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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Thu Jun 26, 2014 7:08 am

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newlifeinphilippines wrote:His facts aren't based on reality. No girl wants an old guy if they are young thats just common sense. Only gold diggers and impoverished girls want that. Yes many want older but not a huge age gap. Your an idiot if you think otherwise.


@rock my definition of hot is above a 6.5. 5 to 6.5 is cute or borderline attractive anthing above that is hot IMO. Hot doesn't mean model quality or light skin for me cause thats being too perfectionist just someone who is attractive enough that your eyes won't wander much and yoll want to have constant sex. cute or berdline isn't enough for me, i dont' even have anywhere near the amount of sex with my current gf cause she isn't quite as hot and also cause she doesn't desire sex. so i need hot and a girl who really is passionate and loves sex. i dont want a hot starfish or with low libido either.


And WTF newlife is a 6.5 by your standards? I say Kate Hudson is a dog, my friend thinks she is the hottest girl ever. We all have different opinions. You mentioned your girl is a 6.2. REALLY? To justify putting a .2 in there and saying 6.5 is the cut off for hot just blows my mind. Descriptive features are a lot more reliable. Do you like them tall or short. Hair color, skin color, eye color. Are you a butt or breasts guy? Why don't you post some pics of your girl or of girls you find attractive so we can actually get an idea of what exactly you like?


it doesn't matter what is your standard of beauty. It matter what is mine so its pointeless to show you.

But if you want me to be brutally honest based on MY rating scale my current girlfriend is about as attractive as that girl you sent me pictures of that is so special to you. Also she looks like the typical filipina girl that will age really bad due to her more primitive features and dark skin. My girl has those primitive features too but i think yours has more of that not quite as bad as your girl and mine is lighter skin. Ive been here long enough to be able to tell the type of girls who will age fast. Your girl is under a 6.5 or below like my girl. My barhoe was hotter than your girl and my current girl (above a 6.5) and thats what i need LOL I can't really settle for less than that she needs to be as hot as that girl.
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Thu Jun 26, 2014 7:22 am

hammanta wrote:
Maverick wrote:
hammanta wrote:I've said it before and I'll say it again. Here is how you can be successful in the Philippines.

Succeeding (1 or more will help)

starred ones are most important

1)Be average to good looking
2)Be 5'7" or more in height
3)Don't be fat
4)Have an outgoing personality
5)Youth 20-45
6)Being physically fit
*7)Be outgoing, interactive, and adventurous
*8)Be genuinely interested in the culture
*9)Have realistic standards. If you are a 4 don't expect getting a 10. Same goes with age. There are plenty of late twenty, early 30 YO girls that foreigners pass up on simply because they aren't 19 or 20.
*10)Form a social circle


In my opinion number 7 and 10 are the most important. Get out and do something, meet people, get a hobby. My god I've been to the Philippines 3 times for a total of around 3 months in duration, and I have probably 40+ filipino friends on Facebook, many of which I've met simply through a girl I met on online dating or through friends of other friends. I have a filipino family that allows me to stay with them and they love having me. We talk and chat all the time. I have connections which allows me to meet more people, more girls.

I mean for many guys like myself, Newlifeinphilppines, we enjoy this place and love it. You are entitled to your opinion but don't blast every other opinion because you aren't having any luck. You've said it yourself, you concentrate to much on sex, you let your girlfriend mooch off of you, you aren't attractive, you aren't social or outgoing, you lack confidence, etc. All of those can be fixed to a certain extent but you have to work on those. Stop blaming filipinas and start looking at yourself. And if you can;t do that then move back to America and see how miserable you will really be.


To be fair, that list doesn't sound much different than the list to get girls in the US.


Theres actually quite a big difference. For one if you had all of those qualities then yes you'd probably do well in USA but I said one but preferably a few will be a plus for Philippines.

-First I'd bump the height up to at least 5'11" and gotta be good looking for american women.
-By don't be fat I mean FAT. Some pudge isn't a deal breaker. I guess I should of said obese.
-Outgoing doesn't have to mean game or PUA, it simply means you are social and can have convos and are open to doing things; you are pretty much not a home body or completely antisocial
-20 to 45 is a basic guideline age and by no means mean that older guys don't get girls either. You just have the best chance in that range.
-Physically fit also doesn't mean a bodybuilder but a slim or muscular frame is definitely a bonus.
-The numbers with the stars are the most important from my experience.

