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Odds of a foreigner getting a 7+ looks girl

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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Thu May 29, 2014 4:55 am

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Hero wrote:If I may add my 2 cents worth, make sure you have at least 3 weeks to spend over there. The more time you can spend there, the greater your chances of finding your dream girl. Plus, you don't want to feel pressure to find that girl quickly.

My first trip to the Philippines was for 20 days and it was like paradise. I met two gorgeous young women who were even hornier for me than I was for them. My second trip lasted just 10 days and was much less productive. I didn't even get one kiss. And yes, I did dress and groom myself impeccably and was on my best, most polite behavior.


why didn't you close the deal witheither one then as you were going home and continue things?

about the hornier thing, maybe those girls are hard to trust if they are so "horny" cause either they are so horny and experienced and will cheat at any time especially when you go home OR they are acting either of which is a bad sign lol


I couldn't continue things because I was going back to school immediately after my trip. So I knew that I couldn't afford to return to the Philippines for several years. One of my dream girls got tired of waiting and married somebody else. As for the other girl, I've lost interest in her due to her age and total lack of conversational skills.

Yes, I agree with your second point. I did worry that those two girls had a lot more experience with men than they were willing to admit.


the truth is most girls here are not easy or horny. thats a huge myth that im sick of hearing. Mr. s and winston and me and Rock have al confirmed first hand that there is a broad spectrum with most women falling under normal sexuality and id argue they are even less sexual than american women by far on average. if they are horny or easy its cause often times they just want your money and are acting. women are women everywhere there is nothign special about filipina that suddenly makes them more sexual. sexuality is from birth for the most part. the rest is training but not genuine.

its gonna be hard for me to find a girl who really enjoys sex naturally. that is more important for me than her looks but ideally i wont be totally happy unless she is about a 6.8 or so on the looks scale and loves sex. i wont settle for less unless i knock one of these girls up accidentally which could happen lol


Hmm, let me clarify my opinion on this one. I've said that girls here do not openly flirt with me when I go around and about the way they seem to do with Taco and certain others. But they do seem to be rather affectionate and sexual on average if you date them. My benchmark is not American girls for I have negligible experience with those. Rather, it's Taiwanese and also Chinese, Brazilians, Colombians, and some other non-Anglo girls.

Overwhelming majority of the girls I've known here do seem to have a pretty strong sex drive or at least love to make-up heavily, cuddle and pet. The girl I have dated most regularly pushes very hard to have long sessions several times whenever we meet. She consumes it like chocolate. The girls in question are mostly independent financially.

The ironic thing is that when I used to hang out with Winston in Angeles City, many of those bar girls seemed to be the most hung-up about things. It's like they couldn't get their head around being hoes. For them it's a chore and you see the turn down potential customers quite a bit, especially the door girls. Very weird.

I think it's that horny Malay blood as I once explained to Falcon. Many regular Pinays are delightfully affectionate and sexual. It's also great that they all seem to love kissing, so different than many Thai girls.


then i guess i need to dump this girl after i come back cause she is nothing liek you guys describe. if i want to kiss or have sex i have to initiate. otherwise she could do without i used to think it was me being too sexual but i think she is just damaged goods. hope i dont get her pregnant. she does everything i want sexually but she isn't horny or initiates or has the cute personality of my barhoe before so im quite bored of her lol
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Postby pete98146 » Thu May 29, 2014 5:02 pm

newlifeinphilippines wrote:
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anyways im getting tired of philippines in general. it seems like such a huge hassle on so many levels to do with traveling and the costs just to get an easy lay
. Im not sure if i want to put in EVEN more work to try to get a really hot girl who may wid up chating or leaving me in the end also. Its enough effort just coming here i think thats why most go for the easy lays cause they just want to hit the p***y upon arrival.


It's starting to look that way to me & I've never been. Crazy (don't say it :) ) for my creature comforts & my health makes that a must. Maybe something closer or travel to Europe (or South America) with just traveling & adventure being the goal instead.


If you go strictly for women then yes it can be a hassle getting there and cost a lot but that in reality should never be the sole reason for a trip. If it is and trust me I know first hand, it will usually be a miserable one. But "newlifeinphilippines" opinion is just one. Don't dock it until you go there. I personally love traveling there. Some of the prettiest beaches and scenery in the world, english spoken, friendly people, good food IF and a big if, you know where to look, cheap beer, awesome nightlife, and yes beautiful friendly women. Then again this is coming from a 24 year old who loves the beach, nightlife, adventure sports, and culture so we may have different views of fun if you happen to be of the older generation.


first time i came here was for bars only and i met my bargirl girlfriend. otherwise it would ahve been a very lonely boring experience had i not met her 3 weeks in. i had another girl from the bars also but the other girl who became my girlfriend made me want to keep coming back again and again.

