Posted: June 18th, 2013, 11:05 am
Thanks for everyones responses. I think it makes sense. Maybe she doesn't see me as the provider and future husband/partner because it is true as I am not seeking marriage, probably just a relationship.
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Yeah any guy of any age can have money. However, the word around Angeles City, according to Dianne, is that older foreign guys have more money and are more generous with it than younger foreign guys are. Dianne said that she heard this from many girls in Angeles City, that they prefer older men because they are more generous with money and allowances, whereas younger guys are on a tighter budget or broke. So this is their perception, based on their experiences.Rock wrote:Well if she wants a guy with money to pay for her school, why would she discriminate at all? Any guy 18 - 99+ with money and willingness to pay would do right? Plenty of younger white guys in Phils and elsewhere have money. After all, whites no matter young or old are all rich from POV of many Filipinas I suppose.tomasz wrote:this may be an isolated question, but i was talking to a 21 year unemployed and dropped out of school (finances) filipina on CB and she said she was looking for husband 36-46 and when i asked why that age, she said they are serious and mature.
My question is, is that a legitimate reason or is there something fishy such as she wants a guy with money to pay for her school?
I commented in another thread on the approximate spread of age ranges requested by young Fiipinas on Filipino Cupid. There are plenty who will go up to 40 or even 45, some even 50+. The case above seems fairly normal.
As to the underlying thoughts and motivations for requesting these types of age ranges, I leave it to others to interpret their likely motivations.
They don't want older men for sex or romance. They want them for their money and allowances.germanguy wrote: And please, dont say Filipinas want old men. That´s just crap.
I agree.Dash wrote:^^^
Bro, I hate to be a dick but come on. Are you retarded?
You have a way better chance of finding a true genuine relationship compared to an older guy.
The only girls that you might not get are the gold digging c**ts. Luckily for you there are TONS and TONS of nice sweet simple girls in the Philippines that would kill to date or be with a young Foreigner.
Well now I'll be the dick here. All the behaviors you describe, while very nice, are standard operating procedure in the Philippines. Foreigners are stared at; foreigners of all ages. From babies on up I am stared at.jtest28 wrote:I agree.Dash wrote:^^^
Bro, I hate to be a dick but come on. Are you retarded?
You have a way better chance of finding a true genuine relationship compared to an older guy.
The only girls that you might not get are the gold digging c**ts. Luckily for you there are TONS and TONS of nice sweet simple girls in the Philippines that would kill to date or be with a young Foreigner.
I was the envy of all of my girlfriend's friends, cousins, co-workers, you name it. I was getting so many stares from women there i started to wear a shirt that says, 'Its not nice to stare". My girlfriend made me change it. lol Says they are only staring because I'm so damn "gwapo". And she cares for me like I'm Jesus. Clips my nails for me, toe-nails too. She brought a wash rag with us on a fairy ride to an island and kept washing the sweat off my face the whole trip. Must have done it 40 times before the day was up.
LOL i was going to say the same thing before you said it. Actually my bargirl did alot more for me than that sexually and in other ways but she wasn't a decent girl. she could be just the average girl playing the long con game and pretending she doesn't care about his monay and expensive ring. but all filipinas it comes down to money lol its always about money for hte most part and dont let anyone fool you.davewe wrote:Well now I'll be the dick here. All the behaviors you describe, while very nice, are standard operating procedure in the Philippines. Foreigners are stared at; foreigners of all ages. From babies on up I am stared at.jtest28 wrote:I agree.Dash wrote:^^^
Bro, I hate to be a dick but come on. Are you retarded?
You have a way better chance of finding a true genuine relationship compared to an older guy.
The only girls that you might not get are the gold digging c**ts. Luckily for you there are TONS and TONS of nice sweet simple girls in the Philippines that would kill to date or be with a young Foreigner.
I was the envy of all of my girlfriend's friends, cousins, co-workers, you name it. I was getting so many stares from women there i started to wear a shirt that says, 'Its not nice to stare". My girlfriend made me change it. lol Says they are only staring because I'm so damn "gwapo". And she cares for me like I'm Jesus. Clips my nails for me, toe-nails too. She brought a wash rag with us on a fairy ride to an island and kept washing the sweat off my face the whole trip. Must have done it 40 times before the day was up.
All filipinas call their men guapo. Sure it's nice but it has little to do with your age or relative handsomeness. All filipinas express affection by telling their men they are guapo.
The nail cutting is also a very nice benefit but again is a standard way your girl with express her feelings for you.
Your girl may very well be legit and love you but the behaviors you describe are ones I get and most of the guys married to filipinas receive. Perks of the relationship, they are not truly age related. Enjoy them but don't get caught up in believing they are unique to you or a small subset of kanos.
That's a stupid thing to say, I'm not white, nor am I rich, but there's a 19 -- and possibly a 24 -- year old who wants me!Rock wrote:After all, whites no matter young or old are all rich from POV of many Filipinas I suppose.