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Postby Array9 » Wed May 28, 2014 3:51 pm

newlifeinphilippines wrote:the truth is most girls here are not easy or horny. thats a huge myth that im sick of hearing. Mr. s and winston and me and Rock have al confirmed first hand that there is a broad spectrum with most women falling under normal sexuality and id argue they are even less sexual than american women by far on average. if they are horny or easy its cause often times they just want your money and are acting. women are women everywhere there is nothign special about filipina that suddenly makes them more sexual. sexuality is from birth for the most part. the rest is training but not genuine.

its gonna be hard for me to find a girl who really enjoys sex naturally. that is more important for me than her looks but ideally i wont be totally happy unless she is about a 6.8 or so on the looks scale and loves sex. i wont settle for less unless i knock one of these girls up accidentally which could happen lol


Your statements in bold are total Bravo Sierra. The truth is, if the average Filipina likes you, she will be more than willing to throw her panties at you(If she is not a virgin). To poke a hole in your theory, filipino men with no job or with little income are sleeping with pretty girls (Bebots) all the time. I know guys that don't even want to work and live with their parents and they are still getting the panties. Filipino men are very aggressive while courting a girl. I am friendly with many females in the Philippines and they tell me that they get approached every day.

There is also a term that I only hear Filipinas use, it is called "Sport F***". They do this even if they have no feelings for the guy.

The best place to meet a girl is in the mall or a store. The sales ladies are usually very friendly and intrigued by foreigners. I have even had Filipinas approach me in the store while I was with another female. The bottom line is that the Philippines is one of the easiest places in the world to approach and pull women.

One last thing, get off of Date in Asia. That is a terrible site to meet women. You will get more hits using Cherry Blossoms. When I was using CB, I received more than 40-50 messages a day. The selection of girls on CB is also better.
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Postby hammanta » Wed May 28, 2014 4:01 pm

Array9 wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:the truth is most girls here are not easy or horny. thats a huge myth that im sick of hearing. Mr. s and winston and me and Rock have al confirmed first hand that there is a broad spectrum with most women falling under normal sexuality and id argue they are even less sexual than american women by far on average. if they are horny or easy its cause often times they just want your money and are acting. women are women everywhere there is nothign special about filipina that suddenly makes them more sexual. sexuality is from birth for the most part. the rest is training but not genuine.

its gonna be hard for me to find a girl who really enjoys sex naturally. that is more important for me than her looks but ideally i wont be totally happy unless she is about a 6.8 or so on the looks scale and loves sex. i wont settle for less unless i knock one of these girls up accidentally which could happen lol


Your statements in bold are total Bravo Sierra. The truth is, if the average Filipina likes you, she will be more than willing to throw her panties at you(If she is not a virgin). To poke a hole in your theory, filipino men with no job or with little income are sleeping with pretty girls (Bebots) all the time. I know guys that don't even want to work and live with their parents and they are still getting the panties. Filipino men are very aggressive while courting a girl. I am friendly with many females in the Philippines and they tell me that they get approached every day.

There is also a term that I only hear Filipinas use, it is called "Sport F***". They do this even if they have no feelings for the guy.

The best place to meet a girl is in the mall or a store. The sales ladies are usually very friendly and intrigued by foreigners. I have even had Filipinas approach me in the store while I was with another female. The bottom line is that the Philippines is one of the easiest places in the world to approach and pull women.

One last thing, get off of Date in Asia. That is a terrible site to meet women. You will get more hits using Cherry Blossoms. When I was using CB, I received more than 40-50 messages a day. The selection of girls on CB is also better.


+1 completely agree. I'm 100% on the girls I've wanted to have one night stands with and not one ever asked me for money and a few even paid for the date before hand. I had one filipina trying to give me a H*** job in a club after she footed the whole bill for the taxi nice meal and alcohol. I asked her why in the morning she wouldn't let me pay and she said because that would make her feel like she owed me something. I feel the guys preaching the opposite are either boring, unimaginative, or watch too much porn and have a skewed view of what sex really is.
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Postby davewe » Wed May 28, 2014 4:39 pm

Array9 wrote:
The truth is, if the average Filipina likes you, she will be more than willing to throw her panties at you(If she is not a virgin).


And sometimes, even if she is :)
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Postby pete98146 » Wed May 28, 2014 5:05 pm

Bao3niang wrote:Chaperone in this day and age? I thought we have already passed the Old Testament era!