Now that she is history and im trying to go after non-bargirls it doesn't seem as exciting. I either have to go to a higher quality dating site than dateinasia where there is a lot more attractive women who aren't scammers OR im gonna have to approach hot women in person and hand out my number. im not really satisfied enough with my current girl so unless i get her pregnant i probaly wont come back for her. im not sure i want to come back in 2015 and put work int to find a hot girl and then only wind up getting dumped as soon as i go back to america. its probably a common occurence. What do you think i should do? Should i even bother since the only reason why im going there is for p***y and for friendship at the local churches and my income online is unstable so all this money im blowing i may need someday. In the end ill probably have some girls just leave me when i go back home if i go for the hot as a sexvacation.


This is a classic situation of being stuck in the middle as a short term vacationer. Now that I know your situation a bit better, I would change my advice to you. I wouldn't worry about trying to find a 7+ unless you are seeking a long term relationship that will end in marriage simply because the pretty girls have options and already get mucho attention from guys so what makes you any better than an above average Filipino guy who lives there full time and can shower with attention on a daily basis? What do you have to offer her other than a quick roll in the hay? Unless you are a 7+ yourself and can charm her pants off with raw sex appeal, I think your chances are slim.

So if your goal is to bang 7+ girl, stick with the prettier bar girls. It's much less of a headache in the long run.
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Postby hammanta » Thu May 29, 2014 7:33 pm

This is a classic situation of being stuck in the middle as a short term vacationer. Now that I know your situation a bit better, I would change my advice to you. I wouldn't worry about trying to find a 7+ unless you are seeking a long term relationship that will end in marriage simply because the pretty girls have options and already get mucho attention from guys so what makes you any better than an above average Filipino guy who lives there full time and can shower with attention on a daily basis? What do you have to offer her other than a quick roll in the hay? Unless you are a 7+ yourself and can charm her pants off with raw sex appeal, I think your chances are slim.

So if your goal is to bang 7+ girl, stick with the prettier bar girls. It's much less of a headache in the long run.


From what I've read he is living in the country or has lived for several months before. Not necessarily a short term vacationer. Not to pick on Newlifeinphilippines but I just don't think he really knows what he wants. He's not happy with his current girl but doesn't know how to end it without her being hurt or him being lonely. He wants a ten that will remain faithful, have high sexual desire and willingness to do whatever he wants, with a great interesting personality and a good job. It's good to have standards but he has to realize that sometimes they are unrealistic, especially with him being shy, with low confidence and unwillingness to use alternative forms of interaction other than dating sites.
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Postby pete98146 » Thu May 29, 2014 8:42 pm

hammanta wrote:
This is a classic situation of being stuck in the middle as a short term vacationer. Now that I know your situation a bit better, I would change my advice to you. I wouldn't worry about trying to find a 7+ unless you are seeking a long term relationship that will end in marriage simply because the pretty girls have options and already get mucho attention from guys so what makes you any better than an above average Filipino guy who lives there full time and can shower with attention on a daily basis? What do you have to offer her other than a quick roll in the hay? Unless you are a 7+ yourself and can charm her pants off with raw sex appeal, I think your chances are slim.

So if your goal is to bang 7+ girl, stick with the prettier bar girls. It's much less of a headache in the long run.


From what I've read he is living in the country or has lived for several months before. Not necessarily a short term vacationer. Not to pick on Newlifeinphilippines but I just don't think he really knows what he wants. He's not happy with his current girl but doesn't know how to end it without her being hurt or him being lonely. He wants a ten that will remain faithful, have high sexual desire and willingness to do whatever he wants, with a great interesting personality and a good job. It's good to have standards but he has to realize that sometimes they are unrealistic, especially with him being shy, with low confidence and unwillingness to use alternative forms of interaction other than dating sites.


I didn't mean to come across as a jerk to him, in fact my statement was meant as an across the board statement for any guy who is trying to find love during these 2-3 week trips. It's just plain difficult to have a short term affair with a 7+.

I'll give you a good example. Before I met my wife, she'd be approached by these types of expats while at the mall. Her level of interest in having a two week fling was zero.

