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How much Filipina BS do guys here take?

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Will N. Dowd
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How much Filipina BS do guys here take?

Post by Will N. Dowd » August 27th, 2014, 7:57 am

I'm wondering how much Filipina BS or nonsense members take when dating them there.
My tolerance for their stupid BS is becoming less and less every day.

Obviously if a girl I've never met asks me for money I block her online but I'm talking about stuff like:

Not even showing up for a date you agreed on.
Saying they are coming to your place or the mall alone, but bring a friend or relative.
Arriving very late and not even telling you they will be late or apologizing.
Telling you at the exact time you are supposed to meet that they aren't coming.
Flaking on the date with some obviously made up excuse.
Adding me on Skype, YM, FB and giving me their phone #'s but never responding to messages on any of them.
Endless texting and online messaging, but ignoring requests to meet them.
Looking totally different than pictures, and being a different age and even height.
They only respond to your texts with pasaload requests
Saying they can't meet you because they never have even money for a jeepney and no one to borrow it from.
Asking you to treat them and their friends before you've even met them.
Asking for pasalubong before you've met them.

I'm sure their are many more I haven't mentioned, so feel free to add some.

Do guys here put up with stuff like that, or do they just cut them off and move onto the next girl?

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Re: How much Filipina BS do guys here take?

Post by Banano » August 27th, 2014, 8:16 am

Its been said that online girls are considered low hanging fruit,

Who knows how many foreigners they dated(read fckd) before you came up, its not like they will tell you the truth if you ask them.



Why not forget about internet dating and pick them up on the street or mall?
How easy is to pick up cute Filipina that just wants to have some fun with white man without any expectations of having a relationship with her or giving her money?

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Post by Ghost » August 27th, 2014, 9:00 am

B-b-b-b-but I thought you were a god in the Philippines? Surely gods don't have to put up with Filipina BS do they?

You're a player type, so you're only getting low-hanging fruit, hookers-giving-it-for-free, sluts, and other assorted bad types. So how much BS you get depends on what you are going for. Go for those types, you'll get more than you bargained for.

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Post by newlifeinphilippines » August 27th, 2014, 9:48 am

Will it sounds like you need a change of pace. maybe only spend half the year in phil or maybe think of traveling to other countries. are you just gonna rot in phil for the rest of your life and bang random women? Your problem is you dont have anything meaningful. i have the same feeling when im with low hangers it becomes monotonous and pointless there is no true love just a leechy or desperate idiot type your stuck with. if you got a hot horny one on your hands though it can be overlooked and make you want to stay in phil lol



Definitely think online dating is low hanging fruit. The only girls i seen that were high quality weren't on a dating site in fact i think they would be embarassed to be on it. even the whores in the bar often admit that they weren't interested in foreigners UNTIL they got pregnant.

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Re: How much Filipina BS do guys here take?

Post by Hero » August 27th, 2014, 11:49 am

Will N. Dowd wrote:I'm wondering how much Filipina BS or nonsense members take when dating them there.
My tolerance for their stupid BS is becoming less and less every day.

Obviously if a girl I've never met asks me for money I block her online but I'm talking about stuff like:

Not even showing up for a date you agreed on.
Saying they are coming to your place or the mall alone, but bring a friend or relative.
Arriving very late and not even telling you they will be late or apologizing.
Telling you at the exact time you are supposed to meet that they aren't coming.
Flaking on the date with some obviously made up excuse.
Adding me on Skype, YM, FB and giving me their phone #'s but never responding to messages on any of them.
Endless texting and online messaging, but ignoring requests to meet them.
Looking totally different than pictures, and being a different age and even height.
They only respond to your texts with pasaload requests
Saying they can't meet you because they never have even money for a jeepney and no one to borrow it from.
Asking you to treat them and their friends before you've even met them.
Asking for pasalubong before you've met them.

I'm sure their are many more I haven't mentioned, so feel free to add some.

Do guys here put up with stuff like that, or do they just cut them off and move onto the next girl?
Yep, just about every item on that list has happened to me as well. Of course you should cut them off. Women in the Philippines are easily replaced if they give you any disrespect. That's the whole point of dating abroad.

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Post by ryanx » August 27th, 2014, 1:32 pm

Zero!

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Post by hammanta » August 27th, 2014, 2:15 pm

newlifeinphilippines wrote:Will it sounds like you need a change of pace. maybe only spend half the year in phil or maybe think of traveling to other countries. are you just gonna rot in phil for the rest of your life and bang random women? Your problem is you dont have anything meaningful. i have the same feeling when im with low hangers it becomes monotonous and pointless there is no true love just a leechy or desperate idiot type your stuck with. if you got a hot horny one on your hands though it can be overlooked and make you want to stay in phil lol



Definitely think online dating is low hanging fruit. The only girls i seen that were high quality weren't on a dating site in fact i think they would be embarassed to be on it. even the whores in the bar often admit that they weren't interested in foreigners UNTIL they got pregnant.
+1 NewLife I actually agree with you for once although exceptions do exist in the online scene :lol:

Online dating seems to be going way down hill. Trying multiple sites will give you the best luck.