Why ditch shorts and flip flops if it is your style / you think it is best for the weather? Remember the Philippines is a tropical country which can obviously get above 30+ degrees Celsius on a regular basis. Here in Beijing it is 38 now.

I do understand the need to look "presentable" (which I fail at quite often), but the way you dress will not cover up who you really are. If a female with a good heart / personality has a decent body that looks good when she puts on a dress and wears heels, it will be an overall positive. If a female tries to look feminine while she has a shitty personality I would not give a damn because she can't mask her inner self just by looking in a certain way. The females in my family are a good example of how you can't disguise your true self by wearing designer clothes and shoes.

I can put on a designer suit and dress shoes but it won't change the fact that I'm informal, casual, and all over the place. As much as I know about reality, if I can't get a "good" woman just because I'm wearing Crocs, what does this say about the sheer stupidity of human nature?

Often I tell myself to not waste my entire life studying female psychology because I will never figure it out anyways. So one of my paramount principles in dating is that she must accept me AND appreciate me for who I am as an individual at the core. If she's someone who judges by petty details more than overall state, I'm pretty sure she isn't the one for me.

I am romantic on the inside but not in the form of giving roses and driving my lady in a BMW to have candlelight dinners at expensive restaurants. Can't afford it, not my thing to do.


Don't shoot the messenger! Fact of the matter is that some girls (especially those from the provinces) may want to bring along a friend or relative on the first date. So yes, the chaperone system has been known to happen in Philippines even in todays time. You are correct, don't like it? Skip her an go onto the next one. I only mention it because it does exist. Just spoke to my wife. She estimates 1/4 of the province girls will bring a friend or relative on a date. Usually only the first date tho.

Back to looking good. If you are truly seeking the ladies in the 7+ range, you better do something to set yourself apart from the other guys otherwise you won't register on her radar. If a guy were to go thru this exercise, wouldn't he want to maximize his success rate?

Also, if you are going to spend time in Asia, you need to know a bit about their customs. Asians are still pretty old school/traditional. If they are "going out of the house" many will dress business casual which definitely means donning a pair of nice pants, shirt and shoes. So when in Rome...

Hey I get dressing in a t shirt, shorts and flip flops especially when it's 80-90 degrees, but you better have a few nice sets of clothes/willingness to dress nice in your arsenal if you are going to chase higher quality ladies.
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Postby In2dadark » Wed May 28, 2014 5:31 pm

newlifeinphilippines wrote:
anyways im getting tired of philippines in general. it seems like such a huge hassle on so many levels to do with traveling and the costs just to get an easy lay
. Im not sure if i want to put in EVEN more work to try to get a really hot girl who may wid up chating or leaving me in the end also. Its enough effort just coming here i think thats why most go for the easy lays cause they just want to hit the p***y upon arrival.


It's starting to look that way to me & I've never been. Crazy (don't say it :) ) for my creature comforts & my health makes that a must. Maybe something closer or travel to Europe (or South America) with just traveling & adventure being the goal instead.
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Postby hammanta » Wed May 28, 2014 5:54 pm

In2dadark wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:
anyways im getting tired of philippines in general. it seems like such a huge hassle on so many levels to do with traveling and the costs just to get an easy lay
. Im not sure if i want to put in EVEN more work to try to get a really hot girl who may wid up chating or leaving me in the end also. Its enough effort just coming here i think thats why most go for the easy lays cause they just want to hit the p***y upon arrival.


It's starting to look that way to me & I've never been. Crazy (don't say it :) ) for my creature comforts & my health makes that a must. Maybe something closer or travel to Europe (or South America) with just traveling & adventure being the goal instead.


If you go strictly for women then yes it can be a hassle getting there and cost a lot but that in reality should never be the sole reason for a trip. If it is and trust me I know first hand, it will usually be a miserable one. But "newlifeinphilippines" opinion is just one. Don't dock it until you go there. I personally love traveling there. Some of the prettiest beaches and scenery in the world, english spoken, friendly people, good food IF and a big if, you know where to look, cheap beer, awesome nightlife, and yes beautiful friendly women. Then again this is coming from a 24 year old who loves the beach, nightlife, adventure sports, and culture so we may have different views of fun if you happen to be of the older generation.
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Postby davewe » Wed May 28, 2014 7:41 pm

pete98146 wrote:
Back to looking good. If you are truly seeking the ladies in the 7+ range, you better do something to set yourself apart from the other guys otherwise you won't register on her radar. If a guy were to go thru this exercise, wouldn't he want to maximize his success rate?

