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Postby Will N. Dowd » Tue Jul 01, 2014 1:05 pm

If you are an expat that who's love affair with the Philippines has come to an end, you can share your frustrations with others here:

http://philippinefailblog.com/
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Postby starchild5 » Tue Jul 01, 2014 1:50 pm

LOL....These guys really need to get a life....I mean who can hate a third world country and find faults in it....Its already third world for good reason...and to top that ...you have to live your luxuries western land to find fault 10,000 miles away on some poor folks....sad sad sad...How pathetic a guys life can get to find fault in a third world country :)

Being born in a third world country myself...I get it...its bad here...but 99% is not of our making..look at USA now, and how its going down hill...

..It has become cool, In thing to bash humanity one way or the other...instead of finding the real culprits behind our misery, we love to blame it all on humans....
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Postby Mr S » Tue Jul 01, 2014 3:32 pm

Ha, ha this blog is pure gold! Sometimes the love affair hasn't ended with PI but is having to be endured for other reasons beyond ones control.

PI nowadays is best to be visited in semi-regular doses. If I had the means it would be better to visit for 2-4 month periods at a time then leave for a few months and go somewhere else then come back and hang out for a few more months then leave again before you lose your sanity. It's a good place for a second or third residency but can drive some Westerners mad if they have to live here year round. I keep my sanity now by being a recluse and hermit as much as possible, too much energy is lost when having to deal with the everyday imbeciles running around everywhere.

That's the proper way to deal with the place.
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Postby djfourmoney » Tue Jul 01, 2014 6:00 pm

starchild5 wrote:LOL....These guys really need to get a life....I mean who can hate a third world country and find faults in it....Its already third world for good reason...and to top that ...you have to live your luxuries western land to find fault 10,000 miles away on some poor folks....sad sad sad...How pathetic a guys life can get to find fault in a third world country :)

Being born in a third world country myself...I get it...its bad here...but 99% is not of our making..look at USA now, and how its going down hill...

..It has become cool, In thing to bash humanity one way or the other...instead of finding the real culprits behind our misery, we love to blame it all on humans....


1000% agree! I am gonna say it, but it's mostly White men that complain about "paradises" like Asia or Latin America are really dumps where you can't get anything done in a timely manner, you're looked upon as the personal ATM machine of friends/family and really resent this and finally miss the cold efficiency of the United States or Western Europe, despite the microwave lifestyle.

I could click that link but I have seen this movie before, the complaints are basically what I just said more or less.
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Postby Will N. Dowd » Wed Jul 02, 2014 1:53 am

Mr S wrote:Ha, ha this blog is pure gold! Sometimes the love affair hasn't ended with PI but is having to be endured for other reasons beyond ones control.

PI nowadays is best to be visited in semi-regular doses. If I had the means it wiould be better to visit for 2-4 month periods at a time then leave for a few months and go somewhere else then come back and hang out for a few more months then leave again before you lose your sanity. It's a good place for a second or third residency but can drive some Westerners mad if they have to live here year round. I keep my sanity now by being a recluse and hermit as much as possible, too much energy is lost when having to deal with the everyday imbeciles running around everywhere.

That's the proper way to deal with the place.


Agree totally. I stay in usually and venture out to buy my groceries and meet girls. Apart from that I stay cool at home. Lately I've been becoming very picky even meeting girls. I've met so many that I was disappointed with that I screen them on FB, skype and YM before even agreeing to meet them now. After doing that I usually don't want to meet them, most girls here simply have too many issues with bad features, skin, and teeth. It's too bad because most have cute, petite bodies that I love, it's the head that's usually the issue. By the way, that type of girl here is called a "hipon" or shrimp. You throw away the head but eat the body lol.
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Postby Mr S » Wed Jul 02, 2014 7:13 am

If you just want to play around and have fun with out getting serious then I would just go for the body and not worry too much about the head unless it was totally hideous or something. Only if I was considering long term dating or being seen in public during the day with someone regularly would I consider the whole package.

That's what I used to do when I was hanging around with the girls here in the past. I'm on an extended hiatus from messing around with the women here for the time being.

It's best just to go about ones life here in PI and do other things rather than focus on women all the time cause you'll just go crazy dealing with all their BS from the majority of them. That's why most guys here are drunks and run off to the bars to forget their troubles from the wife that used to be hot and have superficial conversations with their buddies or pretend they are still semi-single hangin with GRO's or whatnot.