I definitely think he should try somewhere else.

How old is Will'N?

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Post by davewe » August 27th, 2014, 5:24 pm

hammanta wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:Will it sounds like you need a change of pace. maybe only spend half the year in phil or maybe think of traveling to other countries. are you just gonna rot in phil for the rest of your life and bang random women? Your problem is you dont have anything meaningful. i have the same feeling when im with low hangers it becomes monotonous and pointless there is no true love just a leechy or desperate idiot type your stuck with. if you got a hot horny one on your hands though it can be overlooked and make you want to stay in phil lol



Definitely think online dating is low hanging fruit. The only girls i seen that were high quality weren't on a dating site in fact i think they would be embarassed to be on it. even the whores in the bar often admit that they weren't interested in foreigners UNTIL they got pregnant.
+1 NewLife I actually agree with you for once although exceptions do exist in the online scene :lol:

Online dating seems to be going way down hill. Trying multiple sites will give you the best luck.

I definitely think he should try somewhere else.

How old is Will'N?
Agreed.

What's the over-under on Will being in the Philippines a year from now? I'd say pretty poor.

OTOH, while he can go to another place and possibly have success, as newlife says without anything meaningful to do, anyplace will get boring quickly and pretty soon the girls will not give your life enough meaning to continue.

Even older guys like me struggle with boredom when they retire. So a guy who's decades younger (I think Will is 40ish) is going to get bored. Will needs a hobby besides banging girls.

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Re: How much Filipina BS do guys here take?

Post by WorldTraveler » August 27th, 2014, 5:34 pm

Will N. Dowd wrote:I'm wondering how much Filipina BS or nonsense members take when dating them there.
My tolerance for their stupid BS is becoming less and less every day.

Obviously if a girl I've never met asks me for money I block her online but I'm talking about stuff like:

Not even showing up for a date you agreed on.
Saying they are coming to your place or the mall alone, but bring a friend or relative.
Arriving very late and not even telling you they will be late or apologizing.
Telling you at the exact time you are supposed to meet that they aren't coming.
Flaking on the date with some obviously made up excuse.
Adding me on Skype, YM, FB and giving me their phone #'s but never responding to messages on any of them.
Endless texting and online messaging, but ignoring requests to meet them.
Looking totally different than pictures, and being a different age and even height.
They only respond to your texts with pasaload requests
Saying they can't meet you because they never have even money for a jeepney and no one to borrow it from.
Asking you to treat them and their friends before you've even met them.
Asking for pasalubong before you've met them.

I'm sure their are many more I haven't mentioned, so feel free to add some.

Do guys here put up with stuff like that, or do they just cut them off and move onto the next girl?
These are all bad signs. These all indicate that you as a person are not important to them. I would not see girls that do this. If you overlook their bad behavior it will just get worse. Find girls that don't do these things. Girls that really like you will show up and not play games, so don't waste your time on girls that aren't seriously into you! Good luck!

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Post by hammanta » August 27th, 2014, 5:53 pm

davewe wrote:
hammanta wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:Will it sounds like you need a change of pace. maybe only spend half the year in phil or maybe think of traveling to other countries. are you just gonna rot in phil for the rest of your life and bang random women? Your problem is you dont have anything meaningful. i have the same feeling when im with low hangers it becomes monotonous and pointless there is no true love just a leechy or desperate idiot type your stuck with. if you got a hot horny one on your hands though it can be overlooked and make you want to stay in phil lol



Definitely think online dating is low hanging fruit. The only girls i seen that were high quality weren't on a dating site in fact i think they would be embarassed to be on it. even the whores in the bar often admit that they weren't interested in foreigners UNTIL they got pregnant.
+1 NewLife I actually agree with you for once although exceptions do exist in the online scene :lol:

Online dating seems to be going way down hill. Trying multiple sites will give you the best luck.

I definitely think he should try somewhere else.

How old is Will'N?
Agreed.

What's the over-under on Will being in the Philippines a year from now? I'd say pretty poor.

OTOH, while he can go to another place and possibly have success, as newlife says without anything meaningful to do, anyplace will get boring quickly and pretty soon the girls will not give your life enough meaning to continue.

Even older guys like me struggle with boredom when they retire. So a guy who's decades younger (I think Will is 40ish) is going to get bored. Will needs a hobby besides banging girls.
He's definitely through the "honeymoon" stage.

