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Postby Luc Furr » Wed Sep 24, 2014 1:15 pm

tamdrin12 wrote:gsjackson... I can't believe you decided to stay in Pattaya for your whole trip... There are beautiful beaches unpopulated by the amount of trashy tourists you are seeing in Pattaya.. Why didn't you check any of those out??

It's all relative.. for me after India Thailand is not too bad.... I wouldn't recommend you to ever go to India if you have such an adverse reaction to Thailand..

Best wishes on your quest..


local expats in Thailand told me the same thing. I wasn't sure whether to believe them or not until I saw how Indian restauranteurs in Pattaya treated their employees. cold and cruel
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Re: I am going to Thailand tomorrow.

Postby tamdrin12 » Thu Oct 16, 2014 10:43 am

Well... I am two months into my time up in Thailand. I just returned from Vientiane, Laos today where I went for a visa run. I now have 3 months extended on my stay. I am working too, here in Chiang Mai I got a job teaching English. The pay isn't that great but will allow me to live a decent life over here. The management at the school have been nice, helpful, and have not made ridiculous demands of me. In fact I only really have to teach 2 hours a day. The rest of the time is just hanging out.

Chiang Mai suits me quite well. Although there are no beaches I find that after you get to know this place you realize it is a pretty f***ing nice place to be. There are a ton of bars and nightlife if that's your thing, its easy to take jaunts to nature to see elephants or tigers or whatever, and also a lot of beautiful temples. Overall I have found the people to be pretty nice up here much more friendly than BKK or Pattaya for sure. And it's a hell of a lot less touristy than those places...

A Thai girl has got latched onto me so to speak. I have very mixed feelings about this. First she was working at a coffee shop near the hotel I was staying. She was kind of cute so I started talking to her. Took her out for drinks and then a few days later had sex with her. She started to get pretty f***ing clingy pretty quickly which was weird I thought she wouldn't be so clingly because she had already been married and had two kids (who don't live with her). She took me up to her parents house in the countryside which was in a beautiful area. I tried to break it off with her a few times but she got so upset I sort of just acquiesced into letting her into my life again. But I never say I miss you when she says it to me. I also never say I love you. She hasn't asked me for money but I have paid for the majority of our drinks and food when we go out. Could she be just using me for some small chump change? I don't know what to do.. Man some Asian women can become so clingy so quickly its disturbing. I keep vacillating between wanting to be alone and wanting to have some company once in a while. One thing I know for certain is I don't want to get attached to this girl...

Any advice on how to make the situation the least messy as possible?
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Re: I am going to Thailand tomorrow.

Postby starchild5 » Thu Oct 16, 2014 12:28 pm

tamdrin12 wrote:
A Thai girl has got latched onto me so to speak. I have very mixed feelings about this. First she was working at a coffee shop near the hotel I was staying. She was kind of cute so I started talking to her. Took her out for drinks and then a few days later had sex with her. She started to get pretty f***ing clingy pretty quickly which was weird I thought she wouldn't be so clingly because she had already been married and had two kids (who don't live with her). She took me up to her parents house in the countryside which was in a beautiful area. I tried to break it off with her a few times but she got so upset I sort of just acquiesced into letting her into my life again. But I never say I miss you when she says it to me. I also never say I love you. She hasn't asked me for money but I have paid for the majority of our drinks and food when we go out. Could she be just using me for some small chump change? I don't know what to do.. Man some Asian women can become so clingy so quickly its disturbing. I keep vacillating between wanting to be alone and wanting to have some company once in a while. One thing I know for certain is I don't want to get attached to this girl...

Any advice on how to make the situation the least messy as possible?



LoL...Its seems you have issues more than her. Just like any other typical western dude you conveniently put the blame on her. It seems you refuse to learn with all your stays in Asia. You are still stuck in American dreams buddy....

What was the proposition for sex? Did you tell her...You will dump her after sex? You did not find her clingy when you were trying to bed her...You loved her in every which way till you f**cked her and now suddenly you find her latchy....lol...Where have we read those stories before.

Its you who have changed not her. She is as she was before...After f**king any women...most men feel that way....I feel that all the time in Philippines. Suddenly the girls actions are not right anymore, once i bed her....:)...However, I understand its me not them. If you keep blaming them for sleeping with you, you will have more serious problems ahead.

In villages, small towns, girls takes things a bit more serious if you sleep with her. She is not your typical Bangkok girl. Sure there are many who don't care but you only need a bad one to mess things up.

