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“I was a God in The Philippinesâ€￾ – No You Weren't Here's Why

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“I was a God in The Philippinesâ€￾ – No You Weren't Here's Why

Postby mguy » Mon Mar 17, 2014 7:06 am

This is a continuation of my Filipina Tips and Observations.

I am gaining mastery now so I call this my enlightenment period. It is getting harder for me to contribute to this forum. So if you have any specifics the best way to get at me is through my my site.

Some more of the things I have picked up.

- 95% of Filipinas in the dating websites are either poor, have kids, ugly, or some weird problem. This is immutable now in my opinion.

- Having said that, approaching Filipinas on the ground is vastly superior to online dating. The approachability of Filipinas is probably the highest in the world. (minus elite girls so learn to spot them).

- 75% of Expats in Manila are at the end 20% of their life, and they are dating the cleaning lady. No offense. Just brutal honesty.

- Young expats are killing it in the clubs. However, they are actively getting gamed and cannot differentiate the quality from non-quality. If you still have youth, you should really take advantage of this country NOW.

- Most important: You cannot analyze any society with just a western eye. You need to unlock the local culture eye to gain a true understanding.

Here's a post I posted on winstons blog.

“I was a God in The Philippinesâ€￾ – No You Weren’t Here’s Why.

The Philippines is a very stratified society. To be honest, I don’t doubt at all that you probably got laid like a champion during your week visit. But there really is something more going on that will escape your eye as westerner and that someone who has an insider knowledge of the culture can tell you.

The most obvious is the local joke. “Why do foreigners date the ugly girls?â€￾ I’m not here to bust any balls, but there is a reason why locals think this way. Once you spend time on the ground, you notice this as well. There is a thing about shifting beauty preferences, like a bad hang-over than you notice 6 months into the trip. By the time you realize you bedded attilla the hun’s sister, everyone is laughing at you for being such as sucker, and you have used up most of your social capital to bed the girls in the upper strata.

This reason is not so obvious. The Philippines is very strict in strata dating. This means dating is heavily based on the economic strata. With females being hypergamous, you will see a lot more leeway in the bottom strata as girls find to date upwards. The guys on the top on the other hand have SO MANY options, but since access to money is VERY influenced by the perception of people towards the stratas these men do not cross the line… unlike the uninitiated foreigner.




You have unresolved issues about sex, love, and relationships. America is such an unbalanced place that the gender dynamic has been twisted and contorted for the pursuit of ego and capital. It truly is sad to see an American man waiting in the street corner LIKE A CRACK ADDICT waiting for his p***y fix in ermita, and even sadder to see healthy YOUNG AMERICAN guys who are using “gameâ€￾ to have an ego boost of notch-counts but generally looking desperate in the high-end bars. When you chase p***y of course it is going to open up. But the quality of p***y you open up is a different aspect. Learn the society first gentleman, this ain’t first world Japan.


p***y is plentiful. Imagine a pyramid.. well you know I’ll just draw you pyramid (up there). This means there is a whole more to date from the bottom that there is at the top. Why should you care if the girl has money or not? I pondered the same question when I was a former a contributor at rooshv forum before embarking to a trip to Colombia. There was a legendary poster by the name of MixX (Colombian-American from Miami) who wrote the guide about Colombia and remarked that “I could really fck barrio girls all day if I wanted to.. â€￾ and I didn't understand it then. But when I went to Colombia I was enlightened. Same thing in Manila.


It’s all in your head. When you first go here you think you are the shit. This manifests in your thoughts and the way you move. You see someone looking at you then you believe it! You go and date some girls you meet online (fact: 95% of the girls in Filipina dating sites are similar to barrio girls or have something wrong with them thus excluding them from the local dating pool) and this attitude carries over. Never mind that you are blowing a shit load of cash for a fancy hotel or fancy expat restaurant when her local lover boy takes her out on fish-ball dates.

I would like to end this by saying that even if the entire American nation of sex-starved males comes to Manila to hunt p***y, it will not even make a dent on my dating options. There are too many females here. As Manila heads towards “medellinifcationâ€￾ (to become like Medellin in dating), there needs to be some sort of guide for this to at least show what cannot be seen by the western eye (insider access). American men deserve quality because they are high quality men. The problem really is that they do not understand the society. To them, p***y is just another p***y. It’s not. Especially in a third world society.
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Postby mguy » Mon Mar 17, 2014 7:22 am

here's a sample of the vids on youtube channel and the notorious havana girls

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I2LhP1Gr6xs[/youtube]
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Postby mguy » Mon Mar 17, 2014 7:38 am

Also, if anyone there wants my take on a Filipina.

Send me a clip (audio or video) of her speaking.. and I will tell you my personal take on her.

