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Dating Vietnamese Women

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Postby anamericaninbangkok » Sun Nov 17, 2013 5:33 pm

It's no longer Saigon, it is Ho Chi Minh City or HCMC.

There is rain and motorbikes all over Asia. If you're going to let these things stop you from coming then by all means, stay home.

Start out in HCMC, work your way up to Hanoi, stopping at the beaches along the way. You'll get away with more in Hanoi and by this I mean you'll be able to take the women with less hassle.

Vietnamese women - again, decent Viets, not hos - are not easy to simply meet, get to know, and bed. In fact, they're harder to bed than Thais. I've only been there twice but I have two friends who have lived there for quite some times. They worked in hospital administrators / international coordinators. Both had decent salaries, both had nice places to live, and both had their fair share of trouble landing Viets as girlfriends.

Both lived in Thailand, which is where I met them, and one guy was a player. He had a girlfriend and was always nailing one here or there. Vietnam is known as a difficult place to hook up...by all means if you're foolish enough to shell out $10K for the "privilege" of marrying a Viet you do not know and then taking care of her family and her for the rest of her life, go for it.

Are you guys that friggin desperate where you can't even go to a place to meet a woman in person? Seriously, do you want to get married that badly where you'll just order a chick online like you're placing an order at Burger King?

This is beginning to parallel the old saying, "You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink."
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Postby pandabear » Mon Nov 18, 2013 12:17 am

I think that hundreds of thousands of men, mostly from Taiwan and South Korea, did just that. Taiwanese and Korean men are usually quite smart, so you might not go wrong in following in their footsteps.
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Postby Ghost » Mon Nov 18, 2013 4:40 am

I've been told by a friend who has been there that it is illegal for Vietnamese and foreigners to have sexual relations. Can anyone confirm? So dating/marriage there could be a difficult thing. But paying $10,000 for a virgin bride is really cheap in a way. (And then living in another country.) Virginity is so rare that $10,000 for a virgin bride is really not that bad. Go work in China for a year and save well and you could do this within a year.
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Postby Bao3niang » Mon Nov 18, 2013 5:14 am

Here's what I found:

CO-HABITATING WITH THE VIETNAMESE - The attitude to the law is relaxing over recent years, but the laws are still on the books. It is illegal for a foreigner to share a room with a Vietnamese of the opposite sex without a certificate of engagement or marriage.


From www.visitingvietnam.weebly.com

This is sad.....



Maybe Thailand or the Philippines is better.....
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Postby anamericaninbangkok » Mon Nov 18, 2013 8:07 am

That's what I meant about getting away with more in Hanoi. In HCMC, you need to bring a girl to a hotel that will allow a prostitute and foreigner to use their room for sex. Basically it's a short-time hotel. You won't be bringing some chick back to the Hilton, no way.

As you go farther north to Hanoi the laws are more relaxed, although you still need to be cautious.

Thailand and the PI are EASIER, not necessarily better if you're looking for a wife. If you can swing it, whether for a virgin or not, they supposedly make excellent wives.
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Postby anamericaninbangkok » Mon Nov 18, 2013 8:07 am

That's what I meant about getting away with more in Hanoi. In HCMC, you need to bring a girl to a hotel that will allow a prostitute and foreigner to use their room for sex. Basically it's a short-time hotel. You won't be bringing some chick back to the Hilton, no way.

As you go farther north to Hanoi the laws are more relaxed, although you still need to be cautious.

Thailand and the PI are EASIER, not necessarily better if you're looking for a wife. If you can swing it, whether for a virgin or not, they supposedly make excellent wives.
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Postby The_Adventurer » Mon Nov 18, 2013 9:14 am

That are article was.so poorly written. Was it written by a non native speaker? They keep saying HERE. Where the hell is here? Viet or Singapore?

To AIB, I don't think most guys are desperate. I think most guys work for "the man" and have a mere 2 weeks vacation. There is little opportunity for them to go to another country, really experience it, and really get to know a girl.
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Postby anamericaninbangkok » Mon Nov 18, 2013 9:18 am

The_Adventurer wrote:That are article was.so poorly written. Was it written by a non native speaker? They keep saying HERE. Where the hell is here? Viet or Singapore?

To AIB, I don't think most guys are desperate. I think most guys work for "the man" and have a mere 2 weeks vacation. There is little opportunity for them to go to another country, really experience it, and really get to know a girl.