The only main difference between here and Western countries is you are forced to endure little to no sex from horrid female creatures whereas in PI you can choose to get laid regularly, take dating breaks occassionally or be celibate. It's not forced upon you to be alone or with girls you'd rather not get with only cause your options are so limited. The options are vast in PI, it just takes a LONG time to bring ideal situations and meetings to fruition.
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Wed Jul 02, 2014 8:11 am

Mr S wrote:Ha, ha this blog is pure gold! Sometimes the love affair hasn't ended with PI but is having to be endured for other reasons beyond ones control.

PI nowadays is best to be visited in semi-regular doses. If I had the means it would be better to visit for 2-4 month periods at a time then leave for a few months and go somewhere else then come back and hang out for a few more months then leave again before you lose your sanity. It's a good place for a second or third residency but can drive some Westerners mad if they have to live here year round. I keep my sanity now by being a recluse and hermit as much as possible, too much energy is lost when having to deal with the everyday imbeciles running around everywhere.

That's the proper way to deal with the place.


I agree. I do the 6 month stint thing and it makes me super recharged to come back but i always had a girlfriend or chat mate who was offering instant sex. If i had not that situation i think i would have gotten bored or lonely or crazy sooner. I think like you said around 3 month stints maybe twice a year are more ideal. The problem with that for me is its extra money for a plane tickets etc. First 2 trips i did the 1.5 month thing but it was too quick especially since i was new to the country and meeting my barhoe which gave great sex. I could have an extra month of banging women for that cost of the tickets etc so i dont go that route of splitting it up into multiple trips. lol
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Wed Jul 02, 2014 8:14 am

Mr S wrote:If you just want to play around and have fun with out getting serious then I would just go for the body and not worry too much about the head unless it was totally hideous or something. Only if I was considering long term dating or being seen in public during the day with someone regularly would I consider the whole package.

That's what I used to do when I was hanging around with the girls here in the past. I'm on an extended hiatus from messing around with the women here for the time being.

It's best just to go about ones life here in PI and do other things rather than focus on women all the time cause you'll just go crazy dealing with all their BS from the majority of them. That's why most guys here are drunks and run off to the bars to forget their troubles from the wife that used to be hot and have superficial conversations with their buddies or pretend they are still semi-single hangin with GRO's or whatnot.

The only main difference between here and Western countries is you are forced to endure little to no sex from horrid female creatures whereas in PI you can choose to get laid regularly, take dating breaks occassionally or be celibate. It's not forced upon you to be alone or with girls you'd rather not get with only cause your options are so limited. The options are vast in PI, it just takes a LONG time to bring ideal situations and meetings to fruition.


who in their right mind would come to philippines for any other reason than women? Seriously. thats one reason why im probably not gonna come back for awhile and just focus on my work cause women are my main focus but teh problem is the drama is starting to outweigh the p***y benefits and most of those going for foreigners aren't real hot or they are milfs or crazy or prostitutes or dirt poor and dont love you just want to mooch.
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Postby Mr S » Thu Jul 03, 2014 11:16 am

newlifeinphilippines wrote:
Mr S wrote:If you just want to play around and have fun with out getting serious then I would just go for the body and not worry too much about the head unless it was totally hideous or something. Only if I was considering long term dating or being seen in public during the day with someone regularly would I consider the whole package.

That's what I used to do when I was hanging around with the girls here in the past. I'm on an extended hiatus from messing around with the women here for the time being.

It's best just to go about ones life here in PI and do other things rather than focus on women all the time cause you'll just go crazy dealing with all their BS from the majority of them. That's why most guys here are drunks and run off to the bars to forget their troubles from the wife that used to be hot and have superficial conversations with their buddies or pretend they are still semi-single hangin with GRO's or whatnot.

The only main difference between here and Western countries is you are forced to endure little to no sex from horrid female creatures whereas in PI you can choose to get laid regularly, take dating breaks occassionally or be celibate. It's not forced upon you to be alone or with girls you'd rather not get with only cause your options are so limited. The options are vast in PI, it just takes a LONG time to bring ideal situations and meetings to fruition.


who in their right mind would come to philippines for any other reason than women? Seriously. thats one reason why im probably not gonna come back for awhile and just focus on my work cause women are my main focus but teh problem is the drama is starting to outweigh the p***y benefits and most of those going for foreigners aren't real hot or they are milfs or crazy or hoes or dirt poor and dont love you just want to mooch.


