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I've always heard that the Phillippines are full of women who would go with you, as long as you had a pulse. You hear a lot of things about adult disneyland it seems. I tried my luck on DIA. ChristianFilipina would be a bust, I'm not a church nut. Haven't been to Cebuanas, but unless someone suggests not-so-picky women, prolly not gonna make much difference signing up.

It seems I don't have a pulse, as I've never been very attractive to filipinas. Just found out the one I'm actually going to that stupid country for and talked to for over a year(you know, got to know her, saw her parents etc.), is sleeping around and trying to get a nursing job. What a surprise! A 3rd world social climber. -_-

Another I was talking to, just all of sudden, stopped talking to me(she's online at least twice a week, that's how I know). I didn't say anything in particular about sex or nothing(I play the innocent, non-monger type ) and the last time we spoke(which was 2 months ago), I just asked what she did for fun in her area(Lanao Del Norte), the climate etc. Regular stuff. Ignored me after 3 months. I tried once more to chat with this short chick with big ass breasts. D-D-D-Damn! Had to give it a shot. No dice. Bitch shot me down on the FIRST message! If I wanted a rejection bullet to the brain, I'd mess with a stupid american bitch.

Even ugly filipinas don't want anything to do with me. The only thing I could say I had going against me, was my tiny goatee - hey, I thought it was cool. But I've seen worse looking guys on DIA.
I don't spam their inboxes. I send an email if they aren't online after a while, but I don't waste my time, since many of them can't afford consistent net access. They don't initiate convos either, I have to do the footwork. Tons of "looks", no "winks", no messages. I mean goddamn, I ain't Prince Charming, but I'm not Swamp Thing either! Guess albinos aren't remotely liked, even in the Phillippines.

So why do I want a filipina for ANYTHING? Well most have already listed the beneifts. But I just want a decent partner for companionship. It will definitely help once I get my online business going. Some might say that I should just get a plane out there and take a chance. Yeah, but why would I waste $3000 to do that? If online interactions are of any indication, I should just cut my dick off and be a Tibetan monk. There are better things to spend $3000 on, like a boat. Or a tank. Or a tankboat! Rather buy a tankboat than play Survivor.

And before someone suggests Africa... I ain't going! I'll kill a nigga before I go there. I don't like the thoughts of people thinking my body parts should be harvested, or I get raped at gunpoint because some black ass f***er thinks I'll cure their AIDS with my genitals. Albinos don't seem to be treated very well there. No thank you.

Yeh, I wonder about the value of going to the Philippines. Nirza's recent "Philippines Trip Report 2013" was a good example of an experience where someone found it was not as easy to pick up over there as he'd heard it was supposed to be.

Still, I'm aiming to go there because... well, what else ya gonna do? I met a gorgeous, flat feminised Filipino with a great personality 2 years ago in Australia. So I know they must exist and if I can find just one minus the 'feminised' bit, maybe I can turn a blind eye to the 'flat' part...

Pretty hard to find a non-slut too, in this century...

Not looking in the right places bro. Check out other social networks, not specifically designed for a certain task (ie. Facebook). I have found decent success with that. Also, don't limit yourself to that. Although I am focusing on the PI, I am looking into alternative if a trip does not work out, although I am working on my Philippines trip first, at least financially.

As a "black" albino you probably have quite an unusual appearance. Maybe they're selecting against you for that. I've seen some pictures of albinos of African descent and they were really quite strange looking.

Seeker... I've seen many other "black" albinos, no real differences between us except our skin and hair. Now other albinos, such as maybe, the "white" ones? Now THEY are strange looking! Different colored eyes and stuff, some had a mix of other ethnic features...

Classic discrimination I suppose.

The thing is, I don't like Spanairds, they haven't treated me very well. Hateful folks, bunch of hypocrites. So I ain't going to South America or Spain.

The few Africans I've met who've come from the country itself within the last 20 years, have been nice to me at the very least. Their reasons for leaving scared me however. What kind of people kill their own kind, instead of banding together against their real enemies? And then I have problems of my own. I'm NOT becoming some witchdoctor's magic potion! My body parts are worth a fortune over there. Not going to Africa.

I've also met immigrants from Pakistan, very nice folks. Never had any trouble from them at all. Might consider that place.

Haha, maybe someone could make a thread for albinos? Which countries like US?

C.J. wrote:I've always heard that the Phillippines are full of women who would go with you, as long as you had a pulse. You hear a lot of things about adult disneyland it seems.

This forum seems to have plenty of guys who have gone to The Philippines and had no luck there beyond p4p. Plenty of guys here also seem to think most of them are gold diggers.

If you just want to pay for sex via p4p then all you need is a pulse, and some money of course, though I've heard that even some bargirls in The Philippines turn down some clients. But if you want a woman for a serious relationship who is actually attracted to you and doesn't just want to use your 1st world money, looks are very important, just like they are everywhere. If you are ugly then no women will be actually attracted to you, not even ugly women.

Take away the p4p and the gold diggers and The Philippines sounds like a profoundly awful place for men. I guess most of the guys who go there either don't care they're being used or are living in denial.