Rubbish my friend. Seriously. There is no difference between me and anyone else. If I could do it, so can others. Fear of failure, however, stands in the way. Save enough money to get an apartment and pay the bills for a month ($3-$4K), save another $7K to come over here ($1000 ticket) and to live here for 6 months. If you can't make a go of it in that time, come back. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Adventure awaits to those willing to venture outside the lines.
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Postby pandabear » Mon Nov 18, 2013 3:12 pm

The safest way to get a Vietnamese bride might be to go to Singapore and pick one out at one of the Vietnamese marriage agencies at the mall. They used to offer tours to Vietnam, where dozens of prospective brides would be lined up for you, and you could pick out the one you wanted. But, the Vietnamese government has cracked down on that, and put at least one fellow away for 8 years, on charges of "trafficking."

Here is a documentary:

http://www.cutv.ws/documentary/watch-on ... Match-Made
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Postby Devil Dog » Mon Nov 18, 2013 11:28 pm

pandabear wrote:The safest way to get a Vietnamese bride might be to go to Singapore and pick one out at one of the Vietnamese marriage agencies at the mall. They used to offer tours to Vietnam, where dozens of prospective brides would be lined up for you, and you could pick out the one you wanted. But, the Vietnamese government has cracked down on that, and put at least one fellow away for 8 years, on charges of "trafficking."

Here is a documentary:

http://www.cutv.ws/documentary/watch-on ... Match-Made



f**k me to tears. What a plan. Go to a Singapore mall and pick out your Vietnamese bride.

If you are not a social misfit, then you may want to try this radical and innovative method: Travel to Vietnam. Talk to women. Meet people. Ask them to introduce you to other people.
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Postby anamericaninbangkok » Mon Nov 18, 2013 11:32 pm

Devil Dog wrote:
pandabear wrote:The safest way to get a Vietnamese bride might be to go to Singapore and pick one out at one of the Vietnamese marriage agencies at the mall. They used to offer tours to Vietnam, where dozens of prospective brides would be lined up for you, and you could pick out the one you wanted. But, the Vietnamese government has cracked down on that, and put at least one fellow away for 8 years, on charges of "trafficking."

Here is a documentary:

http://www.cutv.ws/documentary/watch-on ... Match-Made



f**k me to tears. What a plan. Go to a Singapore mall and pick out your Vietnamese bride.

If you are not a social misfit, then you may want to try this radical and innovative method: Travel to Vietnam. Talk to women. Meet people. Ask them to introduce you to other people.


Thank you.

This is the new way...since a man is inept at meeting women face to face or on his own, we'll do it thru a computer and/or use a bride shop who will give us a woman who is in dire need of a husband and his financial support.
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Postby Bao3niang » Tue Nov 19, 2013 1:49 am

I'd still prefer to travel to Vietnam / live there and actually try to meet people. Are Vietnamese girls approachable? I'm sort of the shy type so at least for now, I'm not really the one to do the approaching in a very direct manner. Will take time to get me to open up.

Any tips for Vietnam / SEA for guys like me? (a bit shy at first, wearing glasses and sort of geeky)
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Postby anamericaninbangkok » Tue Nov 19, 2013 2:12 am

Bao3niang wrote:I'd still prefer to travel to Vietnam / live there and actually try to meet people. Are Vietnamese girls approachable? I'm sort of the shy type so at least for now, I'm not really the one to do the approaching in a very direct manner. Will take time to get me to open up.

Any tips for Vietnam / SEA for guys like me? (a bit shy at first, wearing glasses and sort of geeky)


What cracks me up is you haven't a clue on what the women are like and yet you're considering them for marriage.

Here's the best tip I can give you: COME HERE FOR A FEW MONTHS. Travel around Asia. Choose a place to live for a year. Meet, date, and sleep with women. Find one that you mesh with, then think about getting serious.
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Postby Bao3niang » Tue Nov 19, 2013 2:20 am

Nice to meet you! I'm Andrew and currently 17. I'm a Chinese-Canadian from Vancouver who now lives in Beijing and has been here for the past 4 years. China is becoming Americanized and Chinese society is just as bad.

My E-Mail: kingarthur1988@live.com

QQ: 1251061229

WeChat: xXHezekiahxX


Hope I can know AiB better :)))
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Postby pandabear » Tue Nov 19, 2013 4:37 pm

Going to Southeast Asia and meeting chicks is another way. In the Philippines, you are likely to be mobbed by marriage-minded women. In Thailand, you'll be mobbed by prostitutes, who are very nice, but whom it would probably be a mistake to marry. Using a matchmaker is something of an old Asian tradition. I don't know, but you might have a good selection of Vietnamese brides at a mall in Singapore. The process seems about as simple as going to a pet shop to buy a puppy.
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