see next post. Im one of the few guys on this forum who has gotten sex with picture proof of a lighter skin hot classy looking girl that isn't a hoe. Even my bargirl girlfriend before was hotter than 90 percent of bargirls and everyone knows that only ugly bargirls can be girlfriend material usually. Guess maybe i do have some game afterall.SilverEnergy wrote:Why do you spend so much time on this website talking about what's wrong with women, particularly Asian women???newlifeinphilippines wrote:It seems like all the hot women online are milfs or scammers.
You wouldn't be happy anywhere by the way you talk about what's wrong with females.
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These women might be sexy but their not stable. Most women that look like this have a new boyfriend every few weeks or months. Some of them are banging several guys at the same time which might explain their lack of enthusiasm in the sack. They'll just take your money and run.
Another good place to meet Filipinas are college campuses which are in every major city. Just stand in front of any college and ask for directions from a coed that catches your attention. If you can't find a college just follow the trail of young women walking down the street dressed the same and they should lead you right to it. Also, make sure the girls your following are not high school students who also wear uniforms. These uniforms are not sexy but the women wearing them are in their prime. They should be dressed something like the official student uniform.
Philippine College Uniforms
https://www.ue.edu.ph/news/wp-content/u ... LOOCAN.jpg
This just goes to show how subjective ratings given by one individual are. I reckon many of my 7s-8s would be rated as 4s-5s by you and vice-versa. To a great extent, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
For me, the girl you posted doesn't do much at all. I much prefer the ones I had in my avatars before (last 2 were girls I dated) who by the way appeared to have much lighter skin than your specimen. Very light skin means a color similar to what most Koreans have. Also, and for me this is a sure deal breaker, that girl looks very short unless you're some kind of giant.
It's laughable that you can rate a girl so specifically such as a 7.2 when perceptions between individuals vary so much. The fraction after the whole number is meaningless and even the whole number is of limited use.
Holly smokes thanks for all the feedback guys. It's a lot of good stuff, I can't quote it all.
This thread turned from a bleak picture to a very doable projection.
I'm actually very relieved you guys are way pickier than I am. These girls I posted are pretty hot in my eyes, I was afraid you were all referring to some trolls with bad hair and no waist.
Thing is, I work under a "non-linear curve", where an "8" can make my second-brain "99%" happy LOL. I guess it's part of the desperation of still being in the west.
The lady in your picture is nice newlife. As I've commented before, most of them over there seem to have a nice waistline and legs.
If everything goes well, once I'm established in Guangzhou, I'm planning to take an escapade to the PH for three months, which I think would be enough to get a well-paced, reasonable ASSessment of the place. Heck, If I could replicate only 15% of WnD's action it would be unbelievable, I would stay for much longer.
I'm not really that interested in them being "smart" at this stage, if you know what I mean LOL. Together with looks I mainly focus on manners and humor really.
Thankfully I'm still rather young-looking and in decent shape, with kind of cool hair. Do you really think hanging out in the university with your laptop, like some kind of intern or professor would work out? or would it be "creepy" for them?. Just pondering some ideas, as I don't like visiting malls that much anymore, I find them bland and repetitive.
Mr.S, when you mention joining some of the private social clubs, what are you referring to? Like an engineering association or something like that? sorry if I'm asking a stupid question.
Thanks for all the info again!
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?
Places like this, although it's best to be living in the country, have some money and be interested in mingling with higher social strata types:
http://www.livinginthephilippines.com/t ... -in-manila
Just do key word searches on the internet for clubs, resorts or associations based in Philippines.
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"The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane." Marcus Aurelius, Roman Emperor and stoic philosopher, 121-180 A.D.
Ive never seen your avatars before so i can't comment. Im talking about my own ratings im giving since im the same person giving the ratings for my own perspective. I love 4'11 spinners the sex is good and they are cute. Dont see how that could fall into the rating tha tmuch or be a deal breaker. I think your tastes are way over the top and thats why youll never be happy, seriously. I have high standards but my standards are based on actual true rating syste i dont just just throw someone into a 5 because they are short or have no breasts or are dark skin like you and mr. s you have to look at everything fairly. You even said all the girls will n dowd was slaying were 4 to 6 which are simply not true many girls on the dating site and im sure that will n dowd layed are above a 4 to 6 even my girlfriend i complain about her not being hot enough is a 6.2 on a good day. No wonder why you and Mr. S are single you guys are looking for a perfect 10.
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here is another pic with her hair puled back. she is even hotter with her hair down.
milf girl is now offering to wash my clothes by text. I told her its not just that its everything its harder since im now by myself.
