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Seems most foreigners are with girls less than a 7 rating and guys living here seem to say mostly its poor and ugly who go with us. Hard to find hot girls on camera on dateinasia (not old pictures) who genuinely are hot not just cute or borderline attractive that dont have some issues. so the question is can other filipina dating sites deliver better results or are they similiar to dateinaisa? Im too lazy and shy to approach in person so that leaves dating sites only. I haven't used filipinocupid but i heard that is better but i browed the pics a couple days and i think many are just attractive but not too much and the rest that might be hot (haven't confirmed on camera) might be hoes (they say unemployed or self employed) or MILFs or virgins/ultraprudish if they are hot. Is filipino cupid really have hotter women as confirmed by camera or meeting them? I didn't put any on cam to test yet cause i didn't pay for membership. or is it gonna be a lot of average or barly above average women? Are alot of the women on filipinocupid scammers or hoes?
Maybe i should forget philippines if i can't find a hot girl (7+) who isn't gonna be a hoe. Bargirls get old and expensive for long stays and i dont really want that. And yes im shallow i want a girl with big breasts and skinny/average body or a pretty light skinned face doesn't have to be both but i really need a 7 girl to be happy. if she is really horny or good in bed i could drop it maybe to a 6.5 lol
I am finding out that the brother isn't the brother and the lover of my hot Philippine gf. Sometimes the hot ones have a line up of guys wanting them so maybe someone you can trust is the important thing. After what I have been through with 2 penpal scammers I think going to a brothel would be a more honest relationship.
What if a Filipina girl said:
"And yes im shallow i want a boy with a huge dick and lean/muscular body or a very handsome face doesn't have to be both but i really need a 7 boy to be happy. if he is really horny or good in bed and can do it at least five times a night i could drop it maybe to a 6.5 lol"
my current girl is attractive but not by much IMO. and she doesn't enjoy sex so im turned off by her. she treats me good and i trust her but my online income is risky so im not gonna go back to the philippines if im just gonna wind up with girls that bore me. Its not worth the money and time. if im gonna be stuck with only hot girls who are scammers and cheat on me or hoes or ugly chicks who are subpar then why am i bothering getting on the plane and spending all this money? aren't there any decent hot filipinas on the dating site?
Your forgetting the thing is these women just use my money here in philippines and they have a lot to gain by being with a foreigner whereas im the one stuck flying over here and doing all the legwork and spending all the money so I feel I should have the cream of the crop. so if im gonna waste all this money and time coming here in this God forsaken country I want someone hot or who is at least modely attractive who is absolutely horny. It seems like the horny girls have an agenda or are hoes and the hot girls are nowhere to be seen. but maybe filipinocupid is different than dateiasia/ Or are all the dating sites similiar quality?
id rather stay home and jerk off if i have to keep coming back for her. If she was in america it wold be one thing but to get on a plane and let her leech off me? No thanks ill stick to porn. Once august comes its over for her i aint wasting my time with her again. id rather resort to bargirls and make my trip end early in the future then go back to her. I feel sorry for her so i dont have the guts to kick her out permanently. she is a bit of an orphan but she is 22 so she can figure things out on her own though and is unemployed.
It's a bit of a stretch but here goes...
You can go on chat sites such as omegle and use "universityphilippines" or "updilliman", "manila" or something similar as a term to search. This way you can fairly easily chat to a variety of bored female students, a good portion of whom are not only very attractive but also intelligent enough to have good conversations with. Their English will in most cases be superb.
You could meet on campus or somewhere else, and have a good ol' time. These are girls with a bit more substance and a much better background then your average bargirl or any of that nonsense. You will need to be a good talker, and some looks on your part certainly help. My biggest advice is go for one who isn't born in the big city herself, but rather a girl from the province who was smart enough to study at a major university. She will be both intelligent as well as have traditional upbringing and mindset.
As far as looks go, a lot of them have relatively big tits especially considering their short height and slender build. They take good care of themselves and have a sense of fashion. The ones born in the city are a lot more materialistic then the provincials.
