it. I never thought people could act like that with me. Winston and many others have had the same experience.
If you go abroad, you might be amazed. You'll feel like a blind man seeing light for the first time.
Go for it boys! Score some grannies! Opportunity knocks!
You fellas remember the story of Lavezzi, a young Irishman in NYC who scored a 60 year old AIDS ridden crack whore... who was black.
I'm a lot older than anyone else commenting on this thread (hell I'm even older than Outwest). My last gf in the US was 37, making her 20 years younger than me - which felt pretty good. Nonetheless, it might be difficult for me in PI to have a 35 year old gf. Why? Because tons of 25 year olds are interested, 22 year olds are interested, and even 18 year olds are interested (though even I won't do the 18 year olds). So the 35 year olds really can't compete. Don't believe me? Here's a couple funny stories from the trip I just made to PI.
A couple months back as I planned my trip my 23 year old Pinay gf and I broke up. I have a good friend in Cagayan de Oro (CDO) who said "come to CDO. I will host a pool party and invite all my single friends who would love to meet you." In the next couple months I decided to travel with another gf (24) and go to CDO with her. My CDO friend who was wise and did not want to create jealousy and cat fights, changed her plan and instead of inviting her mid-20s friends to the party, brought her younger sister and her sister's friends (all 18-20). My new gf felt secure and I was certainly less tempted by the young ones. But believe me - some of them were interested in me!
My 24 year old gf has an 18 year old sister going to college in Cebu. The sister had friended me on FB a couple months back, before she realized that her older sister and I were beginning a relationship. She clearly was hitting on me and proposed we meet when I arrived in Cebu. At that point I had to tell her that I would be traveling with another girl and that the girl was her sister. The older sister (my now gf) thought nothing of the fact that her 18 year old sister liked me and humorously told the story to several friends.
My point is, in an environment in which you can have attractive young women consistently, you are unlikely to be drawn to a 35 year old, unless she is unusually attractive. As to the OPs comment that the older woman will be less needy - that has not been my experience in the PI. The girls who approach and pass 30 know that their marriageable days are ending. I have 2 28-year old friends both of whom are very bright and funny and sexy. And both are desperate to marry and it shows.
So, go to PI by all means and experience it - but don't bring your Western relationship logic to the environment. It just doesn't work. Date 35 year olds if you want - I'll stick to the 20-somethings.
Young filipinas, around 18 or 20 yrs old flirt with me the most. However, I get women over the age of 30 yrs old staring at me all the time. I think, you won't have any problem attracting the attention of women. I've seen a few black guys here and they always have Filipina girlfriends too.
Bear in mind a lot of filipinas that age may be separated and unable to get a divorce. So could be tough if you want anything serious.
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Indeed! There's a "Banged up Abroad" episode about a PI husband who dumped his wife & had a gf. But he called the PI cops on his wife and her foreign man as adultery is a crime in the PI - I'm sure some cool dramas lay in wait for dumb foreign men & their PI cougars - RRRRagghhh - LOL.
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