My point basically is if you are antisocial, unwilling to appreciate the culture and make friends, have extremely high standards, and solely concentrate on sex, then the Philippines isn't going to be much better than where you come from. There is no place in the world where a person with those qualities is going to succeed. You need to work on yourself. Only two of the numbers I stated cannot be changed. You can change your appearance, you can get in better shape, study the culture, get some hobbies, and stop putting sex on a pedestal.

The fact remains that the Philippines is still better than practically any place in the world for getting girls. Stop looking at pornstars or Asian Glamour models or even bar girls. Those girls are not typical of the Philippines and if you are expecting that then you shouldn't come. But a 5'3" petite dark haired sweetie with a nice personality and a cute face is still better than what most of us would get in the West. A lot of guys here feel they are entitled to the hottest filipina possible. Why? What are they offering? Your white skin? Pssshhh


I should clear something up this country is a dating paradise in the sense that everyone will get better than america. I can't get laid for shit in america but I can easily get a poor girl or bargirl to lay me. But they wont be hot and if they are hot (like my bargirl) its only to mooch off me or for cash. If you have game and confidence etc like in america you will get probably hot in philippines but youll have to weed through those with an agenda. The point was that this country only gives you a boost and you still have to work at finding a girl who isn't a hoe or scammer that is hot. Most hot girls aren't throwing themselves at you online or in person, unless they have a bad agenda. I sort of blame will n dowds original "i was a god in the philippiens" thread for giving that perception.
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Thu Jun 26, 2014 7:43 am

yes i make over 10K a month but its risky and may not last forever and id like to retire in a few years and get out of the game so i can focus soley on women or relaxing LOL

Traveling is a small percent of my money at the moment but ill lose a bit of my focus if i start chasing random girls and going on dates it will be hard for me to focus on my work. And id like to build up enough net worth i can retire while im still making good money cause it may not last forever.

Its one reason why i been lazy cause with my current girlfriend and past ones they play the helper role while i do my work. if i was rnning around chasing women off the dating sites it would be time consuming and i wouldn't have time to do my work. One reason why im making a crap load of money right now is casue even while im here in phil and for the months before i come i focus on my work everyday. Thats why your going to be always poor cause your running around like a clueless pie in the sky guy with no money.


Ive gone on teh dating sites when i kicked her out recently and found most of the girls weren't serious of meeting or were hoes or ladyboys or ugly or too far away from my hotel. Thats why i went on the date with the nursing girl cause she was like hte only very attractive woman from months on the dating site who would talk to me consistently the rest were flakes that suddenly stopped talking or wouldn't get on cam or were milfs.
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Postby hammanta » Thu Jun 26, 2014 2:29 pm

newlifeinphilippines wrote:
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newlifeinphilippines wrote:His facts aren't based on reality. No girl wants an old guy if they are young thats just common sense. Only gold diggers and impoverished girls want that. Yes many want older but not a huge age gap. Your an idiot if you think otherwise.


@rock my definition of hot is above a 6.5. 5 to 6.5 is cute or borderline attractive anthing above that is hot IMO. Hot doesn't mean model quality or light skin for me cause thats being too perfectionist just someone who is attractive enough that your eyes won't wander much and yoll want to have constant sex. cute or berdline isn't enough for me, i dont' even have anywhere near the amount of sex with my current gf cause she isn't quite as hot and also cause she doesn't desire sex. so i need hot and a girl who really is passionate and loves sex. i dont want a hot starfish or with low libido either.


And WTF newlife is a 6.5 by your standards? I say Kate Hudson is a dog, my friend thinks she is the hottest girl ever. We all have different opinions. You mentioned your girl is a 6.2. REALLY? To justify putting a .2 in there and saying 6.5 is the cut off for hot just blows my mind. Descriptive features are a lot more reliable. Do you like them tall or short. Hair color, skin color, eye color. Are you a butt or breasts guy? Why don't you post some pics of your girl or of girls you find attractive so we can actually get an idea of what exactly you like?


it doesn't matter what is your standard of beauty. It matter what is mine so its pointeless to show you.