Also, if you are going to spend time in Asia, you need to know a bit about their customs. Asians are still pretty old school/traditional. If they are "going out of the house" many will dress business casual which definitely means donning a pair of nice pants, shirt and shoes. So when in Rome...

Hey I get dressing in a t shirt, shorts and flip flops especially when it's 80-90 degrees, but you better have a few nice sets of clothes/willingness to dress nice in your arsenal if you are going to chase higher quality ladies.


+1 on the look nice thing, but this does not mean you have to wear a $1000 suit. Even if you wear a polo or t-shirt and shorts, they can be nice ones. I wear a nice looking leather pair of water proof sandals (not flip flops) which work everywhere, even on the beach.

I think even more important is to smell good. All filipinas notice, even in the provinces. My wife and I just returned to her provincial home and had to bring small gifts for the family. What did she want to get them? Perfumes for her sisters and colognes for her brothers. So maintain good hygiene and smell good and you will have a leg up on many foreigners.
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Postby Hero » Thu May 29, 2014 1:28 am

Array9 wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:the truth is most girls here are not easy or horny. thats a huge myth that im sick of hearing. Mr. s and winston and me and Rock have al confirmed first hand that there is a broad spectrum with most women falling under normal sexuality and id argue they are even less sexual than american women by far on average. if they are horny or easy its cause often times they just want your money and are acting. women are women everywhere there is nothign special about filipina that suddenly makes them more sexual. sexuality is from birth for the most part. the rest is training but not genuine.

its gonna be hard for me to find a girl who really enjoys sex naturally. that is more important for me than her looks but ideally i wont be totally happy unless she is about a 6.8 or so on the looks scale and loves sex. i wont settle for less unless i knock one of these girls up accidentally which could happen lol


Your statements in bold are total Bravo Sierra. The truth is, if the average Filipina likes you, she will be more than willing to throw her panties at you(If she is not a virgin). To poke a hole in your theory, filipino men with no job or with little income are sleeping with pretty girls (Bebots) all the time. I know guys that don't even want to work and live with their parents and they are still getting the panties. Filipino men are very aggressive while courting a girl. I am friendly with many females in the Philippines and they tell me that they get approached every day.

There is also a term that I only hear Filipinas use, it is called "Sport F***". They do this even if they have no feelings for the guy.

The best place to meet a girl is in the mall or a store. The sales ladies are usually very friendly and intrigued by foreigners. I have even had Filipinas approach me in the store while I was with another female. The bottom line is that the Philippines is one of the easiest places in the world to approach and pull women.


+1. I've dated enough Filipinas to know that Filipinas are easier to turn on than an electric stove, and they get hot a lot faster :P You're doing something seriously wrong if you're a White American and you can't get even one girl to fall in love with you in the Philippines.
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Postby Hero » Thu May 29, 2014 1:35 am

newlifeinphilippines wrote:The bigger UNANSWERED question was what are the odds this so called hot dream girl will wait for you and not for other filipinos and foreigners while your away for months back in america? you spend all this money and time to get there but will she wait for you everytime while your away? maybe most of these foreigners realize the hot girls will cheat so they stick with girls more closer to the average spectrum.

the guy who does my passport in phil told me most girls will not wait and hedge their bets with other foreigners.


Excellent point and that's why I don't think I'll return to the Philippines until I can stay long-term. These two-week vacations are good for flings, but a waste of money in the long term. I'm saving and investing my money now so that I can survive in third world for a while on passive income.
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Postby Bao3niang » Thu May 29, 2014 2:30 am

Philippines overrated? And what are strategies to chase decent Filipinas? I'm not looking for the top 5%-10% unless THEY come to me. Just decent and good is ok.

I'm a Chinese-Canadian guy but I don't fit the stereotype of overseas Chinese being successful, well-educated, refined etc. I'm just a normal guy, shy but the people who know me well say I'm intelligent and have a good sense of humor. Little clingy but caring and devoted mmm..... ^^ Indolent

Born on July 3rd making me a Cancer sun, which is soft and sensitive and likes to take life slowly.

I'm not a really masculine type of guy. Grew up mostly without a dad (parents divorced when I was 7) and mother's side of the family is emotionally abusive. Grew up around females.