C.J. wrote:I tried my luck on DIA.

I tried my luck on there a while back as well. The only women who messaged me were scammers.

C.J. wrote: No dice. Bitch shot me down on the FIRST message! If I wanted a rejection bullet to the brain, I'd mess with a stupid american bitch.

Most of the girls I messaged on DIA just didn't reply, including the ugly ones. The only ones who replied eventually ended up asking for money at some point. Maybe a couple of them sent rejection messages back out of the many I messaged. Some of the scammers insulted me, usually my looks, after I told them I wouldn't give them money, heh.

C.J. wrote:Even ugly filipinas don't want anything to do with me.

I'm in the same boat bro. Ugly filipinas on DIA didn't want me or only wanted money. Ugly women in america rejected me, and ugly women here in China don't want me either. Even ugly women can afford to be picky. They have options, we don't.

C.J. wrote:But I've seen worse looking guys on DIA.

They're in the same boat as us. Either they get nothing at all or they accept that they can only get gold diggers.

C.J. wrote:Seeker... I've seen many other "black" albinos, no real differences between us except our skin and hair. Now other albinos, such as maybe, the "white" ones? Now THEY are strange looking! Different colored eyes and stuff, some had a mix of other ethnic features...

Sure, Caucasian albinos look strange as well, but here is the point that Seeker is making. You have a disorder that affects 1 in 20,000 people. Said disorder makes you look very physically different from everyone else and it is not only immediately noticeable but it will be the very first thing anyone who looks at you, be it in person or in a pic, will notice. I'm not telling you anything you don't already obviously know.

It's f***ed up but I will not sugar coat it, yes, you are absolutely being discriminated against by women due to the physical abnormalities caused by your disorder. I'm sure you realize this but your physical appearance is the sole reason you have no success with women, be it online or in real life.

I'm not much different. I'm not albino, I'm just an anglo-saxon, but an ugly one. As a result of being ugly, I have the same experiences with women (or lack thereof) as you do. I'm not implying I fully understand what it is like to be albino, but this particular side effect I know all too well.

I know this sounds overly simplistic, but it is what it is.

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I talked to 100 women between DIA and Cebuanas before I found the one I am now living with in Panabo City, Philippines. I am a 29 year old white american male... overweight ofcourse.

Every time I go out I have girls asking me if I am single telling me they love my nose and how cute they think my children will be. It seems like it is mostly about skin color and nose shape here. If you have light skin and a pointy nose girls want to have your babies. I am sure being an American doesn't hurt either.

I think there is someone out there for everyone though so don't give up. Try Cebuanas, it was a really good experience for me.

My honest opinion is that if you can't get a woman in the Philippines then you may as well either give up or make drastic changes to your physical appearance right to the point of undergoing plastic surgery. If you're fat, stop being fat, but even old, fat, decrepit males manage to get ugly women in the Philippines. Of course the women they get aren't remotely attracted to them but at least they can get gold diggers or women just looking to survive. Unfortunately some men are too unattractive even for that, there have been several guys on here who have struck out with Filipinas.

Seeker wrote:My honest opinion is that if you can't get a woman in the Philippines then you may as well either give up or make drastic changes to your physical appearance right to the point of undergoing plastic surgery. If you're fat, stop being fat, but even old, fat, decrepit males manage to get ugly women in the Philippines. Of course the women they get aren't remotely attracted to them but at least they can get gold diggers or women just looking to survive. Unfortunately some men are too unattractive even for that, there have been several guys on here who have struck out with Filipinas.

Well, I'm not fat, I'm 6'3" and 225 lb;I have some jelly, but it's definitely not that noticeable. I lose about 5 pounds a week, so I'm slimming down even more. I think I'm pretty normal looking(for an albino anyway). I'm pale, but my nose is kind of wide.

I dunno, maybe foreign relationships ain't for me. I ain't getting plastic surgery, that's just BS.

Honestly, I felt that I was not attractive for foreign women. I sent many messages on mixed dating websites and some how sent messages to girls in a foreign language (German) and it did not work either. I am average wait and I guess I am a 6 (average) but girls ignore me too. I recently talked to a average looking girl in MX and other than that it has been hard to meet normal women in other countries. If it does not work out for me with the girl then, I will pretty much give up.

It is painful but it seems that online dating does not really work that well and the problem that in western countries; espeically the Anglo countries give women too many choices and men are hoping that they receive a message that leads to some real encounter to something more.

Dudevondudenstein wrote:I talked to 100 women between DIA and Cebuanas before I found the one I am now living with in Panabo City, Philippines. I am a 29 year old white american male... overweight ofcourse.

Every time I go out I have girls asking me if I am single telling me they love my nose and how cute they think my children will be. It seems like it is mostly about skin color and nose shape here. If you have light skin and a pointy nose girls want to have your babies. I am sure being an American doesn't hurt either.

I think there is someone out there for everyone though so don't give up. Try Cebuanas, it was a really good experience for me.

Sounds like a numbers game, C.J. Keep crunching those numbers and your stomach (whether you are fat or not), too.