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Postby droid » Sat Jul 05, 2014 6:40 am

Mr S wrote:
droid wrote:Thankfully I'm still rather young-looking and in decent shape, with kind of cool hair. Do you really think hanging out in the university with your laptop, like some kind of intern or professor would work out? or would it be "creepy" for them?. Just pondering some ideas, as I don't like visiting malls that much anymore, I find them bland and repetitive.

Mr.S, when you mention joining some of the private social clubs, what are you referring to? Like an engineering association or something like that? sorry if I'm asking a stupid question.
Thanks for all the info again!

Places like this, although it's best to be living in the country, have some money and be interested in mingling with higher social strata types:
http://www.towerclub.com.ph/
http://www.tagaytayhighlands.com/
http://www.timberlandclub.com/
http://bcc.com.ph/#home
http://philippineitalianassociation.com/
http://www.alliance.ph/
http://www.germanclub.ph/
http://www.americanassociationphilippines.org/index.htm
http://www.amchamphilippines.com/

More info:
http://www.livinginthephilippines.com/t ... -in-manila

Just do key word searches on the internet for clubs, resorts or associations based in Philippines.


Thank you MrS.
We're probably talking a couple grand a year, which seems a bit above my budget, at least for the possible benefit. I'm probably wrong, but the thing is I'm used to -here in FL- for every "grown-up" activity to involve mostly 80yo ladies.

Wouldn't it be better to pay for some university classes instead, or something of the sort?; Unless it's culturally unacceptable for someone over thirty to be taking Tagalog 101 lol.
Not trying to be stubborn, I could be wrong.
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Sat Jul 05, 2014 7:06 am

Winston now you know how i make so much money on the net (over 12K a month) I know how to create buzz (this is your longest thread on the forum now LOL)

im gonna have to meet her cause she keeps sending messages and im afraid my girl will see it any minute. This could end badly
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Sat Jul 05, 2014 7:21 am

but after i sent message to her I just realized i could change sims so i wont get her texts anymore. oh well i already mentioned i would meet her and to continue by email. ill just change my sims after i meet her so she wont keep texting me and my girl finds out. Maybe ill get a free bang out of it might as well this might be the last time i get a girl this hot she is hotter than any bargirl ive seen. Although not as hot as some korean hoes i banged in america but thats not a girlfriend experience. Either way ill take her to church unless she doesn't want to go.
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Postby Winston » Sat Jul 05, 2014 9:53 am

newlifeinphilippines wrote:Winston now you know how i make so much money on the net (over 12K a month) I know how to create buzz (this is your longest thread on the forum now LOL)

im gonna have to meet her cause she keeps sending messages and im afraid my girl will see it any minute. This could end badly


You mean it's one of the longest threads. lol. The longest threads are listed at the top of the forum index page.

Btw, when you quote her texts, please wrap them around quotation marks like this: "text body" Ok? You gotta distinguish them from your text somehow. Come on man. This is common sense.
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Sat Jul 05, 2014 11:24 am

im confessed everything to my gf. she was hurt and crying but she sort of knew. now she is thnking of wanting to go back to school after talking about her situation. i might pay for her first semester to get her started on the right track and i said please let me f**k this other girl i said i didn't love this other girl i just want to use her for sex thats but my gf is the one i feel good friend to.

UPDATE: anyways yeah i dont think im gonna pay for her schooling im just gonna forget milf girl so i wont feel guilty. just let her dad pay for that since im not gonnna see her again probably and wont be around to when shes going to school. she started school 4 years ago so maybe she wont finish anyways.

i texted her 1 day early tonight to see if she was willing ot meet but she used laundry excuse
so i gave her ultimatum to meet or i dont want to see. seems like shes not willing so screw her
she is obviously not serious if she can't stop laundry to see me. shes got some other crap
shes hiding too no cam on skype or ym on her iphone 3? yeah right. i feel guilty anyways if i
bang this girl on the side and my gf knows about it. this girl could be married for all i know
or not give me sex and try to ge tmoney so im gonna hvae to cut her off now.
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Postby Taco » Sat Jul 05, 2014 3:22 pm

newlifeinphilippines wrote:please let me f**k this other girl i said i didn't love this other girl i just want to use her for sex.