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Anyways...The reason, I'm being hyper is for your own good.....Watch out for Ducks ...If you know what I mean :lol: ....Don't piss a Thai girl the wrong way man....Don't you read the news...

Why Thai women cut off their husbands' penises

http://www.theguardian.com/education/20 ... -off-penis

Thai women are notaries for cutting a man's penis. They have the highest rate of cutting Mens penis in the world. No JOKE. :shock: :shock:

She seems too emotional, most Thai women are....don't piss her off more by thinking ..she is wrong...and you are right....admit its your sleeping around for fun that is the issue. Don't lie to yourself....That way you won't mess it up again with another Thai girl...NEVER give false promise to girls in Thailand to get laid. She is like a Thai Elephant... will never forget, don't rub Thai girls the wrong way man, if she decides....she can make your life hell.

I would suggest....Take it easy...Don't dump her right away...Do it slow....Do something in your own way to make you look bad ..like being cheap not having money to go out etc, not taking shower or taking care of yourself while meeting her....Thai girls hate smell...I know it well because I'm Indian and we smell shit to them ...Do stuff to annoy her to dislike you first....aka try being an Indian...Then it will be easy. :)

Be respectful. Do stuff that will make her hate you first. That's the bottom-line. good luck....Remember...When you break up with a Thai girl...always be on her good side....
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Re: I am going to Thailand tomorrow.

Postby tamdrin12 » Thu Oct 16, 2014 12:38 pm

Dude.. You are over reacting. I am not really a playboy. I sort of just thought this girl was a little loose so that maybe we could be friends with benefits or something. I am being very very nice to her and I am a sensitive guy and I never do things to hurt people intentionally so I'm not going to piss her off or anything. Dude you don't know everything about Thailand. Have you even been here? There is no need to instill fear in others with your comments. BTW this girl had an Indian boyfriend before and she worked in a massage parlour which is another reason I thought she might be a little loose. As far as I know she has never been a prostitute or anything like that though....

Anyway just had a nice dinner with her, I paid of course, I will take it easy and then feel the situation out and see where to go from there.
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Re: I am going to Thailand tomorrow.

Postby E Irizarry R&B Singer » Fri Oct 17, 2014 2:22 am

starchild5 wrote:
tamdrin12 wrote:
A Thai girl has got latched onto me so to speak. I have very mixed feelings about this. First she was working at a coffee shop near the hotel I was staying. She was kind of cute so I started talking to her. Took her out for drinks and then a few days later had sex with her. She started to get pretty f***ing clingy pretty quickly which was weird I thought she wouldn't be so clingly because she had already been married and had two kids (who don't live with her). She took me up to her parents house in the countryside which was in a beautiful area. I tried to break it off with her a few times but she got so upset I sort of just acquiesced into letting her into my life again. But I never say I miss you when she says it to me. I also never say I love you. She hasn't asked me for money but I have paid for the majority of our drinks and food when we go out. Could she be just using me for some small chump change? I don't know what to do.. Man some Asian women can become so clingy so quickly its disturbing. I keep vacillating between wanting to be alone and wanting to have some company once in a while. One thing I know for certain is I don't want to get attached to this girl...

Any advice on how to make the situation the least messy as possible?



LoL...Its seems you have issues more than her. Just like any other typical western dude you conveniently put the blame on her. It seems you refuse to learn with all your stays in Asia. You are still stuck in American dreams buddy....

What was the proposition for sex? Did you tell her...You will dump her after sex? You did not find her clingy when you were trying to bed her...You loved her in every which way till you f**cked her and now suddenly you find her latchy....lol...Where have we read those stories before.

Its you who have changed not her. She is as she was before...After f**king any women...most men feel that way....I feel that all the time in Philippines. Suddenly the girls actions are not right anymore, once i bed her....:)...However, I understand its me not them. If you keep blaming them for sleeping with you, you will have more serious problems ahead.

In villages, small towns, girls takes things a bit more serious if you sleep with her. She is not your typical Bangkok girl. Sure there are many who don't care but you only need a bad one to mess things up.

-----------------------

Anyways...The reason, I'm being hyper is for your own good.....Watch out for Ducks ...If you know what I mean :lol: ....Don't piss a Thai girl the wrong way man....Don't you read the news...