I think maybe she might be a potential replacement for my girl afterall. But she is busy and has kids and her own life but maybe i can sort of pay her to by my helper. The difference though is my girlfriend before i never paid to be a helper but She spent all day with me and i gave her food and we went out many times especially in beginning and i bought her clothes and fixed her teeth alot which was expensive. I dont know if i feel comfortable though turning this girl into this role with her situation and etc i dont want to give her false hope i dont think she is much into sex either though just wants love and a husband i suspect. I think in the end ill go back to my girlfriend though i think taco is right looks isn't everything how the person treats you and how much time and respect they give you is important too. Also trust too.
I'm quite happy here in Phils so far. I just go for a different type. I would rather be with a 5'7" mixed race girl with an average face but full European sized body who has a real job, an above average IQ, a 3D personality, and some character. These one-dimensional 4'11" exotic Cebuanas do absolutely nothing for me, even the ones blessed with much prettier than average faces which is not common anyway in my experience based again on my taste in faces.
My type is not as common here but I still find and date them. Metro Manila is probably the best place for what I like but I've met a few girls who I really attract me in certain province areas as well.
How can you even compare a slim midget sized Filipina with a real full-sized woman? The former is more like a little girl, eewww.
I did like one of Will N Dowd's girls among the 6 or so I saw BTW. And I stated that in one of my posts. It's significantly harder to find very attractive girls in Davao region than Mega Manila, again based on my own tastes.
I like a good body too but the sex is better with the tiny girls. Im most attracted to korean/ japanese and to a much lesser extent filipinas. I can get turned on by a dark skinned filipina if she is hot though like my barhoe she wa a hot spinner with a great smile. Wish i could show her pics.
but maybe you could post your avatar pics to refresh my memory cause i wasn't really here bak then
i like them on top and nothing better than a 4'11 girl like that. No one wants a full size women pounding them on top. My girlfriend was 5'2 and a bit too big for my tastes even though she was skinny. My barhoe was 4'11 and skkinny too, for me 4'11 and skinny is perfect but I like a big or curvy ass and huge breasts. For me would be a 4'11 spinner with huge tits and ass. Its just hard to find a girl with big breasts and butt in philippines thats apart of my rating system. I could be with a average looking face girl if she had huge tits LOL
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Taco is right better to forget girls who have tons of obligations etc.
im wasting my time with milf girl she said something about doing my laundry and leaving. She wants to be out in 30 minutes. This is pathetic. She obviously isn't looking for fun and sex what a prude i told her ill just hire a helper if your just gonna show up and do my laundry and leave and save myself teh drama. Enough of this shit. then she responds and says ok 10 or 11 (which is onyl 2 or 3 hours). lol
Her heart isn't into it for sex etc she just has too many obligations and is too afraid to even tell her parents. Im better off with my girlfriend. i feel more comfortable around her anyways.
well things went down in flames. she came by and i massaged her etc and then a little while later we were laying
in bed and i said you dont want to f**k and she goes "no... i dont know" LAME. so i started getting quiet
and she says whats wrong etc. and i didn't want to say cause its so obvious but she couldn't figure out
so she goes i guess ill go home and she was out the door in like 5 minutes without a word. What a bitch. No
wonder why her filipino guy cheated on her. I knew it she didn't like sex etc. She is actually worse
than my girlfriend cause she is quiet and shy and doesn't even try to be nice or please me. Not only that
i feel so nervous around her casue she acts so shy and quiet and kind of stuck up. The sex was good i dont
know what her problem is this sucks. I should just go back to my girl and forget philippines for awhile after this.
First off let me commend you for posting a pic. Second off the girl is attractive from the pic but the pic isn't the greatest quality out their either. Do you have any other pics with better lighting. I'd be curious to see a non cell phone pic, I'm sure it will enhance her features. I'll leave my rating scale out of it. I do however agree with Rock about short girls. My current girl is about 5'1 or 5'2" 105lbs and I dislike it. I'd much prefer at least 5'3" + and curvier but I'm lenient if she has a great personality.
Again thanks for at least posting a picture so we can get an idea.
i have no flash so thats is best as it gets, the 2nd picture i just posted a few hours ago is better idea. But the pics dont do her justice cause her hair is pulled back and the quality and lighting sucks. She is even hotter with her hair down and maybe in a better picture or real life.
To be honest taco is right. hot girls will just make you the bitch and you become subserviant. I couldn't even relax around this girl cause she was so shy and hot and distant. She was a little sweet but i felt too stuck up. Even the fact she walked out quick and broke up with her filipino boyfriend she had 2 kids with cause of the fighting proves that she was stuck on herself. yes im a jerk but despite this my girlfriend was willing to always go back with me. I now get it looks are not everything. Ill just settle for a cutie petite girl over a hottie who i can't even feel comfortable around. I just feel myself and more control with a cute little low hanger than a girl with an attitude or is ashamed to even be seen with me. They don't even go out of their way to please me.