That would make a great greeting card. Don't ever get married.
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Postby OutWest » Sat Jul 05, 2014 5:11 pm

Taco wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:please let me f**k this other girl i said i didn't love this other girl i just want to use her for sex.


That would make a great greeting card. Don't ever get married.



As I advise Filipinas I know (and I know some beauties)- "Most Western Men in the Philippines
just want to use you for sex and they will never love you."

It is amazing how many times I have heard Western men complain how difficult it is to meet
"quality" girls, but by their behavior they clearly show they would not be capable of a relationship
with a "quality" girl. The honest ones stick to bar girls- at least there are few pretenses there.

By definition, these kinds of pursuits will always be full of drama and trouble. It is comic of course,
and as the OP says, he DOES know how to keep a thread going.LOL
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Postby Mr S » Sat Jul 05, 2014 6:22 pm

droid wrote:
Mr S wrote:
droid wrote:Thankfully I'm still rather young-looking and in decent shape, with kind of cool hair. Do you really think hanging out in the university with your laptop, like some kind of intern or professor would work out? or would it be "creepy" for them?. Just pondering some ideas, as I don't like visiting malls that much anymore, I find them bland and repetitive.

Mr.S, when you mention joining some of the private social clubs, what are you referring to? Like an engineering association or something like that? sorry if I'm asking a stupid question.
Thanks for all the info again!

Places like this, although it's best to be living in the country, have some money and be interested in mingling with higher social strata types:
http://www.towerclub.com.ph/
http://www.tagaytayhighlands.com/
http://www.timberlandclub.com/
http://bcc.com.ph/#home
http://philippineitalianassociation.com/
http://www.alliance.ph/
http://www.germanclub.ph/
http://www.americanassociationphilippines.org/index.htm
http://www.amchamphilippines.com/

More info:
http://www.livinginthephilippines.com/t ... -in-manila

Just do key word searches on the internet for clubs, resorts or associations based in Philippines.


Thank you MrS.
We're probably talking a couple grand a year, which seems a bit above my budget, at least for the possible benefit. I'm probably wrong, but the thing is I'm used to -here in FL- for every "grown-up" activity to involve mostly 80yo ladies.

Wouldn't it be better to pay for some university classes instead, or something of the sort?; Unless it's culturally unacceptable for someone over thirty to be taking Tagalog 101 lol.
Not trying to be stubborn, I could be wrong.



As I previously mentioned, this is an option if you want to meet well-off connected locals, I didn't say how easy or inexpensive it would be. If you want to meet teens and early twenty somethings then enroll in some Uni classes.
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Postby droid » Sun Jul 06, 2014 4:20 am

MrS wrote:As I previously mentioned, this is an option if you want to meet well-off connected locals, I didn't say how easy or inexpensive it would be. If you want to meet teens and early twenty somethings then enroll in some Uni classes
Copy that, thanks again
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Sun Jul 06, 2014 5:59 am

Taco wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:please let me f**k this other girl i said i didn't love this other girl i just want to use her for sex.


That would make a great greeting card. Don't ever get married.


yeah i feel bad now so I told her im not seeing th emilf girl cause she not serious and i dont trust her. I was going to secretly meet her but by email she agred but eventually said stop cheating maybe see me next year. She felt bad cause for my gf i think.
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Sun Jul 06, 2014 6:42 am

OutWest wrote:
Taco wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:please let me f**k this other girl i said i didn't love this other girl i just want to use her for sex.


That would make a great greeting card. Don't ever get married.



As I advise Filipinas I know (and I know some beauties)- "Most Western Men in the Philippines
just want to use you for sex and they will never love you."

It is amazing how many times I have heard Western men complain how difficult it is to meet
"quality" girls, but by their behavior they clearly show they would not be capable of a relationship
with a "quality" girl. The honest ones stick to bar girls- at least there are few pretenses there.