So that's why it's best to stick to the pros or be content with the < 7's.
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Postby hammanta » Thu May 29, 2014 9:08 pm

pete98146 wrote:
hammanta wrote:
This is a classic situation of being stuck in the middle as a short term vacationer. Now that I know your situation a bit better, I would change my advice to you. I wouldn't worry about trying to find a 7+ unless you are seeking a long term relationship that will end in marriage simply because the pretty girls have options and already get mucho attention from guys so what makes you any better than an above average Filipino guy who lives there full time and can shower with attention on a daily basis? What do you have to offer her other than a quick roll in the hay? Unless you are a 7+ yourself and can charm her pants off with raw sex appeal, I think your chances are slim.

So if your goal is to bang 7+ girl, stick with the prettier bar girls. It's much less of a headache in the long run.


From what I've read he is living in the country or has lived for several months before. Not necessarily a short term vacationer. Not to pick on Newlifeinphilippines but I just don't think he really knows what he wants. He's not happy with his current girl but doesn't know how to end it without her being hurt or him being lonely. He wants a ten that will remain faithful, have high sexual desire and willingness to do whatever he wants, with a great interesting personality and a good job. It's good to have standards but he has to realize that sometimes they are unrealistic, especially with him being shy, with low confidence and unwillingness to use alternative forms of interaction other than dating sites.


I didn't mean to come across as a jerk to him, in fact my statement was meant as an across the board statement for any guy who is trying to find love during these 2-3 week trips. It's just plain difficult to have a short term affair with a 7+.

I'll give you a good example. Before I met my wife, she'd be approached by these types of expats while at the mall. Her level of interest in having a two week fling was zero.

So that's why it's best to stick to the pros or be content with the < 7's.


I wasn't stating that you were being a jerk, on the contrary, I thought your advice was good. I was just trying to state that he is, from my understanding, not a short term vacationer but a guy who can live there for a decent stint if he so chose. IMO he is wishy-washy about what he wants and until he comes out of his shell and rethinks his expectations, he won't find happiness no matter how short or long he stays there.
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Fri May 30, 2014 6:41 am

i been accused of wishy washy lol. anyways basically i want a girl who was as sexual and hot and had the personality like my barhoe but someone who isn't as drama and i can trust (liek this current girl) and maybe someone a little more educated and has better conversation skills. I think if the girl was just a little hotter and loved sex a lot more i would be much happier. I prefer a girl aslo whos tays with me and looks after me like these last 2 girls have done. if the girl is really hot and amazing in bed i will overlook that part but she better be amazing lol

i stay for 6 months at a time. i could stay longer or shorter but i stay that long as a plan. and my income is risky so i probably shouldn't travel at all and just save the money. if i was living there without any plan of going home maybe id take it slow and just date around. but like most guys in vacation mode we just want a 24/7 sex slave lol after beign starved in america.


I really think what i want will be hard to find here. if i want a girl who is hot and not a hoe she may not do what i want or take care of me making me wish i had the previous girl. if i get a girl who is very sexual she may cheat on my ass when i get home to america or dump me sooner do to my demanding one way treatment lol. the onyl thing i can think is i just will assume that my relationships only last few months at most while im here if im lucky :)

anyways comign here every year for 6 months could cost me 35K to 70K beyond what im spending in america i could get 1 or 2 fully loaded new trucks in that money and my online income is risky so im scared maybe to not go anymore. but my parents are getting older and im thinking maybe someday ill be worried for them and not want to leave the country so thats why i sort of been doing it now while they are in good health.
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Re: Odds of a foreigner getting a 7+ looks girl

Postby mentor » Mon Sep 14, 2015 11:47 am

A 7+ looks girl has different attitude because of her appearance?
If it is not as good as the not so beautiful ones, maybe it is better to avoid her.
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Re: Odds of a foreigner getting a 7+ looks girl

Postby mentor » Tue Sep 15, 2015 9:45 am

Most filipina girls are not beautiful, but just nice.
For me this is enough.
First priority for me is a gold heart and good attitude, with all the values you could expect from a traditional filipina girl.

Vietnamese ladies look more beautiful, but I prefer a christian one, so I mainly look for Filipinas, even though there are not so beautiful.
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Re: Odds of a foreigner getting a 7+ looks girl

Postby Balmung » Thu Sep 17, 2015 10:16 pm

mentor wrote:Most filipina girls are not beautiful, but just nice.
For me this is enough.
First priority for me is a gold heart and good attitude, with all the values you could expect from a traditional filipina girl.

