Join John Adams, world renowned Intl Matchmaker, Thurs nights 8:30 EST for Live Webcasts with FREE Prizes!
And check out Five Reasons why you should attend a FREE Live AFA Seminar! See locations and details.


Scam free! Check out Christian Filipina - Meet Asian women with Christian values! Members screened.
Exclusive book offer! 75% off! How to Meet, Date and Marry Your Filipina Wife



View Active Topics       Latest 100 Topics       View Your Posts       FAQ Topics       Switch to Mobile


The Filipinas (Observations/Tips)

Discuss culture, living, traveling, relocating, dating or anything related to the Asian countries - China, The Philippines, Thailand, etc.

Moderators: jamesbond, fschmidt

Re: "What do you do?" is never asked

Postby Halwick » Thu Oct 10, 2013 9:26 pm

davewe wrote:
Cornfed wrote:
davewe wrote:Yes, I am a software engineer but I don't (and can't) write a line of code.

So what exactly do you do for a living?


Your question implies you are a Western girl interested in dating :)

But if you truly want to know, I am currently mostly involved with software validation.


This girl asked me "What do I do for a living?" I told her (with tongue-in-cheek) "I'm a Systems Analyst".
She then asks, "What does a Systems Analyst do?"
I told her, "Analyzes systems."

She didn't pursue that line of questioning any further. :lol:

(Actually at the time I was in Procurement. I wonder what she would have said had I said, "I'm a Procurer." ) :lol:
Halwick
Freshman Poster
 
Posts: 329
Joined: Wed Sep 11, 2013 4:39 am
Location: U.S.

Postby mguy » Fri Oct 11, 2013 6:40 am

What music do Filipinas like?

I asked a girl her fave song. This.

She's an HB8.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-LCYlrfH_5o[/youtube]
"So never refuse an invitation, never resist the unfamiliar, never fail to be polite and never outstay the welcome. Just keep your mind open and suck in the experience. And if it hurts, you know what? It's probably worth it."

Like to read?Third World Hero
Like to see?3WorldHero -- Did he really just do that?

mguy
Junior Poster
 
Posts: 749
Joined: Sat Nov 24, 2012 6:09 pm

Postby mguy » Mon Oct 14, 2013 5:05 am

Insight into Filipino Urbn culture. 10mil views.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gyIxD5K4lUo[/youtube]
"So never refuse an invitation, never resist the unfamiliar, never fail to be polite and never outstay the welcome. Just keep your mind open and suck in the experience. And if it hurts, you know what? It's probably worth it."

Like to read?Third World Hero
Like to see?3WorldHero -- Did he really just do that?

mguy
Junior Poster
 
Posts: 749
Joined: Sat Nov 24, 2012 6:09 pm

Postby mguy » Mon Oct 14, 2013 5:15 am

Filipinas are not that much different than any other girl at the end of the day.

They are still females, and they will still shit-test you endlessly.
'
They still bow to the same rules of the female-male dynamic. If you have beta tendencies she'll walk over you like any other American girl. True love? lolz

You still need to handle them with "game" or whatever you wanna call it. Once a relationship starts they are just females, the weaker sex, with all their predictable behaviors.
"So never refuse an invitation, never resist the unfamiliar, never fail to be polite and never outstay the welcome. Just keep your mind open and suck in the experience. And if it hurts, you know what? It's probably worth it."

Like to read?Third World Hero
Like to see?3WorldHero -- Did he really just do that?

mguy
Junior Poster
 
Posts: 749
Joined: Sat Nov 24, 2012 6:09 pm

Postby deasil875 » Mon Oct 14, 2013 7:27 am

mguy wrote:They are still females, and they will still shit-test you endlessly. .


Shit tests? WTF is that shit? Literally. Who the hell wants to be in a relationship with a female like this, that wears a male down with manipulative, abusive headgames? f**k that disrespecting bullshit. There's something called "There's the door. Don't let it hit you on the way out, bitch."
deasil875
Freshman Poster
 
Posts: 103
Joined: Sun Jul 14, 2013 10:59 pm

Re: "What do you do?" is never asked

Postby CerealKiller » Mon Oct 14, 2013 11:32 am

Halwick wrote:
davewe wrote:
Cornfed wrote:
davewe wrote:Yes, I am a software engineer but I don't (and can't) write a line of code.

So what exactly do you do for a living?


Your question implies you are a Western girl interested in dating :)

But if you truly want to know, I am currently mostly involved with software validation.