By definition, these kinds of pursuits will always be full of drama and trouble. It is comic of course,
and as the OP says, he DOES know how to keep a thread going.LOL


Most filipina women just want to get paid or a visa out and could care less about loving us. They are the bigger scammers in my book at least sex is something to be enjoyed between teh two no one wants to be treated like a walking ATM. Of course im sure all teh women you know are exceptions. Cause you only talk to educated filipinas who you can trust your life savings with :lol: :roll:
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WOW, just WOW...

Postby Randalltaxcpa » Sun Jul 06, 2014 10:05 am

So let me understand this, Newlife has spent months in the Philippines and has managed relationships
with a barslut, a single whore mother of two and a girl he is not particularly attracted to...

Terrence, a 50ish unsuspecting American newbie with no prior experience in country spent one week
in the Philippines and walked away with Lesly, a 19 year old cutie, great legs, great body, and by all
appearances undefiled, without children or a bad reputation...

Lesly profile here... http://www.loveme.com/women/info139686.htm

Terrence and Lesly here... http://www.loveme.com/information/phili ... e_145.html

So, I guess the hapless old unattractive undesirable clueless American won the day with a big heart and
sincere intentions, funny how that works sometimes. Of course, he had to actually propose marriage
and want to spend the rest of his life with the girl...but I guess the idea of doing barsluts, street walkers,
promiscuous bed hoppers and single whore mothers desperate to support their children is more appealing to
some, I guess to each his own...
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Re: WOW, just WOW...

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Sun Jul 06, 2014 2:13 pm

Randalltaxcpa wrote:So let me understand this, Newlife has spent months in the Philippines and has managed relationships
with a barslut, a single whore mother of two and a girl he is not particularly attracted to...

Terrence, a 50ish unsuspecting American newbie with no prior experience in country spent one week
in the Philippines and walked away with Lesly, a 19 year old cutie, great legs, great body, and by all
appearances undefiled, without children or a bad reputation...

Lesly profile here... http://www.loveme.com/women/info139686.htm

Terrence and Lesly here... http://www.loveme.com/information/phili ... e_145.html

So, I guess the hapless old unattractive undesirable clueless American won the day with a big heart and
sincere intentions, funny how that works sometimes. Of course, he had to actually propose marriage
and want to spend the rest of his life with the girl...but I guess the idea of doing barsluts, street walkers,
promiscuous bed hoppers and single whore mothers desperate to support their children is more appealing to
some, I guess to each his own...


I didn't read the story dont need to because you dont know the woman in said story and most foreigners are in lala land thinking the first girl that gives him attention is in love with him as taco has stressed many times. . chances are she is only with him for money and doesnt love him, in fact id say there is a 99 percent chance just on the age difference alone and you are a grade A MORON for thinking otherwise or been reading filipina propoganda from idiots here who think their wife of 20+ years his junior actually loves him. Have you been to the philippines? The point is most women chasing foreigners are said people which is the point most are low quality not high quality. It takes a lot of time or luck etc to find wife material for you. but i guess hes happy.... unless she divorces him im or cheats on hsomeday then the truth will come out.

I could court a woman at churches i go to or on the street, but do i want to waste all that time and have a lot of rejections? HELL NO im not blowing a 6 month vacation with little to no sex and expectation of marriage. If that is your goal to waste months and years dating tons of "good women" then yes you probably will hit the jackpot. thats not my plan. everyones goal is different.
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Postby OutWest » Sun Jul 06, 2014 4:13 pm

newlifeinphilippines wrote:
OutWest wrote:
Taco wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:please let me f**k this other girl i said i didn't love this other girl i just want to use her for sex.


That would make a great greeting card. Don't ever get married.



As I advise Filipinas I know (and I know some beauties)- "Most Western Men in the Philippines
just want to use you for sex and they will never love you."

It is amazing how many times I have heard Western men complain how difficult it is to meet
"quality" girls, but by their behavior they clearly show they would not be capable of a relationship
with a "quality" girl. The honest ones stick to bar girls- at least there are few pretenses there.