But if you want me to be brutally honest based on MY rating scale my current girlfriend is about as attractive as that girl you sent me pictures of that is so special to you. Also she looks like the typical filipina girl that will age really bad due to her more primitive features and dark skin. My girl has those primitive features too but i think yours has more of that not quite as bad as your girl and mine is lighter skin. Ive been here long enough to be able to tell the type of girls who will age fast. Your girl is under a 6.5 or below like my girl. My barhoe was hotter than your girl and my current girl (above a 6.5) and thats what i need LOL I can't really settle for less than that she needs to be as hot as that girl.


To each their own. I find my chick quite attractive but I have been with hotter pinays before. I prefer the tan skinned girls but I don't think you can make a fair assumption of the girl based off of two, average pics without makeup and not ever seeing her in person.

My point is that your rating scale does matter in terms of the audience that comes here. Your original post stated that everyone else's opinions are bullshit and that foreigners that have filipina brides have very average to ugly looking ones. Based on what? You have never sent me a picture of the girls you are with, perhaps me and a bunch of other people have different opinions than you. Perhaps we think they are dog ugly or perhaps we find them a lot more attractive than you do. Some people find 5 year olds attractive, others are attracted to the same sex, some like large women, etc.

it doesn't matter what is your standard of beauty. It matter what is mine so its pointeless to show you.



Your opinion matters to you, of course it does, but it matters to other people as well. But you are not displaying any criteria for basing your opinion off of that can benefit others. Theres a difference in providing an opinion/advice compared to telling everyone not to go somewhere or do something because you have a set of criteria that you won't display other than B.S 4.23984237 beauty ratings that no one knows wtf it is.

If a newbie came to this forum and read your posts he would be quickly turned off and may never wanna come to the philippines. He'd think most of the girls are lying money hungry whores that hate sensual sex and are average looking at best, when in reality the majority of members on this board would disagree. Perhaps he didn't look deeper into your posts to find the lines where you state you are ugly, antisocial, and have unreasonably strict standards, yet little to offer. I would think that the majority of guys on this forum would not fall into your category. Judging by a lot of the post most want a young, cute, attractive girl that is faithful and loving, and holds qualities different than western girls. You can easily find that here. But maybe I should include a disclosure in my posts

HEAR ME OUT GUYS

If you want an Asa Akira looking sex queen, that doesn't want your money, doesn't care if you are hideous, lazy fat, poor, antisocial, crappy lover, whatever negative trait you may possess, whom still loves you unconditionally but understands that you aren't ready for marriage and may leave her whenever you aren't content anymore...... Then the Philippines is not for you. Let me repeat NOT for you.

Newlife not trying to pick on you man, I enjoy reading your posts and you have a lot of useful insight, but you gotta attempt to take some of the guys on this board's advice, it doesn't, by any means have to be mine either. Mine is one opinion and some disagree and some agree, but I feel I have valid points that can be useful for some of the younger guys on this forum.
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Thu Jun 26, 2014 5:49 pm

It doesn't matter cause if im not attracted to teh girl and shes not a 6.5 in my eyes then it doesn't matter what you think is a 6.5. What matters is what i think is :)

It doesn't matter if you layed hotter for one night or very short term were talking about girlfriends that last for months or years. The nurse girl who is educated and the hottest filipina ive gone on a date with is hotter than even steve55 girlfriend would have screwed me the other day (based on her texts after she went home) but i had a girlfriend and it screwed things up. and now I blew the whole thing due to my reaction after the date etc. and preferring the safe bet. But i dont think it would have lasted very long anyways. I want a hot girl that will last awhile.

sorry bro but your girl is not attractive. My girl has no makeup either ever and she is probably cuter than yours. if i posted my girl i bet most would think mine is hotter since she is lighter skin and looks younger and cuter than yours but she still isn't hot she is average range like yours. For a guy who has been there that long you should know better. Im sure she is a nice person and all but your an example of a foreigner that is too green to tell the difference.

and yes ive had hotter too like my bargirl girlfriend i had for 1.5 years and would have still had her if i had not cut her off she was hotter than winstons girlfriend. Id post her pics and videos she had sex appeal but was darker skin but still tons of sex appeal but since she work in bar i can' do that.