Why Thai women cut off their husbands' penises

http://www.theguardian.com/education/20 ... -off-penis

Thai women are notaries for cutting a man's penis. They have the highest rate of cutting Mens penis in the world. No JOKE. :shock: :shock:

She seems too emotional, most Thai women are....don't piss her off more by thinking ..she is wrong...and you are right....admit its your sleeping around for fun that is the issue. Don't lie to yourself....That way you won't mess it up again with another Thai girl...NEVER give false promise to girls in Thailand to get laid. She is like a Thai Elephant... will never forget, don't rub Thai girls the wrong way man, if she decides....she can make your life hell.

I would suggest....Take it easy...Don't dump her right away...Do it slow....Do something in your own way to make you look bad ..like being cheap not having money to go out etc, not taking shower or taking care of yourself while meeting her....Thai girls hate smell...I know it well because I'm Indian and we smell shit to them ...Do stuff to annoy her to dislike you first....aka try being an Indian...Then it will be easy. :)

Be respectful. Do stuff that will make her hate you first. That's the bottom-line. good luck....Remember...When you break up with a Thai girl...always be on her good side....
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Re: I am going to Thailand tomorrow.

Postby green1976 » Fri Oct 17, 2014 2:43 am

Company once in a while,sex without string,liberty to change..take the p4p road and if the pay bother or the promiscuity of these ladies f u cking around for a living is repelling,prepare to have some troubling situation because women in Thailand won't give sex without something in return(as most women around the world).

In the West the price is quit crazy in every aspects..in Thailand you can get it fairly well but you won't surf easily from left to right having both sex and liberty if you don't pay a fee.

If female company without sex is not off topic,keep some ladies as friends.
When sex is on the table..they expect most of the time some commitment(boyfriend,money,not go f u ck other women..)
They are not males..they are females..sex is not "free".
I wouldn't play with angry Thai women in a foreing country..things can end bad.
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Re: I am going to Thailand tomorrow.

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Sat Oct 18, 2014 5:08 am

Dont fall for it Tamdrin. If she had a indian boyfriend and worked in a massage parlor then she was HOEING. massage girls find indian guys from hoeing of course.


Also that jealousy and clinginess is an ACT. My bargirl was jealous and crazy etc but it was all an act i later learned.
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Postby Yohan » Sat Oct 18, 2014 5:48 am

tamdrin12 wrote:Well.. Looks like I'll be staying in Thailand for a while.. I have a job... Up north. For me Chiang Mai is not such a bad place. It seems to have the right balance of everything.. Not to big a city but still lots to do, natural beauty such as mountains etc around...
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My overall feeling is that Thailand is not a hard place to meet woman at all. Looks like every foreigner has a thai girlfriend ...


I think you got already the right idea, get over your 'American feelings'.

Good to hear you found a place in Northern Thailand you like and where you can stay for a while. Good to hear you are living there legally correct with visa and found a regular job which makes sure you will not run out of money.

Don't think too much about women, and yes, every foreign man can find a Thai girlfriend.

Wishing you good luck!
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Postby tamdrin12 » Sun Oct 19, 2014 12:51 am

Yeah... I don't know what to do... I am trying not to fall for this girl.. but it is kind of hard not to develop feelings if you hang out with someone enough and are intimate. When I met her she was working at a coffee shop with her sister. NOW she just started working at 7-11 and coincidentally it is the 7-11 that is right next to my apartment building (LOL)... I could search for other girls but that is just not my personality... I don't want multiple girlfriends aas I will get nothing from that...

When we first started hanging out I made it clear that I do not want a relationship.. but she sort of pressured me into it... Then I tried to break up and she made a fuss (eve.. n one time talking about suicide.. only after 2 to 3 weeks,, WTF??) I already went with her to her families house up in the country.. but it was laid back and no pressure... we stayed in a hotel...

Anyway she told me she wasn't hoing but was doing genuine massage. Seems all Thai massage places are at least offering hand jobs.. The thing is if I press her for too much information she will get angry and act offended... And, not to be a mangina, but I don't want to get into any unnecessary fights.

I guess she has some guy friends but she says she doesn't sleep with them.. Anyway I am skeptical but I am sort of keeping my nose out of her business.. Maybe there are some things I just don't want to know.. It would be painful for me... Also have to watch ones jealousy with these girls who have guy friends or what not. MY last Taiwanese GF was very good and with me only but here in Thailand the rules are different. A German guy who has been here for a while told me Thailand has the highest percentage of cheaters in any country. Seems its just a way of life?

Anyway... I will try to stay on the positive and take responsibility for my situation. I have a lot of good going on right now and I am in a great place. Yesterday I took my bike for a drive in the mountains, saw the elephants, beautiful forest and roads winding thorough it... Very laid back atmosphere and everything..
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Re: I am going to Thailand tomorrow.