I kinda went through that as well. I never even knew about the Philippines other than it being in Asia before I went there when I was 19. I got there and was amazed by the cute women and how friendly they were. The glares and smiles were something I didn't experience much when I was in the states. Fast forward 4 years and I decided to take another trip there. My memory was very selective, recalling only those girls that came up to me and the few I slept with. When I got there I was upset that I didn't have girls running up to me "like before." I still got smiles and the occasional girl(s) trying to chat me up but it wasn't as I remembered or so I thought. I expected a lot more. It wasn't until I finally stopped placing emphasis on trying to screw a lot of women when I realize the place really hadn't changed, I just expected more from it. In reality my first trip wasn't any different than my 2nd or 3rd trip, I just perceived how my experience should be differently. I came in with a different attitude, a worse one at that. My first trip I wasn't expecting to meet any women at all and met several. My second trip I was pissed that I didn't meet enough women but I was also incredibly picky.

So I can definitely see how prolonged exposure to the country with the sole purpose of screwing a lot of women can be disastrous.

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Post by newlifeinphilippines » August 27th, 2014, 6:03 pm

Will n dowd how many months and trips were you in phil before you moved there? I always thought you kind of rushed your move rather fast. like you literally spend like a month there 2 times i think and then you packed your bags and moved there this time? Am i right?

you should have maybe kept your apartment in canada in case you ever got bored or wanted a place to crash for awhile or you should have planned out other countries like thailand or japan or something to see as a tourist.

anyways im glad your being candida bout all this cause i was planning on trying to retire in a few years so i could enjoy myself overseas but your kind of reminding me why women aren't that important in the grand scheme of things that you want to sit in your hotel and rot for the rest of your life. im so bored here in the states though anything is better than my current situation so I wish i was in your situation right now.

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Post by OutWest » August 27th, 2014, 6:24 pm

Ghost wrote:B-b-b-b-but I thought you were a god in the Philippines? Surely gods don't have to put up with Filipina BS do they?

You're a player type, so you're only getting low-hanging fruit, hookers-giving-it-for-free, sluts, and other assorted bad types. So how much BS you get depends on what you are going for. Go for those types, you'll get more than you bargained for.
I would not put up with the OP list in any girl...however, I married a really good girl from a good family.
Problem solved.

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Post by pete98146 » August 27th, 2014, 6:49 pm

OutWest wrote:
Ghost wrote:B-b-b-b-but I thought you were a god in the Philippines? Surely gods don't have to put up with Filipina BS do they?

You're a player type, so you're only getting low-hanging fruit, hookers-giving-it-for-free, sluts, and other assorted bad types. So how much BS you get depends on what you are going for. Go for those types, you'll get more than you bargained for.
I would not put up with the OP list in any girl...however, I married a really good girl from a good family.
Problem solved.
Ditto. Once I turned the corner and started focusing on higher quality ladies, most of these traits would vanish. Believe it or not, you can find women in Phils that have moral fiber, stability and good old fashioned traditional values.

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Post by newlifeinphilippines » August 27th, 2014, 7:02 pm

davewe wrote:
hammanta wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:Will it sounds like you need a change of pace. maybe only spend half the year in phil or maybe think of traveling to other countries. are you just gonna rot in phil for the rest of your life and bang random women? Your problem is you dont have anything meaningful. i have the same feeling when im with low hangers it becomes monotonous and pointless there is no true love just a leechy or desperate idiot type your stuck with. if you got a hot horny one on your hands though it can be overlooked and make you want to stay in phil lol



Definitely think online dating is low hanging fruit. The only girls i seen that were high quality weren't on a dating site in fact i think they would be embarassed to be on it. even the whores in the bar often admit that they weren't interested in foreigners UNTIL they got pregnant.
+1 NewLife I actually agree with you for once although exceptions do exist in the online scene :lol:

Online dating seems to be going way down hill. Trying multiple sites will give you the best luck.

I definitely think he should try somewhere else.

How old is Will'N?
Agreed.

What's the over-under on Will being in the Philippines a year from now? I'd say pretty poor.

OTOH, while he can go to another place and possibly have success, as newlife says without anything meaningful to do, anyplace will get boring quickly and pretty soon the girls will not give your life enough meaning to continue.

Even older guys like me struggle with boredom when they retire. So a guy who's decades younger (I think Will is 40ish) is going to get bored. Will needs a hobby besides banging girls.
Everyone gets bored I think will n dowds problem is he isn't finding a meaningful person to spend it with. Even a hot horny girl can be a blow to your ego when it becomes a using relationship with nothing in common and no love. I expereicned that with my bargirl. I had resentment issues cause i knew she was a fraud and just acting on everything (she deserves an oscar never met a girl like her).

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Post by Taco » August 28th, 2014, 12:57 am

You need to have a system in place to weed out the bad Filipinas before you even meet them, most guys don't. If you only select women for "hotness" your going to get burned again and again until you learn your lesson. Kind of reminds me of the movie Groundhog Day.

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