I blame will n dowd and a few others for hyping philippines up. It definitely is easier to get a woman here though.

i want a 7+ who isn't a hoe who loves sex and isn't a money hungry gold digger who will quickly dump me its very hard to find. I dont care if she is poor or uneducated cause i dont expect everything. Just someone I can trust who is a hot and has good chemistry. I dont see many foreigners with girls like that that aren't bargirls. maybe i should go back to hoes and bargirls or keep with low hanging fruit girlfriends if its that damn hard to find a hot 7+ long term girlfriend here. i can see why alot of foreigners go that route its a lot less hassle and much easier to find, which is why i been doing it.
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Postby hammanta » Thu Jun 26, 2014 7:46 pm

newlifeinphilippines wrote:It doesn't matter cause if im not attracted to teh girl and shes not a 6.5 in my eyes then it doesn't matter what you think is a 6.5. What matters is what i think is :)

It doesn't matter if you layed hotter for one night or very short term were talking about girlfriends that last for months or years. The nurse girl who is educated and the hottest filipina ive gone on a date with is hotter than even steve55 girlfriend would have screwed me the other day (based on her texts after she went home) but i had a girlfriend and it screwed things up. and now I blew the whole thing due to my reaction after the date etc. and preferring the safe bet. But i dont think it would have lasted very long anyways. I want a hot girl that will last awhile.

sorry bro but your girl is not attractive. My girl has no makeup either ever and she is probably cuter than yours. if i posted my girl i bet most would think mine is hotter since she is lighter skin and looks younger and cuter than yours but she still isn't hot she is average range like yours. For a guy who has been there that long you should know better. Im sure she is a nice person and all but your an example of a foreigner that is too green to tell the difference.

and yes ive had hotter too like my bargirl girlfriend i had for 1.5 years and would have still had her if i had not cut her off she was hotter than winstons girlfriend. Id post her pics and videos she had sex appeal but was darker skin but still tons of sex appeal but since she work in bar i can' do that.

I blame will n dowd and a few others for hyping philippines up. It definitely is easier to get a woman here though.

i want a 7+ who isn't a hoe who loves sex and isn't a money hungry gold digger who will quickly dump me its very hard to find. I dont care if she is poor or uneducated cause i dont expect everything. Just someone I can trust who is a hot and has good chemistry. I dont see many foreigners with girls like that that aren't bargirls. maybe i should go back to hoes and bargirls or keep with low hanging fruit girlfriends if its that damn hard to find a hot 7+ long term girlfriend here. i can see why alot of foreigners go that route its a lot less hassle and much easier to find, which is why i been doing it.


If thats what you think than to each their own. If I lived in the country there is no doubt that I could get probably a ten or close. I've dated a girl that was at least a 9 by my standards. But the fact is I'm not there and those girls are hard to come by on dating sites. I also don't care as much about looks as you do as long as they are cute healthy with a great personality. Why don't you send me a pic and we will compare. I'm just curious, not gonna trash her, not my style, but I'd like to see what you consider a 6.5 or less. I also think few would argue that my girl is far from unnattractive and is much better than many girls I have dated in America (I have dated a few girls who have done a little modeling but terrible attitudes). I'd post a pic but I have respect not to do that on a public forum. Majority of my friends are jealous and have been dying for me to take them on my next trip. Steve55's girl is attractive and cute and they look good together, but she is also a girl I probably wouldn't look twice at crossing the street. And Winston's girl was very average at best.

Anyways Im not here to discuss other guys choices, you are entitled to your opinion and I'm not gonna try and change that. I also feel you need to stop docking guys who are happy here and just because you are miserable and not content doesn't mean you should be telling everyone else that the country is shit. No one has ever claimed you can get porn star beauty here. What happens if you find that "dream girl of yours", then 10-15 years down the rode she looks light hell? Then what? Looks fade man. And don't get me started on bar girls. Most average looking girls would look just as sexy with most of the outfits bar girls wear and the caked on makeup. You get them naked and its just another small tit, average ass filipina.
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Postby droid » Fri Jun 27, 2014 1:35 am

Maverick wrote:
droid wrote:
maverick wrote:To be fair, that list doesn't sound much different than the list to get girls in the US
hahah true, if one has to meet the same requirements and travel 10000 miles for some troll with bad hair, no waist, and an attitude, one might as well just stay here.
Everybody has a vast range of opinions; At the end of the day, the best thing is to actually visit and see for oneself.