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Sun Oct 19, 2014 2:17 am

tamdrin12 wrote:Yeah... I don't know what to do... I am trying not to fall for this girl.. but it is kind of hard not to develop feelings if you hang out with someone enough and are intimate. When I met her she was working at a coffee shop with her sister. NOW she just started working at 7-11 and coincidentally it is the 7-11 that is right next to my apartment building (LOL)... I could search for other girls but that is just not my personality... I don't want multiple girlfriends aas I will get nothing from that...

When we first started hanging out I made it clear that I do not want a relationship.. but she sort of pressured me into it... Then I tried to break up and she made a fuss (eve.. n one time talking about suicide.. only after 2 to 3 weeks,, WTF??) I already went with her to her families house up in the country.. but it was laid back and no pressure... we stayed in a hotel...

Anyway she told me she wasn't hoing but was doing genuine massage. Seems all Thai massage places are at least offering hand jobs.. The thing is if I press her for too much information she will get angry and act offended... And, not to be a mangina, but I don't want to get into any unnecessary fights.

I guess she has some guy friends but she says she doesn't sleep with them.. Anyway I am skeptical but I am sort of keeping my nose out of her business.. Maybe there are some things I just don't want to know.. It would be painful for me... Also have to watch ones jealousy with these girls who have guy friends or what not. MY last Taiwanese GF was very good and with me only but here in Thailand the rules are different. A German guy who has been here for a while told me Thailand has the highest percentage of cheaters in any country. Seems its just a way of life?

Anyway... I will try to stay on the positive and take responsibility for my situation. I have a lot of good going on right now and I am in a great place. Yesterday I took my bike for a drive in the mountains, saw the elephants, beautiful forest and roads winding thorough it... Very laid back atmosphere and everything..



what does she do sleep at your hotel every night or whats the living arrangement right now?

That suicide and crying and all that stuff is typical of an extremely charismatic hoe. My bargirl was like that within the first few DAYS even faster than your girl. but it was all a FACADE. Im telling you these girls will do academy award performances even in the bedroom every time. I didn't believe it myself and it took me forever to wake up that someone could act so much on every level.

Its really simple she is an actress and a hoe. If she isn't asking you for money its cause she is in it for the long con and doesn't really need the money yet (doesn't have kids at home starving) If she had kids she probably already would have asked you for cash. Most relationships with asian women are like this anyways just most people on this forum are too stupid to realize. But you can capitalize on it and exploit this girl or tell her to take a hike or maybe something in between (F buddy). UP to you how you handle it but any girl who is a hoe is high drama.
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Postby tamdrin12 » Sun Oct 19, 2014 3:00 am

Actually she does have two kids who live with her parents... Her son is staying with her right.. now. I told her honestly I don't have much money to spend for shit BUT I have paid for her food most of the time we have been together going out and drinks... One time we went out with her friend and then she ordered this shit and food for him and asked me to pay I SAID NO WAY you pay.... So it does feel like she is using me for at least FOOD and sometimes alchohol... BUT she hasn't asked me for money yet... I don't even really feel good about paying for her everytime we go out.. My last Taiwanese girl paid for me a lot or at least would pay for herself a fair amount of the time.. I'm concerned because she lives so f***ing close to me and works close to me too... I went over to the 7-11 this morning to buy breakfast and she asked me to buy breakfast for her... I regret giving in.. what the hell buy your own breakfast.

SHE is not living with me right now but she lives in a room by herself just one KM or so away..
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Re: I am going to Thailand tomorrow.

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Sun Oct 19, 2014 4:36 am

tamdrin12 wrote:Actually she does have two kids who live with her parents... Her son is staying with her right.. now. I told her honestly I don't have much money to spend for shit BUT I have paid for her food most of the time we have been together going out and drinks... One time we went out with her friend and then she ordered this shit and food for him and asked me to pay I SAID NO WAY you pay.... So it does feel like she is using me for at least FOOD and sometimes alchohol... BUT she hasn't asked me for money yet... I don't even really feel good about paying for her everytime we go out.. My last Taiwanese girl paid for me a lot or at least would pay for herself a fair amount of the time.. I'm concerned because she lives so f***ing close to me and works close to me too... I went over to the 7-11 this morning to buy breakfast and she asked me to buy breakfast for her... I regret giving in.. what the hell buy your own breakfast.