I guess i was spoiled cause my bargirl was quite sexy she was dark and all but her skin was smooth she had the most awesome smile and she had a narrow bridge wide nose (which i find attractive unlike the potato or thick bridge wide nose most have) and she was a 4'11 spinner and the sex was amazing. It will be hard to find a non prostitute girl like that who is as sexy who enjoys sex and has great charisma. I think thats why alot of guys go to angeles, less drama and you can get sexy easily. Mind you many bargirls are ugly but my girl was one of the prettier ones i think. You could even just look at her in public and know she was a dirty little slut LOL
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The biggest thing is just come in with the right attitude. Realize you are out of the country and try and make every opportunity you can to meet girls. Online game is good to get your confidence up but definitely go out and try to meet girls you won't find online. Sometimes you get lucky. I'll post a pic of a girl I ended up meeting from DIA (yea I know). Half chinese, about 5'4" and amazing body. Was wealthy and dropped like 5k in the casino one night and had a private driver. Ended up sleeping with her on the first night and went out with her multiple times but her personality was just too dry. Tried to keep up with communication after I left but I gave up. She was always serious and no sense of humor. Couldn't deal with the one and two word texts and me always dominating the convo when we skyped.
Girl in the middle- white and black striped dress
Girl in pink on left (I'm not a big picture taker so I don't have many at all)
Others may not find her that attractive and I wish I could find better pics, but I like the "chinky" look so oh well lol. I was pretty drunk in that pic so be easy The other girls are either her friends or friends of mine and we were at resorts word in Opus Lounge I think. Pretty shitty club and over priced.
Hammanta you said one time that girl was like a 9 i think but she is not that high. A 9 would be a great face AND a smoking hot body and from what i can say her body is average. 9 would be like the top porn stars. Almost no one comes close to a 10. but that girl is hotter than my girl that i posted the pic cause i like the chinese look better than the filipina or mexican look. Id give that chinese girl maybe an 7.5 to 8 in the face hard to say from just two pictures though and cant comment on teh body hard to say but it looks average so maybe overall if her body is average maybe give her a 7.5 to 8 rating.
anyways hammanta that girl sounds like my girl. very boring and shy and never initiates sex or kissing and just plain awkward and i constantly have to do the talking which i hate. I thought my girlfriend was bad but this girl is in a league of her own. Now we know why some of the hot girls are on the dating site. She is so awkad and shy that i can never feel comfortable and i feel like i have to ask or beg her to kiss or have sex hence the fight tonight. Worse experience of my life and to be honest now i know why you an taco are starting to say dont go for the hot always. Your current girlfriend might be better person and click with her better although wait till you get her in bed cause often the conservative types might be lousy lays and have low libido.
Pictures by no means do that girl justice, at least body wise. Her face is cute but nothing overly the top stunning for a half chinese girl. Not to brag but when I first met her I was blown away. When I saw her on camera and her facebook pics I was like meh, she is ok, I'll give her a shot. But in person with the right dress and/or naked she was by far superior to most girls I've seen walking around Manila (by my standards). Now is she pornstar quality or a car show girl, no not at all. By looking at pics I'd agree with you, probably an 8 but if my memory serves me right she is quite attractive. I gave a 9 in relevance to the general population in which is obtainable plus the fact that she had wealth and status. Curvy girls with that frame, especially at 26, are not found that much around the Philippines. Usually if they are curvy they are quite short. And yes I've been to Angeles City. But in reality its all subjective. My 9 isn't gonna be your nine.
As far as her personality, she was very nice and thoughtful (paid for everything for me), just not that intellectually stimulating (a big problem with Philippines). It was as if she didn't like me, but every morning I'd wake up to messages from her saying good morning babe, how are you, I miss you, I want to be with you, etc. I also didn't spend that much time with her, maybe 5 days so perhaps she would have opened up more. My biggest thing is that I wouldn't get girls like that in the USA and I managed to pull that in a short time. If I was in the country for an extended time, I'll have a better chance at getting a girl that is of her looks but who's more to my style mentally. I'll take too many women with dry mentalities over settling for a girl in America.
I'm not sure what you do with your milf girl but if all you do is call her over for sex, then of course she isn't gonna be really into it. Women are much more emotionally connected to guys then guys are to women. You need to treat her right (dates, be romantic, fun outings, etc.) and then she will be much more willing to please you. The milf probably knows she is being used. Show her that you appreciate her. I don't mean buy her abunch of shit but a nice romantic dinner or a weekend trip would I'm sure get her buttons going.