Yeah for sure man. I'll be touching down in Phil in 2 weeks!

But it's crazy that people have such a wide range of experiences here.

I look forward to your report.
Apart from Steve, so far we have Newlife's and hammanta's depressive accounts, vs WillnDowd's off-the-charts successes...:roll:
1)Too much of one thing defeats the purpose.
2)Everybody is full of it. What's your hypocrisy?
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Postby hammanta » Fri Jun 27, 2014 1:55 am

droid wrote:
Maverick wrote:
droid wrote:
maverick wrote:To be fair, that list doesn't sound much different than the list to get girls in the US
hahah true, if one has to meet the same requirements and travel 10000 miles for some troll with bad hair, no waist, and an attitude, one might as well just stay here.
Everybody has a vast range of opinions; At the end of the day, the best thing is to actually visit and see for oneself.


Yeah for sure man. I'll be touching down in Phil in 2 weeks!

But it's crazy that people have such a wide range of experiences here.

I look forward to your report.
Apart from Steve, so far we have Newlife's and hammanta's depressive accounts, vs WillnDowd's off-the-charts successes...:roll:


I'm not sure how mine is depressive. Me and Newlife just have different opinions on things and different experiences, but regardless I look forward to hearing how well Maverick does and whether he likes it or not. Wish him the best.
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Postby Raja » Fri Jun 27, 2014 2:42 am

hammanta wrote:
I'm not sure how mine is depressive. Me and Newlife just have different opinions on things and different experiences, but regardless I look forward to hearing how well Maverick does and whether he likes it or not. Wish him the best.

This is a strange community, there are expats, mongers and those actually in search of a spouse. They do not seek the same things but this is one of the few sites still discussing cultural issues. Those who banned the Winston Wu's back in the day have mostly died because they offered no debate, they were either all happy talk or too openly supported commercial sex areas which countries have made illegal for their citizens to travel internationally for those services.

Of course it is hardest of all who seek the ease of a sex worker without directly paying for her and those are the biggest gripers.
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Postby zboy1 » Fri Jun 27, 2014 3:01 am

droid wrote:
Maverick wrote:
droid wrote:
maverick wrote:To be fair, that list doesn't sound much different than the list to get girls in the US
hahah true, if one has to meet the same requirements and travel 10000 miles for some troll with bad hair, no waist, and an attitude, one might as well just stay here.
Everybody has a vast range of opinions; At the end of the day, the best thing is to actually visit and see for oneself.


Yeah for sure man. I'll be touching down in Phil in 2 weeks!

But it's crazy that people have such a wide range of experiences here.

I look forward to your report.
Apart from Steve, so far we have Newlife's and hammanta's depressive accounts, vs WillnDowd's off-the-charts successes...:roll:


That's to be expected. As Ladislav has mentioned many times on this forum, every individual will have a different experience in a particular country; you can't expect everyone to write the same thing about a country or have the same experiences all the time. It's UP TO YOU, to go to these countries and find-out--by yourself!
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Postby Jester » Fri Jun 27, 2014 5:09 am

hammanta wrote:I've said it before and I'll say it again. Here is how you can be successful in the Philippines.

Succeeding (1 or more will help)

starred ones are most important

1)Be average to good looking
2)Be 5'7" or more in height
3)Don't be fat
4)Have an outgoing personality
5)Youth 20-45
6)Being physically fit
*7)Be outgoing, interactive, and adventurous
*8)Be genuinely interested in the culture
*9)Have realistic standards.
If you are a 4 don't expect getting a 10. Same goes with age. There are plenty of late twenty, early 30 YO girls that foreigners pass up on simply because they aren't 19 or 20.
*10)Form a social circle



Really kind of a stupid list.

If you meet those criteria you would be successful anywhere, not just in the Philippines.

"Don't bother coming if you are not young"

yeah but everyone does and they do OK.

