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China's "A Quality" Women Get Left Behind

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China's "A Quality" Women Get Left Behind

Postby Taco » January 30th, 2013, 1:15 am

Recreational dating does not exist in China like it does in western countries. If a Chinese woman is too educated or from a wealthy family she'll be living with a house full of cats by the time she's 27.

China's "A Quality" Women Get Left Behind
http://www.businessinsider.com/chinas-l ... ood-2013-1
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Postby Cornfed » January 30th, 2013, 3:20 am

If previously quality women are wasting their lives in universities until they are unmarriageable old bags, the idea would be to simply not allow women to attend university. There would be no down side, since women have been proven not to be able to create anything requiring high level intellectual performance anyway. The quality of university for the remaining real students could be raised, the surplus of graduates compared to jobs available would end and the women would be contributing to societal advance in the way they are designed to - by birthing quality sons.
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Postby xiongmao » January 30th, 2013, 12:19 pm

The problem here is the definition of quality.

Men value looks over anything else - a woman has no additional value in the dating marketplace if she has a degree etc. etc.

And this is probably worse for educated women, as educated men hardly ever want to find a wife who is their intellectual superior.

Interestingly, my last gf's sister has been invited to have another baby.
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Postby Teal Lantern » January 30th, 2013, 5:18 pm

xiongmao wrote:The problem here is the definition of quality.

Men value looks over anything else - a woman has no additional value in the dating marketplace if she has a degree etc. etc.

And this is probably worse for educated women, as educated men hardly ever want to find a wife who is their intellectual superior.

Interestingly, my last gf's sister has been invited to have another baby.


Invited by ...?
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Postby xiongmao » January 30th, 2013, 10:14 pm

Invited by the government. I guess they want to encourage her to have more kids.

China seems chaotic, but everything is managed.
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Postby Jacaré » February 5th, 2013, 4:50 am

I also had the same reaction when you wrote that she was invited to have another baby. That seemed wacky but then remembered as you pointed out, that the 1 child policy is still in effect. Seems that in light of that the Chinese government can decide who they will allow to have more than 1 child? Interesting to say the least!
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Re: China's "A Quality" Women Get Left Behind

Postby Teal Lantern » February 5th, 2013, 7:38 am

Taco wrote:Recreational dating does not exist in China like it does in western countries. If a Chinese woman is too educated or from a wealthy family she'll be living with a house full of cats by the time she's 27.

China's "A Quality" Women Get Left Behind
http://www.businessinsider.com/chinas-l ... ood-2013-1


From the article:
“There is an opinion that A quality guys will find B quality women, B quality guys will find C quality women, and C quality men will find D quality women,â€￾ Huang Yuanyuan, a 29-year-old unmarried Chinese woman tells her. “The people left are A quality women and D quality men. So if you are a leftover woman, you are A quality.â€￾

An opinion among the narcissistic, at least. :roll:
They won't marry at all because they can't marry (in their minds) "up".
In other news, people avoid stepping in dog merde because it is of such high "A" quality.
Good on Chinese men for looking elsewhere.
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Postby Andrewww » February 5th, 2013, 7:40 am

xiongmao wrote:Men value looks over anything else - a woman has no additional value in the dating marketplace if she has a degree etc. etc.

And this is probably worse for educated women, as educated men hardly ever want to find a wife who is their intellectual superior.


Now explain that to the feminazis.
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Re: China's "A Quality" Women Get Left Behind

Postby fightforlove » February 7th, 2013, 5:38 pm

Teal Lantern wrote:
Taco wrote:Recreational dating does not exist in China like it does in western countries. If a Chinese woman is too educated or from a wealthy family she'll be living with a house full of cats by the time she's 27.

China's "A Quality" Women Get Left Behind
http://www.businessinsider.com/chinas-l ... ood-2013-1


From the article:
“There is an opinion that A quality guys will find B quality women, B quality guys will find C quality women, and C quality men will find D quality women,â€￾ Huang Yuanyuan, a 29-year-old unmarried Chinese woman tells her. “The people left are A quality women and D quality men. So if you are a leftover woman, you are A quality.â€￾

An opinion among the narcissistic, at least. :roll:
They won't marry at all because they can't marry (in their minds) "up".
In other news, people avoid stepping in dog merde because it is of such high "A" quality.
Good on Chinese men for looking elsewhere.


I hate it when people get so hung up on dividing the population into neat little categories, levels or leagues (A, B, C-quality, etc...) I realize that we all do this internally to at least some extent, but I notice it's mostly bitter women get into this "you're not in MY league!!" BS. Many men do this as well, but it's usually the PUA douches with their HB7, HB8.5 crap. Real people don't need to segregate everyone into all these "levels" and see the world so myopically, makes me sick.
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