That's my advice. It's not the easiest route but this is the type of girl I think you want. Good luck and happy hunting!
ive never heard of omegle. you can chat on cam with them? most girls photos dont really look like them you need them on cam. did you find a hot girl you could trust on the site? I need ancedotal evidence cause right now it dont look good out there. my money is precious this effort seems futile. if i can't find any decnet hot women on the dating sites i may just resort to using the secret hoes and milfs on the dating site and play them at their own game and bargirls in future if my dating success ends in failure. that is if regular girls fail cause i dont want a future trip to end in failure AGAIN
There usually aren't too many hot girls on dating sites. Most women on dating sites in just about all countries either have unrealistic standards, are ugly, or have something about them that is off-putting, otherwise, they'd just be able to find someone in reality. There are exceptions, and probably more overseas than in the West, but that's just how it is.
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The more important question is - if there was such a girl (and there are some) - why would she be interested in the OP? He's got like 200 posts here and in every one talks about how lousy, asexual, and unattractive his gf is and how great his former bargirl "girlfriend" was.
So in a general sense, if a girl is hot and a good girl - why would she be interested in someone who slams his current gf, longs for a bargirl, and actively is pursuing other girls? This is where some guys here are a little bit delusional. We want great, hot girls with good character while offering few of those qualities ourselves.
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ive been honest with my girl. she wants to stay despite my feelings of her. so i keep her out of pity. So get off your judgement. and cause im not in the mood to search cause i was the one tha tlet her move in right away instead of dating around before deciding so i sort of have become attached to her. Id rather just wait till i get home and start the search over I feel bad getting rid of her and I don't feel like searching for a new girl while im here since she was staying with me and taking care of me. Your the asshole who would probably dump her out and go back to her house (whih isn't her family and she has no job). I even fixed her teeth she didn't ask and she lives with me in comfort all these months. Yes i been an asshole to her at times but i feel no chemistry and she is leeching off me. i miss the bargirl cause she enjoyed sex and was hot. Its HER fault she doesn't enjoy sex, even when making her cum sometimes she still doesn't enjoy it. Not my fault.
Stick to porn, then. You deserve no better than your left hand.
Im an asshole to this girl sometimes but you are a complete idiot in your argument. I should be forced to like a girl automatically and never break up to this girl? If i dont click with a girl i dont click. I shouldn't have let her move in and should have dated around before getting attached to her. after that happened we had fights and she left but immediately came back cause i felt bad and i started getting emotionally attached i couldn't break it off. I have trouble doing it in person. I couldn't end it with ym barhoe in person either. Its my right to look for a women i enjoy you didn't marry the first girl you met you idiot. And ive seen you talk about wanting to go to escorts even though your supposedly married right? Your the type of guy who is married in philippines and winds up in teh bar screwing my old barhoe.
Anyways I enjoyed my bargirl its just too bad she wasn't a decent woman i could depend on (she had 2 kids anyways so it could never be permanent). I may stay home in 2015 and regroup in 2016. Not sure maybe decide once i see whats on the dating sites next year. dateinasia is a joke. maybe the others are too who knows.
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You've been honest...yeah...nobody is buying that BS man. As it sounded quite evident from your posts, and as even you said in several occasions, you sticked to her because you couldn't find anybody else who would meet and f**k you - however reluctantly and without passion - at moment's notice. And sure, she was taking care of you, the way every good Filipina, no matter how poor and uneducated, would behave in the hope of having a shot at her happiness. Her happiness, dude, just in case it never crossed your mind that there's more than just your sorry, self-centred loser arse on this planet.
If you really wanted to have a decent shot at being honest, you would have told her to leave you alone and gotten your act together to appeal to a better looking, or better brained girl. You know, things like a personality, a job, a degree, some genuine desire to understand the foreign culture you stomped into like you're the next Magellan.
As it stands, you have very little to complain about. You're a small time sex tourist with a huge sense of entitlement, and a bottom feeder with nothing positive to give to a woman, be her from Milwaukee or Manila. Unless you change your attitude towards yourself and people around you, the only individuals who will want to approach you will be to touch your wallet, not your heart.