"Be good-looking. Don't be fat"

oh now there's a bit of useful advice. Now why didn't I think of that?
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Fri Jun 27, 2014 5:13 am

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newlifeinphilippines wrote:It doesn't matter cause if im not attracted to teh girl and shes not a 6.5 in my eyes then it doesn't matter what you think is a 6.5. What matters is what i think is :)

It doesn't matter if you layed hotter for one night or very short term were talking about girlfriends that last for months or years. The nurse girl who is educated and the hottest filipina ive gone on a date with is hotter than even steve55 girlfriend would have screwed me the other day (based on her texts after she went home) but i had a girlfriend and it screwed things up. and now I blew the whole thing due to my reaction after the date etc. and preferring the safe bet. But i dont think it would have lasted very long anyways. I want a hot girl that will last awhile.

sorry bro but your girl is not attractive. My girl has no makeup either ever and she is probably cuter than yours. if i posted my girl i bet most would think mine is hotter since she is lighter skin and looks younger and cuter than yours but she still isn't hot she is average range like yours. For a guy who has been there that long you should know better. Im sure she is a nice person and all but your an example of a foreigner that is too green to tell the difference.

and yes ive had hotter too like my bargirl girlfriend i had for 1.5 years and would have still had her if i had not cut her off she was hotter than winstons girlfriend. Id post her pics and videos she had sex appeal but was darker skin but still tons of sex appeal but since she work in bar i can' do that.

I blame will n dowd and a few others for hyping philippines up. It definitely is easier to get a woman here though.

i want a 7+ who isn't a hoe who loves sex and isn't a money hungry gold digger who will quickly dump me its very hard to find. I dont care if she is poor or uneducated cause i dont expect everything. Just someone I can trust who is a hot and has good chemistry. I dont see many foreigners with girls like that that aren't bargirls. maybe i should go back to hoes and bargirls or keep with low hanging fruit girlfriends if its that damn hard to find a hot 7+ long term girlfriend here. i can see why alot of foreigners go that route its a lot less hassle and much easier to find, which is why i been doing it.


If thats what you think than to each their own. If I lived in the country there is no doubt that I could get probably a ten or close. I've dated a girl that was at least a 9 by my standards. But the fact is I'm not there and those girls are hard to come by on dating sites. I also don't care as much about looks as you do as long as they are cute healthy with a great personality. Why don't you send me a pic and we will compare. I'm just curious, not gonna trash her, not my style, but I'd like to see what you consider a 6.5 or less. I also think few would argue that my girl is far from unnattractive and is much better than many girls I have dated in America (I have dated a few girls who have done a little modeling but terrible attitudes). I'd post a pic but I have respect not to do that on a public forum. Majority of my friends are jealous and have been dying for me to take them on my next trip. Steve55's girl is attractive and cute and they look good together, but she is also a girl I probably wouldn't look twice at crossing the street. And Winston's girl was very average at best.

Anyways Im not here to discuss other guys choices, you are entitled to your opinion and I'm not gonna try and change that. I also feel you need to stop docking guys who are happy here and just because you are miserable and not content doesn't mean you should be telling everyone else that the country is shit. No one has ever claimed you can get p**n star beauty here. What happens if you find that "dream girl of yours", then 10-15 years down the rode she looks light hell? Then what? Looks fade man. And don't get me started on bar girls. Most average looking girls would look just as sexy with most of the outfits bar girls wear and the caked on makeup. You get them naked and its just another small tit, average a** filipina.



Its hard to base everything on pictures i agree. Personality and how they act can enhance looks ill give you that so maybe your girlfriend has something in person or video i can't see in pictures. My bargirl was amazing in person which added to her physical attraction. For comparison steve55 girlfriend is about a 6.5 approximately hard to tell cause she looks different in each pic, still not as hot or sexy as my barhoe but slightly hotter than your girl. Winstons girl is too tall for my tastes and her face isn't as good as my hoe she always looks serious and I dont care for her eyes and smile id say she is around a 6.5 as a result. None of which i would classify in hot category. Even my barhoe was borderline id say about a 6.8 cause she had an amazing charismatic big smile ive never seen another filipina with, thin wide nose (not the potato nose like your girl), and although she had dark skin her skin was very smooth and she was a 4'11 spinner which i love. But this is basing on pictures which often aren't the true person, if i saw them in person i could compare more properly.




The best way to be share the photos to everyone not one person cause your tastes are different than mine or others and your only one person but i dont want to share photos to everyone. It doesn't matter what my tastes are or what your tastes are cause everyone is different so it would be best to show everyone as a group to get a consensus. I think your a good guy but you can do way better, she is a nice person cause she isn't attractive and wont get a 2nd look froma filipino guy, sorry but thats the truth. Im just being honest about my opinion and wha filipino guys like since i have the same taste as them. I can tell you since ive been here long enough a filipino guy wont find your girl much more than average. Like the type of girl i would get bored of after a few days (like mine right now LOL). yes most bargirls are ugly but if i showed you a picture of my bargirl without makeup she looked hot, hotter than your girl.