SHE is not living with me right now but she lives in a room by herself just one KM or so away..


Also your girl has a "job" too and she sounds like she has supportive parents so not quite the same situation as the average hoe who doesn't have any income and starving kids. my bargirl had 2 kids but she was independant (her dad was far away in province but of course she wasn't gonna ask him for help only suckers like me lol).


You dont hae to hand them cash for them to be using you. For example when i found out my bargirl had been working months in the bar without my back she told me she would stay with me for FREE and work the bar during the day. I declined the offer and kept her on the "payroll". i may be a sucker but i figured she would be using me for free food, not needing to spend taxi to go home every night, free internet, free cable, nice room to stay in. so of course I balked at that cause who knows what she would be doing while im alone at the hotel. But my experience gave me great insight of how these girls will take any inch they give you.

My last girlfriend was unemployed and the arrangement was she stayed with me i never gave her cash but she was always asking for this and that and wasn't too frugal with my money (but not a scammer or anything type girl or asking for big bills) it was ultimately up to me but the average girl over there will just shamelessly mooch off you. If the girl is unemployed or dirt poor its understandable but your girl is a hoe and has a job so if she wanted to prove her love the ONLY way she could get over that considering that she wouldn't ask for anything and pay for everything.
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Re: I am going to Thailand tomorrow.

Postby tamdrin12 » Sun Oct 19, 2014 6:31 am

Well... She just stared work this week at the 7-11. Before she worked at a coffee shop that her sister owns but barely made any money. So the hasn't been paid yet. I don't know.. I do feel really skeptical about her but my nature is to give people the benefit of the doubt. Although I realize I couldn't really trust this girl in the long term and I don't have a future with her... So my best bet is probably to get out now. One of the reasons I hung out with her is because I am new to Thailand and I don't know many people here. She spoke decent English and I met a few other Thai girls and their English sucked! So this is really my own fault... I'm the one who picked her up not the other way around. Just need to find a skillful way to make the ending as painless as possible... Maybe grow a mustache and dye my hair black.... haha

I don't know if she was really hoeing or not.. Yes she worked in a massage parlour so she was probably giving hand jobs at least. anyway.. I'm probably better off not even thinking about it..
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Re: I am going to Thailand tomorrow.

Postby xiongmao » Mon Oct 20, 2014 9:00 pm

I lived in Bangkok for 6 months last year. It was very hard to meet marriage material, whereas it was pretty easy in China.

Most of the Thai women I met were so poor they didn't even have enough bus fair to come and visit me. That never happened in China.

I did meet a few nice ladies in Bangkok, but oddly enough the best weren't actually Thai.

Thai office ladies are about the best of the bunch. Anyone who works in a hotel/massage place/coffee shop is much more likely to be moonlighting as a hooker :oops: .

Thailand is also dangerous at times - I went drinking with a friend of a friend one night and found out the bar served moonshine and said lady had a tazer in her handbag. Plus I had a few run ins with deranged farangs and soi dogs.

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Re: I am going to Thailand tomorrow.

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Mon Oct 20, 2014 9:53 pm

tamdrin12 wrote:Well... She just stared work this week at the 7-11. Before she worked at a coffee shop that her sister owns but barely made any money. So the hasn't been paid yet. I don't know.. I do feel really skeptical about her but my nature is to give people the benefit of the doubt. Although I realize I couldn't really trust this girl in the long term and I don't have a future with her... So my best bet is probably to get out now. One of the reasons I hung out with her is because I am new to Thailand and I don't know many people here. She spoke decent English and I met a few other Thai girls and their English sucked! So this is really my own fault... I'm the one who picked her up not the other way around. Just need to find a skillful way to make the ending as painless as possible... Maybe grow a mustache and dye my hair black.... haha

I don't know if she was really hoeing or not.. Yes she worked in a massage parlour so she was probably giving hand jobs at least. anyway.. I'm probably better off not even thinking about it..



but the point is she has a parent who watches her kids closeby and she is trying regular jobs. Often many bargirls or freelance dating hoes dont have even that. if they quit work from the bar or massage parlor or hoeing of course youd have to pay their bills for those types of girls. She would have looked for a job which she did so thats a good sign. Unfortunately though she seems to be just leeching off rather quickly you so once again proves she doesn't really love you. She sounds like the typical girlfriend over there. My girlfriend, all of winstons, ladislav, even to some extent will n dowd all the poor girls do that. youll know when you found true love so to speak when the girl stops being a pain in the ass financially and drama wise.
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