My Philippines strategy - please critique

[mentor]

I don't doubt, going there has its advantages.

On the other hand, if she comes to me, this has other advantages, some of them significant ones.
Like the possibility to see her( and us) how it goes in daily life, with all the daily ordinary tasks n(job/work, household, etc), and not just being 'cool' and 'relaxed' like on vacation.
It a much more 'realistic simulation', than just a holiday, when usually everybody is in the mood to have good time whatever happens.

[xiongmao]

Yup, similar strategy to that I deployed before visiting China. I'll add that you should decide where to visit then stick to that place. I'd recommend Cebu.

It's easy to know a girl likes you - she'll contact you a lot online.

Try to find someone like you - successful couples usually look similar each other.

[mentor]

You mean, similarity in appearance?

[mentor]

Due to cultural differences between countries, I have to ask.
If a girl says that she is a dancer & singer, is it good, bad, or indifferent?

[pete98146]

Due to cultural differences between countries, I have to ask.
If a girl says that she is a dancer & singer, is it good, bad, or indifferent?

You'll soon learn that all Filipinos are dancers and singers

[mentor]

Due to cultural differences between countries, I have to ask.
If a girl says that she is a dancer & singer, is it good, bad, or indifferent?

You'll soon learn that all Filipinos are dancers and singers

So it is something usual, and not something special or even bad.

Maybe this is an indication that she is an extrovert?

[davewe]

Due to cultural differences between countries, I have to ask.
If a girl says that she is a dancer & singer, is it good, bad, or indifferent?

You'll soon learn that all Filipinos are dancers and singers

So it is something usual, and not something special or even bad.

Maybe this is an indication that she is an extrovert?

As Pete says, all Filipinas are singers and dancers. OTOH if she lives in Angeles and is a dancer and singer - run

[pete98146]

Due to cultural differences between countries, I have to ask.
If a girl says that she is a dancer & singer, is it good, bad, or indifferent?

You'll soon learn that all Filipinos are dancers and singers

So it is something usual, and not something special or even bad.

Maybe this is an indication that she is an extrovert?

Not necessarily! Oh and is this her only skill? If so, maybe move onto the next candidate!

[mentor]

She only mentions these things and she does longboard. Her place is Sta. Rosa.

[mentor]

Some months now, in online dating, and I really try to navigate to this first stage of approaching filipina girls.

Some incidents seem quite weird to me.

How is it possible to get almost the same answers, for specific questions I ask? I can tell that almost the words were put in the same row! I could not believe in my eyes. It is like there is a book title 'how to answer to foreigners'. Explanation?

I also find it difficult to understand, why some girls that I exchange some messages, they abandon the conversation after some messages and a few days. Their profiles seem good, I approach girls with serious profiles. And I am very serious in my communication too. The problem is that they do not give me any feedback why they quit. I know, I proceed to the next profile. But, it is supposed to learn from our mistakes. Is it my fault? Are they scammers? I try to find a pattern. I do not know.

[droid]

I also find it difficult to understand, why some girls that I exchange some messages, they abandon the conversation after some messages and a few days. Their profiles seem good, I approach girls with serious profiles. And I am very serious in my communication too. The problem is that they do not give me any feedback why they quit. I know, I proceed to the next profile. But, it is supposed to learn from our mistakes. Is it my fault? Are they scammers? I try to find a pattern. I do not know.

Some women are just time wasters, no way around that. I had written a much longer post but don't want to seem spiteful haha.
It just creates a big cognitive dissonance on a man how can they be so disrespectful and inconsiderate, to not even dignify you with an explanation.

You just have to identify those and send them to the bottom of your list early.

The good news is that if you soldier on the rewards are pretty good, there are some real cute+nice girls out there that will treat you really well.

[mentor]

I also find it difficult to understand, why some girls that I exchange some messages, they abandon the conversation after some messages and a few days. Their profiles seem good, I approach girls with serious profiles. And I am very serious in my communication too. The problem is that they do not give me any feedback why they quit. I know, I proceed to the next profile. But, it is supposed to learn from our mistakes. Is it my fault? Are they scammers? I try to find a pattern. I do not know.

Some women are just time wasters, no way around that. I had written a much longer post but don't want to seem spiteful haha.
It just creates a big cognitive dissonance on a man how can they be so disrespectful and inconsiderate, to not even dignify you with an explanation.

You just have to identify those and send them to the bottom of your list early.

The good news is that if you soldier on the rewards are pretty good, there are some real cute+nice girls out there that will treat you really well.

I believe that if I manage to avoid the 'bad' girls, then the good ones, are really 'very good ones', compared to the 'western girls' selection I have now...
So it is definitely worth the efforts, don't you think?