I was referring to single guys who are making the Philippines their main residence or 2nd one and have already done the chasing after copious Filipinas and other women and now aren't living strictly in the Philippines just for the ease of dating and scoring with the women here. After banging numerous sugar-walls with no major commitments to any one girl, there comes a point where it becomes just another addiction or obsession, this just happens to be either the thrill of chasing after different women or sexual addiction. Once one realizes this then they can start focusing on other more important aspects in life and start treating women like they should be treated, their putang is not made of gold and doesn't hold sway over dudes who have gotten over that realization. Some guys need only to be with a few women to understand what they like and don't like in a women and others need to be with hundreds before coming to this realization. I was the latter. Third world countries are great places for the average guy to experience being with multiple women just don't get sucked into ones own cultural Western brainwashing that one is incomplete without having a steady GF or wife of a certain social standing. In my opinion all men should explore as many women as possible in their teens and 20's within reason. In his 30's start narrowing the dating field and select ideal girls one would be attracted to. Only when one is in their 40's or 50's should a man consider having a serious committed relationship to one woman, them being a steady GF or deciding to put all ones money on the table to just one woman with a contract of marriage.

I had an Uncle who was in his mid 60's when he dated and married a woman in her mid/late 20's (American woman to boot). He told me this advice: To bang as many girls as I could before it doesn't work anymore cause you get older everything slows down and social and cultural obligations start invading ones life. I heeded this advice, eventually figuring out a way to live outside the states indefinitely. If one is stuck in the Western matrix it is almost impossible to avoid this, but if one can live or at least travel to 3rd world and some 2nd world countries, one can bang as many women as they need to and can avoid the annoying prudish sexual cultural biases against men that hold back their ability to realize women are nothing special and if one does eventually find one that is and meets all their own personal checklist of an ideal woman, then and only then should they ponder the decision to make them a steady GF or possible wife.

Western men generally sell themselves short and it's mainly due to the feminist brainwashing that goes on in Western countries that quality women are a rare commodity and a man should buy the goods the first time he bangs her or dates her multiple times. A quality man can ALWAYS eventually find a younger, hotter, quality woman no matter how old he is if he would only be patient and not settle for less. Even if it takes years or decades of looking eventually he may find the woman of his dreams as long as he play the field around the world and not limited to just his home country area.
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Thu Jul 03, 2014 11:23 pm

My problem is Mr. S is i fall in love too easily or at least i get attached enough i can't say goodbye easily. But im slowly learning how to not do that. But i think it can take a lot of women before you reach that point in some guys where you learn to not get so easily attached. So far im being with the wrong women really for me ultimately if i wanted the right woman when im ready i could take the time to court them etc.
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Postby Winston » Fri Jul 04, 2014 12:08 am

Will N. Dowd,
Why are you posting this? Did you get tired of being a "God" in the Philippines? lol. If so, why?

Why not try Thailand? I heard the quality and infrastructure of everything is better there. Or China, where you can have smarter and more refined women?
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Postby newlifeinphilippines » Fri Jul 04, 2014 12:21 am

winston it sounds like your not going back to philippines from your posts. Why haven't you gone to thailand?

I think will n dowd exaggerates his conquests or maybe its cause he looks like a model. Its hard getting girls lined up for dates let alone sleeping with them off the dating site that are actually attractive (most girls are not attractive or around average on the site once you see them on cam)
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Postby Winston » Fri Jul 04, 2014 12:35 am

newlifeinphilippines wrote:winston it sounds like your not going back to philippines from your posts. Why haven't you gone to thailand?

I think will n dowd exaggerates his conquests or maybe its cause he looks like a model. Its hard getting girls lined up for dates let alone sleeping with them off the dating site that are actually attractive (most girls are not attractive or around average on the site once you see them on cam)


Yeah I would not want to live in Philippines long term. Only visits. Yeah I want to go to Thailand and China. But I have bad time management skills, have ADD, and inner demons that block my will. No one has offered any solutions to these. Most guys just pretend such problems don't exist.

Yeah most guys exaggerate their conquests, especially since they are going from zero to being able to date many girls. That feeling that you're wanted and appreciated and looked up to by girls, is priceless to a man's ego.
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Postby Will N. Dowd » Fri Jul 04, 2014 1:12 am

I posted it as something amusing and different for members to read. It's new and not many posts are on it, but I'm sure it will grow as time goes on, just like HA did. The site is a bit like an opposite version of HA really, since it is westerners complaining about problems in the Philippines, while HA complains about problems in the USA, but promotes the Philippines.
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Postby Will N. Dowd » Fri Jul 04, 2014 1:22 am

I keep track of my conquests, and do well here, although without comparing it to other foreigners where I live won't know how I rate. I turn down even meeting most girls now, after seeing them on cam and/or FB pics. To actually meet an attractive girl from the dating sites you have to meet as many girls as possible, since most will be unattractive. I have high standards, much higher then most guys that come here and will bang almost anything. When you've been with the many cute and hot young girls I have, I can't get it up for much less.
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