Vietnamese ladies look more beautiful, but I prefer a christian one, so I mainly look for Filipinas, even though there are not so beautiful.


Have you been to the Philippines? I just came back from a trip there, and I have to say, I have to disagree. I saw tons of women that were hot, tons that were beautiful (there's a difference), and plenty that were both. I've been to Vietnam before, and yes, lots of good looking women there, but I actually prefer Filipinas. And I've spent much time in China (close to 2 years in country across several trips), and while some people on this board are into Chinese women, again, I find Pinays to be- on average- better looking. Of course, it's all opinion, but I will advise guys to take a good look, and visit if possible, before deciding.
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Re: Odds of a foreigner getting a 7+ looks girl

Postby mentor » Thu Sep 24, 2015 7:38 am

Balmung wrote:
mentor wrote:Most filipina girls are not beautiful, but just nice.
For me this is enough.
First priority for me is a gold heart and good attitude, with all the values you could expect from a traditional filipina girl.

Vietnamese ladies look more beautiful, but I prefer a christian one, so I mainly look for Filipinas, even though there are not so beautiful.


Have you been to the Philippines? I just came back from a trip there, and I have to say, I have to disagree. I saw tons of women that were hot, tons that were beautiful (there's a difference), and plenty that were both. I've been to Vietnam before, and yes, lots of good looking women there, but I actually prefer Filipinas. And I've spent much time in China (close to 2 years in country across several trips), and while some people on this board are into Chinese women, again, I find Pinays to be- on average- better looking. Of course, it's all opinion, but I will advise guys to take a good look, and visit if possible, before deciding.


Why you prefer Philippines over Vietnam and China?
More better looking or something else?
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Re: Odds of a foreigner getting a 7+ looks girl

Postby Balmung » Thu Sep 24, 2015 10:00 am

mentor wrote:
Balmung wrote:
mentor wrote:Most filipina girls are not beautiful, but just nice.
For me this is enough.
First priority for me is a gold heart and good attitude, with all the values you could expect from a traditional filipina girl.

Vietnamese ladies look more beautiful, but I prefer a christian one, so I mainly look for Filipinas, even though there are not so beautiful.


Have you been to the Philippines? I just came back from a trip there, and I have to say, I have to disagree. I saw tons of women that were hot, tons that were beautiful (there's a difference), and plenty that were both. I've been to Vietnam before, and yes, lots of good looking women there, but I actually prefer Filipinas. And I've spent much time in China (close to 2 years in country across several trips), and while some people on this board are into Chinese women, again, I find Pinays to be- on average- better looking. Of course, it's all opinion, but I will advise guys to take a good look, and visit if possible, before deciding.


Why you prefer Philippines over Vietnam and China?
More better looking or something else?


1. Different from what some people on this board say, I think Filipinas are, on average, better looking than Chinese women. The time I spent in China was mostly in Beijing and a few cities even further north. There are certainly hot, beautiful women there. In fact, as a percentage there are just as many stunning (9 and 10) women as the Philippines. But I find the Philippines has a greater percentage of good looking- 7 and 8 women. Vietnam is intermediate between China and the Philippines (and I'd say Thailand is between Vietnam and the Philippines).

2. I've concluded the Philippines is a better place to live than China or VN, and that impacts which women I pursued. China is a good place to make money, but lacks basic freedoms, and is a culture obsessed with social control. Also, Filipinos are more polite than Chinese. In fact, Chinese people may be the rudest people in the world.

3. For most westerners, Chinese is an incomprehensible language. It will take many times longer to learn than Cebuano or Tagalog, and the Chinese are particularly intolerant of mispronounciation. Tonal languages are hard, characters are really hard.

4. Filipinos are less racist than Chinese or Vietnamese.

5. I'm a Roman Catholic, and I decided I want a woman that is too. China and VN do have some catholics, but it's small as a percentage. Phils is over 80%, so those are good odds.
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Re: Odds of a foreigner getting a 7+ looks girl

Postby mentor » Thu Sep 24, 2015 10:37 am

From what I read, filipinas are more humble (in contrast with rather arrogant chinese), and it is also very important for me that the majority in Philippines are christians.

I read also that Indonesia and China shows a rapid explosion for Christianity, but it is still low percentage in population.

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What about the costs of your trip there?
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