Maybe if i dated around i probably could get a hot girl but it probably wouldn't last long cause of my attitude and/or shed be a gold digger or scammer or id have to go home and shed cheat on me while im away. I don't really want to spend my hard earned money and lose focus on my work so i can run around and date 50 women mostly average so i can find a hot one . Its one reason why i stuck with these last 2 girls cause they take care of me and i get crap done on my work everyday and dont lose focus in my room. Its a lot of work finding a hot woman on the dating site who is ok and even harder if you did it in person and I just dont have the time or energy when i already have a girl with me. I already tried once this trip now and it burned in flames cause i already have a gf while doing it lol
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Postby Jester » Fri Jun 27, 2014 5:28 am

newlifeinphilippines wrote:
djfourmoney wrote:
I think Silver Energy said something about being a sad sack and not getting a woman from PI.

While I've seen odd couples before, I saw one pennant to this thread today while waiting for my turn to donate Plasma.

An average looking PI girl was with a clearly obese White man who was in his early to mid 20's.

She had her head on his shoulder and clutching his arm while they sat next to each other.

So I agree with others than say if you can't find a woman in PI, the problem is not them, it's YOU!



average looking is not quality. Besides you dont know if she was a hoe or scammer or dirt poor and a complete idiot. We dont jump on a plane to screw a 5 rating girl.



How does "dirt poor" make a girl a 5? Who the f**k cares if she has money? What does that have to do with anything?

Oh and you don't know if she is a hoe or a scammer? Well if you read DJ's comment, he said that her head was leaning on the man;s shoulder. She was holding his arm. She is his. He has her. He doesn't have her any LESS if she has a "past".

Seems to me that the fat boy, whom DJ saw, is WINNING.
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Postby Jester » Fri Jun 27, 2014 5:36 am

newlifeinphilippines wrote:
His facts aren't based on reality. No girl wants an old guy if they are young thats just common sense. Only gold diggers and impoverished girls want that. Yes many want older but not a huge age gap. Your an idiot if you think otherwise.



"Idiots" who "think otherwise" do somehow manage to nail younger women, with or without your "common sense".

Gold diggers... LOL... makes me think you have never been married. Trust me, even if you are Romeo the Handsome Poet, Miss Good Girl is going to want you to bring home a paycheck once she gets pregnant.

Hate to burst your bubble there...
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Postby davewe » Fri Jun 27, 2014 12:25 pm

Jester wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:
His facts aren't based on reality. No girl wants an old guy if they are young thats just common sense. Only gold diggers and impoverished girls want that. Yes many want older but not a huge age gap. Your an idiot if you think otherwise.



"Idiots" who "think otherwise" do somehow manage to nail younger women, with or without your "common sense".

Gold diggers... LOL... makes me think you have never been married. Trust me, even if you are Romeo the Handsome Poet, Miss Good Girl is going to want you to bring home a paycheck once she gets pregnant.

Hate to burst your bubble there...


+1

"Idiot" is right. Let me tell you what I mean.

Besides the opinions and evidence I have offered up in a couple of my blog postings, let me add one more weird thought. It's 5:00 AM here so maybe I am not thinking straight but here it goes.

I am a jazz guitar player. 18 years ago I got the wild idea that I wanted to make a jazz (archtop) guitar. I bought the only book which existed at the time on how to do it and bought tools and a year and probably a million hours later, I had an archtop guitar. I have made several others since.

But here's the point. When I showed off that first guitar to several professional builders they invariably asked, "Why did you choose an archtop as your first guitar to make? You do realize it's the most difficult guitar to build." The truth is I didn't realize. In a sense I was too stupid to know that I couldn't do something - so I just went and did it.

Sometimes being an "idiot" is a good thing.

Oh, BTW, I'm up at 5:00 AM because my clearly too young of a wife, woke me up at 4:00 to get busy :) Of course at my age I'm not supposed to be able to do that either. Thank God I'm an idiot.
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