Sometimes I cry when watching movies or listening to music or even a video game if it touches me.
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Postby jtest28 » Thu May 29, 2014 3:03 am

Hero wrote:+1. I've dated enough Filipinas to know that Filipinas are easier to turn on than an electric stove, and they get hot a lot faster :P You're doing something seriously wrong if you're a White American and you can't get even one girl to fall in love with you in the Philippines.

My experience too! I could just accidentally brush against my Filipina's twat in the middle of the night and she would, after a few minutes, start getting really wet and wake me up for sex. It really got aggravating after a few nights. LOL And if I pretended to be asleep, she would even grab my hand and start masturbating herself with it.
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Thu May 29, 2014 4:22 am

Array9 wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:the truth is most girls here are not easy or horny. thats a huge myth that im sick of hearing. Mr. s and winston and me and Rock have al confirmed first hand that there is a broad spectrum with most women falling under normal sexuality and id argue they are even less sexual than american women by far on average. if they are horny or easy its cause often times they just want your money and are acting. women are women everywhere there is nothign special about filipina that suddenly makes them more sexual. sexuality is from birth for the most part. the rest is training but not genuine.

its gonna be hard for me to find a girl who really enjoys sex naturally. that is more important for me than her looks but ideally i wont be totally happy unless she is about a 6.8 or so on the looks scale and loves sex. i wont settle for less unless i knock one of these girls up accidentally which could happen lol


Your statements in bold are total Bravo Sierra. The truth is, if the average Filipina likes you, she will be more than willing to throw her panties at you(If she is not a virgin). To poke a hole in your theory, filipino men with no job or with little income are sleeping with pretty girls (Bebots) all the time. I know guys that don't even want to work and live with their parents and they are still getting the panties. Filipino men are very aggressive while courting a girl. I am friendly with many females in the Philippines and they tell me that they get approached every day.

There is also a term that I only hear Filipinas use, it is called "Sport F***". They do this even if they have no feelings for the guy.

The best place to meet a girl is in the mall or a store. The sales ladies are usually very friendly and intrigued by foreigners. I have even had Filipinas approach me in the store while I was with another female. The bottom line is that the Philippines is one of the easiest places in the world to approach and pull women.

One last thing, get off of Date in Asia. That is a terrible site to meet women. You will get more hits using Cherry Blossoms. When I was using CB, I received more than 40-50 messages a day. The selection of girls on CB is also better.


for all those cases there are many filipina girls that are the opposite. dont act like most girls there are like that.


yeah dateinasia is very piss poor. the girl im with those was also on cherry blossoms too but i didn't know till later so im not sure if hte quality is that better. she didn't have a pay account though so maybe the girls with the pay accounts are good.
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Thu May 29, 2014 4:31 am

hammanta wrote:
In2dadark wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:
anyways im getting tired of philippines in general. it seems like such a huge hassle on so many levels to do with traveling and the costs just to get an easy lay
. Im not sure if i want to put in EVEN more work to try to get a really hot girl who may wid up chating or leaving me in the end also. Its enough effort just coming here i think thats why most go for the easy lays cause they just want to hit the p***y upon arrival.


It's starting to look that way to me & I've never been. Crazy (don't say it :) ) for my creature comforts & my health makes that a must. Maybe something closer or travel to Europe (or South America) with just traveling & adventure being the goal instead.


If you go strictly for women then yes it can be a hassle getting there and cost a lot but that in reality should never be the sole reason for a trip. If it is and trust me I know first hand, it will usually be a miserable one. But "newlifeinphilippines" opinion is just one. Don't dock it until you go there. I personally love traveling there. Some of the prettiest beaches and scenery in the world, english spoken, friendly people, good food IF and a big if, you know where to look, cheap beer, awesome nightlife, and yes beautiful friendly women. Then again this is coming from a 24 year old who loves the beach, nightlife, adventure sports, and culture so we may have different views of fun if you happen to be of the older generation.


first time i came here was for bars only and i met my bargirl girlfriend. otherwise it would ahve been a very lonely boring experience had i not met her 3 weeks in. i had another girl from the bars also but the other girl who became my girlfriend made me want to keep coming back again and again.