This girl asked me "What do I do for a living?" I told her (with tongue-in-cheek) "I'm a Systems Analyst".
She then asks, "What does a Systems Analyst do?"
I told her, "Analyzes systems."

She didn't pursue that line of questioning any further. :lol:

(Actually at the time I was in Procurement. I wonder what she would have said had I said, "I'm a Procurer." ) :lol:


Haha, good one Halwick... methinks your intellect might have been lost on her. Maybe next time you should tell her you're a female body inspector... think she'll figure that one out? :lol:
User avatar
CerealKiller
Freshman Poster
 
Posts: 136
Joined: Fri Aug 24, 2012 4:23 am

Postby CerealKiller » Mon Oct 14, 2013 12:00 pm

mguy wrote:Filipinas are not that much different than any other girl at the end of the day.

They are still females, and they will still shit-test you endlessly.
'
They still bow to the same rules of the female-male dynamic. If you have beta tendencies she'll walk over you like any other American girl. True love? lolz

You still need to handle them with "game" or whatever you wanna call it. Once a relationship starts they are just females, the weaker sex, with all their predictable behaviors.


Nice post, mguy. Sounds like you're onto something man. Although it's true that the average pinay is more approachable than other Asian girls, having a bit of game is definitely recommended. These girls are exposed to American culture every day of their life, so naturally there is going to be a hint of America in their personality.

How have you fared these past few weeks, mguy? I think you're the kind of guy who could find yourself a really nice pinay. They are definitely out there! Hope things in Manila are well.
User avatar
CerealKiller
Freshman Poster
 
Posts: 136
Joined: Fri Aug 24, 2012 4:23 am

Postby jtest28 » Mon Oct 14, 2013 1:19 pm

mguy wrote:Filipinas are not that much different than any other girl at the end of the day.

They are still females, and they will still shit-test you endlessly.
'
They still bow to the same rules of the female-male dynamic. If you have beta tendencies she'll walk over you like any other American girl. True love? lolz

You still need to handle them with "game" or whatever you wanna call it. Once a relationship starts they are just females, the weaker sex, with all their predictable behaviors.

I agree! Many men would very much like to think theres a silver bullet answer to women, "just go here" or "just act this way" Those things help, but they do still (and men do to) have bad traits that can never be completely stomped out.
jtest28
Freshman Poster
 
Posts: 333
Joined: Fri Jan 04, 2008 8:49 pm

Postby publicduende » Mon Oct 14, 2013 7:24 pm

mguy wrote:"Black Under Arms"

Blackened armpit is seen as a beauty penalty by Filipinas. Basically, they think their armpits should be clear and smooth. Curiously, I have now been checking the armpits of the girls for signs of "Black Under Arms" and I have never noticed this before.

Tease your Filipina about Black UnderArms.. they will be illogically highly conscious about it. haha!


Image

remember, tease your Filipina about black underarms to see the effect of this. :lol:


I honestly find Filipinas' unshaved lower legs far more annoying than unshaved armpits. Lots of very cute girls sporting what I called "fur boots", and didn't seem to be bothered at all when I mentioned that is kind of a no-no with Western girls! :)
User avatar
publicduende
Veteran Poster
 
Posts: 2630
Joined: Wed Nov 30, 2011 5:20 pm

Re: "What do you do?" is never asked

Postby Halwick » Wed Oct 16, 2013 1:57 am

CerealKiller wrote:
Halwick wrote:
davewe wrote:
Cornfed wrote:
davewe wrote:Yes, I am a software engineer but I don't (and can't) write a line of code.

So what exactly do you do for a living?


Your question implies you are a Western girl interested in dating :)

But if you truly want to know, I am currently mostly involved with software validation.


This girl asked me "What do I do for a living?" I told her (with tongue-in-cheek) "I'm a Systems Analyst".
She then asks, "What does a Systems Analyst do?"
I told her, "Analyzes systems."

She didn't pursue that line of questioning any further. :lol:

(Actually at the time I was in Procurement. I wonder what she would have said had I said, "I'm a Procurer." ) :lol:


Haha, good one Halwick... methinks your intellect might have been lost on her. Maybe next time you should tell her you're a female body inspector... think she'll figure that one out? :lol:


:lol: I should have tried that one. Would have been fun to demonstrate it too. Oh well....a lost opportunity. BTW, as I recall, the girl just happened to be a blonde.
Halwick
Freshman Poster
 
Posts: 329
Joined: Wed Sep 11, 2013 4:39 am
Location: U.S.