By definition, these kinds of pursuits will always be full of drama and trouble. It is comic of course,
and as the OP says, he DOES know how to keep a thread going.LOL


Most filipina women just want to get paid or a visa out and could care less about loving us. They are the bigger scammers in my book at least sex is something to be enjoyed between teh two no one wants to be treated like a walking ATM. Of course im sure all teh women you know are exceptions. Cause you only talk to educated filipinas who you can trust your life savings with :lol: :roll:


There are plenty of scamming Filipinas to be found, at least enough to go with the men who often deserve them, but there are others as well. As you say, you are not interested in taking the time to find that kind, which is your option. You say you simply want to fill your 6 month vacation with a lot of sex and I am sure you will realize all of that. So you are right, it is a matter of life goals. One's life experiences do tend to be self-predictive at any rate. The thing that is odd, is that you seem to discredit the experiences of others in some attempt to make your own experience more legitimate.
So your REALLY know that some "old guy" is just being scammed? Do you? I know of a number of such marriages that are in their second decade and the girl shows no sign of walking. I would say that the girls open to an easy lay are pretty likely to be scammers, so again, your experience may be self-selecting.

Some men may have a far different experience because they approach with far different goals and
a completely different mindset. That does not make you less free to go for what you want.
As you say, you know how to generate a buzz online. Most of us do not have a clue how to do that.
There are also men who know how to generate love in the heart of a woman. Maybe you don't want to do that (6 months only) or do not know how. Things like this account for very different life experiences either way. You went to have a good time. Can I say that you are not really having it?
Some men go places in search of love. How do you know what they really find?

I know all kinds of girls- from poor to rich, and their are quality hearts to be found at all levels.
By your own admission, you are here to have a good time, lots of sex, and a vacation girlfriend or two. Presumably that is more rewarding than what you would be doing back in the states. Whether true or not, you come across as a player, and do not seem interested in what makes girls outside that realm tick. That may be because you are the young player or just looking for that sex vacation.
Girls (and their families) from outside that world tick quite differently. They have an uncanny ability to spot players and mongers and will say very clearly that they have NO interest in being some foreigner's vacation GF, no matter how fat his wallet.

It's a big country, with 100 million people. I have seen all kinds of scammers and rip-offs.
I have also seen girls with amazing character and heart. I married one.
I know of a girl from Davao that was courted by a humble obviously somewhat poor man from the USA. He has zero cash to flash. Raquel is a very beautiful girl and her friends chided her, telling her she could do much better. "Raquel, you are so luck! You are so pretty you can attract any man you want- get a lawyer or doctor!" She replied that Greg was poor, but the best man she had ever met.
They did make fun of her a lot though. They were married in a very modest church wedding in Davao. In about 9 months she flew to the USA to join him. A little bit of a surprise was waiting for her.

It turns out that her new husband was not totally honest with her. She wrote that she was totally shocked. Turned out that Mr Greg was a multimillionaire with large farms, an airplane and a lot of real estate otherwise. They both had chosen wisely. And no, she has not run off and divorced him. They are happily married with three children. That is not some men's cup of tea of course.

Why are players so sure that "Those other men are being scammed..."? Those other men have different purposes in life, so the results vary. It is as silly for one of those "other men" or one of the "old guys" to insist that the sex you talk about is all a fabrication.

Without knowing, you sound young, not at all interested in marriage, and looking for a good time.
There is plenty to be found for you in the Philippines. I know of one man from Phoenix that made 17 trips to the Philippines in less than two years...I think he was looking for a good time...LOL

BTW...if you can consistently get a buzz going online, you could bottle that stuff and sell it!
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Postby OutWest » Sun Jul 06, 2014 4:24 pm

droid wrote:
MrS wrote:As I previously mentioned, this is an option if you want to meet well-off connected locals, I didn't say how easy or inexpensive it would be. If you want to meet teens and early twenty somethings then enroll in some Uni classes
Copy that, thanks again


You do not even need to enroll in classes. Some years back I had an apartment a block or two away
from Xavier University in Cagayan de Oro. There was a full-on SWARM of girls around all the time. For teens and early twenty-somethings, it was like WOW!

As far as meeting well-off connected locals, do not bother if you don't have the money. It;s not
easy even if you can afford it. There are other alternatives. The well-off and connected families
did not get that way overnight, and they tend to be careful about outsiders. It just takes time.
But then again, a lot of them are total pond scum...lol, so who cares?
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