Now that she is history and im trying to go after non-bargirls it doesn't seem as exciting. I either have to go to a higher quality dating site than dateinasia where there is a lot more attractive women who aren't scammers OR im gonna have to approach hot women in person and hand out my number. im not really satisfied enough with my current girl so unless i get her pregnant i probaly wont come back for her. im not sure i want to come back in 2015 and put work int to find a hot girl and then only wind up getting dumped as soon as i go back to america. its probably a common occurence. What do you think i should do? Should i even bother since the only reason why im going there is for p***y and for friendship at the local churches and my income online is unstable so all this money im blowing i may need someday. In the end ill probably have some girls just leave me when i go back home if i go for the hot as a sexvacation.
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Thu May 29, 2014 4:37 am

jtest28 wrote:
Hero wrote:+1. I've dated enough Filipinas to know that Filipinas are easier to turn on than an electric stove, and they get hot a lot faster :P You're doing something seriously wrong if you're a White American and you can't get even one girl to fall in love with you in the Philippines.

My experience too! I could just accidentally brush against my Filipina's twat in the middle of the night and she would, after a few minutes, start getting really wet and wake me up for sex. It really got aggravating after a few nights. LOL And if I pretended to be asleep, she would even grab my hand and start masturbating herself with it.


either your lucky to have a nympho girl one of the few in philippines OR the girl is a great actress. Most filipina girls are not like this. I dont care what most of the guys here say. Mr.s and Winston have both confirmed it also AND they have had more girls than all you guys claiming only to have 5 or less lays in phil.
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Postby Rock » Thu May 29, 2014 4:44 am

newlifeinphilippines wrote:
Hero wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:
Hero wrote:If I may add my 2 cents worth, make sure you have at least 3 weeks to spend over there. The more time you can spend there, the greater your chances of finding your dream girl. Plus, you don't want to feel pressure to find that girl quickly.

My first trip to the Philippines was for 20 days and it was like paradise. I met two gorgeous young women who were even hornier for me than I was for them. My second trip lasted just 10 days and was much less productive. I didn't even get one kiss. And yes, I did dress and groom myself impeccably and was on my best, most polite behavior.


why didn't you close the deal witheither one then as you were going home and continue things?

about the hornier thing, maybe those girls are hard to trust if they are so "horny" cause either they are so horny and experienced and will cheat at any time especially when you go home OR they are acting either of which is a bad sign lol


I couldn't continue things because I was going back to school immediately after my trip. So I knew that I couldn't afford to return to the Philippines for several years. One of my dream girls got tired of waiting and married somebody else. As for the other girl, I've lost interest in her due to her age and total lack of conversational skills.

Yes, I agree with your second point. I did worry that those two girls had a lot more experience with men than they were willing to admit.


the truth is most girls here are not easy or horny. thats a huge myth that im sick of hearing. Mr. s and winston and me and Rock have al confirmed first hand that there is a broad spectrum with most women falling under normal sexuality and id argue they are even less sexual than american women by far on average. if they are horny or easy its cause often times they just want your money and are acting. women are women everywhere there is nothign special about filipina that suddenly makes them more sexual. sexuality is from birth for the most part. the rest is training but not genuine.

its gonna be hard for me to find a girl who really enjoys sex naturally. that is more important for me than her looks but ideally i wont be totally happy unless she is about a 6.8 or so on the looks scale and loves sex. i wont settle for less unless i knock one of these girls up accidentally which could happen lol


Hmm, let me clarify my opinion on this one. I've said that girls here do not openly flirt with me when I go around and about the way they seem to do with Taco and certain others. But they do seem to be rather affectionate and sexual on average if you date them. My benchmark is not American girls for I have negligible experience with those. Rather, it's Taiwanese and also Chinese, Brazilians, Colombians, and some other non-Anglo girls.

Overwhelming majority of the girls I've known here do seem to have a pretty strong sex drive or at least love to make-out heavily, cuddle and pet. The girl I have dated most regularly pushes very hard to have long sessions several times whenever we meet. She consumes it like chocolate. The girls in question are mostly independent financially.

The ironic thing is that when I used to hang out with Winston in Angeles City, many of those bar girls seemed to be the most hung-up about things. It's like they couldn't get their head around being prostitutes. For them it's a chore and you see the turn down potential customers quite a bit, especially the door girls. Very weird.

I think it's that horny Malay blood as I once explained to Falcon. Many regular Pinays are delightfully affectionate and sexual. It's also great that they all seem to love kissing, so different than many Thai girls.
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