Postby hammanta » Fri Oct 18, 2013 3:45 pm

I definitely agree with the Rich/cheaper date. I've only dated 4 filipinas in my two trips to the Philippines (I actually came for another reason other than my libido so my success matches my attempts but my next trip I will test the water more after reading the blogs on here) and in those 4 dates 3 of them were higher class girls. 1 girl I met online was half chinese, took me out to a nice restaurant on our first date, insisted she pay (probabaly around a $50 meal) took me to a videoke bar where again she insisted she pay, then went to a casino where she again payed for me to play the games. I went out with her a few more nights because I was leaving soon and she dropped 100k pesos in resorts world, and picked me up in a private 2013 SUV with a private driver. She even offered to give me money to extend my trip and go to the beach with her but I couldn't unfortunately. Needless to say I was baffled as well as temporarily in love. To top it off she had one of the best bodies I have ever been with. Oh and I closed on the first night.

My first Filipina date/lay ever I met when I was 19, she was 25 through a friends family. She again took me out through a few day span and insisted she pay for everything. She well a high up CPA of an American Company.

I've had only one date where I paid and she was a poorer girl that wanted me to buy her some load on her phone and brought two friends with her. Needless to say wasn't a bad date but I never got the lay in the end.

All except one I met online, and I've continued to meet girls online as I will be back in the country in a few months so I want to pipeline more. I have had pretty good luck and havent been scammed or asked for money or anything yet so I think I'm pretty knowledgable.

A few tips/ things I noticed about online dating- take in mind I'm not necessarily here for numbers. If I find a quality chick I wouldn't mind spending most of my time with her instead of moving on and slaying as many as I can.

1) Make sure she has pictures that aren't slutty/sleazy and definitely more than two
2)I always make sure she has at least a B.A degree and is employed. Vocational degree is sometimes ok
3)Pay attention where she lives. Makati is a good sign that she is comfortable on her own and a plus if she lives by herself
4) Make sure her profile has something to say. Expression of their self is an easy way to tell if they are for real
5) A definite bonus is if she purposely puts down "she is not there for money, gifts, or to date old foreigners" and pay attention to her age range. I'm 23 so I don't want a girl who would be comfortable dating a 70 year old.

Granted this might not be the best advice if you just want a quick lay but to me I actually enjoy the company of a female for more than just quick sex. Plus its a good way to help not getting scammed or taken
hammanta
Junior Poster
 
Posts: 609
Joined: Sun Jul 14, 2013 4:36 pm
Location: East Coast of USA

Postby tre » Fri Oct 18, 2013 6:24 pm

^^^Thanks for sharing. If ONLY I could be in my 20's again...lol
tre
Junior Poster
 
Posts: 604
Joined: Sun Sep 15, 2013 8:08 am
Location: USA

Postby OutWest » Fri Oct 18, 2013 6:55 pm

tre wrote:^^^Thanks for sharing. If ONLY I could be in my 20's again...lol


You must think you are ancient...LOL You do NOT need to be in your 20s.
I am past 50, married to a 25 year old educated Filipina from a good family.
My father in law is just a few years older than I am...and one of the best men I have
met here. We have a home and a small ag project- a mango orchard.

This is NOT so special...You or someone else with the heart and will can do the same.

Outwest
OutWest
Veteran Poster
 
Posts: 2059
Joined: Sat Mar 19, 2011 7:09 am
Location: Asia/USA

Postby davewe » Fri Oct 18, 2013 7:24 pm

OutWest wrote:
tre wrote:^^^Thanks for sharing. If ONLY I could be in my 20's again...lol


You must think you are ancient...LOL You do NOT need to be in your 20s.
I am past 50, married to a 25 year old educated Filipina from a good family.
My father in law is just a few years older than I am...and one of the best men I have
met here. We have a home and a small ag project- a mango orchard.

This is NOT so special...You or someone else with the heart and will can do the same.

Outwest


+1

I'm older than my father in law :)
davewe
Experienced Poster
 
Posts: 1391
Joined: Wed Jul 27, 2011 2:21 am

Postby mguy » Sat Oct 19, 2013 2:24 am

Who wants a sogo tour?
"So never refuse an invitation, never resist the unfamiliar, never fail to be polite and never outstay the welcome. Just keep your mind open and suck in the experience. And if it hurts, you know what? It's probably worth it."

Like to read?Third World Hero
Like to see?3WorldHero -- Did he really just do that?

mguy
Junior Poster
 
Posts: 749
Joined: Sat Nov 24, 2012 6:09 pm

PreviousNext

Return to Asia, China, Philippines, Thailand

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 3 guests