Any stories requesting for help should be posted on my site (forum), cuz I really am struggling to come here.
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Postby Bao3niang » Tue Mar 18, 2014 2:13 am

What about Filipinas and Chinese/Taiwanese guys? I don't have money, status, nothing. I'm shy and it takes time for me to open up. If I go to the Philippines, will I score well with a good lady? Do they care that much about age differences?


I like girls that are kind, sweet, and caring, but also someone that I can talk to and really have conversations.


Should I switch to another country or keep Vietnam and China?
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Postby Winston » Tue Mar 18, 2014 9:33 am

Mguy,
I agree with your points. But when Will N Dowd said that he was a God in the Philippines, it was figurative. He felt like a God there, and was treated like one. Or at least a rock star. It's all relative. When you are treated like shit in the US, anything better is so refreshing that you worship it.

Bao,
Not many Taiwanese/Chinese and Filipina couples. Maybe in the past though, since there are many Chinese Filipinos. But Chinese usually look down on Filipinos and see them as maids and servants, not for marriage.

Filipinas are easy to get along with. Very easy going and nonjudgmental, but very simple and not good for intelligent conversation.

I'm sure you can find a good lady. But most girls you date there will be poor and will need you to pay for everything.

No they don't care that much about age differences.

It all depends on what you want. No one can tell you what's best for you. Only you know that.

Personally, I'd get on QQ and start meeting Chinese girls. You can also meet them for free on DateinAsia.
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Postby starchild5 » Tue Mar 18, 2014 3:14 pm

I feel like the king of Manila. :)

When I go to Manila. The AI does not have any program left to manipulate the surroundings :). Even though I had Middle class, poor Filipina....Some are definitely hot for even Filipino standard.

For example...I took a Filipina Mix Spanish Date to Palladium, 5.6 height, 25 yrs old and for the record I'm not a deluded guy, I'm thoughtful or I wouldn't be in this forum and rather be reading news stories of Kim Khardhashian butt. I observe people around and I swear, My date was one of the hottest girl in the club and nearly All Filipinos were eyeing her and were confused as to how could an Indian guy get her...

The filipinos would look at me and then look at her and get confused :)...One D**ckhead from Holland & another from UK tried to approach her and ask her number when i went to CR, even though they were friendly, but were using PUA tricks to land her and were drunk...later, the Ducth guy introduced us to his group and he asked me twice..was she my wife or gf or work mate...as he couldn't believe it...even more so when he came to know I was from India :)


The Filipinos in the club were decent, however, when we left the club and were waiting for the taxi....Few drunk Filipinos approached us and they started talking to her to see, if she was ok and she needed any help etc and started giving whole history lesson to me on how to date a filipina...Even though they were non-aggressive....I had this feeling of they not been able to digest a hot filipina with an Indian guy :) as probably they are used to seeing us with rejected girls they don't want. :)

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This only happens with less than 5% of the girls out of 50 I could date. Could be beginners luck or getting lucky with statistical probability thingy but Nobody gives a flying F when I'm with rest of the Filipinas 90% of the time but If i get lucky, Filipino do start noticing or may be I'm Indian and they start observing even more...

I agree with the OP post, also I think it has to do with some form of luck in shorter term. Believe it or not I also have couple of Iranians date lined up who are doing dental course, swedish women and an American soon :) Also, a Chinese Filipina Mix from Davao who is a PR Greetings girl in Solaire Casino

Also, If One stays in Fort Area in those high rise Condos, Its good bye panties in 5 minutes they enter the condo :)

A lot could be achieved on those first initial weeks of stay and then the luck fades down...I try to be as much involved as possible to take advantage of beginners luck ..I know we don't really believe in luck in the forum or in life but there is definitely some X factor involved in Manila that could get you a hot date..
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Postby mguy » Thu Mar 20, 2014 6:41 am

Winston wrote:
Filipinas are easy to get along with. Very easy going and nonjudgmental, but very simple and not good for intelligent conversation.



This means you are dating a lower-class girl, referred to as "the masa." This means poor and uneducated. The types that are in the dating sites. I can load a dump-truck with them and still would not count them as a notch.

I tried them. I cannot exist like that! A man needs to have standards! Especially in marriage.. it's no joke.

I date girls that are AT LEAST college educated FROM the capital Manila. Are they harder? OFCOURSE! Nothing in life worth having is easy.

I don't blame any of you. There is no guide for it, just forum speculation. That's why I am oscillating between offering my book for free to at least give some basic understanding. I just don't want it to fall into the wrong hands (rooshers)
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Postby Enticer » Thu Mar 20, 2014 7:12 am

Interesting post. I am talking to a Filipina from Cedu City. She is a nurse assistant working on contract in Kuwait. She is pretty smart and her english is good to great. She seems pretty reserved sexually...shy and insists on no sex before marriage. We havnt spoken by phone yet. Here in the US, i'll date or play with AW of any class. I have played/dated with hot model types, girl next doors types and even heavies. But for marriage....i must be select. I think my Filipina friend is middle class...
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Postby mguy » Thu Mar 20, 2014 7:31 am

Bao3niang wrote:What about Filipinas and Chinese/Taiwanese guys? I don't have money, status, nothing. I'm shy and it takes time for me to open up. If I go to the Philippines, will I score well with a good lady? Do they care that much about age differences?


I like girls that are kind, sweet, and caring, but also someone that I can talk to and really have conversations.


Should I switch to another country or keep Vietnam and China?


For Asian-American guys

Listen to me on this. I have the means to guide you correctly. I am partly Chinese whose ancestors moved when the British started going crazy. In fact, you will be hard-pressed to find Filipinos without Chinese ancestry. That is a proven fact with science behind it.

Here are the facts.

- It will not matter much what Asian-American ethnicity you are (minus the revered Japanese), they will just lump sum you.

- You are not white. But American. That counts. It puts you automagically to upper-strata and open up the girls in that strata.

- What are you looking to get? A wife? A girlfriend? What is your station in life? I need more statistics. Who you are determines who you get. It isn't magical place where the universe rewards you with a quality female.

- The easiest way: go to whore-city Angeles and get a desperate Filipina. This is the easiest way but it will BITE you in the ass. You have been warned.

- You can do online dating. And masturbate yourself to death talking to girls who are obviously talking to other men. Go on week long trips to the Philippines and bang as much as you can as possible. This leads to more despair, bro.

- The path of most reward: you stay in Manila, find a supporting gig, and a quality chick will soon follow.


Conclusion

I'd design you a program if you email me. Chinese-American and Filipino-Chinese are two different things you will find out. With the latter more Filipino than they are Chinese.

I opened up a thread on my site for Asian-American men and offered to act as wing to those who come here as part of my karmic mission. Others who need advice get at me there too. I teach Korean kids and they are about to go on Summer break so I'll be putting energy to this venture.

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Postby mguy » Thu Mar 20, 2014 7:32 am

Enticer wrote:Interesting post. I am talking to a Filipina from Cedu City. She is a nurse assistant working on contract in Kuwait. She is pretty smart and her english is good to great. She seems pretty reserved sexually...shy and insists on no sex before marriage. We havnt spoken by phone yet. Here in the US, i'll date or play with AW of any class. I have played/dated with hot model types, girl next doors types and even heavies. But for marriage....i must be select. I think my Filipina friend is middle class...


If you send me a recording of her voice, I can pinpoint what strata she belongs to using her accent and manner of speaking. Even 15 seconds of clip will suffice.
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Postby mguy » Thu Mar 20, 2014 7:36 am

Another tidbit of information to help you all puzzle it out.

The Masa Strata 65% of total population are worlds different than a Middle Strata. They are different breeds and will seldom mix!!

This is a society that is highly stratified based on economic position and class. Implications? Think about it.
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On a lighter side..

Postby mguy » Thu Mar 20, 2014 8:21 am

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kQQn7blH-yU[/youtube]

:D
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Postby mguy » Thu Mar 20, 2014 8:25 am

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Re: “I was a God in The Philippinesâ€￾ – No You Weren’t Here’s

Postby Hero » Thu Mar 20, 2014 9:54 am

mguy wrote:- 95% of Filipinas in the dating websites are either poor, have kids, ugly, or some weird problem. This is immutable now in my opinion.


That's not such a bad ratio, IMO. If just 5% of Filipinas are quality women, then that just means that you have to date 20 of them before you find a good one. But it's no problem at all finding 20 women to date over there. As for the women being poor, what's wrong with that? That just means they'll love you all the more for having money to spend on them :D
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Re: “I was a God in The Philippinesâ€￾ – No You Weren’t Here’s

Postby mguy » Thu Mar 20, 2014 10:37 am

Hero wrote:
mguy wrote:- 95% of Filipinas in the dating websites are either poor, have kids, ugly, or some weird problem. This is immutable now in my opinion.


That's not such a bad ratio, IMO. If just 5% of Filipinas are quality women, then that just means that you have to date 20 of them before you find a good one. But it's no problem at all finding 20 women to date over there. As for the women being poor, what's wrong with that? That just means they'll love you all the more for having money to spend on them :D


Actually I will put it to 99% on some of the sites. They have active recruiters on the slums.

What does money have to do with it? I thought about this too. It turns out: everything!

The analysis will be too much. I would just say apples and oranges. You may not see it but: apples and oranges.

If you want to date barrio girls: why dont you just pay for poossy then? but if you bite into an apple, don't even for a second, think that it is an orange.
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